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Being one or around a Narcissist isn't a bad thing you just ignore them they seem to hate that :3 with relationships gtfo RUN bc you are being worn down by someone who is self centered lets be honest.
Did you date one?
If so, what was that like?
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Please don't tell me you lost a lot of your time and money to these monsters.
There are stories out there of victims (men and women alike) who lost years of their lives with these psychopathic losers, as well as a ton of money.
Posted by AnOdeToNoOne
Did you date one?If so, what was that like?
Be careful! Charming at first! But narcissistic people will not help anybody but themselves that's the truth. I have lived with narcissists it tends too be normal for me since my father is one and my mother seems to date them but I think its just a personality thing.
Posted by badgalbee
Posted by AnOdeToNoOne
😢Please don't tell me you lost a lot of your time and money to these monsters.
There are stories out there of victims (men and women alike) who lost years of their lives with these psychopathic losers, as well as a ton of money.
I most definitely lost years and money!
The virgo I lost 5 years and two children (I had abortions) and
The capricorn 1 year.
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That is terrible. Did you completely get away from these monsters?
Posted by Swagittarius
Posted by AnOdeToNoOne
Did you date one?If so, what was that like?
Be careful! Charming at first! But narcissistic people will not help anybody but themselves that's the truth. I have lived with narcissists it tends too be normal for me since my father is one and my mother seems to date them but I think its just a personality thing.
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Yeah, I believe you. One major red flag I have noticed is that they tend to have 5000 photos on social media accounts. 4,999 of those photos are selfies.
Yup. Dated many...pretty much ALWAYS borderline or npd. I have no contact with any of them as they are all insane. It was horrible and heart wrenching. Always pretending like they cared but instead they were totally self absorbed insensitive assholes who would gas light me and blame me for everything...flip out, be abusive etc. Wish there was an island we could exile them all to.
Posted by badgalbee
Wow!Idealize, devalue, discard.
You see this M.O. on the Libra forum all the time. It's textbook in most of those situations. Seems to be the case across this website though since everyone is here for advice for shitty dude behavior.
It's funny seeing this thread, considering I made this one a little over a week ago.
I have a family member who has this.
He became so dangerous that we all took distance from him.
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Im scared that im one sometimes. Sighs.
Then it wouldn't be that bad 😛
Posted by risesafterall
I have a family member who has this.
He became so dangerous that we all took distance from him.
That, unfortunately, is what one ultimately has to do with regard to a narcissist.
Exile them to a desert island when it comes to your interactions with them, as they will only destroy the very fabric of your soul if you are not careful.
Several people here on DXP have unfortunately been through this, and can attest to just how dangerous these people really are.
I once read that if the narcissist loses power and control over you, then they will seek to destroy your character by talking shit about you and the people you care about.
Posted by AnOdeToNoOne
Posted by risesafterall
I have a family member who has this.
He became so dangerous that we all took distance from him.
That, unfortunately, is what one ultimately has to do with regard to a narcissist.
Exile them to a desert island when it comes to your interactions with them, as they will only destroy the very fabric of your soul if you are not careful.
Several people here on DXP have unfortunately been through this, and can attest to just how dangerous these people really are.
I once read that if the narcissist loses power and control over you, then they will seek to destroy your character by talking shit about you and the people you care about.
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Oh we've been through it already, you don't want to know...
Idealize, devalue, discard.
Isn't that the natural trajectory of all failed relationships?
I love you.
I don't like you so much anymore.
I don't want to be with you anymore.
Posted by ElleDuMonde
The hyperbolic irony of these "Narcissist" threads are pure entertainment..........being we are on a message board where all we do is spew personal opinions all day long and when those opinions aren't validated in some form, 80% + of those users resort to belittling others with name calling to give them a sense of self importance.
What exactly do you call that?
Every human being is designed to have an element of narcissism to their footprint.
Those that cry the loudest are typically the ones that are horribly unaware of that piece of themselves and project it onto others the hardest.
