
LittleFairy
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Posted by LittleFairyIndications:
I am wondering ..these are the people i want to be hanging with in future ...
No more man or woman babies as dates or friends.



Posted by SentimentalCrabbyQuote
I am confuse, what're you trying to point out here?
You want to be around people who are emotionally matured; that could control their emotions instead of being unstabled?


Posted by Therealjane10Pretty good. Ty!Posted by LittleFairyIndications:
I am wondering ..these are the people i want to be hanging with in future ...
No more man or woman babies as dates or friends.
Observant
Self control
Good listener
High intuition
Highly intelligent(book smart, street smart, people smart)
Just to name a fewclick to expand

Posted by SheeverThat's interesting I would never have thought of the surprise element!
Not easy to spot, usually quiet because observant, still easily engaging to anyone. Sensitive and responsive. Will surprise you in conversation

Posted by SentimentalCrabbyI don't unfortunately right now.Posted by LittleFairyAhhh! I see, okay! 🙂Posted by SentimentalCrabbyQuote
I am confuse, what're you trying to point out here?
You want to be around people who are emotionally matured; that could control their emotions instead of being unstabled?
Emotional intelligence (EI) is the capability of individuals to recognize their own emotions and those of others, discern between different feelings and label them appropriately, use emotional information to guide thinking and behavior, and manage and/or adjust emotions to adapt to environments or achieve one's goals
I feel like I have that when it comes to my circleclick to expand


Posted by SentimentalCrabbyYeah. I think I felt responsible for a lot of people previously. I tended to encounter a lot of people going through crisis and find myself in the caring mode.Posted by LittleFairyHopefully you'll find a way to gain that?Posted by SentimentalCrabbyI don't unfortunately right now.Posted by LittleFairyAhhh! I see, okay! 🙂Posted by SentimentalCrabbyQuote
I am confuse, what're you trying to point out here?
You want to be around people who are emotionally matured; that could control their emotions instead of being unstabled?
Emotional intelligence (EI) is the capability of individuals to recognize their own emotions and those of others, discern between different feelings and label them appropriately, use emotional information to guide thinking and behavior, and manage and/or adjust emotions to adapt to environments or achieve one's goals
I feel like I have that when it comes to my circleclick to expand

Posted by LittleFairyWell, it's not easy. High EQ people usually loner and not open to everyone. Just because you may be one, doesn't mean others keen for your company. Altough those people are giver and sharing they also very fussy whom they let close.
I hope i am not bragging ..but it's like I feel I have a lot of this. And i feel others around me are blind. Or one on one they end up crying over my shoulder ....
I do have some peeps i would consider have a high EQ but I would like to befriend more.


Posted by SheeverI think they get surprised when they realize that with little words you can get to the deepest part of the conversation.
Not easy to spot, usually quiet because observant, still easily engaging to anyone. Sensitive and responsive. Will surprise you in conversation
Posted by pisceswoman123Yes, also they testing how deep they can go in conversation. Can get bored of casual topics, not interested in How's the weather and what did you eat yesterday.Posted by SheeverI think they get surprised when they realize that with little words you can get to the deepest part of the conversation.
Not easy to spot, usually quiet because observant, still easily engaging to anyone. Sensitive and responsive. Will surprise you in conversationclick to expand


Posted by SheeverOMG. You just got inside my mind. HahahaPosted by pisceswoman123Yes, also they testing how deep they can go in conversation. Can get bored of casual topics, not interested in How's the weather and what did you eat yesterday.Posted by SheeverI think they get surprised when they realize that with little words you can get to the deepest part of the conversation.
Not easy to spot, usually quiet because observant, still easily engaging to anyone. Sensitive and responsive. Will surprise you in conversationclick to expand
Posted by pisceswoman123😉
Well I relate to this a lot!
I can see that no everyone has it.
In reality you feel like you understand people so well but they don’t understand you.

Posted by pisceswoman123But does why you don’t bother with lots of people. The ones that gets you are a keeper 😄Posted by SheeverOMG. You just got inside my mind. HahahaPosted by pisceswoman123Yes, also they testing how deep they can go in conversation. Can get bored of casual topics, not interested in How's the weather and what did you eat yesterday.Posted by SheeverI think they get surprised when they realize that with little words you can get to the deepest part of the conversation.
Not easy to spot, usually quiet because observant, still easily engaging to anyone. Sensitive and responsive. Will surprise you in conversationclick to expand
Posted by pisceswoman123They love like no otherPosted by SheeverOMG. You just got inside my mind. HahahaPosted by pisceswoman123Yes, also they testing how deep they can go in conversation. Can get bored of casual topics, not interested in How's the weather and what did you eat yesterday.Posted by SheeverI think they get surprised when they realize that with little words you can get to the deepest part of the conversation.
Not easy to spot, usually quiet because observant, still easily engaging to anyone. Sensitive and responsive. Will surprise you in conversationclick to expand

