Do you believe in coincidences or destiny?

Hi

I'm just curious to know what you might think about certain situations because I'm so confused and I don't know if what I'm going through is a coincidence or destiny.

So I know this guy and he has almost everything in common with me. We have the same beliefs, his family is similar to mine, we have the same hobbies, passions, taste in music and we think a lot alike.

I've never met someone so similar to me before and I feel as if I found my soul mate and I'm not sure if I'm meant to be with him. Do you believe two people are DESTINED to be together? I know opposites attract but sometimes it doesn't work and it leads to disagreements.

Could something like this be just a coincidence of life? What if he ends up with someone else even though we click so well and he's PERFECT for me? Someone guide me please 😕

I only believe in coincidences.

Funny enough, I once said similar things about a guy - we had so much in common it was kind of crazy. Turns out, HE was crazy. Like, legit crazy.

On another note, I also thought someone else was great for me and that we had an instant connection, etc. Turns out he didn't feel the same way in the beginning. All you can go off of in life is your own perspective and thoughts.

You already sound like you're really attached to the idea of being together without having a good idea of what the outcome will be. Which, isn't exactly abnormal. But, if it crashes and burns I think you'll be especially hurt since it seems like you want to believe it's destiny.

I believe in both coincidences and destiny.

Coincidences. The occassional irony of these is what we wrongfully define as Destiny

Posted by AerialView
I believe in both coincidences and destiny.

*high fives* same

I believe in destiny for 9 years now...

Which started as coincidence...

Don’t ask. There is no answer to this!

And yes! We are the same person divided on man and woman.

Doesn’t matter! Give it to the God!

And keep on living.

But what’s your relationships?

Is there any?

Both

Was never sure if I had to believe in destiny and miracles until like few months ago.

But yeah he ending up with somone else is very much possible and it might just be a coincidence. I mean I believe you'll only be given an opportunity and you need to work it.I dunno how often it happens that we think someone is perfect for us.

But not sure you're meant to be with him and you think he's perfect for you??🤔🤔🤔