Currently Being Shit-Tested

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Via text.

I'm working on a long distance encounter at the moment.. If you haven't followed my last few threads, I was trynna form a sexual bond with a woman in South Africa.

I have succeeded and unprovokingly been sent nudes.

However, we have communicated every day for the past week.

Around this time, you'll get a pull away from the woman.. She'll disappeared for a bit on ya.

After constant communication, who wouldn't?

So we've last talked 2 days ago. I was the last to leave a message.

Of course you may be thinking "Damn.. That's very immature on her part. Why not hit you back that she's just busy? Why leave you hanging?"..

That's the thing.. She may be JUST busy. I'm also not entitled to get a damn text back whenever I want it anyway.

You can't feel like a victim or feel bad for yourself.

Sometimes women PURPOSELY stop contacting you just to SEE what WHAT YOU DO..



The best thing to do??

Send her 5 more texts, every other hour and hope she responds. If she doesn't, send 10 more the next day.

..........

NOT.

..

The best thing to do; is absolutely FUCKING NOTHING.

Why? Because nothing you say will engage her anyway. Why fuckin lose the game just to not get a response anyway. Women aren't dumb, she knows perfectly well that she has not texted you back.



Why do women potentially purposely ignore you?

They just want to see if you have a life. If you are as busy bodied as they are or more.. They want to see how much of a cling you really are.. How needy and possibly insecure you may be. Will you fold and get angry with her.. It's probably so many things she's testing for and trynna see about you.

This is just in their nature and it's nothing wrong with it. Some women don't even know they are doing it.. Some do.

I think my girl knows what she's doing.

So.

Flooding her with texts just sends so many red flags to her and you will scare a chick away.. Or just generally turn her off, and with zero attraction is zero interest.. So who the fuck texts people they aren't interested in texting?



I am still happy. She has no effect in my personal life by not hitting me back. I am calm, it's whatever, you know? .. I am confident she'll get back to me. Currently ACE-ING my shit test and she'll like me much more for minding my business and not feeling entitled.



Just thought I would share this with y'all.
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You sound like 99% of women right here! 👋👋👋

There isn’t going to be an explanation!

There none!

She might be working her ass off to pay for your flight to see her. Because you are THE MAN can’t afford it on your own...

Or maybe she was hoping you will offer to come and see her after nudes...and when she didn’t get that she desided there are as many poor men in Africa and she doesn’t have to fly to see a bum oversees!
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Posted by CaramelizedCoffee
Posted by Gemitati
You sound like 99% of women right here! 👋👋👋

There isn’t going to be an explanation!

There none!

She might be working her ass off to pay for your flight to see her. Because you are THE MAN can’t afford it on your own...

Or maybe she was hoping you will offer to come and see her after nudes...and when she didn’t get that she desided there are as many poor men in Africa and she doesn’t have to fly to see a bum oversees!


I

Fuking



Died
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Anyone mouth to mouth for CC with possibility of more layer? Hurry up!!!

Lmao...
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throw her a curve ball

ask her

how do you slice your sandwiches sideways or diagonally

she either goes wtf doesn’t reply

or replies... WTF

win win
This is weirdly accurate. I've had some guys try the weird question thing just to see if I'd respond.

They chose to divulge their shit early on hence my silence - like the Leo who bragged about the last three relationships he had ended because he cheated.
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Posted by Gemitati
You sound like 99% of women right here! 👋👋👋

There isn’t going to be an explanation!

There none!

She might be working her ass off to pay for your flight to see her. Because you are THE MAN can’t afford it on your own...

Or maybe she was hoping you will offer to come and see her after nudes...and when she didn’t get that she desided there are as many poor men in Africa and she doesn’t have to fly to see a bum oversees!


@HeartOfTopaz

@CaramelizedCoffee

I'm glad y'all found this very amusing.

Look. Skank.

Are you fuckin hard of reading and understanding?? Are you retarded or something? Do you purposely read what you wanna hear, instead of what I've actually said??

How many times I gotta tell you... WE HAVEN'T ARRANGED ANY PLANS TO MEET. WE WERE JUST FLIRTING AND I SAID "fly me to Africa"..

This DOES NOT mean I can't afford it. This does not mean I am BROKE.. This does not mean she's working her ass off to pay for me a flight. This doesn't mean that there is going to BE a flight.

Are fuckin dumb or something?? Why did I have to go there??