There is no need to be an asshole who tries to detract from the subject matter or conversation itself.
People are discussing experiences, research and fair-minded observations based on the NPD problem that is only growing worse with each passing day.
Since you are not contributing anything worth discussing to this board, feel free to fuck off.
Posted by CapTenn
Idealize, devalue, discard.Isn't that the natural trajectory of all failed relationships?
I love you.
I don't like you so much anymore.
I don't want to be with you anymore.
The narcissist typically only uses people for some kind of gain.
If the gain is no longer available, the narcissist will attempt to discard the person much like a person discards old shoes.
Posted by ElleDuMonde
Posted by AnOdeToNoOne
Posted by ElleDuMonde
The hyperbolic irony of these "Narcissist" threads are pure entertainment..........being we are on a message board where all we do is spew personal opinions all day long and when those opinions aren't validated in some form, 80% + of those users resort to belittling others with name calling to give them a sense of self importance.
What exactly do you call that?
Every human being is designed to have an element of narcissism to their footprint.
Those that cry the loudest are typically the ones that are horribly unaware of that piece of themselves and project it onto others the hardest.
There is no need to be an asshole who tries to detract from the subject matter or conversation itself.
People are discussing experiences, research and fair-minded observations based on the NPD problem that is only growing worse with each passing day.
Since you are not contributing anything worth discussing to this board, feel free to fuck off.
...and it's very rich of you to want to take these 'victims' under your wing, scorpiofish....as you are one who has a substantial problem with self awareness yourself.
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Elle, you of all people should talk about victims.
Shall we discuss that poor girl that you and your pals cyberstalked a while back?
Shall we discuss the phone calls you made to her work place?
Fuck off, you psychotic bitch.
I agree, if you haven't experienced this then you have no idea what you are talking about. You are entitled to your opinion as we are. And yes, we all have traits of everything I do not disagree with that. The OP is talking about real experiences with real people who have real personality disorders. If you haven't walked in everyone's shoes on this earth, you have no right to say they are wrong.
Posted by tcta
I agree, if you haven't experienced this then you have no idea what you are talking about. You are entitled to your opinion as we are. And yes, we all have traits of everything I do not disagree with that. The OP is talking about real experiences with real people who have real personality disorders. If you haven't walked in everyone's shoes on this earth, you have no right to say they are wrong.
Yes.
Please keep in mind that DXP is home to some of the nastiest people on the internet, and Elle is only solidifying my point.
She needs to get the fuck off of my board before, as she is only reinforcing my point about creeps like her.
Posted by ElleDuMonde
Posted by tcta
I agree, if you haven't experienced this then you have no idea what you are talking about. You are entitled to your opinion as we are. And yes, we all have traits of everything I do not disagree with that. The OP is talking about real experiences with real people who have real personality disorders. If you haven't walked in everyone's shoes on this earth, you have no right to say they are wrong.The OP is a predator on this site and has been for years.
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You are a liar, and everyone knows it.
For you to attempt to assassinate my character is laughable.
Posted by AnOdeToNoOne
Posted by CapTenn
Idealize, devalue, discard.Isn't that the natural trajectory of all failed relationships?
I love you.
I don't like you so much anymore.
I don't want to be with you anymore.
The narcissist typically only uses people for some kind of gain.
If the gain is no longer available, the narcissist will attempt to discard the person much like a person discards old shoes.
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That's my ex-wife in a nutshell.
I thought it was just me -- until I watched her do the same thing to the next husband, and now her current boyfriend.
I'm out of this dramafest - later!
Posted by ElleDuMonde
Posted by AnOdeToNoOne
Posted by ElleDuMonde
Posted by tcta
I agree, if you haven't experienced this then you have no idea what you are talking about. You are entitled to your opinion as we are. And yes, we all have traits of everything I do not disagree with that. The OP is talking about real experiences with real people who have real personality disorders. If you haven't walked in everyone's shoes on this earth, you have no right to say they are wrong.The OP is a predator on this site and has been for years.
