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Everyone is different, but personally, all the major lessons in life that I've learned so far, I learned the hardest way possible, despite overprotective parents who wouldn't have had it that way.
BAD... I don't wanna talk about it... But it gives me head aches... I can't wait to leave, I'm not staying in this house any longer than I have to... Although I'm afraid about leaving, because I normally act as peace keeper, and if I leave, I'm afraid everything will deteriorate even more and someone's going to get seriously hurt... Not Good...
For some reason, I'm the only one who can reach and reason with my dad... But I have to just BE there all the time to watch the conversation like a cop... Apparently when my parents were on vacation for the past four days bad stuff happened... My mom says she wished she would have called the cops in retrospect, but she didn't. If I had been there I would of with out another thought.
cj, I did the same once, with my mom. I actually sort of regret doing it, but she never attacked me again...we reached an understanding once law enforcement was brought in. I was sixteen or seventeen when that happened.
MofM: I have the same train of thought...I always rebelled against my parents' strictness.
well it got physical a couple of times and that was the final straw. i never want to hurt a family member but i did that night. not bad but he felt it, then i called the cops so i never had a problem like that when i was around.
I was strong enough to hit back, the problem is that she didn't like me raising my fists back at her, and she slammed me into a wall, causing a bloody wound thing on my forehead. lol.
I laugh, but it was quite the dramatic bad thing back then. I had tried to run away, is what sparked it all.
Yeah... I keep saying they love you they just don't know how to express it...
Neither of my parents have enough patience... I was never a "wonderful child" who listened and did what she was told, so I got a lot of it... And I still feel that a lot of the things I did were right and my parents were wrong, and they know that I don't think very highly of them, and that's that. My mom once through a fork at me and punctured my forehead.
I was spanked up until I was about 11, then I got the belt a couple times, then I got slapped around by both parents, I got knocked down a lot, then finally I started being the biggest cookiemonster imaginable all the time to them, and they started threatening to kick me out, so I tried to run away, but oh nooooo....they didn't *really* want me to escape them. The last straw for me was when my mom was screaming at me like an inch from my face and I went to put my hands between us in sort of a "back the treetrunk off" motion, and she interpreted that as a threat and told me to pack my stuff so she could send me to live at juvenile hall (mind you, i'd never committed a crime). So the next day, pack my stuff I did, and went to a guy friend's house, and called to let her know I wouldn't be coming home and then she made me come home, so I did, and then the fight happened, and then the next day a friend at school who was a peer mediator noticed the wound and asked me about it, and thinking it was confidential I told her, and she ended up telling the school authorities and they had a cop come to talk to my mom.
I used to be very insecure... Everyone says I've changed a lot sinse I went to high school... That's when I realized my family consists of morons and I'll never listen to their advice again.
I tried to run away when I was about 4/5 a bunch of times... But they caught me everytime... And then I thought for ten years ofter it must be my fault...
not anymore... A neighbor called social services once... we were all interviewed and what not... but ofcourse we never told them about any of that, cause it's a private family matter, and that's that.
Goodnight, cj7. If it's good and scary (and I mean really scary), let me know so I can rent it. 🙂
Morgan, I sympathize. Just think...in short order you will be making new memories in a new environment with new people...and your family issues will have no choice but to calm down, because you will be having a good time!
Hang in there Morgan! The fact that you are 'aware' of your parents bad relationship means that you are less likely of falling into the same type of senario. You are a much stronger and mature person b/c of it and are more likely to recognise 'signs' in any relationships you may have and be strong enough to show them the door if it does happen. Believe in yourself and know that only the best will do for you...and you shall have it!
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