@Lenawick
5 Years
Twin flames?
BS for others to continue dealing with toxic relationships. Everything about a twin flame journey is toxic, imo.
I thought it’s so toxic cause you’re fighting your own self?
Time to call the fire brigade!
It's a growing experience it's not a romantic experience. That's where people get it wrong.
People will believe in twin flames but not admit to clearly being a hopeless romantic lol. Never understood that. As a self-proclaimed hopeless romantic, it's the most delusional concept ever. These people just need to go have some tantric sex or some shit.
If you know the story of rumi and shams then you know how It would feel loving your tf.
“Don’t grieve anything you lose comes around in another form” rumi
Very real. It can help you grow so much if you are willing to do the work and deal with the shitty stuff within yourself.
BS for others to continue dealing with toxic relationships. Everything about a twin flame journey is toxic, imo.
period. this right here! ^^
I kind of do believe in it but I don't agree it should be toxic. That's not love
Do you think twin flames are real or some made up bullshit?
Real. There is no way IN HELL I would have entertained anything nearly as toxic if I didn’t feel it was something completely out of this world. I’m an expert at avoiding toxic behavior - but this one didn’t allow me to run away… 😤😣🙄
Never have BEFORE and I never will with anyone else. There was something beyond me that guided us together. I rejected it most of the way. Yet it still pulled me near. Normally, I have way more control.
In the end, it’s just meant to be a life lesson TO BE learned, whether you like it or not.
Soul mates on the other hand, ARE HEAVEN 🤗🥰🤗
Agreed. If you had asked me 2 years ago I would have said it was bullshit lol the people who don’t believe in it simply have not experienced it, which is understandable to not believe in something you’ve never experienced. I’ve never had paranormal experiences either so I’m hesitant to say that I believe in ghosts 🥴 but at the same time I would never try to invalidate someone else’s experience.
I also agree that a lot of people use “twin flame” to excuse their toxic or abusive relationship. Sometimes the whole point of the twin flame union is to show you imbalances within yourself (unrequited love, overextending yourself or chasing etc) and the lesson should always be to return to yourself and self love.. it’s never about waiting DECADES for a married man to leave his wife, or making excuses for an abusive alcoholic etc. and I think that’s why the whole term gets lost in the sauce and is taken out of context.
I wish I could talk to people that have experienced the same as me… my experience was highly metaphysical and paranormal. I’ve never before or since had an experience at that level, and like you… in the past believed it was somewhat imagined…lol, boy was I proven wrong😵💫.
I agree, this was by no means about accepting toxic behavior. From the moment I met him, I KNEW very strongly, that I would be learning a lot with him and a lot about my SELF. I was wrong in thinking it would be a lovely bond and friendship… totally off about THAT, but definitely on point 🎯about knowing I would learn a lot about myself.
Yeah, if someone is quick to invalidate or judge, it just tells me that they are limited and really don’t have the patience to understand differently.
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Yeah unless you experience it nobody understands. You got synchronizity. Spiritual growth by both ect. But oh well
I’m tired of explaining myself. I know what happened
When folks started talking about 10 years back it was this out of this world metaphysical connection that 1 in a million people might be lucky enough to experience in this life time.
10 years down the line everyone dicided to coin their abuseive relationship as a twinflame and then that became what it was, when really it was never that at all.
All this happened before ten years ago. It just explained everything that had happened, felt to a tee. but I agree people calling twin flame someone they forget about after a month .
Also, according to astrologers and other types of metaphysical practitioners, a lot of people do not have twin flames. The odds of you experiencing this type of relationship are low, and what most people consider to be a “twin flame” relationship, is actually just a trauma bond that both individuals are trying to force.
With or without a relationship, people should take the time to reflect and work on themselves. There is no limit to self-growth and discovering what makes you the best version of yourself. Everyone is born into this world with a level of trauma, and it continues throughout your life. A relationship shouldn’t be the only catalyst you have to recognize triggers and flaws, this is something you should look into without others being included in that movement forward.
Agreed but sometimes you don’t know your triggered until you are.💁
But twins flame is more like spark to return to your soul self.
