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When you care so much about the other person, so much so that you no longer care about wealth, power, or even yourself, then there you'll find unconditional love.
Usually ITS not happen instanly, but by process untill theres connection and attachment.
If the only person that make you not lonely, gave you meaning in live, the only one who truly care about you and your existence is only your lover, would not you gave anything for him/her ?
Usually ITS not happen instanly, but by process untill theres connection and attachment.
If the only person that make you not lonely, gave you meaning in live, the only one who truly care about you and your existence is only your lover, would not you gave anything for him/her ?
Posted by einsthepisces
When you care so much about the other person, so much so that you no longer care about wealth, power, or even yourself, then there you'll find unconditional love.
Usually ITS not happen instanly, but by process untill theres connection and attachment.
If the only person that make you not lonely, gave you meaning in live, the only one who truly care about you and your existence is only your lover, would not you gave anything for him/her ?
I CANā¦technically believe in this ferry tale scenario but one day you will want to eat so badly that you will become unable to stand this ANYMORE!
I had been there and I had helped and provided and understood and felt soft and sorry and tearful and found every excuse in the book and THE DAY came when I said - FUCK THAT BUM!!!
But nobody will believe that this can happen WHILE they are infatuated by that personā¦
It is like an illnessā¦drug addictionā¦someone leading you blindfolded to the promise landā¦
But pray that this journey will end BEFORE there are small kids and other shit happening.
Because WE ALL KNOW but we CHOOSE to be stupid and we believe in shit that WE KNOW is t real but itās shiny and sparkle and we want it!
Posted by GemiMayPosted by einsthepisces
When you care so much about the other person, so much so that you no longer care about wealth, power, or even yourself, then there you'll find unconditional love.
Usually ITS not happen instanly, but by process untill theres connection and attachment.
If the only person that make you not lonely, gave you meaning in live, the only one who truly care about you and your existence is only your lover, would not you gave anything for him/her ?
I CANā¦technically believe in this ferry tale scenario but one day you will want to eat so badly that you will become unable to stand this ANYMORE!
I had been there and I had helped and provided and understood and felt soft and sorry and tearful and found every excuse in the book and THE DAY came when I said - FUCK THAT BUM!!!
But nobody will believe that this can happen WHILE they are infatuated by that personā¦
It is like an illnessā¦drug addictionā¦someone leading you blindfolded to the promise landā¦
But pray that this journey will end BEFORE there are small kids and other shit happening.
Because WE ALL KNOW but we CHOOSE to be stupid and we believe in shit that WE KNOW is t real but itās shiny and sparkle and we want it!click to expand
Then logically that mean, you have an alternative meaning in live or in your existence and that is to keep yourself survive. I may say that is your primary meaning. And your love to your lover come second.
Posted by einsthepiscesPosted by GemiMayPosted by einsthepisces
When you care so much about the other person, so much so that you no longer care about wealth, power, or even yourself, then there you'll find unconditional love.
Usually ITS not happen instanly, but by process untill theres connection and attachment.
If the only person that make you not lonely, gave you meaning in live, the only one who truly care about you and your existence is only your lover, would not you gave anything for him/her ?
I CANā¦technically believe in this ferry tale scenario but one day you will want to eat so badly that you will become unable to stand this ANYMORE!
I had been there and I had helped and provided and understood and felt soft and sorry and tearful and found every excuse in the book and THE DAY came when I said - FUCK THAT BUM!!!
But nobody will believe that this can happen WHILE they are infatuated by that personā¦
It is like an illnessā¦drug addictionā¦someone leading you blindfolded to the promise landā¦
But pray that this journey will end BEFORE there are small kids and other shit happening.
Because WE ALL KNOW but we CHOOSE to be stupid and we believe in shit that WE KNOW is t real but itās shiny and sparkle and we want it!
Then logically that mean, you have an alternative meaning in live or in your existence and that is to keep yourself survive. I may say that is your primary meaning. And your love to your lover come second.click to expand
Don't worry though, its quite normal. Im not judging you. You have all the right to do it, to save yourself than to drown together with your lover.
Posted by einsthepiscesPosted by einsthepiscesPosted by GemiMayPosted by einsthepisces
When you care so much about the other person, so much so that you no longer care about wealth, power, or even yourself, then there you'll find unconditional love.
Usually ITS not happen instanly, but by process untill theres connection and attachment.
If the only person that make you not lonely, gave you meaning in live, the only one who truly care about you and your existence is only your lover, would not you gave anything for him/her ?
I CANā¦technically believe in this ferry tale scenario but one day you will want to eat so badly that you will become unable to stand this ANYMORE!
I had been there and I had helped and provided and understood and felt soft and sorry and tearful and found every excuse in the book and THE DAY came when I said - FUCK THAT BUM!!!
But nobody will believe that this can happen WHILE they are infatuated by that personā¦
It is like an illnessā¦drug addictionā¦someone leading you blindfolded to the promise landā¦
But pray that this journey will end BEFORE there are small kids and other shit happening.
Because WE ALL KNOW but we CHOOSE to be stupid and we believe in shit that WE KNOW is t real but itās shiny and sparkle and we want it!
Then logically that mean, you have an alternative meaning in live or in your existence and that is to keep yourself survive. I may say that is your primary meaning. And your love to your lover come second.
Don't worry though, its quite normal. Im not judging you. You have all the right to do it, to save yourself than to drown together with your lover.click to expand
Lmao it's like a captain that don't go down with his ship. In this case, gemitati š¤£š¤£š¤£
Ok I'm dead lololol. Done. It's back to my beer jazz food and guitars
Posted by einsthepiscesPosted by einsthepiscesPosted by GemiMayPosted by einsthepisces
When you care so much about the other person, so much so that you no longer care about wealth, power, or even yourself, then there you'll find unconditional love.
Usually ITS not happen instanly, but by process untill theres connection and attachment.
If the only person that make you not lonely, gave you meaning in live, the only one who truly care about you and your existence is only your lover, would not you gave anything for him/her ?
I CANā¦technically believe in this ferry tale scenario but one day you will want to eat so badly that you will become unable to stand this ANYMORE!
I had been there and I had helped and provided and understood and felt soft and sorry and tearful and found every excuse in the book and THE DAY came when I said - FUCK THAT BUM!!!
But nobody will believe that this can happen WHILE they are infatuated by that personā¦
It is like an illnessā¦drug addictionā¦someone leading you blindfolded to the promise landā¦
But pray that this journey will end BEFORE there are small kids and other shit happening.
Because WE ALL KNOW but we CHOOSE to be stupid and we believe in shit that WE KNOW is t real but itās shiny and sparkle and we want it!