Look. I sell drugs. I am literally my own fuckin boss and I could go whenever I want with proper planning. It's just too soon and I'm not sure if she is ready. WE aren't ready.

Hell, she's still SHIT TESTING.
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I know what the OP is talking about, and it's real, and not really a mystery it has already been discussed on DXP.

But despite knowing the theory, I can't stand that kind of shit and I don't have it in myself to excuse this behaviour, even if it's probably rooted in animal instinct and survival.

I am irascible and a bit of a sociopath and that explains why I rarely date at all.

As soon as the bitch does it, the relationship is doomed.
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Posted by Emhendo
Posted by Gemitati
You sound like 99% of women right here! 👋👋👋

There isn’t going to be an explanation!

There none!

She might be working her ass off to pay for your flight to see her. Because you are THE MAN can’t afford it on your own...

Or maybe she was hoping you will offer to come and see her after nudes...and when she didn’t get that she desided there are as many poor men in Africa and she doesn’t have to fly to see a bum oversees!


@HeartOfTopaz

@CaramelizedCoffee

I'm glad y'all found this very amusing.

Look. Skank.

Are you fuckin hard of reading and understanding?? Are you retarded or something? Do you purposely read what you wanna hear, instead of what I've actually said??

How many times I gotta tell you... WE HAVEN'T ARRANGED ANY PLANS TO MEET. WE WERE JUST FLIRTING AND I SAID "fly me to Africa"..

This DOES NOT mean I can't afford it. This does not mean I am BROKE.. This does not mean she's working her ass off to pay for me a flight. This doesn't mean that there is going to BE a flight.

Are fuckin dumb or something?? Why did I have to go there??

Look. I sell drugs. I am literally my own fuckin boss and I could go whenever I want with proper planning. It's just too soon and I'm not sure if she is ready. WE aren't ready.

Hell, she's still SHIT TESTING.
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Do you smoke/snort/inject all the profit from your business?

Lmao

Why man who has money wouldn’t say jokingly ‘let me show you my corner where I work and introduce you to great people whom I helping to be happy?’

Instead of you saying ‘fly me to Africa!’

See where you are stupid? You THINK you can fly her but when your money is inside of you - you go ‘shit! I did it again! I need to open saving account or something...’

Just trying to help! Do you have new cool snickers? Just curious...
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Posted by hydorah
I know what the OP is talking about, and it's real, and not really a mystery it has already been discussed on DXP.

But despite knowing the theory, I can't stand that kind of shit and I don't have it in myself to excuse this behaviour, even if it's probably rooted in animal instinct and survival.

I am irascible and a bit of a sociopath and that explains why I rarely date at all.

As soon as the bitch does it, the relationship is doomed.
You can cry in my shoulder if bitcheabhirt you. Who is it today Ands or firebunny—

Ohhhh bad bad bitches!!! Come to mommy...no! Put pants back on! Now!!! Shit...you can cry all dressed up! Yes...I know you haven’t before...so now it’s rime and stop playing with a fly!!!
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Posted by Gemitati
Posted by Emhendo
Posted by Gemitati
You sound like 99% of women right here! 👋👋👋

There isn’t going to be an explanation!

There none!

She might be working her ass off to pay for your flight to see her. Because you are THE MAN can’t afford it on your own...

Or maybe she was hoping you will offer to come and see her after nudes...and when she didn’t get that she desided there are as many poor men in Africa and she doesn’t have to fly to see a bum oversees!


@HeartOfTopaz

@CaramelizedCoffee

I'm glad y'all found this very amusing.

Look. Skank.

Are you fuckin hard of reading and understanding?? Are you retarded or something? Do you purposely read what you wanna hear, instead of what I've actually said??

How many times I gotta tell you... WE HAVEN'T ARRANGED ANY PLANS TO MEET. WE WERE JUST FLIRTING AND I SAID "fly me to Africa"..

This DOES NOT mean I can't afford it. This does not mean I am BROKE.. This does not mean she's working her ass off to pay for me a flight. This doesn't mean that there is going to BE a flight.

Are fuckin dumb or something?? Why did I have to go there??

Look. I sell drugs. I am literally my own fuckin boss and I could go whenever I want with proper planning. It's just too soon and I'm not sure if she is ready. WE aren't ready.

Hell, she's still SHIT TESTING.
Do you smoke/snort/inject all the profit from your business?

Lmao

Why man who has money wouldn’t say jokingly ‘let me show you my corner where I work and introduce you to great people whom I helping to be happy?’

