Gemitati
@Gemitati
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Caring about members you know
Posted by sakuraflowersLike IF anyone knows whats well being for ME means in YOUR eyes!Posted by GemitatiI think it's not so much about defending the stranger as it is about letting the poster know of their choices for their own well-being.
It's not a serious question. Just bored.
However. We all are here in love-hate relashionships and what strikes me is following:
When member we know posts something about themselves that involving others we don't know...we are immediately jumping into defense of that stranger we don't know instead of maybe cutting slack for our own like member we had been in touch for months or even years!
It's like other places - workplace for example trying to protect employee saying she didn't steal it! Or she is usually says FU just once! Or no, he is a good guy and he never punched anyone that hard before!
So here we need to work up tolerance to our own!
Like if someone is cheating on someone we don't know - it is probably that person we don't know fault!
Because we don't know that person!
Maybe they deserve it! Right?
So on so forth...
What do you think?
Or rather what's perceived as the poster's own well-being...click to expand
I don't have love: hate relationships with any members here.
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Posted by justagirlNo! You are specialier than we all.
I don't have love: hate relationships with any members here.
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Why are you here? Someone paying you?
You just delusional or delirious or fake!
Posted by GemitatiNone of the above.. lolPosted by justagirlNo! You are specialier than we all.
I don't have love: hate relationships with any members here.
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Why are you here? Someone paying you?
You just delusional or delirious or fake!click to expand
some of us can actually get along with others 😉
Posted by GemitatiWait, what?
Like if someone is cheating on someone we don't know - it is probably that person we don't know fault!
Because we don't know that person!
Maybe they deserve it! Right?
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However. We all are here in love-hate relashionships and what strikes me is following:
When member we know posts something about themselves that involving others we don't know...we are immediately jumping into defense of that stranger we don't know instead of maybe cutting slack for our own like member we had been in touch for months or even years!
It's like other places - workplace for example trying to protect employee saying she didn't steal it! Or she is usually says FU just once! Or no, he is a good guy and he never punched anyone that hard before!
So here we need to work up tolerance to our own!
Like if someone is cheating on someone we don't know - it is probably that person we don't know fault!
Because we don't know that person!
Maybe they deserve it! Right?
So on so forth...
What do you think?