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sorry hun
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no you're not, you made me sad on purpose
Posted by Nights22
Is this your way of defending your lady?Its good to give straight forward hard advice but when one resorts to insults it all becomes anti helpful. It just creates attacks all around.
Nefer is the best example of giving good advice and being a hard ass when she needs to without resorting to being a total cunt.
You pop off with enough asshole remarks of your own to make you a total hypocrite. You know who hypocrites are Days?
In any event, I don't endorse tearing someone down just for the sake of it. There is a difference between being blunt/honest and degrading.
You didnt answer my question. And no I am not a hypocrite. I am an asshole yes, but I dont tear people down just for the hell of it like some people.
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You aren't an asshole. Italian, yes, but not an asshole. I have a deep suspicion you might be in possession of one. An asshole that is...okay, having entirely too much fun with this.
Posted by trifles light as air*
sorry hun
no you're not, you made me sad on purpose
Actually, I wouldn't tell anyone. The business he shared with me with nobodies but his and mine.
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i'll have you know that i'm choosing to learn from the adversity you've caused me.
LOL ^
Posted by Nights22
Is this your way of defending your lady?Its good to give straight forward hard advice but when one resorts to insults it all becomes anti helpful. It just creates attacks all around.
Nefer is the best example of giving good advice and being a hard ass when she needs to without resorting to being a total cunt.
You pop off with enough asshole remarks of your own to make you a total hypocrite. You know who hypocrites are Days?
In any event, I don't endorse tearing someone down just for the sake of it. There is a difference between being blunt/honest and degrading.
You didnt answer my question. And no I am not a hypocrite. I am an asshole yes, but I dont tear people down just for the hell of it like some people.
You aren't an asshole. Italian, yes, but not an asshole. I have a deep suspicion you might be in possession of one. An asshole that is...okay, having entirely too much fun with this.
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what suspicion? we've all seen dat ass.
i have to disagree though, nights is such an asshole. luckily he's pretty, so he doesn't really have to be nice, i mean his value isn't exactly in his "personality"
Woops! Was giggling at elle's post. Though the crab be funny too.
Posted by trifles light as air*
Posted by Nights22
Is this your way of defending your lady?Its good to give straight forward hard advice but when one resorts to insults it all becomes anti helpful. It just creates attacks all around.
Nefer is the best example of giving good advice and being a hard ass when she needs to without resorting to being a total cunt.
You pop off with enough asshole remarks of your own to make you a total hypocrite. You know who hypocrites are Days?
In any event, I don't endorse tearing someone down just for the sake of it. There is a difference between being blunt/honest and degrading.
You didnt answer my question. And no I am not a hypocrite. I am an asshole yes, but I dont tear people down just for the hell of it like some people.
You aren't an asshole. Italian, yes, but not an asshole. I have a deep suspicion you might be in possession of one. An asshole that is...okay, having entirely too much fun with this.
what suspicion? we've all seen dat ass.
i have to disagree though, nights is such an asshole. luckily he's pretty, so he doesn't really have to be nice, i mean his value isn't exactly in his "personality"
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LOL His personality is great, the ass is a perk.
LOL His personality is great, the ass is a perk.
you are far too kind, m'lady.
😉
Posted by Nights22
Is this your way of defending your lady?Its good to give straight forward hard advice but when one resorts to insults it all becomes anti helpful. It just creates attacks all around.
Nefer is the best example of giving good advice and being a hard ass when she needs to without resorting to being a total cunt.
You pop off with enough asshole remarks of your own to make you a total hypocrite. You know who hypocrites are Days?
In any event, I don't endorse tearing someone down just for the sake of it. There is a difference between being blunt/honest and degrading.
You didnt answer my question. And no I am not a hypocrite. I am an asshole yes, but I dont tear people down just for the hell of it like some people.
You aren't an asshole. Italian, yes, but not an asshole. I have a deep suspicion you might be in possession of one. An asshole that is...okay, having entirely too much fun with this.
lol Italian and an asshole really.
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and also full of shit. So you're an ass sometime but you're not a hypocrite? I bet you have brown eyes.