Then logically that mean, you have an alternative meaning in live or in your existence and that is to keep yourself survive. I may say that is your primary meaning. And your love to your lover come second.
Don't worry though, its quite normal. Im not judging you. You have all the right to do it, to save yourself than to drown together with your lover.click to expand
I wish I knew your age and story so I can dissect it for you and exposed you as delusional person.
Will you dare to tell your story in new thread?
I donāt think soā¦
Posted by GemiMayPosted by einsthepiscesPosted by einsthepiscesPosted by GemiMayPosted by einsthepisces
When you care so much about the other person, so much so that you no longer care about wealth, power, or even yourself, then there you'll find unconditional love.
Usually ITS not happen instanly, but by process untill theres connection and attachment.
If the only person that make you not lonely, gave you meaning in live, the only one who truly care about you and your existence is only your lover, would not you gave anything for him/her ?
I CANā¦technically believe in this ferry tale scenario but one day you will want to eat so badly that you will become unable to stand this ANYMORE!
I had been there and I had helped and provided and understood and felt soft and sorry and tearful and found every excuse in the book and THE DAY came when I said - FUCK THAT BUM!!!
But nobody will believe that this can happen WHILE they are infatuated by that personā¦
It is like an illnessā¦drug addictionā¦someone leading you blindfolded to the promise landā¦
But pray that this journey will end BEFORE there are small kids and other shit happening.
Because WE ALL KNOW but we CHOOSE to be stupid and we believe in shit that WE KNOW is t real but itās shiny and sparkle and we want it!
Then logically that mean, you have an alternative meaning in live or in your existence and that is to keep yourself survive. I may say that is your primary meaning. And your love to your lover come second.
Don't worry though, its quite normal. Im not judging you. You have all the right to do it, to save yourself than to drown together with your lover.
I wish I knew your age and story so I can dissect it for you and exposed you as delusional person.
Will you dare to tell your story in new thread?
I donāt think soā¦click to expand
? Is "only" explaining logical possible condition in which someone might love another person unconditionally could be called delutional ?
Posted by einsthepiscesPosted by GemiMayPosted by einsthepiscesPosted by einsthepiscesPosted by GemiMayPosted by einsthepisces
When you care so much about the other person, so much so that you no longer care about wealth, power, or even yourself, then there you'll find unconditional love.
Usually ITS not happen instanly, but by process untill theres connection and attachment.
If the only person that make you not lonely, gave you meaning in live, the only one who truly care about you and your existence is only your lover, would not you gave anything for him/her ?
I CANā¦technically believe in this ferry tale scenario but one day you will want to eat so badly that you will become unable to stand this ANYMORE!
I had been there and I had helped and provided and understood and felt soft and sorry and tearful and found every excuse in the book and THE DAY came when I said - FUCK THAT BUM!!!
But nobody will believe that this can happen WHILE they are infatuated by that personā¦
It is like an illnessā¦drug addictionā¦someone leading you blindfolded to the promise landā¦
But pray that this journey will end BEFORE there are small kids and other shit happening.
Because WE ALL KNOW but we CHOOSE to be stupid and we believe in shit that WE KNOW is t real but itās shiny and sparkle and we want it!
Then logically that mean, you have an alternative meaning in live or in your existence and that is to keep yourself survive. I may say that is your primary meaning. And your love to your lover come second.
Don't worry though, its quite normal. Im not judging you. You have all the right to do it, to save yourself than to drown together with your lover.
I wish I knew your age and story so I can dissect it for you and exposed you as delusional person.
Will you dare to tell your story in new thread?
I donāt think soā¦
? Is "only" explaining logical possible condition in which someone might love another person unconditionally could be called delutional ?click to expand
Unless you catch them cheating on you and continue loving them or seeing them kicking your puppy and still admiring them etc. - it is NOT unconditional love and if you are - you are delusional or mental case. Yes.
Posted by GemiMayPosted by einsthepiscesPosted by GemiMayPosted by einsthepiscesPosted by einsthepiscesPosted by GemiMayPosted by einsthepisces
When you care so much about the other person, so much so that you no longer care about wealth, power, or even yourself, then there you'll find unconditional love.
Usually ITS not happen instanly, but by process untill theres connection and attachment.
If the only person that make you not lonely, gave you meaning in live, the only one who truly care about you and your existence is only your lover, would not you gave anything for him/her ?
I CANā¦technically believe in this ferry tale scenario but one day you will want to eat so badly that you will become unable to stand this ANYMORE!
I had been there and I had helped and provided and understood and felt soft and sorry and tearful and found every excuse in the book and THE DAY came when I said - FUCK THAT BUM!!!
But nobody will believe that this can happen WHILE they are infatuated by that personā¦
It is like an illnessā¦drug addictionā¦someone leading you blindfolded to the promise landā¦
But pray that this journey will end BEFORE there are small kids and other shit happening.
Because WE ALL KNOW but we CHOOSE to be stupid and we believe in shit that WE KNOW is t real but itās shiny and sparkle and we want it!
Then logically that mean, you have an alternative meaning in live or in your existence and that is to keep yourself survive. I may say that is your primary meaning. And your love to your lover come second.
Don't worry though, its quite normal. Im not judging you. You have all the right to do it, to save yourself than to drown together with your lover.
I wish I knew your age and story so I can dissect it for you and exposed you as delusional person.
Will you dare to tell your story in new thread?
I donāt think soā¦
? Is "only" explaining logical possible condition in which someone might love another person unconditionally could be called delutional ?
Unless you catch them cheating on you and continue loving them or seeing them kicking your puppy and still admiring them etc. - it is NOT unconditional love and if you are - you are delusional or mental case. Yes.click to expand
Now now, We're not talking about "my experience or yours, We're talking about "unconditional love", whether ITS stupid mental etc, its still unconditional love when someone still love the other despite every bad thing or every bad condition or situation.
Posted by einsthepiscesPosted by GemiMayPosted by einsthepiscesPosted by GemiMayPosted by einsthepiscesPosted by einsthepiscesPosted by GemiMayPosted by einsthepisces
When you care so much about the other person, so much so that you no longer care about wealth, power, or even yourself, then there you'll find unconditional love.
Usually ITS not happen instanly, but by process untill theres connection and attachment.
If the only person that make you not lonely, gave you meaning in live, the only one who truly care about you and your existence is only your lover, would not you gave anything for him/her ?
I CANā¦technically believe in this ferry tale scenario but one day you will want to eat so badly that you will become unable to stand this ANYMORE!
I had been there and I had helped and provided and understood and felt soft and sorry and tearful and found every excuse in the book and THE DAY came when I said - FUCK THAT BUM!!!
