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This topic was created in the Miscellaneous forum by Libra8751 on Tuesday, June 14, 2016 and has 34 replies.

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After 8 months of brkup we met n had sex. .
I said I love you...
He was quiet...
(he is still with his ex)
I told him its wrong... He can't be with me n her at the same time... he is in a rlnshp with her then he needs to commit to her n stop seeing me...
He replied I was ryt...
So I asked him. . "Whom do you love more? Me or her?"
He replied" both equally... . "
I asked" what's wrong with our rlnshp? "
He replied" nothing"
I said". Leave her then "
He replied" I don't want another brkup ( referring to his present Rlnshp with his ex) "
I told him" I can't keep waiting lyk this.".
He replied " right"
I said" I ll leave you if you are so confused... Coz whatever is going on is not right.. "
He asked "what do u want? Whom should I choose?
I replied" I want you.. N obviously I m not so great that I ll ask u to choose her.. So come back to me "
He smiled... Then he said" my life is a complete mess"
I said". It's alright I ll leave you ... We won't be in contact after that. . Coz if you choose me.. You needs to commit n if u choose her you ll never see me again "
After saying this I was abt to cry bt I looked at him n he had tears too... Bt we both looked away n didn't cry....
He replied" I need to think abt it "
I said" yes.. Do it fast.. .I can't take it anymore.. It's been too much drama "
After that the topic changed.
The end

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10 YearsLibra

Posted by Ellycakes
Well you're kinda sharing now.

You're just taking turns instead of everyone fucking each other lol.

He is not fucking her. .. We were in a rlnshp for abt 2+yr
Then we had a big fight .. He started texting his ex... I came to knw abt it... So we took a brk to decide what we want ... Now it's 8+months

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Posted by Ellycakes
I bet he tells her he's not fucking you.

Dude has two women on his line for 8 months, doesn't settle to choose and commit to one exclusively and he claims to love them *equally* and he's only having sex with one of them?

Yeah. He loves them equally.


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He doesn't fuck her coz she is not here.. She stays in a diff country for studies...

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Posted by libraqueen
I think he just likes you for sex. And the other girl is making him work for it, so he actually wants her and not you. And she knows it that's why she doesn't care if he sleeps with you or not.

Honestly sex is my own decision.. we had been in a rlnshp for 2+yr ... N he was in a rlnshp with that girl when they were kids.... When our rlnshp was breaking she showed up to give sympathy to him.. That's how they ended up in a rlnshp...

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10 YearsLibra

Posted by tiziani
Sounds like he mentally checked out of the conversation near the beginning, if not earlier.

Let's face it: no one likes to be told they're living wrong.

Hahahah correct... He started paying attention when I told him I ll leave him..

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Posted by Ellycakes
There's more than one way to have a sexual relationship. It doesn't require physical presence at all times. There's an entire internet industry dedicated to such lol.

You seem to believe you've already won his affections and he just doesn't know it yet. At least from how you speak on the matter. Which if that were true, you'd be with him, enjoying him and him enjoying you. But that isn't the case currently, is it? Instead you two are sharing dramatic teary eyed glances and you have no real answers.

Yup true.. I m not letting it go.. Until n unless he gives me a clear answer.... Once I m done I ll move on.. . I did it with my first Gemini bf too.. I waited 4yrs for him... N then when I was finally over.. I met this leo.. N then the Gemini guy came back saying how much he loves me lol..... Bt by that tym I was completely over him

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Posted by Libra8751
After 8 months of brkup we met n had sex. .
I said I love you...
He was quiet...
(he is still with his ex)
I told him its wrong... He can't be with me n her at the same time... he is in a rlnshp with her then he needs to commit to her n stop seeing me...
He replied I was ryt...
So I asked him. . "Whom do you love more? Me or her?"
He replied" both equally... . "
I asked" what's wrong with our rlnshp? "
He replied" nothing"
I said". Leave her then "
He replied" I don't want another brkup ( referring to his present Rlnshp with his ex) "
I told him" I can't keep waiting lyk this.".
He replied " right"
I said" I ll leave you if you are so confused... Coz whatever is going on is not right.. "
He asked "what do u want? Whom should I choose?
I replied" I want you.. N obviously I m not so great that I ll ask u to choose her.. So come back to me "
He smiled... Then he said" my life is a complete mess"
I said". It's alright I ll leave you ... We won't be in contact after that. . Coz if you choose me.. You needs to commit n if u choose her you ll never see me again "
After saying this I was abt to cry bt I looked at him n he had tears too... Bt we both looked away n didn't cry....
He replied" I need to think abt it "
I said" yes.. Do it fast.. .I can't take it anymore.. It's been too much drama "
After that the topic changed.
The end

WTH would you willingly have sex with someone who's in a relationship with someone else?

