Men who are being abused as kids

I googled it, and didn’t find any real answers .

I wanna know, what the signs of men who are being abused as kids ?

And I mean Sexually abused 💔

Posted by Arielle83

I think it’s different in how they work through it.

My uncle is always swinging back and forth.

He joined a church because ashamed.

Then realized he might be gay.

Then got into heavy coke and alcohol abuse

Swung back to sobriety and joined AA

Been sober ever since

Now he thinks he saw the wrong psychologist as a kid and never was gay.

He’s 63.

I don’t think it’s a clear line for ppl.

Women are similar. Some might be confused.

Some angry, ashamed. Some in denial. Some want to conquer their sexuality power and be aggressively dominate. Or some go asexual.

It’s like a pendulum swinging up and down and far away.

Oh god.

I have been thinking that one of my male friends actually been abused as kid, he did ask me one time about if he is gay or not? And that he didn’t know what’s really he prefer.

And he is religious too

Posted by Arielle83

Kids also can grow into hyper sexual adults due to early introduction

Three friends of mine were abused and ended up hyper sexual...

Posted by Phantom_Dangus

I'm not sure about grown men, but I used to work with adolescent boys and little boys who had been sexually abused. Different boys handled it differently, but a preoccupation with sex and anger were the most common symptoms. One little boy was extremely passive. He ended up at our home because he set his mother's bed on fire.

God forbid he was an active!!! 🤦‍♀️

This is very sad. Have a talk with him if possible alone and ask non leading questions

The same as the woman. " Can " be undateable and a damage case

I know a guy who was raped by his female babysitter when he was like 11. Outwardly he looks together and all that but the way every woman has left him, makes you wonder what goes on behind closed doors. It's almost like since then he has to be in control both sexually and mentally. He likes strong women but I think it's because he enjoys tearing them down.

Aggression. Anger. Bullying others. Isolation.

Thank you everyone, I really appreciate all your comments.

God bless you 🙏🏻🌧