But nobody will believe that this can happen WHILE they are infatuated by that personā¦
It is like an illnessā¦drug addictionā¦someone leading you blindfolded to the promise landā¦
But pray that this journey will end BEFORE there are small kids and other shit happening.
Because WE ALL KNOW but we CHOOSE to be stupid and we believe in shit that WE KNOW is t real but itās shiny and sparkle and we want it!
Then logically that mean, you have an alternative meaning in live or in your existence and that is to keep yourself survive. I may say that is your primary meaning. And your love to your lover come second.
Don't worry though, its quite normal. Im not judging you. You have all the right to do it, to save yourself than to drown together with your lover.
I wish I knew your age and story so I can dissect it for you and exposed you as delusional person.
Will you dare to tell your story in new thread?
I donāt think soā¦
? Is "only" explaining logical possible condition in which someone might love another person unconditionally could be called delutional ?
Unless you catch them cheating on you and continue loving them or seeing them kicking your puppy and still admiring them etc. - it is NOT unconditional love and if you are - you are delusional or mental case. Yes.
Now now, We're not talking about "my experience or yours, We're talking about "unconditional love", whether ITS stupid mental etc, its still unconditional love when someone still love the other despite every bad thing or every bad condition or situation.click to expand
Thatās the theory.
I said it is not happening in real life.
Can you prove me wrong by the example?
And BTW we all KNOW what IT means.
No need to state the obvious. Unless you have an example - my post stands!
Posted by GemiMayPosted by einsthepiscesPosted by GemiMayPosted by einsthepiscesPosted by GemiMayPosted by einsthepiscesPosted by einsthepiscesPosted by GemiMayPosted by einsthepisces
When you care so much about the other person, so much so that you no longer care about wealth, power, or even yourself, then there you'll find unconditional love.
Usually ITS not happen instanly, but by process untill theres connection and attachment.
If the only person that make you not lonely, gave you meaning in live, the only one who truly care about you and your existence is only your lover, would not you gave anything for him/her ?
I CANā¦technically believe in this ferry tale scenario but one day you will want to eat so badly that you will become unable to stand this ANYMORE!
I had been there and I had helped and provided and understood and felt soft and sorry and tearful and found every excuse in the book and THE DAY came when I said - FUCK THAT BUM!!!
But nobody will believe that this can happen WHILE they are infatuated by that personā¦
It is like an illnessā¦drug addictionā¦someone leading you blindfolded to the promise landā¦
But pray that this journey will end BEFORE there are small kids and other shit happening.
Because WE ALL KNOW but we CHOOSE to be stupid and we believe in shit that WE KNOW is t real but itās shiny and sparkle and we want it!
Then logically that mean, you have an alternative meaning in live or in your existence and that is to keep yourself survive. I may say that is your primary meaning. And your love to your lover come second.
Don't worry though, its quite normal. Im not judging you. You have all the right to do it, to save yourself than to drown together with your lover.
I wish I knew your age and story so I can dissect it for you and exposed you as delusional person.
Will you dare to tell your story in new thread?
I donāt think soā¦
? Is "only" explaining logical possible condition in which someone might love another person unconditionally could be called delutional ?
Unless you catch them cheating on you and continue loving them or seeing them kicking your puppy and still admiring them etc. - it is NOT unconditional love and if you are - you are delusional or mental case. Yes.
Now now, We're not talking about "my experience or yours, We're talking about "unconditional love", whether ITS stupid mental etc, its still unconditional love when someone still love the other despite every bad thing or every bad condition or situation.
Thatās the theory.
I said it is not happening in real life.
Can you prove me wrong by the example?click to expand
I could give you examples from my life. I continued to love these people I had a meaningful relationship with, in spite of the followings...
In chronological order, one point per person:
1) Lack of commitment to an exclusive relationship because "too young". On and off over the years, and dating other people in between.
2) Too much financial risk-taking on stock market, to the point of being reckless
3) Nit picking, not very attractive
4) Ghosted me to go back to his ex
5) Real narcissist with OCD who banished his mother and sister once for no reason.
6) Lying about important things
7) Nit picking, low EQ, anger issues
Posted by DragonSagPosted by GemiMayPosted by einsthepiscesPosted by GemiMayPosted by einsthepiscesPosted by GemiMayPosted by einsthepiscesPosted by einsthepiscesPosted by GemiMayPosted by einsthepisces
When you care so much about the other person, so much so that you no longer care about wealth, power, or even yourself, then there you'll find unconditional love.
Usually ITS not happen instanly, but by process untill theres connection and attachment.
If the only person that make you not lonely, gave you meaning in live, the only one who truly care about you and your existence is only your lover, would not you gave anything for him/her ?
I CANā¦technically believe in this ferry tale scenario but one day you will want to eat so badly that you will become unable to stand this ANYMORE!
I had been there and I had helped and provided and understood and felt soft and sorry and tearful and found every excuse in the book and THE DAY came when I said - FUCK THAT BUM!!!
But nobody will believe that this can happen WHILE they are infatuated by that personā¦
It is like an illnessā¦drug addictionā¦someone leading you blindfolded to the promise landā¦
But pray that this journey will end BEFORE there are small kids and other shit happening.
Because WE ALL KNOW but we CHOOSE to be stupid and we believe in shit that WE KNOW is t real but itās shiny and sparkle and we want it!
Then logically that mean, you have an alternative meaning in live or in your existence and that is to keep yourself survive. I may say that is your primary meaning. And your love to your lover come second.
Don't worry though, its quite normal. Im not judging you. You have all the right to do it, to save yourself than to drown together with your lover.
I wish I knew your age and story so I can dissect it for you and exposed you as delusional person.
Will you dare to tell your story in new thread?
I donāt think soā¦
? Is "only" explaining logical possible condition in which someone might love another person unconditionally could be called delutional ?
Unless you catch them cheating on you and continue loving them or seeing them kicking your puppy and still admiring them etc. - it is NOT unconditional love and if you are - you are delusional or mental case. Yes.
Now now, We're not talking about "my experience or yours, We're talking about "unconditional love", whether ITS stupid mental etc, its still unconditional love when someone still love the other despite every bad thing or every bad condition or situation.
Thatās the theory.
I said it is not happening in real life.
Can you prove me wrong by the example?
And BTW we all KNOW what IT means.
No need to state the obvious. Unless you have an example - my post stands!
