Will she come back?

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I'm a Sagittarius male here who was recently in a relationship with a Libran female. The relationship lasted for three months. The first two months were beautiful. All of the tenants of love were present. The way we both described it? It was what God intends for love to be between a man and a woman. We reciprocated to each other in every way. Wrote poetry to each other. Everything. We never dated before, but we were friends for years. At the beginning of the third month, I noticed that she began to pull away. Communication slowed in every way. I hinted that I was concerned, but I never accused her of anything. Nor did I criticize her. She understood, changed for a few days, but then began to withdraw again. I raised concerns again in the same manner and she expressed that "she needed space." I asked her why and she told me that she had a few things that she needed to sort out, which I understood and gave her the space she needed. But, two days after that conversation, the communication increased initiated by her. This was confusing, but I said nothing because I understood what was going on...at first. My instincts and intuition led me to believe that there was more going on than what she had been telling me. I asked her a few questions, not accusing, not interrogating, not implying, and not out of anger. I just wanted her to tell me what was wrong because I always sensed that she was in distress. That she could confide in me as she always did. Finally, she told me that she allowed her child's father(he's a Scorpio) back into her life. They dated for years and toward the end of the relationship he was abusive, both verbally and physically. They were not dating, but she said that out of love/loyalty/and guilt for what she done to him and the effects of the breakup on her child she began to spend more time with them. He harassed her all the time and she didn't like to see him upset and she wanted to keep the peace. They broke up a few months before we began to date. Naturally, I was upset, but not at her being accommodating, but at her not being forthcoming with me. I was always forthcoming with her. I never discussed her faults. I accepted them fully. I loved her for who she was and was always there for her regardless. I never disrespected her in any way, was considerate of her feelings and empathized with her. And yes, I listened and consoled her.

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