You are a liar, and everyone knows it.
For you to attempt to assassinate my character is laughable.
we'll see. *shrugs*
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See what?
The fact that you are a pathological liar who attempts to trash my character?
....And the fact that you are telling lies about me is done purely out of spite because I know the truth about you?
Be gone, you psychopathic cyberstalking POS.
No one, worth talking to, wants you here.
Posted by ElleDuMonde
you can only keep your composure for so long........I have popcorn ready....no worries.
You are trash, and I know the truth about you.
No amount of lies from your sorry ass will ever change that.
Posted by CapTenn
Posted by AnOdeToNoOne
Posted by CapTenn
Idealize, devalue, discard.Isn't that the natural trajectory of all failed relationships?
I love you.
I don't like you so much anymore.
I don't want to be with you anymore.
The narcissist typically only uses people for some kind of gain.
If the gain is no longer available, the narcissist will attempt to discard the person much like a person discards old shoes.
That's my ex-wife in a nutshell.
I thought it was just me -- until I watched her do the same thing to the next husband, and now her current boyfriend.
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A Leopard cannot change it's spots.
Unfortunately for anyone connected to a narcissist, the pattern of conduct is usually the same no matter who falls prey to them.
Elle, you are the very definition of a psychopath.
I, and a few others here, know that you cyberstalked that girl, and even harassed her at work by triangulating her telephone number.
You are not fooling anyone with your lies about who I am and what I believe.
You will not deflect from the truth of the matter no matter how much you try to spin things.
You are proof that Satan exists, and I will always expose you as such.
Fuck off, you psychotic bitch.
You will never deflect the truth about what you did to that girl, Elle.
Never.
So long as I am alive, that will never happen.
You have basically converted a board that was meant for open discussion on narcissistic personality disorder, and transformed it into a rat trap for yourself.
The more you deflect, the more you show yourself as the subject matter itself.
Keep it up.
You are doing a great job making my point.
Posted by badgalbee
Wow!Idealize, devalue, discard.
My relationship with a Virgoo and my last romantic interaction with a Capricorn.
They both idealized me, oh i love you youre amazing.
To: devaluing me you're a whore, you're dumb, ...
And then finally: Discard. The virgo broke up and the capricorn told me he would never see a future with me and to stop calling him or texting him and he would only want sex from me if I were to continue interacting with him calling etc.
I bet deep down that you like getting treated like the worthless slut that you are, dont You?
Posted by ElleDuMonde
Posted by CapTenn
Idealize, devalue, discard.Isn't that the natural trajectory of all failed relationships?
I love you.
I don't like you so much anymore.
I don't want to be with you anymore.
watch yourself.
you'll need to redo your business cards to add Narcissist to your title.
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YIKES! Indeed!
Thank you for calling the Narcissism Victim Hotline! I'm here for you. Let me heal you.
Posted by Quantum
Thank you for calling the Narcissism Victim Hotline! I'm here for you. Let me heal you.
lol but a narcissism victim never heals ...
Posted by tcta
Posted by Quantum
Thank you for calling the Narcissism Victim Hotline! I'm here for you. Let me heal you.
lol but a narcissism victim never heals ...
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Depends...are they Camp 1 or Camp 2?
Posted by Quantum
Posted by tcta
Posted by Quantum
Thank you for calling the Narcissism Victim Hotline! I'm here for you. Let me heal you.
lol but a narcissism victim never heals ...
Depends...are they Camp 1 or Camp 2?
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I don't follow?
Posted by tcta
Posted by Quantum
Posted by tcta
Posted by Quantum
Thank you for calling the Narcissism Victim Hotline! I'm here for you. Let me heal you.
lol but a narcissism victim never heals ...
Depends...are they Camp 1 or Camp 2?
I don't follow?
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It's okay.