I can think of only one example of "unconditional love" and I have to state in " " because I consider that as stupidity and delusion or obssession, not love - women who marry convicts, especially those who are imprisoned for rape, murder or similar things. Yet again, for me that is not love at all but they believe it to be love so with that thought in mind only I'd call it an example for so called unconditional love. Also, people have named numerous things here that are not love. Not wishing bad things for your ex is not unconditional love, it's only being normal. And many other examples could be explained as other things than unconditional love...click to expand
I am wishing most happiness to my ex and I am seriously mean it because when he is not happy he takes it on our daughter! So I am serious!!!
And I do NOT love him a bit for 2 decades now.
So you right. That love for convicts is desperation and low self esteem. It has not a thing to do with love.
Posted by UndinePosted by GemiMayPosted by einsthepiscesPosted by GemiMayPosted by einsthepiscesPosted by GemiMayPosted by einsthepiscesPosted by einsthepiscesPosted by GemiMayPosted by einsthepisces
When you care so much about the other person, so much so that you no longer care about wealth, power, or even yourself, then there you'll find unconditional love.
Usually ITS not happen instanly, but by process untill theres connection and attachment.
If the only person that make you not lonely, gave you meaning in live, the only one who truly care about you and your existence is only your lover, would not you gave anything for him/her ?
I CANā¦technically believe in this ferry tale scenario but one day you will want to eat so badly that you will become unable to stand this ANYMORE!
I had been there and I had helped and provided and understood and felt soft and sorry and tearful and found every excuse in the book and THE DAY came when I said - FUCK THAT BUM!!!
But nobody will believe that this can happen WHILE they are infatuated by that personā¦
It is like an illnessā¦drug addictionā¦someone leading you blindfolded to the promise landā¦
But pray that this journey will end BEFORE there are small kids and other shit happening.
Because WE ALL KNOW but we CHOOSE to be stupid and we believe in shit that WE KNOW is t real but itās shiny and sparkle and we want it!
Then logically that mean, you have an alternative meaning in live or in your existence and that is to keep yourself survive. I may say that is your primary meaning. And your love to your lover come second.
Don't worry though, its quite normal. Im not judging you. You have all the right to do it, to save yourself than to drown together with your lover.
I wish I knew your age and story so I can dissect it for you and exposed you as delusional person.
Will you dare to tell your story in new thread?
I donāt think soā¦
? Is "only" explaining logical possible condition in which someone might love another person unconditionally could be called delutional ?
Unless you catch them cheating on you and continue loving them or seeing them kicking your puppy and still admiring them etc. - it is NOT unconditional love and if you are - you are delusional or mental case. Yes.
Now now, We're not talking about "my experience or yours, We're talking about "unconditional love", whether ITS stupid mental etc, its still unconditional love when someone still love the other despite every bad thing or every bad condition or situation.
Thatās the theory.
I said it is not happening in real life.
Can you prove me wrong by the example?
I could give you examples from my life. I continued to love these people I had a meaningful relationship with, in spite of the followings...
In chronological order, one point per person:
1) Lack of commitment to an exclusive relationship because "too young". On and off over the years, and dating other people in between.
2) Too much financial risk-taking on stock market, to the point of being reckless
3) Nit picking, not very attractive
4) Ghosted me to go back to his ex
5) Real narcissist with OCD who banished his mother and sister once for no reason.
6) Lying about important things
7) Nit picking, low EQ, anger issuesclick to expand
If you do not love them ANYMORE - it means it was NOT unconditional. That one doesnāt stop.
Posted by GemiMayPosted by UndinePosted by GemiMayPosted by einsthepiscesPosted by GemiMayPosted by einsthepiscesPosted by GemiMayPosted by einsthepiscesPosted by einsthepiscesPosted by GemiMayPosted by einsthepisces
When you care so much about the other person, so much so that you no longer care about wealth, power, or even yourself, then there you'll find unconditional love.
Usually ITS not happen instanly, but by process untill theres connection and attachment.
If the only person that make you not lonely, gave you meaning in live, the only one who truly care about you and your existence is only your lover, would not you gave anything for him/her ?
I CANā¦technically believe in this ferry tale scenario but one day you will want to eat so badly that you will become unable to stand this ANYMORE!
I had been there and I had helped and provided and understood and felt soft and sorry and tearful and found every excuse in the book and THE DAY came when I said - FUCK THAT BUM!!!
But nobody will believe that this can happen WHILE they are infatuated by that personā¦
It is like an illnessā¦drug addictionā¦someone leading you blindfolded to the promise landā¦
But pray that this journey will end BEFORE there are small kids and other shit happening.
Because WE ALL KNOW but we CHOOSE to be stupid and we believe in shit that WE KNOW is t real but itās shiny and sparkle and we want it!
Then logically that mean, you have an alternative meaning in live or in your existence and that is to keep yourself survive. I may say that is your primary meaning. And your love to your lover come second.
Don't worry though, its quite normal. Im not judging you. You have all the right to do it, to save yourself than to drown together with your lover.
I wish I knew your age and story so I can dissect it for you and exposed you as delusional person.
Will you dare to tell your story in new thread?
I donāt think soā¦
? Is "only" explaining logical possible condition in which someone might love another person unconditionally could be called delutional ?
Unless you catch them cheating on you and continue loving them or seeing them kicking your puppy and still admiring them etc. - it is NOT unconditional love and if you are - you are delusional or mental case. Yes.
Now now, We're not talking about "my experience or yours, We're talking about "unconditional love", whether ITS stupid mental etc, its still unconditional love when someone still love the other despite every bad thing or every bad condition or situation.
Thatās the theory.
I said it is not happening in real life.
Can you prove me wrong by the example?
I could give you examples from my life. I continued to love these people I had a meaningful relationship with, in spite of the followings...
In chronological order, one point per person:
1) Lack of commitment to an exclusive relationship because "too young". On and off over the years, and dating other people in between.
2) Too much financial risk-taking on stock market, to the point of being reckless
3) Nit picking, not very attractive
4) Ghosted me to go back to his ex
5) Real narcissist with OCD who banished his mother and sister once for no reason.
6) Lying about important things
7) Nit picking, low EQ, anger issues
If you do not love them ANYMORE - it means it was NOT unconditional. That one doesnāt stop.click to expand
I DO love them though...that was the point I was making!
Posted by UndinePosted by GemiMayPosted by UndinePosted by GemiMayPosted by einsthepiscesPosted by GemiMayPosted by einsthepiscesPosted by GemiMayPosted by einsthepiscesPosted by einsthepiscesPosted by GemiMayPosted by einsthepisces
When you care so much about the other person, so much so that you no longer care about wealth, power, or even yourself, then there you'll find unconditional love.
Usually ITS not happen instanly, but by process untill theres connection and attachment.
If the only person that make you not lonely, gave you meaning in live, the only one who truly care about you and your existence is only your lover, would not you gave anything for him/her ?
