Do you believe in soul mates? How do you know if you have found yours?

I used to believe and feel I've become jaded. What do you guys think?

I believe you have several soul mates scattered around the world, who you can have romantic relationship, but they rather serve as best friends and supportors. You might share lots of interests, can be common in many things, go through similar experiences. Your vibrational frequencies are around the same measures.

Twin flame is the only romantic relationship that is the true love. Your twin flame is you, the extension of your own soul. The vibration of your soul is the perfect match with that of your twin soul.

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I believe in soulmates. I believe you have more than one and it's not just romantic either.

Spot on.

It's a bond that goes beyond fairy tales.

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So true

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I believe in soulmates. I believe you have more than one and it's not just romantic either.

Very very true

Posted by Stensco21
I used to believe and feel I've become jaded. What do you guys think?

It is life!

It can hit you anytime

If you feeling like you can put your happiness behind his and do whatever he wants...but...you know he will never take an advantage of your sacrifices and trying to give you all he can...

And both of you trying to protect each other's feelings...

And you don't argue!

Because when you feel he is unhappy - you forget about YOU and do what's best for him.

And never you feel he wants to push you in anywhere you don't want to be...

We calling it non demanding relashionships.

You made a date. One can't make it - no problem!

Because you know if he says he can't (or you say you can't) - there is another time!

Not getting mad. Nor frustrated. Just being happy you know he is ok and there is another time!

Even if you put candles on the table - blow them off of have drink thinking fondly of his ass anyway.

Takes a lot of guts.

And hardest is trust that you sure he is not undressing someone at that moment.

If you SURE he doesn't - it's ok.

But it's 1/100%

Are you sure?

Hugs

Posted by Aliensusedourbogroll
I believe in soulmates. I believe you have more than one and it's not just romantic either.

If it's not romantic...what's that?

Posted by Infinite8

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I believe in soulmates. I believe you have more than one and it's not just romantic either.

^^^ This.

I also believe that they are sometimes there to teach us really hard life lessons.

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Oh yeah!

But it's not your sole mate who teaches you.

It's higher powers.

Still trying to figure it out what's for?

Like I couldn't just boil in my own juices to the rest of my life being dead inside and happy in my own way!

No! It had to happen! Now we both are not living not dead! Fun! Don't wish in my enemy!

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Posted by Gemitati

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I believe in soulmates. I believe you have more than one and it's not just romantic either.

If it's not romantic...what's that?

Your soul mate knows you without words, see's you.

It's far deeper than your physical self.

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So when you feel each other without sex is not romantic?

Wake up! It IS!

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I believe in soulmates. I believe you have more than one and it's not just romantic either.

If it's not romantic...what's that?

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They have NO idea! Lol

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I believe in soulmates. I believe you have more than one and it's not just romantic either.

If it's not romantic...what's that?

Good question!

I believe you can find soulmates in friends, family members, that person that serves you at the local cafe, that random person you meet whilst traveling etc.

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Sorry no!

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Posted by Aliensusedourbogroll
I believe in soulmates. I believe you have more than one and it's not just romantic either.

If it's not romantic...what's that?

Your soul mate knows you without words, see's you.

It's far deeper than your physical self.

So when you feel each other without sex is not romantic?

Wake up! It IS!

I am romantic by nature, for an outsider that is romantic, action is romantic to me and words, not just knowing what someone thinks or feels without words.

You are looking at it with a fairy tale view point.

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I think you know how far I am from Cinderella! Lol

Calling and being silent and listening to each other breathing for a while and then asking whatsup and breaking into tearful laugh! Just because!

Is that what you mean?

No. Its bullshit and waste of time, if you have been into many relationships before you would know that everytime you are with a new one you love will think"ahh this must be my soulmate I don't think I can ever find one like this" then when you break up you manage to find another one like that lawl

Posted by Taurasian
No. Its bullshit and waste of time, if you have been into many relationships before you would know that everytime you are with a new one you love will think"ahh this must be my soulmate I don't think I can ever find one like this" then when you break up you manage to find another one like that lawl

Lmao

You seem really like a person who has a lot of t I. Their Myers Briggs placements like not a feeler a thinker

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Posted by Taurasian
No. Its bullshit and waste of time, if you have been into many relationships before you would know that everytime you are with a new one you love will think"ahh this must be my soulmate I don't think I can ever find one like this" then when you break up you manage to find another one like that lawl

Oh, really? Not everyone here is a newby, son.

Edit: On rereading, this seems much bitchier than I meant it! 😆 You have a point about how each new love brings those neurochemical "in love" feelings. But I'm talking about something else altogether.

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I know what you are talking about the real soul mate kinda thing but no, from a guy pov who is less emotional there is always another one out there. Its woman who are more emotional who long for these kinda stuff

Posted by Stensco21

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No. Its bullshit and waste of time, if you have been into many relationships before you would know that everytime you are with a new one you love will think"ahh this must be my soulmate I don't think I can ever find one like this" then when you break up you manage to find another one like that lawl

Lmao

You seem really like a person who has a lot of t I. Their Myers Briggs placements like not a feeler a thinker

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Yeah you are right I am INTP - logician

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No. Its bullshit and waste of time, if you have been into many relationships before you would know that everytime you are with a new one you love will think"ahh this must be my soulmate I don't think I can ever find one like this" then when you break up you manage to find another one like that lawl

Lmao

You seem really like a person who has a lot of t I. Their Myers Briggs placements like not a feeler a thinker

Yeah you are right I am INTP - logician

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lol it's obvious not being mean just saying

Soulmates are the souls you like so much that you keep seeking each other out in different lives. Some are lovers, some are friends, some are family members. Some can even change rolls in different lives. I've met quiet a few in this life, some I have memories of past lives with. But not all friends, or family, or lovers are soulmates.

Posted by MoonArtist
Soulmates are the souls you like so much that you keep seeking each other out in different lives. Some are lovers, some are friends, some are family members. Some can even change rolls in different lives. I've met quiet a few in this life, some I have memories of past lives with. But not all friends, or family, or lovers are soulmates.

How do you know if you had a past life?

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Soulmates are the souls you like so much that you keep seeking each other out in different lives. Some are lovers, some are friends, some are family members. Some can even change rolls in different lives. I've met quiet a few in this life, some I have memories of past lives with. But not all friends, or family, or lovers are soulmates.

How do you know if you had a past life?

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You'll remember some of them, or parts of them. I've had memories come to me randomly, in dreams, or after meeting a soulmate. There are exercises to do for seeking past life memories, they're called past life regression, it's a type of meditation.