Posted by Nights22
Is this your way of defending your lady?Its good to give straight forward hard advice but when one resorts to insults it all becomes anti helpful. It just creates attacks all around.
Nefer is the best example of giving good advice and being a hard ass when she needs to without resorting to being a total cunt.
You pop off with enough asshole remarks of your own to make you a total hypocrite. You know who hypocrites are Days?
In any event, I don't endorse tearing someone down just for the sake of it. There is a difference between being blunt/honest and degrading.
You didnt answer my question. And no I am not a hypocrite. I am an asshole yes, but I dont tear people down just for the hell of it like some people.
You aren't an asshole. Italian, yes, but not an asshole. I have a deep suspicion you might be in possession of one. An asshole that is...okay, having entirely too much fun with this.
lol Italian and an asshole really.
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LOL Nah! Give it some polish now. Asshole with mind-bending mashed tater making ability.
Posted by Nights22
Is this your way of defending your lady?Its good to give straight forward hard advice but when one resorts to insults it all becomes anti helpful. It just creates attacks all around.
Nefer is the best example of giving good advice and being a hard ass when she needs to without resorting to being a total cunt.
You pop off with enough asshole remarks of your own to make you a total hypocrite. You know who hypocrites are Days?
In any event, I don't endorse tearing someone down just for the sake of it. There is a difference between being blunt/honest and degrading.
You didnt answer my question. And no I am not a hypocrite. I am an asshole yes, but I dont tear people down just for the hell of it like some people.
You aren't an asshole. Italian, yes, but not an asshole. I have a deep suspicion you might be in possession of one. An asshole that is...okay, having entirely too much fun with this.
lol Italian and an asshole really.
and also full of shit. So you're an ass sometime but you're not a hypocrite? I bet you have brown eyes.
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LOL Easy Killer, I have brown eyes.
Posted by TastesOfChaos
Awake, I have hazel eyes... What does that mean? Baby poop 😭Speaking of babies! Im off to see my nephew 😄
FIGHT! FIGHT! FIGHT!
😄
Whoop whoop! Smooch that little punkins cheeks for me! 😄
Oh, and Days.
One of the keys to victory when attacking someone is knowing more about your opponent than they know about you. You've made repeated posts about my woman trying to gain my attention and you have it now. The thing is, if you want to make this personal and drag personal shit into this discussion, you should consider whether I know more about you, than you know about me. In this case, I can humiliate you, but I have more class than you so I chose to refrain 🙂
Posted by Nights22
lol pshhh you don't even know me!
i generally try to avoid getting too close to assholes
Posted by trifles light as air*
LOL His personality is great, the ass is a perk.
you are far too kind, m'lady.
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*curtsy* 😄
Days,
Then stop attacking my intelligence and take my words at face value. I'm not defending a soul, I'm merely stating my thoughts.
Accepted, we see eye to eye now.
Good! Now both of you shut the hell up, I made cake.
Posted by ellessque
this thread is ridiculous.it all can be explained by mercury....
when i talk shit.........(sag merc)
a sag in merc understands exactly what i'm saying (sarcasm and tongue in cheek for the most part with some serious points put in there when i give a shit to really contribute)
a virgo in merc will immediately take offense and start a debate
an aries in merc will jump into the conversation and compete with my sarcasm, while trying to outwit me
a libra in merc will try to bring the conversation to a fair and even balance so everyone sees all sides
a scorpio in merc will reiterate what i said and then add sexual undertones 😛
a cap in merc will just leave, annoyed
an aqua in merc tries to figure out what i'm really saying and usually is spot on to the point i'm trying to make. he'll repeat it in his own words so everyone understands.
a leo in merc will ignore my comments and talk about themselves
a taurus in merc will just watch and throw in witty quips and make points i want to argue
a pisces in merc will take the shit way out of context and start another topic out in left field somewhere
a cancer in merc will call me a bully
a gemini in merc will take notes and use my words against me in another thread that has nothing to do with anything
so, my point being. NOBODY GIVES A FUCK AND HAS THEIR OWN AGENDA ANYWAYS.
thank you, thank you very much for your time 😄
All this effort and minimal responses? Ahhhh, I'll stroke your extraordinary ego since none else has bothered.
