@ladylibra21
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How do libras handle breakups?
How Do Libras Handle Breakups
Libras often hide their true feelings and put on a brave face after a breakup. They may try to win their ex back but eventually realize that healthy relationships require mutual effort and balance. Libras value harmony and fairness, which influence how they process and move on from breakups.
Posted by dolluxe
Keep smiling and walk with my head held high even though I'm dying inside. Might disappear on everyone to deal with my thoughts and emotions alone.Also, when a Libra walks away, he/she walks away for good. No turning back. Expect your number, messages, pics and call logs deleted. Blocked/deleted on social media.
That is so true, but as you get a little older, you lightened up just a little bit, but that also depends on
what the other person did. If it's something real bad, then yes...it's a wrap. Will move on without looking sideways or backwards..lol
Posted by dolluxe
Keep smiling and walk with my head held high even though I'm dying inside. Might disappear on everyone to deal with my thoughts and emotions alone.Also, when a Libra walks away, he/she walks away for good. No turning back. Expect your number, messages, pics and call logs deleted. Blocked/deleted on social media.
just wat I want sometimes but realized not worth it. so I don't delete and work more on myself to erase the person.
Mutual: just another day.
I break up w/ her: feel like an ass for a week then back to business. Probably end up being friends still, depending if she didn't do anything wrong.
She breaks up w/ me: ghost on everyone, try to OD, develop a drinking problem, try to be as occupied as possible.
Posted by dolluxe
Keep smiling and walk with my head held high even though I'm dying inside. Might disappear on everyone to deal with my thoughts and emotions alone.Also, when a Libra walks away, he/she walks away for good. No turning back. Expect your number, messages, pics and call logs deleted. Blocked/deleted on social media.
just wat I want sometimes but realized not worth it. so I don't delete and work more on myself to erase the person.
To me it's "out of sight, out of mind"
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yeah u r right
half of me wants to do as u said
half of me like to 'put salt in a wound' until I feel numb - at that point I'm already over that person.
Like emotional retards.
You no longer exist.
Not well, especially if they were left
Posted by ladylibra21
We put on a poker face then cry about it when no one is looking. May even try to win you back. It in most cases while trying to win you back have that realization that it's not really worth it if everything isn't 50/50.
Sounds like me.
Posted by Librasetting
All the above.. plus smoke more weed than I already do chilling in bed thinking which makes it worse and just work everyday that I can so I don't have to think only to end up thinking about it all day.
This is the best way to deal with any break up.
I talk talk talk talk talk about it, process process process process Intellectualize, intellectualize, intellectualize until I have reached a logical comprehensive understanding of the situation.
With a pen and a paper I am a warrior; I can see the logic behind the break -up. If the logic is flawless and I wasn't emotional involved, It's a wrap.
If I was really "feeling" the person.....like a Scorpio.... I am completely immersed in obsession, drunkard emotional addiction and completely unable to function. I cry a lot harder, it hurts a little bit deeper so it takes a lot longer. Scorpio offers the monogamous commitment and devotion to a partner Libra deeply craves. Unlike flirty Gemini, and noncommittal Aquarius Scorpio's devotion meets libra's deepest darkness needs and desire In relationship. So Scorpio is really hard for me to get over
Generally speaking OP, I personally block them on social media or remove myself from social media altogether, I block their email address, and cell number. I cut off all conceivable means of contact within a month or two I am over it.
First comment 🙂 been reading alot here lately.
I usually do the dumping but before I do I will think about it hard then cry, when Im ready Id be emotionless but Im dying inside, Ill cry about it regret then not regret then go out and most likely Ill have someone new 🙂
Also, when a Libra walks away, he/she walks away for good. No turning back. Expect your number, messages, pics and call logs deleted. Blocked/deleted on social media.
^^This!! Once I've made it up in my mind- I'm done for good. It's so amazing how quickly I can no longer give a fuck about you that I scare myself sometimes. I've only had one breakup where it took me some time to move on, but only because I hadn't been the one to make the decision. It was a result of miscommunication and was super abrupt for me. I actually tried to chase after him for a few weeks. But now, he means nothing more to me than any average guy on the street.
Posted by Gemoodeye2
They keep trying to come back. Persistent little fuckers. Mine even said "I'm tired, I'm DONE". Then the second I said ok and disappeared I started getting the "I miss you" and "I'm sorry" texts. Spent two days convincing me it could still work.
Soooo funny lol. They ALWAYS come back and at that point they might as well be dead to me ...shrug
Posted by Gemoodeye2
They keep trying to come back. Persistent little fuckers. Mine even said "I'm tired, I'm DONE". Then the second I said ok and disappeared I started getting the "I miss you" and "I'm sorry" texts. Spent two days convincing me it could still work.Soooo funny lol. They ALWAYS come back and at that point they might as well be dead to me ...shrug
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If a Libra feels like they are dead to you, we just move to one of the seven other fine women waiting in the wings.. No big deal. AT ALL!
Posted by Gemoodeye2
They keep trying to come back. Persistent little fuckers. Mine even said "I'm tired, I'm DONE". Then the second I said ok and disappeared I started getting the "I miss you" and "I'm sorry" texts. Spent two days convincing me it could still work.Soooo funny lol. They ALWAYS come back and at that point they might as well be dead to me ...shrug
If a Libra feels like they are dead to you, we just move to one of the seven other fine women waiting in the wings.. No big deal. AT ALL!
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🙂 So that makes it a win-win
LOL. They don't. They always have the next person lined up waiting in the wings to take over. ?
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We put on a poker face then cry about it when no one is looking. May even try to win you back. It in most cases while trying to win you back have that realization that it's not really worth it if everything isn't 50/50.