As someone who's very into understanding and analyzing human mentalities, it's extremely amusing to me how literally all the Scorpios in this thread believe in this when they practically spend their entire lives seeking deeper, emotional connections than other signs, especially in external/romantic relationships.
As someone who's very into understanding and analyzing human mentalities, it's extremely amusing to me how literally all the Scorpios in this thread believe in this when they practically spend their entire lives seeking deeper, emotional connections than other signs, especially in external/romantic relationships.
We sought n we found n that is the Conundrum.
Placebo effect. If you believe it is real, then it is... for you.
Personally I refuse to give up that much power. I am complete as is. I entered this world alone, I'll leave it alone.
5th house/9th house in synastry
but then i've always thought people who only liked people who liked them back are kinda gross
I believe in it to a certain extent. I also agree that it’s very unhealthy. At least it was for me….I became so enmeshed in it that it took over every waking moment. I had believed at one point I had met my twin flame….maybe he was and maybe he wasn’t. Who knows? I was reading everything I could find on it, watching videos, studying up on how to better myself so we could come into union etc. I now see how silly that was and such a waste of time. Of course that is just my opinion. I prefer not to go down that road again. It’s very draining.
Miss Scorpio - 100%
I was dying for a Scorpio to the point of total distraction for over a decade and if anybody told me it is going to end I would laugh.
But it did. However after realization that it’s all gone and I built him up better and he isn’t as good in sex and I have man who is all that - every friggin day I am thinking of Scorpio. I chased him away because he was contacting me knowing I am not alone and he was still married - I sent him letter that no men can survive - and he stopped bothering me - I can’t let go and I don’t want his body. I don’t want his anything. I just care. I don’t think I’ll ever stop. And I am frigging KNOW that if he called and I picked up and we talked - it would be amazing time! The time that I can’t have with no other soul in the world! Why? WHO TF knows and can explain THAT? 🤷♀️
Placebo effect. If you believe it is real, then it is... for you.
Personally I refuse to give up that much power. I am complete as is. I entered this world alone, I'll leave it alone.
And you alone in between. Don’t kid yourself. You just unable to feel. I am sorry if someone hurt you in past but that is too long of a grudges to hold:
As someone who's very into understanding and analyzing human mentalities, it's extremely amusing to me how literally all the Scorpios in this thread believe in this when they practically spend their entire lives seeking deeper, emotional connections than other signs, especially in external/romantic relationships.
Scorpios men (I don’t think women) love suffering. Joy in suffering is a Scorpio loving.
It’s quite interesting. Tragedy. Drama. Darkness.
It’s not worse than stupid shit and giggles for no apparent reason like baby talk and crap.
People will believe in twin flames but not admit to clearly being a hopeless romantic lol. Never understood that. As a self-proclaimed hopeless romantic, it's the most delusional concept ever. These people just need to go have some tantric sex or some shit.
Maybe twin flames are hopeless romantics but in other words. Same shit - different name.
I would agree with you but not wanting them anymore but still caring - kind of strange. But real. Say what you want. Nobody can understand.
As someone who's very into understanding and analyzing human mentalities, it's extremely amusing to me how literally all the Scorpios in this thread believe in this when they practically spend their entire lives seeking deeper, emotional connections than other signs, especially in external/romantic relationships.
Scorpios men (I don’t think women) love suffering. Joy in suffering is a Scorpio loving.
It’s quite interesting. Tragedy. Drama. Darkness.
It’s not worse than stupid shit and giggles for no apparent reason like baby talk and crap.
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Baby talk is an actual sign of a healthy, mature relationship, internal suffering is not.
https://www.nbcnews.com/better/pop-culture/baby-talk-it-may-be-annoying-it-s-sign-strong-ncna881401
Placebo effect. If you believe it is real, then it is... for you.
Personally I refuse to give up that much power. I am complete as is. I entered this world alone, I'll leave it alone.
And you alone in between. Don’t kid yourself. You just unable to feel. I am sorry if someone hurt you in past but that is too long of a grudges to hold:
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Trust me, I will not punish myself with kids. You don’t have to worry.
My view on soul splitting and rejoining:
Placebo effect. If you believe it is real, then it is... for you.
Personally I refuse to give up that much power. I am complete as is. I entered this world alone, I'll leave it alone.