A poor and inaccurate summation of the various mercury positions.
🙂
YUP. Butter cake with mandarin oranges and drizzled with buttercream. Have at it.
Posted by AriJekt
Did someone say cake 😛!?omg with the name changes! Im gonna just start calling you p diddy.
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Awwww, C'MON! I am CRAP when someone changes their handle.
Hahahahaha! I'd luff to feed yous guys.
Posted by venusianbull
Hahahahaha! I'd luff to feed yous guys.Yous. *smh* been hangin with too many mexicans havnt you.
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Hush. LOL
Posted by ellessque
it's the cake. i couldn't wait. 😛
NP Elle. I actually like you in a vague sort of way. If I'm gonna be honest.
Posted by venusianbull
Hahahahaha! I'd luff to feed yous guys.
Please, I'd fast for two days to experience that.
Steak, lots of steak and eggs plz.
Toast too eh? Buttered. Fuck the jam.
Posted by AriJekt
Yo. The racist thread is thata waaaaay ----------------------->
You're a month outta date.
Posted by AriJekt
Yo. The racist thread is thata waaaaay ----------------------->You're a month outta date.
I wasnt talking to you.
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Oh no? 😢
But I was you.
Posted by venusianbull
Hahahahaha! I'd luff to feed yous guys.Please, I'd fast for two days to experience that.
Steak, lots of steak and eggs plz.
Toast too eh? Buttered. Fuck the jam.
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How dare you say 'eff the jam', I make it homemade. 😛 LOL
Posted by AriJekt
Yo. The racist thread is thata waaaaay ----------------------->
Nahhh, he teases me over the fellows at work. They are indeed Mexican. LOL 🙂
Posted by venusianbull
YUP. Butter cake with mandarin oranges and drizzled with buttercream. Have at it.why must you do this to other taureans?
dammit woman you need to l2care package. 😭
😄
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I need my own business. Straight up. 🙂
Posted by AriJekt
Yo. The racist thread is thata waaaaay ----------------------->Nahhh, he teases me over the fellows at work. They are indeed Mexican. LOL 🙂
Lol. I see, I just thought he was being a dickwad
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Nope. 🙂
Posted by AriJekt
Well I am. Aint reality a bitch.Posted by AriJekt
Yo. The racist thread is thata waaaaay ----------------------->You're a month outta date.
I wasnt talking to you.
Oh no? 😢
But I was you.
Stop pouting. That shit aint cute.
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Ah, so you're a girl. A girl with a hard-ass attitude? I can respect that, but rest assured sweet-heart, you're barking up the wrong tree if ya wanna bump your gums.
And light dawns on marble head. After some crafty investigation and with an outrush of breath and the word "Mujer!" Here's for youuuuu Pinky. 🙂
Posted by venusianbull
Hahahahaha! I'd luff to feed yous guys.Please, I'd fast for two days to experience that.
Steak, lots of steak and eggs plz.
Toast too eh? Buttered. Fuck the jam.
How dare you say 'eff the jam', I make it homemade. 😛 LOL
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I like sweets on the occasion, but I'm more inclined to hearty sauces and meats. Steak/mashed taters and some steamed broccoli are a fine meal to me. I don't need my plate done up pretty if the the flavor/texture have been given due attention.
I do think it's awesome that you prepare your own jams. I have some questions for you!
IE, I'm inclined to accept a good stew or chili over a lighter dish.
Ask away. I honestly think just damned good tasting food is where it's at. Comfort chow. No need for gold dusted roses, 30 different fruit purees or vegetable cranes necessary.
Posted by AriJekt
Well I am. Aint reality a bitch.Posted by AriJekt
Yo. The racist thread is thata waaaaay ----------------------->You're a month outta date.
I wasnt talking to you.
Oh no? 😢
But I was you.
Stop pouting. That shit aint cute.
Ah, so you're a girl. A girl with a hard-ass attitude? I can respect that, but rest assured sweet-heart, you're barking up the wrong tree if ya wanna bump your gums.
Lol. Dont make me laugh..