You're not missing out.
Posted by Quantum
Posted by tcta
Posted by Quantum
Posted by tcta
Posted by Quantum
Thank you for calling the Narcissism Victim Hotline! I'm here for you. Let me heal you.
lol but a narcissism victim never heals ...
Depends...are they Camp 1 or Camp 2?
I don't follow?
It's okay.
You're not missing out.
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lol
Posted by LuckyLibra979
It was horrible. You cant please em and they come off real insecure
How can you tell if they have this disorder?
Would you be with someone that has an mental disorder of any kind?
Posted by starlover
Posted by AnOdeToNoOne
Elle, you are the very definition of a psychopath.I, and a few others here, know that you cyberstalked that girl, and even harassed her at work by triangulating her telephone number.
You are not fooling anyone with your lies about who I am and what I believe.
You will not deflect from the truth of the matter no matter how much you try to spin things.
You are proof that Satan exists, and I will always expose you as such.
Fuck off, you psychotic bitch.
I see your time away didn't help in teaching you the Christian ethic you have spoken about on several occasions in the past
*Fuck off, you psychotic bitch*
Is this what your Church and Jesus taught you?
Really?
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Yeah. Book of Douche, Chapter 5, verses 3-20:
" And verily did He hang upon the cross to suffer the slings and arrows of those lesser beings, when Violetta, Our Lady of Perpetual motion took pity and brought a cloth to wipe the soot of mockery from his body. Being a Cancer, her tears washed the blood from his feet. Upon seeing her tears, He spoke thusly: oh sweet Violetta, such kindness is that of a Cancer of the first camp. Would thoust become my betrothed?
Violetta was flushed and spoke: Nay kind sir, I am committed to a Capricorn to whom I recently become betrothed.
The skies darkened and the earth shook, as His countenance became angered. Deny me? Fuck off you psychotic bitch! Verily you are from the abode of Satan named "Camp 2"! And with those last words He expired. And the people rejoiced.""
I managed to fall in love with a narcissist (that was during the honeymoon phase). Shit hit the fan shortly after. Being with a narcissist equals psychological abuse. It's absolutely devastating and can have serious consequences for the non-Narc.
Posted by ElleDuMonde
Posted by tcta
I agree, if you haven't experienced this then you have no idea what you are talking about. You are entitled to your opinion as we are. And yes, we all have traits of everything I do not disagree with that. The OP is talking about real experiences with real people who have real personality disorders. If you haven't walked in everyone's shoes on this earth, you have no right to say they are wrong.The OP is a predator on this site and has been for years.
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Exactly. I'm super suspicious of his motives for wanting people to talk about their relationships, especially considering how he's handled his own in real life.
Posted by starlover
Posted by AnOdeToNoOne
Elle, you are the very definition of a psychopath.I, and a few others here, know that you cyberstalked that girl, and even harassed her at work by triangulating her telephone number.
You are not fooling anyone with your lies about who I am and what I believe.
You will not deflect from the truth of the matter no matter how much you try to spin things.
You are proof that Satan exists, and I will always expose you as such.
Fuck off, you psychotic bitch.
I see your time away didn't help in teaching you the Christian ethic you have spoken about on several occasions in the past
*Fuck off, you psychotic bitch*
Is this what your Church and Jesus taught you?
Really?
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Yeah, they teach that in sunday school. lol
It's ok, he finally let his true colors show. It was bound to happen, and it's always funny to watch in a pathetic ha ha sort of way.
Posted by MoonArtist
Posted by starlover
Posted by AnOdeToNoOne
Elle, you are the very definition of a psychopath.I, and a few others here, know that you cyberstalked that girl, and even harassed her at work by triangulating her telephone number.
You are not fooling anyone with your lies about who I am and what I believe.
You will not deflect from the truth of the matter no matter how much you try to spin things.
You are proof that Satan exists, and I will always expose you as such.
Fuck off, you psychotic bitch.