And you alone in between. Don’t kid yourself. You just unable to feel. I am sorry if someone hurt you in past but that is too long of a grudges to hold:
Trust me, I will not punish myself with kids. You don’t have to worry.
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I am glad you wouldn’t punish kids with yourself.
Placebo effect. If you believe it is real, then it is... for you.
Personally I refuse to give up that much power. I am complete as is. I entered this world alone, I'll leave it alone.
And you alone in between. Don’t kid yourself. You just unable to feel. I am sorry if someone hurt you in past but that is too long of a grudges to hold:
Trust me, I will not punish myself with kids. You don’t have to worry.
I am glad you wouldn’t punish kids with yourself.
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Like you did 😂
Placebo effect. If you believe it is real, then it is... for you.
Personally I refuse to give up that much power. I am complete as is. I entered this world alone, I'll leave it alone.
And you alone in between. Don’t kid yourself. You just unable to feel. I am sorry if someone hurt you in past but that is too long of a grudges to hold:
Trust me, I will not punish myself with kids. You don’t have to worry.
I am glad you wouldn’t punish kids with yourself.
Like you did 😂
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No, like your mother
Placebo effect. If you believe it is real, then it is... for you.
Personally I refuse to give up that much power. I am complete as is. I entered this world alone, I'll leave it alone.
And you alone in between. Don’t kid yourself. You just unable to feel. I am sorry if someone hurt you in past but that is too long of a grudges to hold:
Trust me, I will not punish myself with kids. You don’t have to worry.
I am glad you wouldn’t punish kids with yourself.
Like you did 😂
No, like your mother
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My mother doesn't know you hun. You can't sit with us.
Placebo effect. If you believe it is real, then it is... for you.
Personally I refuse to give up that much power. I am complete as is. I entered this world alone, I'll leave it alone.
And you alone in between. Don’t kid yourself. You just unable to feel. I am sorry if someone hurt you in past but that is too long of a grudges to hold:
Trust me, I will not punish myself with kids. You don’t have to worry.
I am glad you wouldn’t punish kids with yourself.
Like you did 😂
No, like your mother
My mother doesn't know you hun. You can't sit with us.
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What does it have to do with anybody knowing anybody? You don’t know my daughter…but you printing shit.
How is her dick child? Gone? And I don’t know her? You told enough…it’s like I know her. 🤔
Placebo effect. If you believe it is real, then it is... for you.
Personally I refuse to give up that much power. I am complete as is. I entered this world alone, I'll leave it alone.
And you alone in between. Don’t kid yourself. You just unable to feel. I am sorry if someone hurt you in past but that is too long of a grudges to hold:
Trust me, I will not punish myself with kids. You don’t have to worry.
I am glad you wouldn’t punish kids with yourself.
Like you did 😂
No, like your mother
My mother doesn't know you hun. You can't sit with us.
What does it have to do with anybody knowing anybody? You don’t know my daughter…but you printing shit.
How is her dick child? Gone? And I don’t know her? You told enough…it’s like I know her. 🤔
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What did I ever say about your daughter? Please enlighten me.
Placebo effect. If you believe it is real, then it is... for you.
Personally I refuse to give up that much power. I am complete as is. I entered this world alone, I'll leave it alone.
And you alone in between. Don’t kid yourself. You just unable to feel. I am sorry if someone hurt you in past but that is too long of a grudges to hold:
Trust me, I will not punish myself with kids. You don’t have to worry.
I am glad you wouldn’t punish kids with yourself.
Like you did 😂
No, like your mother
My mother doesn't know you hun. You can't sit with us.
What does it have to do with anybody knowing anybody? You don’t know my daughter…but you printing shit.
How is her dick child? Gone? And I don’t know her? You told enough…it’s like I know her. 🤔
What did I ever say about your daughter? Please enlighten me.
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That I punish her with myself…
And now you going to turn it into whole innocent bullshit like it’s not what it seemed.
But YOU SAID you won’t punish your kinds with yourself as I did. Go find ‘reasonable’ explanation how wrong I am because you would never.
So he dumped cougar didn’t he? 🤔
Placebo effect. If you believe it is real, then it is... for you.
Personally I refuse to give up that much power. I am complete as is. I entered this world alone, I'll leave it alone.
