WarEternal
@WarEternal
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Pisces men š
Posted by TXCowboy
With that Aries venus, something happened and he's totally turned off.
There's a lot more to this story.
Iām an Aries Venus as well š¤ nothing has changed besides me being sweet and supportive
Posted by alexscaries
Simple send him a text saying "Hey. How are you?" Nothing more. Re-engage the chat.
Third time though? š„ŗ
What is he writing in his long essay? š¤
I think most of the time people get hurt because they project their wants and needs onto the other person instead of observing how the other person treat them and act accordingly.
Do you really want to chase someone who stops talking to you or ignore you? If someone really wants to talk to you they will make time for you. You can reply and talk to him but I wouldn't get emotionally invested if I was you unless his actions showed he was interested.
Do you really want to chase someone who stops talking to you or ignore you? If someone really wants to talk to you they will make time for you. You can reply and talk to him but I wouldn't get emotionally invested if I was you unless his actions showed he was interested.
Posted by WarEternalPosted by alexscaries
Simple send him a text saying "Hey. How are you?" Nothing more. Re-engage the chat.
Third time though? š„ŗclick to expand
No don't do it. Twice was enough. š
Posted by Timone
What is he writing in his long essay? š¤
How heās stressed with work and the music industry(heās also a musician). Heād then ask me how Iām doing. When I told him something happened, but I didnāt want to give details, but he insisted on wanting to know and then disappeared. It was mostly about how my dogs were attacked(thankfully theyāre okay) and Iām still looking for work
Second time, same story with him except he was at the airport lacking sleep and I didnāt talk about myself. He wanted to know how my interviews went and I said, āitās coming along šā he then butt dialed me š¤Ø When I asked him if he meant to, he replied,
āHaha sorry that was a mistake, I pressed the button without knowing because of my bandage š I wouldn't try and call without asking you before, don't worry šā
I try to bring positive vibes and flirted back saying, āI would mind if you did call āŗļøI miss your faceā
Left on read since last week š„²
Posted by WarEternalPosted by Timone
What is he writing in his long essay? š¤
How heās stressed with work and the music industry(heās also a musician). Heād then ask me how Iām doing. When I told him something happened, but I didnāt want to give details, but he insisted on wanting to know and then disappeared. It was mostly about how my dogs were attacked(thankfully theyāre okay) and Iām still looking for work
Second time, same story with him except he was at the airport lacking sleep and I didnāt talk about myself. He wanted to know how my interviews went and I said, āitās coming along šā he then butt dialed me š¤Ø When I asked him if he meant to, he replied,
āHaha sorry that was a mistake, I pressed the button without knowing because of my bandage š I wouldn't try and call without asking you before, don't worry šā
I try to bring positive vibes and flirted back saying, āI would mind if you did call āŗļøI miss your faceā
Left on read since last week š„²click to expand
Seems like he has a lot going on in his life and you're not in his priority atm. I wouldn't keep reaching out if I was met with the same result. Interest should be mutual. If he never reaches out then there's your answer.
Posted by Timone
I think most of the time people get hurt because they project their wants and needs onto the other person instead of observing how the other person treat them and act accordingly.
Do you really want to chase someone who stops talking to you or ignore you? If someone really wants to talk to you they will make time for you. You can reply and talk to him but I wouldn't get emotionally invested if I was you unless his actions showed he was interested.
Of course not, but this was all so sudden! I developed care for him. On top of that, he told me prior that he would be busy and that itāll take a āfew daysā to get back at me since concert season started in July and he started a new job recently. But for two weeks and then again ignore me for a week? š¤
I trusted him and am patient. It was unlike him to stop caring and I try to give the benefit of the doubt by reaching out the second time
I gave him my itinerary in August, he was excited. I posted passively two days ago in my, āclose friendsā group on my story since the trip is less than 3 weeks and didnāt respond š
Posted by TimonePosted by WarEternalPosted by Timone
What is he writing in his long essay? š¤
How heās stressed with work and the music industry(heās also a musician). Heād then ask me how Iām doing. When I told him something happened, but I didnāt want to give details, but he insisted on wanting to know and then disappeared. It was mostly about how my dogs were attacked(thankfully theyāre okay) and Iām still looking for work
Second time, same story with him except he was at the airport lacking sleep and I didnāt talk about myself. He wanted to know how my interviews went and I said, āitās coming along šā he then butt dialed me š¤Ø When I asked him if he meant to, he replied,
āHaha sorry that was a mistake, I pressed the button without knowing because of my bandage š I wouldn't try and call without asking you before, don't worry šā
I try to bring positive vibes and flirted back saying, āI would mind if you did call āŗļøI miss your faceā
Left on read since last week š„²
Seems like he has a lot going on in his life and you're not in his priority atm. I wouldn't keep reaching out if I was met with the same result. Interest should be mutual. If he never reaches out then there's your answer.click to expand
Youāre absolutely right š£ itās just painful right now that I have to get over because the unknown is torture plus I developed feelings
It doesnāt hurt to just communicate if he lost feelings or whatever. If he wanted to be just friends, I wouldnāt mind it because thatās I wanted originally
Being ghosted sucks
Posted by WarEternalPosted by Timone
I think most of the time people get hurt because they project their wants and needs onto the other person instead of observing how the other person treat them and act accordingly.
Do you really want to chase someone who stops talking to you or ignore you? If someone really wants to talk to you they will make time for you. You can reply and talk to him but I wouldn't get emotionally invested if I was you unless his actions showed he was interested.