I CANā¦technically believe in this ferry tale scenario but one day you will want to eat so badly that you will become unable to stand this ANYMORE!
I had been there and I had helped and provided and understood and felt soft and sorry and tearful and found every excuse in the book and THE DAY came when I said - FUCK THAT BUM!!!
But nobody will believe that this can happen WHILE they are infatuated by that personā¦
It is like an illnessā¦drug addictionā¦someone leading you blindfolded to the promise landā¦
But pray that this journey will end BEFORE there are small kids and other shit happening.
Because WE ALL KNOW but we CHOOSE to be stupid and we believe in shit that WE KNOW is t real but itās shiny and sparkle and we want it!
Then logically that mean, you have an alternative meaning in live or in your existence and that is to keep yourself survive. I may say that is your primary meaning. And your love to your lover come second.
Don't worry though, its quite normal. Im not judging you. You have all the right to do it, to save yourself than to drown together with your lover.
I wish I knew your age and story so I can dissect it for you and exposed you as delusional person.
Will you dare to tell your story in new thread?
I donāt think soā¦
? Is "only" explaining logical possible condition in which someone might love another person unconditionally could be called delutional ?
Unless you catch them cheating on you and continue loving them or seeing them kicking your puppy and still admiring them etc. - it is NOT unconditional love and if you are - you are delusional or mental case. Yes.
Now now, We're not talking about "my experience or yours, We're talking about "unconditional love", whether ITS stupid mental etc, its still unconditional love when someone still love the other despite every bad thing or every bad condition or situation.
Thatās the theory.
I said it is not happening in real life.
Can you prove me wrong by the example?
I could give you examples from my life. I continued to love these people I had a meaningful relationship with, in spite of the followings...
In chronological order, one point per person:
1) Lack of commitment to an exclusive relationship because "too young". On and off over the years, and dating other people in between.
2) Too much financial risk-taking on stock market, to the point of being reckless
3) Nit picking, not very attractive
4) Ghosted me to go back to his ex
5) Real narcissist with OCD who banished his mother and sister once for no reason.
6) Lying about important things
7) Nit picking, low EQ, anger issues
If you do not love them ANYMORE - it means it was NOT unconditional. That one doesnāt stop.
I DO love them though...that was the point I was making!click to expand
You love those 7 people?
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When you care so much about the other person, so much so that you no longer care about wealth, power, or even yourself, then there you'll find unconditional love.
Usually ITS not happen instanly, but by process untill theres connection and attachment.
If the only person that make you not lonely, gave you meaning in live, the only one who truly care about you and your existence is only your lover, would not you gave anything for him/her ?
I CANā¦technically believe in this ferry tale scenario but one day you will want to eat so badly that you will become unable to stand this ANYMORE!
I had been there and I had helped and provided and understood and felt soft and sorry and tearful and found every excuse in the book and THE DAY came when I said - FUCK THAT BUM!!!
But nobody will believe that this can happen WHILE they are infatuated by that personā¦
It is like an illnessā¦drug addictionā¦someone leading you blindfolded to the promise landā¦
But pray that this journey will end BEFORE there are small kids and other shit happening.
Because WE ALL KNOW but we CHOOSE to be stupid and we believe in shit that WE KNOW is t real but itās shiny and sparkle and we want it!
Then logically that mean, you have an alternative meaning in live or in your existence and that is to keep yourself survive. I may say that is your primary meaning. And your love to your lover come second.
Don't worry though, its quite normal. Im not judging you. You have all the right to do it, to save yourself than to drown together with your lover.
I wish I knew your age and story so I can dissect it for you and exposed you as delusional person.
Will you dare to tell your story in new thread?
I donāt think soā¦
? Is "only" explaining logical possible condition in which someone might love another person unconditionally could be called delutional ?
Unless you catch them cheating on you and continue loving them or seeing them kicking your puppy and still admiring them etc. - it is NOT unconditional love and if you are - you are delusional or mental case. Yes.
Now now, We're not talking about "my experience or yours, We're talking about "unconditional love", whether ITS stupid mental etc, its still unconditional love when someone still love the other despite every bad thing or every bad condition or situation.
Thatās the theory.
I said it is not happening in real life.
Can you prove me wrong by the example?
I could give you examples from my life. I continued to love these people I had a meaningful relationship with, in spite of the followings...
In chronological order, one point per person:
1) Lack of commitment to an exclusive relationship because "too young". On and off over the years, and dating other people in between.
2) Too much financial risk-taking on stock market, to the point of being reckless
3) Nit picking, not very attractive
4) Ghosted me to go back to his ex
5) Real narcissist with OCD who banished his mother and sister once for no reason.
6) Lying about important things
7) Nit picking, low EQ, anger issues
If you do not love them ANYMORE - it means it was NOT unconditional. That one doesnāt stop.
I DO love them though...that was the point I was making!
You love those 7 people?click to expand
Do I have to spell it? š
Y for yesterday
E for ever
S for soul
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When you care so much about the other person, so much so that you no longer care about wealth, power, or even yourself, then there you'll find unconditional love.
Usually ITS not happen instanly, but by process untill theres connection and attachment.
If the only person that make you not lonely, gave you meaning in live, the only one who truly care about you and your existence is only your lover, would not you gave anything for him/her ?
I CANā¦technically believe in this ferry tale scenario but one day you will want to eat so badly that you will become unable to stand this ANYMORE!
I had been there and I had helped and provided and understood and felt soft and sorry and tearful and found every excuse in the book and THE DAY came when I said - FUCK THAT BUM!!!
But nobody will believe that this can happen WHILE they are infatuated by that personā¦
It is like an illnessā¦drug addictionā¦someone leading you blindfolded to the promise landā¦
But pray that this journey will end BEFORE there are small kids and other shit happening.
Because WE ALL KNOW but we CHOOSE to be stupid and we believe in shit that WE KNOW is t real but itās shiny and sparkle and we want it!
Then logically that mean, you have an alternative meaning in live or in your existence and that is to keep yourself survive. I may say that is your primary meaning. And your love to your lover come second.
Don't worry though, its quite normal. Im not judging you. You have all the right to do it, to save yourself than to drown together with your lover.
I wish I knew your age and story so I can dissect it for you and exposed you as delusional person.
Will you dare to tell your story in new thread?
I donāt think soā¦
? Is "only" explaining logical possible condition in which someone might love another person unconditionally could be called delutional ?
Unless you catch them cheating on you and continue loving them or seeing them kicking your puppy and still admiring them etc. - it is NOT unconditional love and if you are - you are delusional or mental case. Yes.
