MissLibra
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Moving Forward
His job is not transferable like mine is. He'd lose his retirement if he left it. His family lives close by him. No kids at home. He owns his own home.
The move is about 200 miles away.
Have you considered just filling your house with cats OP?
who needs a relationship
Posted by FrostedEllyIt's not the relationship or him. I feel safe and confident that those are good. It is the change. I'm not good with changing things. I feel guilty about doing this for "me". I've always been here with my kids. This feels like a new chapter of my life and it's a bit scary. I've raised my kids by myself. They are happy and healthy, doing their own thing now. I feel like it's my turn to do for myself but I feel guilty and somewhat selfish. I am having trouble justifying that with myself.Posted by MissLibraSo between a three to four hour drive? That's not terrible. If their adjacent major cities it could be less with a flight.
The move is about 200 miles away.
It's natural for it to be daunting. But if you also have a lot of excitement over it and you have faith in the stability of the relationships future why not. If you doubt him or his steadiness there's probably a reason for that.
You just have to sort out whether it's normal jitters or legitimate doubts.click to expand
Posted by hydorahLOL...cats are not for me.
Have you considered just filling your house with cats OP?
Posted by SensitiveBlues
200 miles thats nothing
But I'd be pissed
That's another thing...missing out on little stuff with my kids and grandson.
Posted by SensitiveBluesI've been considering that. The market is so bad right now for selling.
Don't sell your house!
Rent it
Honestly.don't sell anything to shack up with him, someone said rent out and I think that's a fabulous idea, if he wants you to move in then that's fine at least you'll have something to fall back on if you guys get sick of each other from living together.....and you'll have money.In the bank
But honestly you're kids and grandkids need you, you shouldn't feel that because they are a family that you're not a part of that.
But honestly you're kids and grandkids need you, you shouldn't feel that because they are a family that you're not a part of that.
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