And you alone in between. Don’t kid yourself. You just unable to feel. I am sorry if someone hurt you in past but that is too long of a grudges to hold:
Trust me, I will not punish myself with kids. You don’t have to worry.
I am glad you wouldn’t punish kids with yourself.
Like you did 😂
No, like your mother
My mother doesn't know you hun. You can't sit with us.
What does it have to do with anybody knowing anybody? You don’t know my daughter…but you printing shit.
How is her dick child? Gone? And I don’t know her? You told enough…it’s like I know her. 🤔
What did I ever say about your daughter? Please enlighten me.
That I punish her with myself…
And now you going to turn it into whole innocent bullshit like it’s not what it seemed.
But YOU SAID you won’t punish your kinds with yourself as I did. Go find ‘reasonable’ explanation how wrong I am because you would never.
So he dumped cougar didn’t he? 🤔
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I don't understand half of what you say and just parrot it back to you. Lol don't be mad you hurt yourself.
Who dumped what? Idk about your aries bowel movements nor do I want to. Not to kink shame but thats not for me.
Placebo effect. If you believe it is real, then it is... for you.
Personally I refuse to give up that much power. I am complete as is. I entered this world alone, I'll leave it alone.
And you alone in between. Don’t kid yourself. You just unable to feel. I am sorry if someone hurt you in past but that is too long of a grudges to hold:
Trust me, I will not punish myself with kids. You don’t have to worry.
I am glad you wouldn’t punish kids with yourself.
Like you did 😂
No, like your mother
My mother doesn't know you hun. You can't sit with us.
What does it have to do with anybody knowing anybody? You don’t know my daughter…but you printing shit.
How is her dick child? Gone? And I don’t know her? You told enough…it’s like I know her. 🤔
What did I ever say about your daughter? Please enlighten me.
That I punish her with myself…
And now you going to turn it into whole innocent bullshit like it’s not what it seemed.
But YOU SAID you won’t punish your kinds with yourself as I did. Go find ‘reasonable’ explanation how wrong I am because you would never.
So he dumped cougar didn’t he? 🤔
I don't understand half of what you say and just parrot it back to you. Lol don't be mad you hurt yourself.
Who dumped what? Idk about your aries bowel movements nor do I want to. Not to kink shame but thats not for me.
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Isn’t that what I said? You’ll weasel your way out one way or another. And you are trying. All of a sudden you don’t understand half of what I am saying. And you just did…and when shit hit the fan - you choosing not to understand me.
My Aries bowel movement? You have wicked imagination…
I was talking about your mother’s dick boy.
But if you prefer to talk about Aries shit - you’ll have to talk to him because he is kind of private about his shit. 😂😂😂
Placebo effect. If you believe it is real, then it is... for you.
Personally I refuse to give up that much power. I am complete as is. I entered this world alone, I'll leave it alone.
And you alone in between. Don’t kid yourself. You just unable to feel. I am sorry if someone hurt you in past but that is too long of a grudges to hold:
Trust me, I will not punish myself with kids. You don’t have to worry.
I am glad you wouldn’t punish kids with yourself.
Like you did 😂
No, like your mother
My mother doesn't know you hun. You can't sit with us.
What does it have to do with anybody knowing anybody? You don’t know my daughter…but you printing shit.
How is her dick child? Gone? And I don’t know her? You told enough…it’s like I know her. 🤔
What did I ever say about your daughter? Please enlighten me.
That I punish her with myself…
And now you going to turn it into whole innocent bullshit like it’s not what it seemed.
But YOU SAID you won’t punish your kinds with yourself as I did. Go find ‘reasonable’ explanation how wrong I am because you would never.
So he dumped cougar didn’t he? 🤔
I don't understand half of what you say and just parrot it back to you. Lol don't be mad you hurt yourself.
Who dumped what? Idk about your aries bowel movements nor do I want to. Not to kink shame but thats not for me.
Isn’t that what I said? You’ll weasel your way out one way or another. And you are trying. All of a sudden you don’t understand half of what I am saying. And you just did…and when shit hit the fan - you choosing not to understand me.
My Aries bowel movement? You have wicked imagination…
I was talking about your mother’s dick boy.
