If you have sex with someone...

Do you take on their energies or mix with their vibes? Or is it merely sexual parts meeting and departing? Have you ever bonded through sex or was it simply a mode of release.

Once there's comfort established, we begin to finish each other's sentences. Take about 3 or 4 times to know how the other person works.

I bond when it's someone I have strong feelings/ connection to. Absent of that I've learned to expel their energy or contain it to my lower body.

As a emotional person I can't separate myself from the act itself and our energies mixing. I resist the bonding of it's something I don't want or doesn't feel right to me, the ick feeling.

I have also used sex as a way to get rid of energy/feelings through using it as fuel.

I had to do so yesterday.

Posted by Saturn_Returns
Surely this depends on the relationship itself and its dynamics?

Forgive me for being frank, but your thread sounds like something that would be posted by a virgin.

Yea, I am really inexperienced despite romanticism. Not a virgin though, I just had a former life as a nun/monk physically. 🥴

But.. I feel a sense of detachment in current affairs. I think my mind is just not there in ways, so I question if I picked up their energy or what it's going to be like in the future. Am I just a bonobo that does *that* to socialize? Hm.l........ .......

It takes a few times to start bonding, basically getting more comfortable, closer, attached. If not, what’s the point?

For me it's always a connection, like doing a waltz, but in bed.

Gross

Posted by NotALibra
Sex with me is like being in the middle of a romantic fantasy, like Pride and Prejudice book mixed with Swan Lake ballet and Titanic movie

There is a pretty white woman in each scenario? That makes sense.. Assuming you are attracted to that. ☺️

I don't have sex

i remember seeing a quote when i was younger that stuck with me for a really long time. it was like, “never sleep with someone you wouldn’t want to be.”

i believe you could possibly (?) take on the energy/trauma of whoever you sleep with. a girl i know once told me when she was sleeping with a very unstable, mentally/emotionally disturbed, depressed player type guy, she started feeling energetically depleted, depressed for no reason and unhopeful about herself. but when she started sleeping with a stable, mature, mentally/emotionally healthy guy she started feeling more energized and more positive/hopeful about herself.

make of that what you will but i don’t think it’s a bad idea at all to only sleep with people you have high regards for and can anticipate an uplifting, positive future with.

just to avoid that awkward, hollow feeling that may haunt you at night when you’re least expecting or something.

some men (especially younger dudes who are looking for that sexual release as often as possible. some can be all about the physical to the point nothing else matters) might not care about the emotional/bonding aspects of sex but start to care as they get older and stuff. they discover that there’s more to sex than physical pleasure.

oftentimes, when someone is hyper focused on just the physical, they’re possibly running away from something they really want, but don't believe they can have: which is true love.

at the end of the day, sex without emotion/connection is a second-rate substitute that gives you a rush/high like a drug, but has no staying power and means little.

i’ve only slept with two people in my lifetime (now married) but they’re both good, wholesome, decent people i didn’t mind “mixing energies” with so i have no regrets or anything. *shrug*

here, i found the excerpt.

"Pay attention to whom you share your intimate energy with. Intimacy at this level intertwines your aural energy with the aural energy of the other person. These powerful connections, regardless of how insignificant you think they are, leave spiritual debris, particularly within people who do not practice any type of cleansing, physical, emotional or otherwise. The more you interact intimately with someone, the deeper the connection and the more of their aura is intertwined with yours.

Imagine the confused aura of someone who sleeps with multiple people and carries around these multiple energies? What they may not realize is that others can feel that energy which can repel positive energy and attract negative energy into your life.

We don’t mean practice celibacy or wait until you find “the one” or anything like that. Just be mindful of who you share your valuable energies with.

“I always say, never sleep with someone you wouldn’t want to be.” – Lisa Chase Patterson "

Oh I definitely feel the energy transfer and from what I've reflected on, I've slept with some very......very dark women. One at was so odd....after the release I looked her in her eyes and got the absolutely most twisted feeling in the world. I ended it with her. She had death on her. I never felt nothing like that before.

Another one from my distant past was so crazy. We both felt the energy transfer and it wasn't good at all. We both couldn't do shit but stare at each other. Spooky shit

Posted by RollergirlOrc
Do you take on their energies or mix with their vibes?

Yes that's how I get women into bed, I tell them, I want to take on your energy and mix our vibes. lol