Instead of you saying ‘fly me to Africa!’

See where you are stupid? You THINK you can fly her but when your money is inside of you - you go ‘shit! I did it again! I need to open saving account or something...’

Just trying to help! Do you have new cool snickers? Just curious...
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Do you hear yourself??

You ugly ass boodigy face bitch.

Just because I flirted "fly me to Africa" doesn't mean I wouldn't rather fly her here.

I'm from CHICAGO anyway. She has no business here. I would love to fly her, we are actually waiting for the summer.. But then what??

A real man takes a woman to the trap house?? With other thirsty ass guys, pit bulls and drugs, DRUGS EVERYWHERE?!

Or take her back to the apartment, then fuckin ignore her 90% of the time because I have to deliver, serve and re-up??

No. You don't get it, and that's okay. You WANT to be ignorant.. You's a lonely ass bitch.

Sorry ass heffa.



It would be better for me to come there, I would be able to announce I'm on vacation and not be lying to my peoples.

I wouldn't have the burden of customers and haters, police.. We just got raided a few months ago.

And I ain't got to explain myself to some ignorant ass white slut.

SHUT THE FUCK UP TALKING TO ME, WITH YOUR LOOSE BOOTY ASS. SHE'S NOT COMING HERE AND THAT'S FINAL.
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Posted by CaramelizedCoffee
Posted by Emhendo
Posted by Gemitati
You sound like 99% of women right here! 👋👋👋

There isn’t going to be an explanation!

There none!

She might be working her ass off to pay for your flight to see her. Because you are THE MAN can’t afford it on your own...

Or maybe she was hoping you will offer to come and see her after nudes...and when she didn’t get that she desided there are as many poor men in Africa and she doesn’t have to fly to see a bum oversees!


@HeartOfTopaz

@CaramelizedCoffee

I'm glad y'all found this very amusing.

Look. Skank.

Are you fuckin hard of reading and understanding?? Are you retarded or something? Do you purposely read what you wanna hear, instead of what I've actually said??

How many times I gotta tell you... WE HAVEN'T ARRANGED ANY PLANS TO MEET. WE WERE JUST FLIRTING AND I SAID "fly me to Africa"..

This DOES NOT mean I can't afford it. This does not mean I am BROKE.. This does not mean she's working her ass off to pay for me a flight. This doesn't mean that there is going to BE a flight.

Are fuckin dumb or something?? Why did I have to go there??

Look. I sell drugs. I am literally my own fuckin boss and I could go whenever I want with proper planning. It's just too soon and I'm not sure if she is ready. WE aren't ready.

Hell, she's still SHIT TESTING.
What are her sun moon mars

Your sun moon mars
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She is Scorpio Sun and Moon. Mars in Virgo.



I am Cancer Sun, Gemini Moon and Mars.
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Posted by Emhendo
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by Emhendo
Posted by Gemitati
You sound like 99% of women right here! 👋👋👋

There isn’t going to be an explanation!

There none!

She might be working her ass off to pay for your flight to see her. Because you are THE MAN can’t afford it on your own...

Or maybe she was hoping you will offer to come and see her after nudes...and when she didn’t get that she desided there are as many poor men in Africa and she doesn’t have to fly to see a bum oversees!


@HeartOfTopaz

@CaramelizedCoffee

I'm glad y'all found this very amusing.

Look. Skank.

Are you fuckin hard of reading and understanding?? Are you retarded or something? Do you purposely read what you wanna hear, instead of what I've actually said??

How many times I gotta tell you... WE HAVEN'T ARRANGED ANY PLANS TO MEET. WE WERE JUST FLIRTING AND I SAID "fly me to Africa"..

This DOES NOT mean I can't afford it. This does not mean I am BROKE.. This does not mean she's working her ass off to pay for me a flight. This doesn't mean that there is going to BE a flight.

Are fuckin dumb or something?? Why did I have to go there??

Look. I sell drugs. I am literally my own fuckin boss and I could go whenever I want with proper planning. It's just too soon and I'm not sure if she is ready. WE aren't ready.

Hell, she's still SHIT TESTING.
Do you smoke/snort/inject all the profit from your business?

Lmao

Why man who has money wouldn’t say jokingly ‘let me show you my corner where I work and introduce you to great people whom I helping to be happy?’

Instead of you saying ‘fly me to Africa!’

