When Is Enough , Enough For A Libra ?

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Mixed Libra
@LibraRoseE
8 Years

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Us libras are known to give chances.... we hate the confrontations, etc.

For someone reason (I guess the Libra in me) always gives chances even when someone really screws me over. I hold crazy grudges but I give in eventually... I hate to end friendships, relationships, etc.

Even when I'm really mad I say to myself "f% ^k this I'm done. It's over for them"... I cut off all communication but a few days to a few weeks later I'm missing the person & want to reach out....But if the person reaches out to me first, I quickly want to get over what happened & move on from it. Which usually bites me in the ass.

But when is enough , enough ? I know us Libras hate being mad at others & hates others being mad at us but when does us caring end ?!
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Mixed Libra
@LibraRoseE
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Posted by LibraLovesHim
On love I generally only REALLY give up when I have met another, except from the last time. I left triflin Cappy, cut him out clean and met my Aries about 6 months later after having been totally alone in that time.

Friendships, if you let me down too many times. Its simple for me this one. I'm more dumb with forgiveness when in love.


* I am the same .... how did you finally allow yourself to open up to someone else after your breakup ?... I am currently experiencing that .... I want to move on but the past haunts me ?
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@LibraLovesHim
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Posted by LibraRoseE
Posted by LibraLovesHim
On love I generally only REALLY give up when I have met another, except from the last time. I left triflin Cappy, cut him out clean and met my Aries about 6 months later after having been totally alone in that time.

Friendships, if you let me down too many times. Its simple for me this one. I'm more dumb with forgiveness when in love.


* I am the same .... how did you finally allow yourself to open up to someone else after your breakup ?... I am currently experiencing that .... I want to move on but the past haunts me ?

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I like to say I was more focused on myself in this time. I wanted to meet someone else for around 5 years, to try and get away from him (I think the lesson here was I had to leave him first-something i'd never done) This helped alot I think. My current bf came into my life with a crash. He arrived in the country the month before he met me, wanted to know everything about me in the first meeting, we met at a brunch both kind of tipsy then went to a beach party where he ran around with my bag n one hand shoes in other and never left my side. It was a strange first experience-it felt like this person just showed up, said "i'm here" and never really left.