Competition?

Ladies~ Ladies~

Hello beautifuls.

I understand that there is a lot of you that do not care about this kind of stuff.

Being competitive. However, what are you going to do when your current boyfriend, fiance, or husband's ex-girlfriend is being competitive against you?

Now, I really have a bad history of ex-girlfriends who just pops out of nowhere dressing up like it's all good and coming back to past and current boyfriend's life.

Which I really dont understand this logic reason of theirs. I for one would never facking come near or pop up on a ex's dms or their life....

But since I am putting this topic out there, I am going to a graduation ceremony next week on a Saturday. This sounds fun, unfortunately, I'll be seeing my Libra's ex-girlfriend (Leo).

A co-worker/friend of mines told me, that his ex since he knows her very well through out high school, he claims and as I quote "She's the type who has an attitude, and thinks she is all that when really, she is not. Unfortunately, she also thinks that she could get things her way, and whatever the hell she wants whenever she wants."

So, I am contemplating to this situation and pondering whether or not I should dress up and go all out. Or I should just not.

Mind you, this girl already knew who I was before I even figured who she was. 🤔🤔

Call me petty, but I could be.

@Senorita_LLP2

Tag. 🙂 Opinions love? What would you do.

Competition? Competition for what exactly??

He’s my man. In my bed at night. I’ve already won babeeee. He DUMPED you and CHOSE me. Keep acting extra so I can giggle at your efforts over here on the winners seat...aka his lap 💖

Posted by LadyNeptune
Competition? Competition for what exactly??

He’s my man. In my bed at night. I’ve already won babeeee. He DUMPED you and CHOSE me. Keep acting extra so I can giggle at your efforts over here on the winners seat...aka his lap 💖

😂😂😂😂😂😂 PERFECTION LOVE THIS!

The throne

Posted by Squishy_Marshmallow
Dress up because you want to. Look your best, why not? You are a very good looking girl... Go have some fun!
Don't let anyone put you down. If you allow it they will gang up against you.
If anyone tries to put you down, go after everything they got
Sometimes it's so damn annoying, the cattyness and snarky ways has to stop.

Thank you beautiful, you're quite gorgeous yourself! 😍☺

I wanted to dress up but it felt like I was just being over the top and being extra about it. I started being indecisive 😢

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Posted by Echo

Posted by Squishy_Marshmallow
Dress up because you want to. Look your best, why not? You are a very good looking girl... Go have some fun!
Don't let anyone put you down. If you allow it they will gang up against you.
If anyone tries to put you down, go after everything they got
Sometimes it's so damn annoying, the cattyness and snarky ways has to stop.

Thank you beautiful, you're quite gorgeous yourself! 😍☺

I wanted to dress up but it felt like I was just being over the top and being extra about it. I started being indecisive 😢 click to expand

Thank you 😊

You don't have to do anything extra or go over the top. As long as you pick a great dress that accentuates your body/best feature without being showy you are good.

Don't let other head into your head. Have fun... click to expand

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Thanks! I will for sure ☺

Posted by HearttofTopaz
Kill em.

LOLOLOLOL

Posted by HearttofTopaz
I used to be petty like that back in the day, but I never got the results I wanted. Just keeping to myself and being confident in my abilities and who I am has always yielded the better results. Don’t even give her the time of day. Just do you booboo!

Thanks 🙂 I will... my fatass always brings food to occasions that long 😂😂

LULZ!

I have a story for you. My boyfriend's ex-wife does this shit. She stalks his facebook page, and the VERY few times he posts something, or I post something on his page, she texts him asking for "help" about the internet, or some other bullshit excuse.

I don't even give a shit, cause I am the one currently receiving the dickatmization from him. I am the one that sleeps in bed with him at night. I am the one he calls honey, baby, and babe.

Women do this kind of shit, are the insecure ones. They try and still claim their exes as their property, and are seeking the validation for themselves, that their exes are pining for them still. So they want to piss on what they view as "their territory" still, because in their delusional heads, they make up the theory that he must regret "losing the best thing he ever had".

Jokes on you, if you were the best he ever had, he would still be with you, and not me.

Posted by LadyLuna19
I would dress up for fun and for myself, doing it out of competition kind of kills the vibe and causes stress which I would feel is awful for an occasion.

But I agree with @LadyNeptune you already have him and he's going home with you. Stepping down to her level shows insecurity and she'll sniff that out and probably try pointless tactics in a game you've already won.

Don't mind the hate from her, instead bask in the love you have with him knowing hes wanted but owned. 💝

☺ okay, I appreciated it. I might as well dress all up then cause I already bought a dress and heels... plus that theres a big party after the graduation. A mixture of birthdays and graduation party.

I get to have my first bonfire 😭😍😍

Super excited!