See where you are stupid? You THINK you can fly her but when your money is inside of you - you go ‘shit! I did it again! I need to open saving account or something...’

Just trying to help! Do you have new cool snickers? Just curious...
Do you hear yourself??

You ugly ass boodigy face bitch.

Just because I flirted "fly me to Africa" doesn't mean I wouldn't rather fly her here.

I'm from CHICAGO anyway. She has no business here. I would love to fly her, we are actually waiting for the summer.. But then what??

A real man takes a woman to the trap house?? With other thirsty ass guys, pit bulls and drugs, DRUGS EVERYWHERE?!

Or take her back to the apartment, then fuckin ignore her 90% of the time because I have to deliver, serve and re-up??

No. You don't get it, and that's okay. You WANT to be ignorant.. You's a lonely ass bitch.

Sorry ass heffa.



It would be better for me to come there, I would be able to announce I'm on vacation and not be lying to my peoples.

I wouldn't have the burden of customers and haters, police.. We just got raided a few months ago.

And I ain't got to explain myself to some ignorant ass white slut.

SHUT THE FUCK UP TALKING TO ME, WITH YOUR LOOSE BOOTY ASS. SHE'S NOT COMING HERE AND THAT'S FINAL.
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That’s what I said! You can show her what? Your corner?

How about 5star hotel while you are on vacation? You would have to take one to go to Africa!

So have it here!

Shit! You need to stop put your profit into your body!!!

That’s what I am saying...

And why can’t you live alone without hungry for the ass bros roommates?

Because you have no shit! You are a bum and that’s why no one flying anywhere!!!

So leave her alone! Screw your own ass!

Her granny probably read some stones and told her that you are a trouble.

Good for her!
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Passed with flying colors of every shade of the poopy rainbow.

Coincidentally, she hit me up like an hour after making this thread.

Had a healthy conversation.

Didn't check her on her bullshit.

Didn't ignore her back.

Didn't tell her how much I much I missed her.

Didn't confess my dying love and scream that I'm getting plane ticket tonight

Didn't act like she was kidnapped.

AHAHAHAHAHAAA...

I knew she would get back to me, and she fuckin did.

I got other women to tend to.. Who the fuck she thought she was fucking with.
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Posted by Emhendo
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by Emhendo
Posted by Gemitati
You sound like 99% of women right here! 👋👋👋

There isn’t going to be an explanation!

There none!

She might be working her ass off to pay for your flight to see her. Because you are THE MAN can’t afford it on your own...

Or maybe she was hoping you will offer to come and see her after nudes...and when she didn’t get that she desided there are as many poor men in Africa and she doesn’t have to fly to see a bum oversees!


@HeartOfTopaz

@CaramelizedCoffee

I'm glad y'all found this very amusing.

Look. Skank.

Are you fuckin hard of reading and understanding?? Are you retarded or something? Do you purposely read what you wanna hear, instead of what I've actually said??

How many times I gotta tell you... WE HAVEN'T ARRANGED ANY PLANS TO MEET. WE WERE JUST FLIRTING AND I SAID "fly me to Africa"..

This DOES NOT mean I can't afford it. This does not mean I am BROKE.. This does not mean she's working her ass off to pay for me a flight. This doesn't mean that there is going to BE a flight.

Are fuckin dumb or something?? Why did I have to go there??

Look. I sell drugs. I am literally my own fuckin boss and I could go whenever I want with proper planning. It's just too soon and I'm not sure if she is ready. WE aren't ready.

Hell, she's still SHIT TESTING.
Do you smoke/snort/inject all the profit from your business?

Lmao

Why man who has money wouldn’t say jokingly ‘let me show you my corner where I work and introduce you to great people whom I helping to be happy?’

Instead of you saying ‘fly me to Africa!’

See where you are stupid? You THINK you can fly her but when your money is inside of you - you go ‘shit! I did it again! I need to open saving account or something...’

Just trying to help! Do you have new cool snickers? Just curious...
Do you hear yourself??

You ugly ass boodigy face bitch.

Just because I flirted "fly me to Africa" doesn't mean I wouldn't rather fly her here.

I'm from CHICAGO anyway. She has no business here. I would love to fly her, we are actually waiting for the summer.. But then what??

A real man takes a woman to the trap house?? With other thirsty ass guys, pit bulls and drugs, DRUGS EVERYWHERE?!

Or take her back to the apartment, then fuckin ignore her 90% of the time because I have to deliver, serve and re-up??