Now now, We're not talking about "my experience or yours, We're talking about "unconditional love", whether ITS stupid mental etc, its still unconditional love when someone still love the other despite every bad thing or every bad condition or situation.
Thatās the theory.
I said it is not happening in real life.
Can you prove me wrong by the example?
I could give you examples from my life. I continued to love these people I had a meaningful relationship with, in spite of the followings...
In chronological order, one point per person:
1) Lack of commitment to an exclusive relationship because "too young". On and off over the years, and dating other people in between.
2) Too much financial risk-taking on stock market, to the point of being reckless
3) Nit picking, not very attractive
4) Ghosted me to go back to his ex
5) Real narcissist with OCD who banished his mother and sister once for no reason.
6) Lying about important things
7) Nit picking, low EQ, anger issues
What are your reasons for loving them?click to expand
I had reasons for liking, admiring and respecting them at the time of the relationship. I also had reasons to believe we were compatible. And finally, reasons to think we were better apart. But reasons for falling in love with someone...?
Posted by FindingbalancePosted by MareInfamePosted by Findingbalance
Y'all are thinking about it the wrong way. Unconditional love doesn't mean unconditional acceptance.
I've learned this the not so easy way. And honestly unconditional love is a really weird feeling to me tbh. It's truly knowing and accepting every part of someone as who they are, good and bad, understanding them deeply, wanting only the very best for them. All the while, knowing boundaries and also encouraging them to do better, learn more, grow, even if it's without you. It doesn't mean allowing them to do unacceptable things to you or others, to be cruel, etc. Accepting who they are doesn't mean accepting bad behavior.
And unconditional love should exist for every single person, for at least one person. Themselves. Again, it's accepting every part of yourself with love and understanding but still facing the negatives and giving yourself growth. It's saying yup, I'm a flawed human being but I love myself completely as I am, and I'm gonna work on the flaws even if I fail, I'll keep trying.
š„¹oh my goodnessā¦ you took the words from my mouth. I feel EXACTLY the same way and have also been in recent scenarios in the past few years that have made me realize how that can be, how weird it feelsā¦ coming to terms with the complexity of it. Yet, although boundaries are put in place, you still feel LOVE for them and wish the best for them. There is an existence of deep understanding and perhaps that is KEYā¦ plus, a bit of empathy, and humble acceptance that we are all flawed and just doing our best with the tools we have within his.
Yes, yes, yes - to everything you wrote š¤š¤š¤
Yes! It is so exceptionally strange at first, when you first realize what you're feeling. You wonder how on earth it's possible to feel that way.click to expand
Unconditional means accepting bad behavior.
If you donāt - there IS IT - CONDITION!!!
Posted by Kachi
Conditional love doesn't mean you love someone any less. It's the opposite.
Conditional love is acknowledging the fact that you love someone for specific reasons, flaws and all, where the feeling isn't given for just about anyone.
I don't believe in unconditional love because most of us have strong convictions towards other people but "flaws" may be similar with those in our circle.
Unless someone will say āI donāt care if they kill innocent, scam people into living on the streets or other morally unacceptable thingsā - until someone says that and mean it - it is great love, undying or whatever word BUT unconditional!
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When you care so much about the other person, so much so that you no longer care about wealth, power, or even yourself, then there you'll find unconditional love.
Usually ITS not happen instanly, but by process untill theres connection and attachment.
If the only person that make you not lonely, gave you meaning in live, the only one who truly care about you and your existence is only your lover, would not you gave anything for him/her ?
I CANā¦technically believe in this ferry tale scenario but one day you will want to eat so badly that you will become unable to stand this ANYMORE!
I had been there and I had helped and provided and understood and felt soft and sorry and tearful and found every excuse in the book and THE DAY came when I said - FUCK THAT BUM!!!
But nobody will believe that this can happen WHILE they are infatuated by that personā¦
It is like an illnessā¦drug addictionā¦someone leading you blindfolded to the promise landā¦
But pray that this journey will end BEFORE there are small kids and other shit happening.
Because WE ALL KNOW but we CHOOSE to be stupid and we believe in shit that WE KNOW is t real but itās shiny and sparkle and we want it!
Then logically that mean, you have an alternative meaning in live or in your existence and that is to keep yourself survive. I may say that is your primary meaning. And your love to your lover come second.
Don't worry though, its quite normal. Im not judging you. You have all the right to do it, to save yourself than to drown together with your lover.
I wish I knew your age and story so I can dissect it for you and exposed you as delusional person.
Will you dare to tell your story in new thread?
I donāt think soā¦
? Is "only" explaining logical possible condition in which someone might love another person unconditionally could be called delutional ?
Unless you catch them cheating on you and continue loving them or seeing them kicking your puppy and still admiring them etc. - it is NOT unconditional love and if you are - you are delusional or mental case. Yes.
Now now, We're not talking about "my experience or yours, We're talking about "unconditional love", whether ITS stupid mental etc, its still unconditional love when someone still love the other despite every bad thing or every bad condition or situation.
Thatās the theory.
I said it is not happening in real life.
Can you prove me wrong by the example?
I could give you examples from my life. I continued to love these people I had a meaningful relationship with, in spite of the followings...
In chronological order, one point per person:
1) Lack of commitment to an exclusive relationship because "too young". On and off over the years, and dating other people in between.
2) Too much financial risk-taking on stock market, to the point of being reckless
3) Nit picking, not very attractive
4) Ghosted me to go back to his ex
5) Real narcissist with OCD who banished his mother and sister once for no reason.
6) Lying about important things
7) Nit picking, low EQ, anger issues
What are your reasons for loving them?
I had reasons for liking, admiring and respecting them at the time of the relationship. I also had reasons to believe we were compatible. And finally, reasons to think we were better apart. But reasons for falling in love with someone...?click to expand
Do you STILL love all of them?
If love is gone it means it was NOT unconditional.
I pray you donāt love them all stillā¦
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When you care so much about the other person, so much so that you no longer care about wealth, power, or even yourself, then there you'll find unconditional love.
Usually ITS not happen instanly, but by process untill theres connection and attachment.
If the only person that make you not lonely, gave you meaning in live, the only one who truly care about you and your existence is only your lover, would not you gave anything for him/her ?
I CANā¦technically believe in this ferry tale scenario but one day you will want to eat so badly that you will become unable to stand this ANYMORE!
I had been there and I had helped and provided and understood and felt soft and sorry and tearful and found every excuse in the book and THE DAY came when I said - FUCK THAT BUM!!!
But nobody will believe that this can happen WHILE they are infatuated by that personā¦
It is like an illnessā¦drug addictionā¦someone leading you blindfolded to the promise landā¦
But pray that this journey will end BEFORE there are small kids and other shit happening.