Posted by SheeverSsssshhhuuuu... Don’t tell everyone 😉Posted by pisceswoman123They love like no otherPosted by SheeverOMG. You just got inside my mind. HahahaPosted by pisceswoman123Yes, also they testing how deep they can go in conversation. Can get bored of casual topics, not interested in How's the weather and what did you eat yesterday.Posted by SheeverI think they get surprised when they realize that with little words you can get to the deepest part of the conversation.
Not easy to spot, usually quiet because observant, still easily engaging to anyone. Sensitive and responsive. Will surprise you in conversation
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Posted by pisceswoman123TruePosted by pisceswoman123But does why you don’t bother with lots of people. The ones that gets you are a keeper 😄Posted by SheeverOMG. You just got inside my mind. HahahaPosted by pisceswoman123Yes, also they testing how deep they can go in conversation. Can get bored of casual topics, not interested in How's the weather and what did you eat yesterday.Posted by SheeverI think they get surprised when they realize that with little words you can get to the deepest part of the conversation.
Not easy to spot, usually quiet because observant, still easily engaging to anyone. Sensitive and responsive. Will surprise you in conversationclick to expand
Posted by pisceswoman123It doesn't make you vulnerable 😉 exact oppositePosted by SheeverSsssshhhuuuu... Don’t tell everyone 😉Posted by pisceswoman123They love like no otherPosted by SheeverOMG. You just got inside my mind. HahahaPosted by pisceswoman123Yes, also they testing how deep they can go in conversation. Can get bored of casual topics, not interested in How's the weather and what did you eat yesterday.Posted by SheeverI think they get surprised when they realize that with little words you can get to the deepest part of the conversation.
Not easy to spot, usually quiet because observant, still easily engaging to anyone. Sensitive and responsive. Will surprise you in conversation
click to expand

Posted by SheeverTrue.Posted by pisceswoman123It doesn't make you vulnerable 😉 exact oppositePosted by SheeverSsssshhhuuuu... Don’t tell everyone 😉Posted by pisceswoman123They love like no otherPosted by SheeverOMG. You just got inside my mind. HahahaPosted by pisceswoman123Yes, also they testing how deep they can go in conversation. Can get bored of casual topics, not interested in How's the weather and what did you eat yesterday.Posted by SheeverI think they get surprised when they realize that with little words you can get to the deepest part of the conversation.
Not easy to spot, usually quiet because observant, still easily engaging to anyone. Sensitive and responsive. Will surprise you in conversation
click to expand

Posted by Therealjane10Basically men in their mid 30s and abovePosted by LittleFairyIndications:
I am wondering ..these are the people i want to be hanging with in future ...
No more man or woman babies as dates or friends.
Observant
Self control
Good listener
High intuition
Highly intelligent(book smart, street smart, people smart)
Just to name a fewclick to expand

Posted by The_eleventh_sign_11Anger issues have many reasons. I think, You feel cornered but stressed because you see the outcome of situations and you know that is not you, whom not let it resolve it. That is most probably the reason you respond that way.
I have emotional intelligence and it has helped me and others out heaps, I’m always breaking up fights and helping resolve conflicts and comforting people during the worst times by giving them clarity.
Mind you having said that I have very little emotional management skills and I have anger issues that get triggered when I’m stressed and cornered because I get very claustrophobic in heated situations.

Posted by SheeverOh it’s from bottling my feelings up a lot when I was in my 20s, when I lash out and go crazy I get this overwhelming, alienating feeling and I feel scared afterwards, it’s the flight or fight response and it’s really hard to manage those types of feelings for me because I hate talking about that shit to people, I’m not ashamed about a lot of things and I’m quite transparent but when it comes to that shit my natural reaction is to bottle it up.Posted by The_eleventh_sign_11Anger issues have many reasons. I think, You feel cornered but stressed because you see the outcome of situations and you know that is not you, whom not let it resolve it. That is most probably the reason you respond that way.
I have emotional intelligence and it has helped me and others out heaps, I’m always breaking up fights and helping resolve conflicts and comforting people during the worst times by giving them clarity.
Mind you having said that I have very little emotional management skills and I have anger issues that get triggered when I’m stressed and cornered because I get very claustrophobic in heated situations.
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Posted by TheSagYep!Posted by Therealjane10Basically men in their mid 30s and abovePosted by LittleFairyIndications:
I am wondering ..these are the people i want to be hanging with in future ...
No more man or woman babies as dates or friends.
Observant
Self control
Good listener
High intuition
Highly intelligent(book smart, street smart, people smart)
Just to name a fewclick to expand

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