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Then enlighten me, I'm eagerly waiting.
Posted by venusianbull
Ask away. I honestly think just damned good tasting food is where it's at. Comfort chow. No need for gold dusted roses, 30 different fruit purees or vegetable cranes necessary.
You have any experience canning meat?
On the topic of veggies and fruit, do you find the acidic levels of each affecting the longevity of what you can?
Canning meat and anything low acid requires a pressure canner. Have too. Water bath canning is no good for it, you need to blitz it properly so that bacteria levels are as low as possible. Botulism is nothing to screw with. And yes. When I put up sauces, ketchup, chili sauce, BBQ, etc. it'll keep with no flavor loss for up to a year ( like it lasts that long ). Green beans, peas, corn and so on is easily blanched and frozen. Quick shock in boiling water, plunged into an ice water bath, drained and bagged in good freezer bags. 6 months I think is optimal use time for best flavor. You can preserve any meat you like. A bit of beef base popped into venison is nice, cuts any gamey flavor. Fall apart tender and has its own stock for Bambi and noodles or whatever else you'd like to use it for ( like pulled meat for BBQ sandwiches ). I've not canned fish, but it's done with good results. And any meat you can put up stew or chilis with. Just crack a jar or two, make some fresh bread and call it dinner.
Posted by venusianbull
Canning meat and anything low acid requires a pressure canner. Have too. Water bath canning is no good for it, you need to blitz it properly so that bacteria levels are as low as possible. Botulism is nothing to screw with. And yes. When I put up sauces, ketchup, chili sauce, BBQ, etc. it'll keep with no flavor loss for up to a year ( like it lasts that long ). Green beans, peas, corn and so on is easily blanched and frozen. Quick shock in boiling water, plunged into an ice water bath, drained and bagged in good freezer bags. 6 months I think is optimal use time for best flavor. You can preserve any meat you like. A bit of beef base popped into venison is nice, cuts any gamey flavor. Fall apart tender and has its own stock for Bambi and noodles or whatever else you'd like to use it for ( like pulled meat for BBQ sandwiches ). I've not canned fish, but it's done with good results. And any meat you can put up stew or chilis with. Just crack a jar or two, make some fresh bread and call it dinner.
I'd love to study under you for a month.
^^^^
I'd love to study under you for a month.
Jeez....
Site is fuckin up.
You have any experience smoking meats?
I'm considering constructing a brick smoker in the next few months.
Yes it is. Hmmmm, cooking classes. 😄
I've never smoked meats, but it interests me. I've seen my fathers friends do it, the smell is amazing. Few wood chips and you have some goood stuff. Make your own hams, smoked turkeys, etc. Make a smoker, build an edifice to nice hickory chips...mesquite, cherry, have a party. Check into some good homesteading books for good recipes and tips. 🙂
Posted by DazedScorp
Fuck the cake. I want to bury my face in VBs pie
LOL You want to bury your face in everyones pie.
*covering pumpkins eyes* LOL Jebus Dazed.
Posted by blueribbons
I like this topic. Who is the "right" audience?The people that reply with sympathy to a poster embroiled in a ridiculous situation. Why would you reinforce someone's internal dialogue of bs when they actually need to get slapped across the face by reality. There are many people here that get labeled as mean and brash when the reality is, they are the ONLY mother fuckers trying to REALLY help. P-Angel is a fine example. She's consistently branded as mean and bitchy when the reality is, she was trying to help.
People get so ruffled over the delivery that they fail to see the real message. Who cares if the words were "mean" if the message actually helps? I'm not trying to glorify anyone here, I'm simply saying that being nice is dumb when it harms other people.
IE, if someone posts about how much their life sucks, what the fuck is the point of posting some fake ass "Im sorry your life sucks" when the reality is, the person needs to hear someone that may actually help them out. Even if that something isn't necessarily nice. Does a drunk need to hear sympathy and nice words about their drinking problem? No, they need to get their drinks taken away and become the recipient of a swift kick in the ass.
That's what I mean about adversity. What does being nice actually amount to when it's really harmful?
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Nice post.
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what you don't realize is that purrr and i are engaged.