Because WE ALL KNOW but we CHOOSE to be stupid and we believe in shit that WE KNOW is t real but itās shiny and sparkle and we want it!
Then logically that mean, you have an alternative meaning in live or in your existence and that is to keep yourself survive. I may say that is your primary meaning. And your love to your lover come second.
Don't worry though, its quite normal. Im not judging you. You have all the right to do it, to save yourself than to drown together with your lover.
I wish I knew your age and story so I can dissect it for you and exposed you as delusional person.
Will you dare to tell your story in new thread?
I donāt think soā¦
? Is "only" explaining logical possible condition in which someone might love another person unconditionally could be called delutional ?
Unless you catch them cheating on you and continue loving them or seeing them kicking your puppy and still admiring them etc. - it is NOT unconditional love and if you are - you are delusional or mental case. Yes.
Now now, We're not talking about "my experience or yours, We're talking about "unconditional love", whether ITS stupid mental etc, its still unconditional love when someone still love the other despite every bad thing or every bad condition or situation.
Thatās the theory.
I said it is not happening in real life.
Can you prove me wrong by the example?
I could give you examples from my life. I continued to love these people I had a meaningful relationship with, in spite of the followings...
In chronological order, one point per person:
1) Lack of commitment to an exclusive relationship because "too young". On and off over the years, and dating other people in between.
2) Too much financial risk-taking on stock market, to the point of being reckless
3) Nit picking, not very attractive
4) Ghosted me to go back to his ex
5) Real narcissist with OCD who banished his mother and sister once for no reason.
6) Lying about important things
7) Nit picking, low EQ, anger issues
What are your reasons for loving them?
I had reasons for liking, admiring and respecting them at the time of the relationship. I also had reasons to believe we were compatible. And finally, reasons to think we were better apart. But reasons for falling in love with someone...?
Do you STILL love all of them?
If love is gone it means it was NOT unconditional.
I pray you donāt love them all stillā¦click to expand
Some people would not take "yes" for an answer š
You see, when one is able to love unconditionally, that person is at peace with their feelings. This is because they don't have to look for reasons, overthink, make lists, tick boxes, waste precious emotional energy. So, you don't need to pray for me. It is there or it's not there. EFFORTLESSLY! A source of wellbeing, nevertheless š
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When you care so much about the other person, so much so that you no longer care about wealth, power, or even yourself, then there you'll find unconditional love.
Usually ITS not happen instanly, but by process untill theres connection and attachment.
If the only person that make you not lonely, gave you meaning in live, the only one who truly care about you and your existence is only your lover, would not you gave anything for him/her ?
I CANā¦technically believe in this ferry tale scenario but one day you will want to eat so badly that you will become unable to stand this ANYMORE!
I had been there and I had helped and provided and understood and felt soft and sorry and tearful and found every excuse in the book and THE DAY came when I said - FUCK THAT BUM!!!
But nobody will believe that this can happen WHILE they are infatuated by that personā¦
It is like an illnessā¦drug addictionā¦someone leading you blindfolded to the promise landā¦
But pray that this journey will end BEFORE there are small kids and other shit happening.
Because WE ALL KNOW but we CHOOSE to be stupid and we believe in shit that WE KNOW is t real but itās shiny and sparkle and we want it!
Then logically that mean, you have an alternative meaning in live or in your existence and that is to keep yourself survive. I may say that is your primary meaning. And your love to your lover come second.
Don't worry though, its quite normal. Im not judging you. You have all the right to do it, to save yourself than to drown together with your lover.
I wish I knew your age and story so I can dissect it for you and exposed you as delusional person.
Will you dare to tell your story in new thread?
I donāt think soā¦
? Is "only" explaining logical possible condition in which someone might love another person unconditionally could be called delutional ?
Unless you catch them cheating on you and continue loving them or seeing them kicking your puppy and still admiring them etc. - it is NOT unconditional love and if you are - you are delusional or mental case. Yes.
Now now, We're not talking about "my experience or yours, We're talking about "unconditional love", whether ITS stupid mental etc, its still unconditional love when someone still love the other despite every bad thing or every bad condition or situation.
Thatās the theory.
I said it is not happening in real life.
Can you prove me wrong by the example?
I could give you examples from my life. I continued to love these people I had a meaningful relationship with, in spite of the followings...
In chronological order, one point per person:
1) Lack of commitment to an exclusive relationship because "too young". On and off over the years, and dating other people in between.
2) Too much financial risk-taking on stock market, to the point of being reckless
3) Nit picking, not very attractive
4) Ghosted me to go back to his ex
5) Real narcissist with OCD who banished his mother and sister once for no reason.
6) Lying about important things
7) Nit picking, low EQ, anger issues
What are your reasons for loving them?
I had reasons for liking, admiring and respecting them at the time of the relationship. I also had reasons to believe we were compatible. And finally, reasons to think we were better apart. But reasons for falling in love with someone...?
Do you STILL love all of them?
If love is gone it means it was NOT unconditional.
I pray you donāt love them all stillā¦
Some people would not take "yes" for an answer š
You see, when one is able to love unconditionally, that person is at peace with their feelings. This is because they don't have to look for reasons, overthink, make lists, tick boxes, waste precious emotional energy. So, you don't need to pray for me. It is there or it's not there. EFFORTLESSLY! A source of wellbeing, nevertheless šclick to expand
I am learning by asking questions. And I am very curious if you love all of them people.
And if you are - then we talking about completely different love.
I also do love my exes. My love to them is for because they never hurt me. I am remembering them fondly. I would NOT however give my kidney to save themā¦because I need my kidney to live life and serve those I love unconditionally TODAY being fully aware that it might not last forever but today I am fully invested in my child and my mother and I wonāt put anyone I loveD in my past before them.
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When you care so much about the other person, so much so that you no longer care about wealth, power, or even yourself, then there you'll find unconditional love.
Usually ITS not happen instanly, but by process untill theres connection and attachment.
If the only person that make you not lonely, gave you meaning in live, the only one who truly care about you and your existence is only your lover, would not you gave anything for him/her ?
I CANā¦technically believe in this ferry tale scenario but one day you will want to eat so badly that you will become unable to stand this ANYMORE!
I had been there and I had helped and provided and understood and felt soft and sorry and tearful and found every excuse in the book and THE DAY came when I said - FUCK THAT BUM!!!
But nobody will believe that this can happen WHILE they are infatuated by that personā¦
It is like an illnessā¦drug addictionā¦someone leading you blindfolded to the promise landā¦
But pray that this journey will end BEFORE there are small kids and other shit happening.
Because WE ALL KNOW but we CHOOSE to be stupid and we believe in shit that WE KNOW is t real but itās shiny and sparkle and we want it!