No. You don't get it, and that's okay. You WANT to be ignorant.. You's a lonely ass bitch.

Sorry ass heffa.



It would be better for me to come there, I would be able to announce I'm on vacation and not be lying to my peoples.

I wouldn't have the burden of customers and haters, police.. We just got raided a few months ago.

And I ain't got to explain myself to some ignorant ass white slut.

SHUT THE FUCK UP TALKING TO ME, WITH YOUR LOOSE BOOTY ASS. SHE'S NOT COMING HERE AND THAT'S FINAL.


You know its times like this I'm embarrass to be a Gemini because of gemitati. This is why her cancer man left her behind to take a flight to Oklahoma city. I just read her posts and laugh now. She don't even bother me anymore.

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Nah, bro. I just like snapping LMAO.. LEt Me SNaP *eeter jerking*
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Posted by NemDeux
Posted by Emhendo
Passed with flying colors of every shade of the poopy rainbow.

Coincidentally, she hit me up like an hour after making this thread.

Had a healthy conversation.

Didn't check her on her bullshit.

Didn't ignore her back.

Didn't tell her how much I much I missed her.

Didn't confess my dying love and scream that I'm getting plane ticket tonight

Didn't act like she was kidnapped.

AHAHAHAHAHAAA...

I knew she would get back to me, and she fuckin did.

I got other women to tend to.. Who the fuck she thought she was fucking with.
this is in stark contradicition to what you said in your first post ...."this girl has no effect on my life" ...you sound spiteful/gleeful lol.

oh well. *shrugs*

people ....and their shit.

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Agh, shut your ass up. I can gloat in victory. Stoked to realize I was being tested and confident that I was acting accordingly..

You can get the fuck out of here, you ain't no type of psychological bully.. You only think you are. You THINK you said something profound. Mind your fuckin business.. Nobody cares about what you saying.
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Posted by NemDeux
Posted by Emhendo
Posted by NemDeux
Posted by Emhendo
Passed with flying colors of every shade of the poopy rainbow.

Coincidentally, she hit me up like an hour after making this thread.

Had a healthy conversation.

Didn't check her on her bullshit.

Didn't ignore her back.

Didn't tell her how much I much I missed her.

Didn't confess my dying love and scream that I'm getting plane ticket tonight

Didn't act like she was kidnapped.

AHAHAHAHAHAAA...

I knew she would get back to me, and she fuckin did.

I got other women to tend to.. Who the fuck she thought she was fucking with.
this is in stark contradicition to what you said in your first post ...."this girl has no effect on my life" ...you sound spiteful/gleeful lol.

oh well. *shrugs*

people ....and their shit.


Agh, shut your ass up. I can gloat in victory. Stoked to realize I was being tested and confident that I was acting accordingly..

You can get the fuck out of here, you ain't no type of psychological bully.. You only think you are. You THINK you said something profound. Mind your fuckin business.. Nobody cares about what you saying.


lol it is not psychology (although, i am certain there would be much to analyze!) .it's called...reading comprehension ....

this girl has no effect on my life ....

followed by paragraphs and paragraphs of your hysterical reactions and now also backpeddling ....oooohhhhk sam jackson. just do your thing.

DO ALL CAPS STILL EQUATE TO SHOUTING? so out of it.
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Yeah.... I said she has no effect on my life and then proceeded to gloat.. SO FUCKING WHAT??

What you are saying really doesn't mean shit. I can be proud of being right, rubbing it in.. And if she did it again.. I am literally STILL myself and my life is the same. Whether I'm being delusional or not.. The reality remains that SHE STILL HAS NO EFFECT..

Fuck.

"Reading comprehension" .. I'm SO glad you know to fucking read.

You need to COMPREHEND that I was saying that you sound like you pick people apart..

But pick your fuckin self apart, because you are one frightening looking ass bitch.. On my fucking thread looking WICKED as FUCK, trynna psychologically bully me.. AHAHAHA.

YES THESE CAP-LOCKS MEAN I AM YELLING. WHAT THE FUCK ELSE DOES IT MEAN??WHAT THE FUCK ELSE YOU GOTTA SAY??
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Posted by Emhendo
Via text.

I'm working on a long distance encounter at the moment.. If you haven't followed my last few threads, I was trynna form a sexual bond with a woman in South Africa.

I have succeeded and unprovokingly been sent nudes.

However, we have communicated every day for the past week.