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Posted by truecap
Posted by Libra8751
After 8 months of brkup we met n had sex. .
I said I love you...
He was quiet...
(he is still with his ex)
I told him its wrong... He can't be with me n her at the same time... he is in a rlnshp with her then he needs to commit to her n stop seeing me...
He replied I was ryt...
So I asked him. . "Whom do you love more? Me or her?"
He replied" both equally... . "
I asked" what's wrong with our rlnshp? "
He replied" nothing"
I said". Leave her then "
He replied" I don't want another brkup ( referring to his present Rlnshp with his ex) "
I told him" I can't keep waiting lyk this.".
He replied " right"
I said" I ll leave you if you are so confused... Coz whatever is going on is not right.. "
He asked "what do u want? Whom should I choose?
I replied" I want you.. N obviously I m not so great that I ll ask u to choose her.. So come back to me "
He smiled... Then he said" my life is a complete mess"
I said". It's alright I ll leave you ... We won't be in contact after that. . Coz if you choose me.. You needs to commit n if u choose her you ll never see me again "
After saying this I was abt to cry bt I looked at him n he had tears too... Bt we both looked away n didn't cry....
He replied" I need to think abt it "
I said" yes.. Do it fast.. .I can't take it anymore.. It's been too much drama "
After that the topic changed.
The end

WTH would you willingly have sex with someone who's in a relationship with someone else?

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Hmmm we already had sex a hell lot of tym... We lost our virginity to each other... He is not a stranger... I m not stealing anyone.... The girl came in-between when we were solving our problems.... Idk.. I don't think it's wrong... It might sound wrong to u

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Posted by libraqueen
I think he just likes you for sex. And the other girl is making him work for it, so he actually wants her and not you. And she knows it that's why she doesn't care if he sleeps with you or not.

Once the other girl finally caves in, then he'll dump the OP because he won't need her for sex anymore. Typical man.

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Posted by Explicit
You're 20 years old. Why are you doing this to yourself? You're not married, you don't have kids with this man, you don't deserve this. There is no reason for you to be in this position.

And why are you letting this asshole play you like this? He goes home to his girlfriend, fucks her, has a relationship with her, and when he gets bored he can go to you and screw you? What the hell? Doesn't that piss you off?

Leave him and do it now. "I need to think about it..." Think about what? If he loves you and wants you there's nothing to think about. He's just selfish.

It's hard to move on.... Stupid love

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Posted by Libra8751
Posted by truecap
Posted by Libra8751
After 8 months of brkup we met n had sex. .
I said I love you...
He was quiet...
(he is still with his ex)
I told him its wrong... He can't be with me n her at the same time... he is in a rlnshp with her then he needs to commit to her n stop seeing me...
He replied I was ryt...
So I asked him. . "Whom do you love more? Me or her?"
He replied" both equally... . "
I asked" what's wrong with our rlnshp? "
He replied" nothing"
I said". Leave her then "
He replied" I don't want another brkup ( referring to his present Rlnshp with his ex) "
I told him" I can't keep waiting lyk this.".
He replied " right"
I said" I ll leave you if you are so confused... Coz whatever is going on is not right.. "
He asked "what do u want? Whom should I choose?
I replied" I want you.. N obviously I m not so great that I ll ask u to choose her.. So come back to me "
He smiled... Then he said" my life is a complete mess"
I said". It's alright I ll leave you ... We won't be in contact after that. . Coz if you choose me.. You needs to commit n if u choose her you ll never see me again "
After saying this I was abt to cry bt I looked at him n he had tears too... Bt we both looked away n didn't cry....
He replied" I need to think abt it "
I said" yes.. Do it fast.. .I can't take it anymore.. It's been too much drama "
After that the topic changed.
The end

WTH would you willingly have sex with someone who's in a relationship with someone else?

Hmmm we already had sex a hell lot of tym... We lost our virginity to each other... He is not a stranger... I m not stealing anyone.... The girl came in-between when we were solving our problems.... Idk.. I don't think it's wrong... It might sound wrong to u

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I didn't say it was wrong, I'm just wondering why you'd set yourself up for heartache like that.

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Posted by truecap
Posted by libraqueen
I think he just likes you for sex. And the other girl is making him work for it, so he actually wants her and not you. And she knows it that's why she doesn't care if he sleeps with you or not.

