WHEN YOUR RELATIONSHIP OR LOVE INTEREST IN TROUBLE (Page 2)

Despite of our Ups and Down.. we still manage.. love her flaws! that makes me love her omore... 🙂

This is a human thing, not a sign specific thing.

Hey Pink! I'm the same way and I'm a leo! But I do have a libra rising. Maybe that's why. Idk. Just know you're not alone.

Posted by beautifulsoul74

I'll share a little insight from my experience with my libra friends. I always see them repeating a pattern. It seems like when things are peaceful and improving, they start tinkering with it. Why do that?

I call this the calm before the storm. I notice I do this when I sweep things under the rug. It's finding the perfect time to address issues. When there really isn't a perfect time. The problem with me sometimes is, I do over think. When is it too much and too little? When is the perfect time to say something without coming across cray cray, demanding or needy?

Some of my predicaments in relationships:

Oh he had a bad day at work, maybe I should talk about my concerns this weekend... BUT it's the weekend! I'd rather just chill during weekends and not deal with relationship issues if I were in his shoes. Oh... hmmm... this sucks! Next thing you know, the issue has blown out of proportion!

OR

When the issue keeps happening, "Oh seems like everything is going smoothly. I guess he's in a good mood, maybe if I open up now, he'd be more receptive."

LOOOOOOOOOOL That's certainly NOT how things end up. Yeah, I know... totally messed up sometimes. I've learned to deal with it better now. It's all a matter of communicating my issues in a nice way as soon as there's something that bothers me. If we're both having a bad day, we do make a thunderstorm, sometimes a tsunami but we've learned to both ride out the waves together.

Posted by beautifulsoul74
As the saying goes, if it ain't broke don't fix it. The one thing I notice in all relationships is that through the fixing and tinkering, what happens is the flow of love is constricted. There is less time spent actually loving each other. Relationships are simply and practical. The more you try to do, the more complicated you make it. Simply let it be. Life presents enough problems of its own. If you relax and let love build, the relationship builds itself. Hence you'll be stronger to face life's challenges together as a team

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^THIS +1000000

@pinklibra

I'm the same. When my relationship is rocky, I lose my balance. Nothing else matters and I just go on auto-pilot. If it's going great, I can take on the world! My relationship is my kryptonite.

Posted by beautifulsoul74

Posted by pinklibra

Posted by beautifulsoul74
I think libras tend to over think and want to balance the relationship when in reality nothing is off, it's simply their fear

hmmm. you might be onto something there.

I'll share a little insight from my experience with my libra friends. I always see them repeating a pattern. It seems like when things are peaceful and improving, they start tinkering with it. Why do that? As the saying goes, if it ain't broke don't fix it. The one thing I notice in all relationships is that through the fixing and tinkering, what happens is the flow of love is constricted. There is less time spent actually loving each other. Relationships are simply and practical. The more you try to do, the more complicated you make it. Simply let it be. Life presents enough problems of its own. If you relax and let love build, the relationship builds itself. Hence you'll be stronger to face life's challenges together as a team

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" As the saying goes, if it ain't broke don't fix it."
"what happens is the flow of love is constricted"
" Relationships are simply and practical. The more you try to do, the more complicated you make it. "


This. This right here. THANKYOU!

Posted by TaurusNikki
O get this, my libra male friend got her to help him fix something on his computer, but then she left, he called her like crazy asking her if they could meet up the next day, she told him no, so I asked him why won't he just let he go, he told me he just can't, she makes him smile, he feels alive when they talk, he always has a good time with this girl, that's why he can't function without her, but the man has a girlfriend, so I told him maybe you should work on your relationship instead of this other girl, he says he knows it's over

He wants this other woman cause he never felt like he had to be somebody else, he was just himself flaws and all and she was still there for him, then he got sad again started talking about how he can get this girl back, that's all he kept talking about, didn't even mention the girlfriend at all, so I asked him what's this girl sign anyway, GET THIS,,,, she's a dam TAURUS

Yup, he not giving up,

This story is so relate able. Because I was the girlfriend and the other girl was a Taurus. Damn