But if you prefer to talk about Aries shit - you’ll have to talk to him because he is kind of private about his shit. 😂😂😂
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Weasel? Well I'm not into gerbil play either. Sorry 🐹
Placebo effect. If you believe it is real, then it is... for you.
Personally I refuse to give up that much power. I am complete as is. I entered this world alone, I'll leave it alone.
And you alone in between. Don’t kid yourself. You just unable to feel. I am sorry if someone hurt you in past but that is too long of a grudges to hold:
Trust me, I will not punish myself with kids. You don’t have to worry.
I am glad you wouldn’t punish kids with yourself.
Like you did 😂
No, like your mother
My mother doesn't know you hun. You can't sit with us.
What does it have to do with anybody knowing anybody? You don’t know my daughter…but you printing shit.
How is her dick child? Gone? And I don’t know her? You told enough…it’s like I know her. 🤔
What did I ever say about your daughter? Please enlighten me.
That I punish her with myself…
And now you going to turn it into whole innocent bullshit like it’s not what it seemed.
But YOU SAID you won’t punish your kinds with yourself as I did. Go find ‘reasonable’ explanation how wrong I am because you would never.
So he dumped cougar didn’t he? 🤔
I don't understand half of what you say and just parrot it back to you. Lol don't be mad you hurt yourself.
Who dumped what? Idk about your aries bowel movements nor do I want to. Not to kink shame but thats not for me.
Isn’t that what I said? You’ll weasel your way out one way or another. And you are trying. All of a sudden you don’t understand half of what I am saying. And you just did…and when shit hit the fan - you choosing not to understand me.
My Aries bowel movement? You have wicked imagination…
I was talking about your mother’s dick boy.
But if you prefer to talk about Aries shit - you’ll have to talk to him because he is kind of private about his shit. 😂😂😂
Weasel? Well I'm not into gerbil play either. Sorry 🐹
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I like how you just playing dumb. You playing right? 🤔
Placebo effect. If you believe it is real, then it is... for you.
Personally I refuse to give up that much power. I am complete as is. I entered this world alone, I'll leave it alone.
And you alone in between. Don’t kid yourself. You just unable to feel. I am sorry if someone hurt you in past but that is too long of a grudges to hold:
Trust me, I will not punish myself with kids. You don’t have to worry.
I am glad you wouldn’t punish kids with yourself.
Like you did 😂
No, like your mother
My mother doesn't know you hun. You can't sit with us.
What does it have to do with anybody knowing anybody? You don’t know my daughter…but you printing shit.
How is her dick child? Gone? And I don’t know her? You told enough…it’s like I know her. 🤔
What did I ever say about your daughter? Please enlighten me.
That I punish her with myself…
And now you going to turn it into whole innocent bullshit like it’s not what it seemed.
But YOU SAID you won’t punish your kinds with yourself as I did. Go find ‘reasonable’ explanation how wrong I am because you would never.
So he dumped cougar didn’t he? 🤔
I don't understand half of what you say and just parrot it back to you. Lol don't be mad you hurt yourself.
Who dumped what? Idk about your aries bowel movements nor do I want to. Not to kink shame but thats not for me.
Isn’t that what I said? You’ll weasel your way out one way or another. And you are trying. All of a sudden you don’t understand half of what I am saying. And you just did…and when shit hit the fan - you choosing not to understand me.
My Aries bowel movement? You have wicked imagination…
I was talking about your mother’s dick boy.
But if you prefer to talk about Aries shit - you’ll have to talk to him because he is kind of private about his shit. 😂😂😂
Weasel? Well I'm not into gerbil play either. Sorry 🐹
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Just so noticeable for a long time how when you have nothing to say - you’ll take the word I have misspelled or like now - weasel - and building your reply on irrelevant avoiding the whole conversation by derailing it into something totally inane like ‘I am not into gerbil play’ - it’s really a sorry ass attempt for getting out of the situation.
Placebo effect. If you believe it is real, then it is... for you.
Personally I refuse to give up that much power. I am complete as is. I entered this world alone, I'll leave it alone.
And you alone in between. Don’t kid yourself. You just unable to feel. I am sorry if someone hurt you in past but that is too long of a grudges to hold:
Trust me, I will not punish myself with kids. You don’t have to worry.