Once the other girl finally caves in, then he'll dump the OP because he won't need her for sex anymore. Typical man.

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I ll kill him.... Don't worry œ

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Posted by truecap
Posted by Libra8751
Posted by truecap
Posted by Libra8751
After 8 months of brkup we met n had sex. .
I said I love you...
He was quiet...
(he is still with his ex)
I told him its wrong... He can't be with me n her at the same time... he is in a rlnshp with her then he needs to commit to her n stop seeing me...
He replied I was ryt...
So I asked him. . "Whom do you love more? Me or her?"
He replied" both equally... . "
I asked" what's wrong with our rlnshp? "
He replied" nothing"
I said". Leave her then "
He replied" I don't want another brkup ( referring to his present Rlnshp with his ex) "
I told him" I can't keep waiting lyk this.".
He replied " right"
I said" I ll leave you if you are so confused... Coz whatever is going on is not right.. "
He asked "what do u want? Whom should I choose?
I replied" I want you.. N obviously I m not so great that I ll ask u to choose her.. So come back to me "
He smiled... Then he said" my life is a complete mess"
I said". It's alright I ll leave you ... We won't be in contact after that. . Coz if you choose me.. You needs to commit n if u choose her you ll never see me again "
After saying this I was abt to cry bt I looked at him n he had tears too... Bt we both looked away n didn't cry....
He replied" I need to think abt it "
I said" yes.. Do it fast.. .I can't take it anymore.. It's been too much drama "
After that the topic changed.
The end

WTH would you willingly have sex with someone who's in a relationship with someone else?

Hmmm we already had sex a hell lot of tym... We lost our virginity to each other... He is not a stranger... I m not stealing anyone.... The girl came in-between when we were solving our problems.... Idk.. I don't think it's wrong... It might sound wrong to u

I didn't say it was wrong, I'm just wondering why you'd set yourself up for heartache like that.

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Stupid stupid stupid love

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Jesus! Are WE (Pisceans) the ONLY zodiac sign that when we server all ties do not go back to ANY of our exes—? To US it's like leaving our trash can out on the curb.....on trash day here comes the dump truck. We do NOT run after said truck to say, "I want my trash back! Didn't mean to toss it out!". Said metaphor.

BLAH! 😕

🤗 cyber hug!

Love,

Eva

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I put it up in miscellaneous coz it's no use putting it in
Leo or
libra or
astrology or
astrology+relationship... Blah.. .
the title is "." it's not" how to get my leo man back"...
I m not asking for an advice... I might come back within a month n make a thread" he left me"
So what!!! u can't help it neither can i.... I can deal with the heartbreak.. All i need is to make it end in a decent way.....i don't want to hate him
I just wanted to let my feelings out.. I really can't go to my frnds n tell them abt this.. So i wrote it here.
Nobody lyks this shit... Neither do i... Bt it's going on in my life.. N i m dealing with it.. All i can do is to wait n let things get clear up.
So i ll just sort out everything n leave.

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Posted by Foreverloveme
Posted by EvatheDiva
Jesus! Are WE (Pisceans) the ONLY zodiac sign that when we server all ties do not go back to ANY of our exes—? To US it's like leaving our trash can out on the curb.....on trash day here comes the dump truck. We do NOT run after said truck to say, "I want my trash back! Didn't mean to toss it out!". Said metaphor.

BLAH! 😕

🤗 cyber hug!

Love,

Eva

Lol my Pisces actually wanted back in. So Pisces is disqualified as well

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99.99 and 44/100 % (exception to your Piscean)....we don't 🤗 cyber hug!

Love,

Eva

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Posted by tiziani
Posted by Libra8751
I put it up in miscellaneous coz it's no use putting it in
Leo or
libra or
astrology or
astrology+relationship... Blah.. .
the title is "." it's not" how to get my leo man back"...
I m not asking for an advice... I might come back within a month n make a thread" he left me"
So what!!! u can't help it neither can i.... I can deal with the heartbreak.. All i need is to make it end in a decent way.....i don't want to hate him
I just wanted to let my feelings out.. I really can't go to my frnds n tell them abt this.. So i wrote it here.
Nobody lyks this shit... Neither do i... Bt it's going on in my life.. N i m dealing with it.. All i can do is to wait n let things get clear up.
So i ll just sort out everything n leave.

That's understandable. You just made people afraid that this is going to happen to them.

Sex is a sensitive subject.

Good luck, never be jaded. There's no coming back from full jadedness.

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I wont... †