Posted by LittleStar
My husband's ex-wife basically went crazy when she found out. She was trying to tell him when he could marry me and posting all kind of nasty shit about me on facebook like he was trading her in for a newer model. Like whyyy?

I basically just told him he had to cut her off (minus talking about the kids) and that I would stay out of it, but that I expected him to not talk to her about anything other than that because all she tried to do was be super controlling.

She's cool off a little now that we've been married 3 years and the plan worked. She finally only talks to him about the kids and doesn't try to cause bullshit about his relationships.

I don't talk to her and I have her blocked on pretty much any way of communication. So really, she doesn't play much of a role. She can still be a bitch about the kids, but they are old enough now that she can't really do anything.

I just think the past should stay in the past as much as possible just so the boundaries are clear.

You see, even my boyfriend said that it's just in the past.

But however, he keeps mentioning that his ex keeps talking crap about him...

I dont even know her, but she mentioned my name in a Snapchat video, which I didnt even know of and my boyfriend told me about it, but unfortunately he doesnt remember telling me about that incident as if it went out the window.

Posted by LadyLuna19

Posted by Echo

Posted by LadyLuna19
I would dress up for fun and for myself, doing it out of competition kind of kills the vibe and causes stress which I would feel is awful for an occasion.

But I agree with @LadyNeptune you already have him and he's going home with you. Stepping down to her level shows insecurity and she'll sniff that out and probably try pointless tactics in a game you've already won.

Don't mind the hate from her, instead bask in the love you have with him knowing hes wanted but owned. 💝

☺ okay, I appreciated it. I might as well dress all up then cause I already bought a dress and heels... plus that theres a big party after the graduation. A mixture of birthdays and graduation party.

I get to have my first bonfire 😭😍😍
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Hope you have a fun time 💗💗💗💗 click to expand

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Thank you love!

Posted by nikkistar
LULZ!

I have a story for you. My boyfriend's ex-wife does this shit. She stalks his facebook page, and the VERY few times he posts something, or I post something on his page, she texts him asking for "help" about the internet, or some other bullshit excuse.

I don't even give a shit, cause I am the one currently receiving the dickatmization from him. I am the one that sleeps in bed with him at night. I am the one he calls honey, baby, and babe.

Women do this kind of shit, are the insecure ones. They try and still claim their exes as their property, and are seeking the validation for themselves, that their exes are pining for them still. So they want to piss on what they view as "their territory" still, because in their delusional heads, they make up the theory that he must regret "losing the best thing he ever had".

Jokes on you, if you were the best he ever had, he would still be with you, and not me.

😂😂😂😂😂 OMFG NIKKI!!

SO fawking true!!

I'll keep this in mind about the nickname part and sleeping on his bed. 🙂

Cause apparently, I am the first girlfriend that my Libra is spoiling, I am getting my nails done and his paying 💕

Posted by Echo

Posted by nikkistar
LULZ!

I have a story for you. My boyfriend's ex-wife does this shit. She stalks his facebook page, and the VERY few times he posts something, or I post something on his page, she texts him asking for "help" about the internet, or some other bullshit excuse.

I don't even give a shit, cause I am the one currently receiving the dickatmization from him. I am the one that sleeps in bed with him at night. I am the one he calls honey, baby, and babe.

Women do this kind of shit, are the insecure ones. They try and still claim their exes as their property, and are seeking the validation for themselves, that their exes are pining for them still. So they want to piss on what they view as "their territory" still, because in their delusional heads, they make up the theory that he must regret "losing the best thing he ever had".

Jokes on you, if you were the best he ever had, he would still be with you, and not me.

😂😂😂😂😂 OMFG NIKKI!!
SO fawking true!!

I'll keep this in mind about the nickname part and sleeping on his bed.

Cause apparently, I am the first girlfriend that my Libra is spoiling, I am getting my nails done and his paying 💕
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And that's all you have to remember.

If I were you, and if she started trying to be a bitch in front of you, I would just go up to her and say.

"Thanks for teaching him to be a better boyfriend for me." lol

Posted by nikkistar

Posted by Echo

Posted by nikkistar
LULZ!

I have a story for you. My boyfriend's ex-wife does this shit. She stalks his facebook page, and the VERY few times he posts something, or I post something on his page, she texts him asking for "help" about the internet, or some other bullshit excuse.

I don't even give a shit, cause I am the one currently receiving the dickatmization from him. I am the one that sleeps in bed with him at night. I am the one he calls honey, baby, and babe.

Women do this kind of shit, are the insecure ones. They try and still claim their exes as their property, and are seeking the validation for themselves, that their exes are pining for them still. So they want to piss on what they view as "their territory" still, because in their delusional heads, they make up the theory that he must regret "losing the best thing he ever had".

Jokes on you, if you were the best he ever had, he would still be with you, and not me.

