Our generation

This topic was created in the Miscellaneous forum by P3n3lop3 on Tuesday, June 21, 2016 and has 11 replies.

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@P3n3lop3
10 Years

I would really like the opportunity to give a man everything he needs & shower my luv on...but I always run into the wrong ones that take advantage. The guys in my age group don't know themselves,married, or lack family values & are scared of commitment. All they want to do is bang u & on 2 the next & spend ur money & use ur resources....I'm not a cheesecake so no sampling here I'm very loyal & believe no ones perfect & everyone has flaws it's just finding the person that will take you flaws and all. It's nice to have someone to travel with and do crazy stuff that u would with a best friend. I don't need multiple and I'm past the "Oh he has to be this size". Unconditional luv it's like I thrive off it bringing me balance to succeed & peace. I just hate that whoever God may send they will have missed out on my youth & my best years & get the b!tchy independent girl....with me out of love everything goes down the drain even my health. Just venting....it's this guy I really like & I kno dxp would be like really? If they found out his sign & b like U just clowned these niggaz but I really wanna give him my all but I think from his past hurt he may not trust me..I've been told guys are intimidated by me and feel I'm too good to be true thinking I must be hiding something under all the luv when truly I'm just the real deal. Celibacy is killingggggggg me but I have no other options diseases r too common...Jesus must really b my husband lol bcuz no man on earth has been worthy of taking my fathers place. So I'll stay loyal to God the bible states in the end we win....& maybe I'll be in the number of those of the fifth seal in revelation of martyrs screaming "How long, Oh Lord, Holy & True....

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@rabidtalker
15 Years5,000+ Posts

i knew a girl who was horrible with men, she moved cities and started swimming with quality ones. maybe you just need a change of scenery? if you cant do that change places you usually go, hang out or something like that.

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@tcta
10 Years5,000+ Posts

Posted by rabidtalker
i knew a girl who was horrible with men, she moved cities and started swimming with quality ones. maybe you just need a change of scenery? if you cant do that change places you usually go, hang out or something like that.

I agree, I found myself once again in a college town with a younger crowd. Moved here with my exhusband and when he left I was able to get the house because I do love it in the mountains - it's so peaceful. But there are no people much less men of any substance around. Any of the older men are just the old leftover hoes drunks and crazies and/or lazies. I go to work, then I come home to take care of the home which is a lot of outside work. Now I am working on my house to sell and move back to civilization and closer to my grandchildren. Hopefully the pool of men will be larger - that is if Libra and I don't work out - right now we are still just friends ...

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@HappyCapper
11 Years5,000+ Posts

Because everything is everyone elses fault, right? And never mind writing actual words? Readability is overrated, right? I honestly didn't think I would block anyone on dxp or anywhere else for that matter, but your posts just take up space - they add nothing. My last piece of advice to you: step out of the victim suit and look yourself in the mirror - maybe...just maybe, you're not perfect.

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@P3n3lop3
10 Years

& thank u guys for ur comments I was just venting I wasn't expecting any feedback I never like to be a bother but u just never know if there is someone out there that feels the same as u do so I post here bcuz maybe they are in another state maybe they may be down the street hell I don't really know like any1 I try to stay open to possibilities

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@P3n3lop3
10 Years

Thank you and I hope the same for you as well at least we know it's still people that believe in it. The other comments were to someone I blocked they were trolling & rude

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@P3n3lop3
10 Years

Lol no values & a lot of broken homes and ppl. Hate to see my kids go thru the next..it's like we are deteriorating & not passing down important family values and like they say big mama won't always be there or granny lol