Jealousy by Sun Sign (Page 2)

i tend to question whether humans were really meant to be monogamous, but regardless i would never cheat (and by cheat i mean kiss, touch inappropriately, or have sex with another person) in a relationship that was both parties expected to be monogamous.

i just don't see any justification for that.

wow that sentence made so much sense.

i meant *in a relationship that both parties expected to be monogamous*

that's because women are stupid.

a lot of women marry men that they're not sexually compatible with and they do so in order to get a ring and have kids. we're on a timeline ya see? beggars can't be choosers so if you find a guy who's ready to commit, reality dictates that she'd say "yes," even if in the bedroom, it's all "no's."

if she's not enjoying his sex, then how much can he enjoy hers? when the reality sets in and it becomes clear what marriage and kids entail, then it's like wow, not only do i have to look at this bastard for the rest of my life but i have to let him fuck me too? shiiiiiiit!

if not sex, money and kids. the point is, chicks are dumb and where they may love their mate, far too many move forward in relationships because "this might be my one and only chance" rather than choosing and being chosen based on real value and merit.

point being, how can you be monogamous when you weren't truly happy with your partner to begin with? and i'm not talking about the normal discord that comes along with any relationship. i mean, if the bastard can't make your toes curl, why allow him to put his inadequate wee up in ya? cause he gave you a ring? yeah...fuck that!

did you know days said that you're a "bottom?"

i can see it but you seem like a "top."

inquiring minds want to know. gemini's, bottoms or tops?

Tubbs,

you make very good points. What about the women who say that the sex is "so-so" but are happy anyway?


they're LIARS!

you'd be amazed at the number of "women" who don't know their own anatomy, let alone how to use it. one of my friends was 18 years old before she realized where her vagina was. she literally didn't know that there was a hole down there and truthfully, you wouldn't know unless you went looking for it so uhm...yeah.

chicks are not like guys. we don't have things that rise up in english class that scream "touch me and rub me up and down until i spew." as a result, a lot of women don't know what the hell they're doing and by virtue of that, they're willing to accept "so-so" because they don't know what "MIND BLOWING" is.

ie, i have a virgo friend, 32 years old, who has NEVER had an orgasm...and the bitch has had quite a few partners. sure, some women have difficulty achieving them but for the most part, they're doing it wrong.

thus, if you (chick) sucks in bed, he has every reason to step out on you. you can't please yourself, how can you please someone else?

oh, and a lot of women will confuse an emotional connection with a sexual one. a woman can love someone so much that she can convince herself that he has the best cock known to man.

however, what's love got to do with it?

sure, there has to be a mind body connection but sex is a first and foremost a physical act. therefore, women who elevate their emotions over their physical needs are bound to disappoint their partners because everyone knows, men want whores...in the bedroom at least.

you can't make ho a housewife, but a housewife that thinks like one? awesome!

^or would that be the best cock known to woman?

hmmmm...

i think i've expressed myself enough for you to know that i don't settle when it comes to that arena. not sure if that's a taurean trait or what but i'd rather be alone than have it not work in the bedroom.

as to your other question, what kind of sick bitch is going to examine her crotch when it's bloody? plus, it's bloody! how are you supposed to identify the source without pokin' stuff?

oh, and our first "real" date was in new orleans. it was amazing! i'd been there a couple times before and it didnt impress me but i had an awesome time with him. we're definitely going again...and there was no random gyration in a bad power suit and ghetto gold earrings.

on a side note, i wanted to add that you're not asshole...wait, you are an asshole but not a big gaping one 😛

Venus in Aries I'm telling you.

I have moments where I'm just flat out fucking insane with jealousy. Completely irrational.

Thankfully it's not often, but when I do get it later on I'm like WTF is actually wrong with me where the hell did that come from?

Venus in Aries, I curse you.

Its a normal human emotion, just like anger. No one is above it, we just handle it differently based on a number of factors.


If someone said they don't get jealous, they are lying. Period. Its like saying you don't get angry. Its just impossible.



Nothing unique or bad about what you described at all, really. You seem to be handling it well. That's what counts.