Then logically that mean, you have an alternative meaning in live or in your existence and that is to keep yourself survive. I may say that is your primary meaning. And your love to your lover come second.
Don't worry though, its quite normal. Im not judging you. You have all the right to do it, to save yourself than to drown together with your lover.
I wish I knew your age and story so I can dissect it for you and exposed you as delusional person.
Will you dare to tell your story in new thread?
I donāt think soā¦
? Is "only" explaining logical possible condition in which someone might love another person unconditionally could be called delutional ?
Unless you catch them cheating on you and continue loving them or seeing them kicking your puppy and still admiring them etc. - it is NOT unconditional love and if you are - you are delusional or mental case. Yes.
Now now, We're not talking about "my experience or yours, We're talking about "unconditional love", whether ITS stupid mental etc, its still unconditional love when someone still love the other despite every bad thing or every bad condition or situation.
Thatās the theory.
I said it is not happening in real life.
Can you prove me wrong by the example?
I could give you examples from my life. I continued to love these people I had a meaningful relationship with, in spite of the followings...
In chronological order, one point per person:
1) Lack of commitment to an exclusive relationship because "too young". On and off over the years, and dating other people in between.
2) Too much financial risk-taking on stock market, to the point of being reckless
3) Nit picking, not very attractive
4) Ghosted me to go back to his ex
5) Real narcissist with OCD who banished his mother and sister once for no reason.
6) Lying about important things
7) Nit picking, low EQ, anger issues
What are your reasons for loving them?
I had reasons for liking, admiring and respecting them at the time of the relationship. I also had reasons to believe we were compatible. And finally, reasons to think we were better apart. But reasons for falling in love with someone...?
Do you STILL love all of them?
If love is gone it means it was NOT unconditional.
I pray you donāt love them all stillā¦
Some people would not take "yes" for an answer š
You see, when one is able to love unconditionally, that person is at peace with their feelings. This is because they don't have to look for reasons, overthink, make lists, tick boxes, waste precious emotional energy. So, you don't need to pray for me. It is there or it's not there. EFFORTLESSLY! A source of wellbeing, nevertheless š
I am learning by asking questions. And I am very curious if you love all of them people.
And if you are - then we talking about completely different love.
I also do love my exes. My love to them is for because they never hurt me. I am remembering them fondly. I would NOT however give my kidney to save themā¦because I need my kidney to live life and serve those I love unconditionally TODAY being fully aware that it might not last forever but today I am fully invested in my child and my mother and I wonāt put anyone I loveD in my past before them.click to expand
"because I need my kidney to live life and serve those I love unconditionally", and here i thought you thought unconditional love does not exist. :x
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When you care so much about the other person, so much so that you no longer care about wealth, power, or even yourself, then there you'll find unconditional love.
Usually ITS not happen instanly, but by process untill theres connection and attachment.
If the only person that make you not lonely, gave you meaning in live, the only one who truly care about you and your existence is only your lover, would not you gave anything for him/her ?
I CANā¦technically believe in this ferry tale scenario but one day you will want to eat so badly that you will become unable to stand this ANYMORE!
I had been there and I had helped and provided and understood and felt soft and sorry and tearful and found every excuse in the book and THE DAY came when I said - FUCK THAT BUM!!!
But nobody will believe that this can happen WHILE they are infatuated by that personā¦
It is like an illnessā¦drug addictionā¦someone leading you blindfolded to the promise landā¦
But pray that this journey will end BEFORE there are small kids and other shit happening.
Because WE ALL KNOW but we CHOOSE to be stupid and we believe in shit that WE KNOW is t real but itās shiny and sparkle and we want it!
Then logically that mean, you have an alternative meaning in live or in your existence and that is to keep yourself survive. I may say that is your primary meaning. And your love to your lover come second.
Don't worry though, its quite normal. Im not judging you. You have all the right to do it, to save yourself than to drown together with your lover.
I wish I knew your age and story so I can dissect it for you and exposed you as delusional person.
Will you dare to tell your story in new thread?
I donāt think soā¦
? Is "only" explaining logical possible condition in which someone might love another person unconditionally could be called delutional ?
Unless you catch them cheating on you and continue loving them or seeing them kicking your puppy and still admiring them etc. - it is NOT unconditional love and if you are - you are delusional or mental case. Yes.
Now now, We're not talking about "my experience or yours, We're talking about "unconditional love", whether ITS stupid mental etc, its still unconditional love when someone still love the other despite every bad thing or every bad condition or situation.
Thatās the theory.
I said it is not happening in real life.
Can you prove me wrong by the example?
I could give you examples from my life. I continued to love these people I had a meaningful relationship with, in spite of the followings...
In chronological order, one point per person:
1) Lack of commitment to an exclusive relationship because "too young". On and off over the years, and dating other people in between.
2) Too much financial risk-taking on stock market, to the point of being reckless
3) Nit picking, not very attractive
4) Ghosted me to go back to his ex
5) Real narcissist with OCD who banished his mother and sister once for no reason.
6) Lying about important things
7) Nit picking, low EQ, anger issues
What are your reasons for loving them?
I had reasons for liking, admiring and respecting them at the time of the relationship. I also had reasons to believe we were compatible. And finally, reasons to think we were better apart. But reasons for falling in love with someone...?
Do you STILL love all of them?
If love is gone it means it was NOT unconditional.
I pray you donāt love them all stillā¦
Some people would not take "yes" for an answer š
You see, when one is able to love unconditionally, that person is at peace with their feelings. This is because they don't have to look for reasons, overthink, make lists, tick boxes, waste precious emotional energy. So, you don't need to pray for me. It is there or it's not there. EFFORTLESSLY! A source of wellbeing, nevertheless š
I am learning by asking questions. And I am very curious if you love all of them people.
And if you are - then we talking about completely different love.
I also do love my exes. My love to them is for because they never hurt me. I am remembering them fondly. I would NOT however give my kidney to save themā¦because I need my kidney to live life and serve those I love unconditionally TODAY being fully aware that it might not last forever but today I am fully invested in my child and my mother and I wonāt put anyone I loveD in my past before them.
"because I need my kidney to live life and serve those I love unconditionally", and here i thought you thought unconditional love does not exist. :xclick to expand
Ok. You right AND misunderstand at the same time. I AM willing to do anything for my loved once whom I love unconditionally as we speak HOWEVER this love is not guarantee IF shitty condition will apply and they fall out of my grace at any point in our lives. And yes I am using word āunconditionallyā but it is incorrect. I would say āwhile meeting certain conditionsā
i'm sorry but these are just so š¤£š¤£
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