I see your time away didn't help in teaching you the Christian ethic you have spoken about on several occasions in the past
*Fuck off, you psychotic bitch*
Is this what your Church and Jesus taught you?
Really?
It's ok, he finally let his true colors show. It was bound to happen, and it's always funny to watch in a pathetic ha ha sort of way.
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I thought it would take 3 months tops since he showed up under his new profile.
Posted by CancerOnTheCusp
Posted by MoonArtist
Posted by starlover
Posted by AnOdeToNoOne
Elle, you are the very definition of a psychopath.I, and a few others here, know that you cyberstalked that girl, and even harassed her at work by triangulating her telephone number.
You are not fooling anyone with your lies about who I am and what I believe.
You will not deflect from the truth of the matter no matter how much you try to spin things.
You are proof that Satan exists, and I will always expose you as such.
Fuck off, you psychotic bitch.
I see your time away didn't help in teaching you the Christian ethic you have spoken about on several occasions in the past
*Fuck off, you psychotic bitch*
Is this what your Church and Jesus taught you?
Really?
It's ok, he finally let his true colors show. It was bound to happen, and it's always funny to watch in a pathetic ha ha sort of way.
I thought it would take 3 months tops since he showed up under his new profile.
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How long has it been? I haven't kept track or paid attention.
Posted by Arielle83
Posted by MoonArtist
Posted by ElleDuMonde
Posted by tcta
I agree, if you haven't experienced this then you have no idea what you are talking about. You are entitled to your opinion as we are. And yes, we all have traits of everything I do not disagree with that. The OP is talking about real experiences with real people who have real personality disorders. If you haven't walked in everyone's shoes on this earth, you have no right to say they are wrong.The OP is a predator on this site and has been for years.
Exactly. I'm super suspicious of his motives for wanting people to talk about their relationships, especially considering how he's handled his own in real life.
Yeah remember how he used to PM me when I came back.
Asked me about my life then when he found out I was engaged to a scorpio...
The narcissistic "nice" mask fell off...
And he told me:
My scorpio will cheat on me and my marriage will fail. All because of how he sees his douchey scorpio aquaintances treat women...
Yet, since this op has the verbal abuse in him to call me an idiot/bitch etcetera.
He also mistook a friend in a picture to be my husband and said a bunch of racist shit about him looking like a "sand n $ @"er" as well as tell me their must be something wrong with me since I don't have children etcetera.
This man Is the ultimate narcissistic fucked up asshole.
Just constant put downs to ppl he sees online. It's actually weird.
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That's beyond rude! I think he was jealous you have a scorpio. He has scorpio envy...among other things. Funny that he's asking what narcs are like but he's just like one. He viciously attacks anyone who disagrees with him or who doesn't fall for his bs white knight act. He degrades women, is a racist and yes it's weird.
Is this what your Church and Jesus taught you?Really?
One of the critical things that people need to remember around here is that there are several different things that a person can do when responding to a narcissist.
1.) Confront them head on, and put them in their places. Often times, this may or may not be a good idea. However, if the person is known to have violent tendencies, then this may not be a good idea.
2.) Refrain from contact with the person. Realize that a narcissist, like most human garbage, is usually not worth your time or energy. They are, in most cases, too far removed from reality to face it like most normal people do.
3.) Detachment is a slow process, but it can be done if you have the discipline for it.
Posted by undefined
Im scared that im one sometimes. Sighs.
The fact that you even worry about this suggests you aren't one.
Those who have this give no shits and won't ever own up to it or even worry how their behavior is affecting anyone else.
I dealt with someone who had some very strong traits, but I don't think he was a textbook narcissist. I know his father was/is definitely one.. So he suffered being raised by him.
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So, how many of you are in some sort of relationship with a narcissist? Whether the person is a family member, friend or romantic interest? How many of you are still interacting with that person, whereas how many of you realized how dangerous these people are and ran for your lives?