😂😂😂😂😂 OMFG NIKKI!!
SO fawking true!!

I'll keep this in mind about the nickname part and sleeping on his bed.

Cause apparently, I am the first girlfriend that my Libra is spoiling, I am getting my nails done and his paying 💕
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And that's all you have to remember.

If I were you, and if she started trying to be a bitch in front of you, I would just go up to her and say.
"Thanks for teaching him to be a better boyfriend for me." lol click to expand

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Oh shat!! Honestly, I know for sure that would have pissed her off cause her relationship with him wasn't great.

I heard the stories and all.

Thanks Nikki! Lol I'll add a small smirk and a great smile at the end with a nice dress whip turn. 😂😂

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Posted by HearttofTopaz
I used to be petty like that back in the day, but I never got the results I wanted. Just keeping to myself and being confident in my abilities and who I am has always yielded the better results. Don’t even give her the time of day. Just do you booboo!

this! and @Echo ....consider that you only know one side of the story. and not even first-hand.

give her the benefit of doubt ...after that you can draw your own conclusions. click to expand

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.... I didnt only hear my boyfriends side.

But if shes going to be glaring at me and giving me attitude, I might end up laughing

Posted by LittleStar

Posted by Echo

Posted by LittleStar
My husband's ex-wife basically went crazy when she found out. She was trying to tell him when he could marry me and posting all kind of nasty butter about me on facebook like he was trading her in for a newer model. Like whyyy?

I basically just told him he had to cut her off (minus talking about the kids) and that I would stay out of it, but that I expected him to not talk to her about anything other than that because all she tried to do was be super controlling.

She's cool off a little now that we've been married 3 years and the plan worked. She finally only talks to him about the kids and doesn't try to cause bullbutter about his relationships.

I don't talk to her and I have her blocked on pretty much any way of communication. So really, she doesn't play much of a role. She can still be a cookiemonster about the kids, but they are old enough now that she can't really do anything.

I just think the past should stay in the past as much as possible just so the boundaries are clear.

You see, even my boyfriend said that it's just in the past.

But however, he keeps mentioning that his ex keeps talking crap about him...

I dont even know her, but she mentioned my name in a Snapchat video, which I didnt even know of and my boyfriend told me about it, but unfortunately he doesnt remember telling me about that incident as if it went out the window.



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That’s why I specifically tried to stay out of it. If he keeps bringing it up it means he is still involved even if it’s not cheating, that doesn’t show respect to your relationship IMO. If he doesn’t have any kids with her and she is just creating drama I don’t see why he should be in her life? click to expand

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They dont talk at all love. He hates her with great resentment.

He only mentions that she loves to talk a lot of sh1t. That's all :o

Posted by tiziani
hey it's good to see you all let your hair down and let your inner Harvey Weinsteins out every once in a while.

Much better than all the pretense about emotions and Ceres in the 5th house making it all spiritual, it gets a little tired.

Lmdao, when you said put my hair down I was like, "but I cut my hair and dyed it"

Thou, i barely know the rest of those in the second paragraph 😭😭

Posted by GC05
I feel like you are assuming and expecting the worst out of fear.

Your co worker put all this stuff in your head and now you are manifesting in your mind all these negative thoughts which will create negative energy.

Don’t make a huge deal about it because it will only bring more attention on to her.

I’m sure there will be lots of people there and it will all be fine and he will come and go with you no matter what your wearing. 😌

Let's hope for that then.

Cause a friend's ex-girlfriend thought we were dating a month ago and whatnot. I got a nasty glare... 😒😒

But for sure love, I'll enjoy my time with babe. ☺💕

Dont even worry about her. It's a reason why she is an EX. I would act like she isnt even there. You got this😉

Tell your husband you don't like her involving herself in your life and you want to avoid her if you are uncomfortable.... I think you can ask that much from him.

Posted by Brickhouse27
Dont even worry about her. It's a reason why she is an EX. I would act like she isnt even there. You got this😉

Thanks 🙂 hopefully I dont lose my cool lol

Posted by Goodmorning
Tell your husband you don't like her involving herself in your life and you want to avoid her if you are uncomfortable.... I think you can ask that much from him.

Wait what?? Husband?? 😂😂😂 I AM NOT MARRIED YET

Posted by Echo

Posted by Goodmorning
Tell your husband you don't like her involving herself in your life and you want to avoid her if you are uncomfortable.... I think you can ask that much from him.

Wait what?? Husband?? 😂😂😂 I AM NOT MARRIED YET click to expand

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I think I'm sleep typing things.

Hmm then do as you please.

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Posted by Brickhouse27
Dont even worry about her. It's a reason why she is an EX. I would act like she isnt even there. You got this😉

Thanks hopefully I dont lose my cool lol click to expand

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Np. Yeah ikr, just positive thoughts only