Around this time, you'll get a pull away from the woman.. She'll disappeared for a bit on ya.

After constant communication, who wouldn't?

So we've last talked 2 days ago. I was the last to leave a message.

Of course you may be thinking "Damn.. That's very immature on her part. Why not hit you back that she's just busy? Why leave you hanging?"..

That's the thing.. She may be JUST busy. I'm also not entitled to get a damn text back whenever I want it anyway.

You can't feel like a victim or feel bad for yourself.

Sometimes women PURPOSELY stop contacting you just to SEE what WHAT YOU DO..



The best thing to do??

Send her 5 more texts, every other hour and hope she responds. If she doesn't, send 10 more the next day.

..........

NOT.

..

The best thing to do; is absolutely FUCKING NOTHING.

Why? Because nothing you say will engage her anyway. Why fuckin lose the game just to not get a response anyway. Women aren't dumb, she knows perfectly well that she has not texted you back.



Why do women potentially purposely ignore you?

They just want to see if you have a life. If you are as busy bodied as they are or more.. They want to see how much of a cling you really are.. How needy and possibly insecure you may be. Will you fold and get angry with her.. It's probably so many things she's testing for and trynna see about you.

This is just in their nature and it's nothing wrong with it. Some women don't even know they are doing it.. Some do.

I think my girl knows what she's doing.

So.

Flooding her with texts just sends so many red flags to her and you will scare a chick away.. Or just generally turn her off, and with zero attraction is zero interest.. So who the fuck texts people they aren't interested in texting?



I am still happy. She has no effect in my personal life by not hitting me back. I am calm, it's whatever, you know? .. I am confident she'll get back to me. Currently ACE-ING my shit test and she'll like me much more for minding my business and not feeling entitled.



Just thought I would share this with y'all.
Post nudes ....
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Don't tell me what to do.
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Posted by SpaceBird
Posted by Emhendo
Posted by SpaceBird
Posted by Emhendo
Via text.

I'm working on a long distance encounter at the moment.. If you haven't followed my last few threads, I was trynna form a sexual bond with a woman in South Africa.

I have succeeded and unprovokingly been sent nudes.

However, we have communicated every day for the past week.

Around this time, you'll get a pull away from the woman.. She'll disappeared for a bit on ya.

After constant communication, who wouldn't?

So we've last talked 2 days ago. I was the last to leave a message.

Of course you may be thinking "Damn.. That's very immature on her part. Why not hit you back that she's just busy? Why leave you hanging?"..

That's the thing.. She may be JUST busy. I'm also not entitled to get a damn text back whenever I want it anyway.

You can't feel like a victim or feel bad for yourself.

Sometimes women PURPOSELY stop contacting you just to SEE what WHAT YOU DO..



The best thing to do??

Send her 5 more texts, every other hour and hope she responds. If she doesn't, send 10 more the next day.

..........

NOT.

..

The best thing to do; is absolutely FUCKING NOTHING.

Why? Because nothing you say will engage her anyway. Why fuckin lose the game just to not get a response anyway. Women aren't dumb, she knows perfectly well that she has not texted you back.



Why do women potentially purposely ignore you?

They just want to see if you have a life. If you are as busy bodied as they are or more.. They want to see how much of a cling you really are.. How needy and possibly insecure you may be. Will you fold and get angry with her.. It's probably so many things she's testing for and trynna see about you.

This is just in their nature and it's nothing wrong with it. Some women don't even know they are doing it.. Some do.

I think my girl knows what she's doing.

So.

Flooding her with texts just sends so many red flags to her and you will scare a chick away.. Or just generally turn her off, and with zero attraction is zero interest.. So who the fuck texts people they aren't interested in texting?



I am still happy. She has no effect in my personal life by not hitting me back. I am calm, it's whatever, you know? .. I am confident she'll get back to me. Currently ACE-ING my shit test and she'll like me much more for minding my business and not feeling entitled.



Just thought I would share this with y'all.
Post nudes ....
Don't tell me what to do.

Don't you tell me not to tell you....

And eh ....just my opinion ..but i think this whole thing with you and Her (?) is a hugely productive use of your time ...time you will get back in life....i feel you are learning and developing social skills and cues ..i see a HUGE IMPROVEMENT from your last posts ...

It's clear you are grounded ...

Well done 🙂 Go you!

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Yeah. Yup.

Thanks.

Not use to kind words. Do we hug now..?