I am glad you wouldn’t punish kids with yourself.
Like you did 😂
No, like your mother
My mother doesn't know you hun. You can't sit with us.
What does it have to do with anybody knowing anybody? You don’t know my daughter…but you printing shit.
How is her dick child? Gone? And I don’t know her? You told enough…it’s like I know her. 🤔
What did I ever say about your daughter? Please enlighten me.
That I punish her with myself…
And now you going to turn it into whole innocent bullshit like it’s not what it seemed.
But YOU SAID you won’t punish your kinds with yourself as I did. Go find ‘reasonable’ explanation how wrong I am because you would never.
So he dumped cougar didn’t he? 🤔
I don't understand half of what you say and just parrot it back to you. Lol don't be mad you hurt yourself.
Who dumped what? Idk about your aries bowel movements nor do I want to. Not to kink shame but thats not for me.
Isn’t that what I said? You’ll weasel your way out one way or another. And you are trying. All of a sudden you don’t understand half of what I am saying. And you just did…and when shit hit the fan - you choosing not to understand me.
My Aries bowel movement? You have wicked imagination…
I was talking about your mother’s dick boy.
But if you prefer to talk about Aries shit - you’ll have to talk to him because he is kind of private about his shit. 😂😂😂
Weasel? Well I'm not into gerbil play either. Sorry 🐹
Just so noticeable for a long time how when you have nothing to say - you’ll take the word I have misspelled or like now - weasel - and building your reply on irrelevant avoiding the whole conversation by derailing it into something totally inane like ‘I am not into gerbil play’ - it’s really a sorry ass attempt for getting out of the situation.
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If you build it, they will come.
I do believe in them, but I believe they are very rare to experience and not everyone is ready for that kind of relationship in their current life time.
It can happen when two self aware souls who did enough inner healing come together to experience a love like no other
Do you think twin flames are real or some made up bullshit?
Real. There is no way IN HELL I would have entertained anything nearly as toxic if I didn’t feel it was something completely out of this world. I’m an expert at avoiding toxic behavior - but this one didn’t allow me to run away… 😤😣🙄
Never have BEFORE and I never will with anyone else. There was something beyond me that guided us together. I rejected it most of the way. Yet it still pulled me near. Normally, I have way more control.
In the end, it’s just meant to be a life lesson TO BE learned, whether you like it or not.
Soul mates on the other hand, ARE HEAVEN 🤗🥰🤗
Agreed. If you had asked me 2 years ago I would have said it was bullshit lol the people who don’t believe in it simply have not experienced it, which is understandable to not believe in something you’ve never experienced. I’ve never had paranormal experiences either so I’m hesitant to say that I believe in ghosts 🥴 but at the same time I would never try to invalidate someone else’s experience.
I also agree that a lot of people use “twin flame” to excuse their toxic or abusive relationship. Sometimes the whole point of the twin flame union is to show you imbalances within yourself (unrequited love, overextending yourself or chasing etc) and the lesson should always be to return to yourself and self love.. it’s never about waiting DECADES for a married man to leave his wife, or making excuses for an abusive alcoholic etc. and I think that’s why the whole term gets lost in the sauce and is taken out of context.
I wish I could talk to people that have experienced the same as me… my experience was highly metaphysical and paranormal. I’ve never before or since had an experience at that level, and like you… in the past believed it was somewhat imagined…lol, boy was I proven wrong😵💫.
I agree, this was by no means about accepting toxic behavior. From the moment I met him, I KNEW very strongly, that I would be learning a lot with him and a lot about my SELF. I was wrong in thinking it would be a lovely bond and friendship… totally off about THAT, but definitely on point 🎯about knowing I would learn a lot about myself.
Yeah, if someone is quick to invalidate or judge, it just tells me that they are limited and really don’t have the patience to understand differently.click to expand
Yeah unless you experience it nobody understands. You got synchronizity. Spiritual growth by both ect. But oh well
I’m tired of explaining myself. I know what happened
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Oh my goodness… so interesting what I wrote years ago. Feels like a lifetime ago and also feels great to see all the healing that’s happened years later.
Love that this convo was saved 🥹
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