Of course not, but this was all so sudden! I developed care for him. On top of that, he told me prior that he would be busy and that itāll take a āfew daysā to get back at me since concert season started in July and he started a new job recently. But for two weeks and then again ignore me for a week? š¤
I trusted him and am patient. It was unlike him to stop caring and I try to give the benefit of the doubt by reaching out the second time
I gave him my itinerary in August, he was excited. I posted passively two days ago in my, āclose friendsā group on my story since the trip is less than 3 weeks and didnāt respond šclick to expand
I get it. It sucks but anything could have happened since then. He could have lost interest. Nobody is that busy that they can't send a text in a week if they really wanted to. It's about priorities. He might still like you but you're just not a priority to him. I think you should redirect your energy on your trip and the fun you will have with your friends on the trip.
Posted by WarEternalPosted by TimonePosted by WarEternalPosted by Timone
What is he writing in his long essay? š¤
How heās stressed with work and the music industry(heās also a musician). Heād then ask me how Iām doing. When I told him something happened, but I didnāt want to give details, but he insisted on wanting to know and then disappeared. It was mostly about how my dogs were attacked(thankfully theyāre okay) and Iām still looking for work
Second time, same story with him except he was at the airport lacking sleep and I didnāt talk about myself. He wanted to know how my interviews went and I said, āitās coming along šā he then butt dialed me š¤Ø When I asked him if he meant to, he replied,
āHaha sorry that was a mistake, I pressed the button without knowing because of my bandage š I wouldn't try and call without asking you before, don't worry šā
I try to bring positive vibes and flirted back saying, āI would mind if you did call āŗļøI miss your faceā
Left on read since last week š„²
Seems like he has a lot going on in his life and you're not in his priority atm. I wouldn't keep reaching out if I was met with the same result. Interest should be mutual. If he never reaches out then there's your answer.
Youāre absolutely right š£ itās just painful right now that I have to get over because the unknown is torture plus I developed feelings
It doesnāt hurt to just communicate if he lost feelings or whatever. If he wanted to be just friends, I wouldnāt mind it because thatās I wanted originally
Being ghosted sucksclick to expand
Sorry you're going through this. It's never easy when you like someone and you want them to feel the same but sometimes no answer is also an answer. Even if you have feelings for him you deserve someone who wants you as much as you want them. ā¤ļø
Posted by TimonePosted by WarEternalPosted by Timone
I think most of the time people get hurt because they project their wants and needs onto the other person instead of observing how the other person treat them and act accordingly.
Do you really want to chase someone who stops talking to you or ignore you? If someone really wants to talk to you they will make time for you. You can reply and talk to him but I wouldn't get emotionally invested if I was you unless his actions showed he was interested.
Of course not, but this was all so sudden! I developed care for him. On top of that, he told me prior that he would be busy and that itāll take a āfew daysā to get back at me since concert season started in July and he started a new job recently. But for two weeks and then again ignore me for a week? š¤
I trusted him and am patient. It was unlike him to stop caring and I try to give the benefit of the doubt by reaching out the second time
I gave him my itinerary in August, he was excited. I posted passively two days ago in my, āclose friendsā group on my story since the trip is less than 3 weeks and didnāt respond š
I get it. It sucks but anything could have happened since then. He could have lost interest. Nobody is that busy that they can't send a text in a week if they really wanted to. It's about priorities. He might still like you but you're just not a priority to him. I think you should redirect your energy on your trip and the fun you will have with your friends on the trip.click to expand
I need to do that and I can look forward to the trip if anything and best, with friends! Least I can cry in a prettier place š
Posted by WarEternalPosted by TimonePosted by WarEternalPosted by Timone
I think most of the time people get hurt because they project their wants and needs onto the other person instead of observing how the other person treat them and act accordingly.
Do you really want to chase someone who stops talking to you or ignore you? If someone really wants to talk to you they will make time for you. You can reply and talk to him but I wouldn't get emotionally invested if I was you unless his actions showed he was interested.
Of course not, but this was all so sudden! I developed care for him. On top of that, he told me prior that he would be busy and that itāll take a āfew daysā to get back at me since concert season started in July and he started a new job recently. But for two weeks and then again ignore me for a week? š¤
I trusted him and am patient. It was unlike him to stop caring and I try to give the benefit of the doubt by reaching out the second time
I gave him my itinerary in August, he was excited. I posted passively two days ago in my, āclose friendsā group on my story since the trip is less than 3 weeks and didnāt respond š
I get it. It sucks but anything could have happened since then. He could have lost interest. Nobody is that busy that they can't send a text in a week if they really wanted to. It's about priorities. He might still like you but you're just not a priority to him. I think you should redirect your energy on your trip and the fun you will have with your friends on the trip.
I need to do that and I can look forward to the trip if anything and best, with friends! Least I can cry in a prettier place šclick to expand
I'm sure once you get to a new scenary and have fun with your friends you will forget all about him. You might even meet another hot European. š Keep you eyes open. šš
Posted by TimonePosted by WarEternalPosted by TimonePosted by WarEternalPosted by Timone
What is he writing in his long essay? š¤
How heās stressed with work and the music industry(heās also a musician). Heād then ask me how Iām doing. When I told him something happened, but I didnāt want to give details, but he insisted on wanting to know and then disappeared. It was mostly about how my dogs were attacked(thankfully theyāre okay) and Iām still looking for work
Second time, same story with him except he was at the airport lacking sleep and I didnāt talk about myself. He wanted to know how my interviews went and I said, āitās coming along šā he then butt dialed me š¤Ø When I asked him if he meant to, he replied,
āHaha sorry that was a mistake, I pressed the button without knowing because of my bandage š I wouldn't try and call without asking you before, don't worry šā
I try to bring positive vibes and flirted back saying, āI would mind if you did call āŗļøI miss your faceā
Left on read since last week š„²
Seems like he has a lot going on in his life and you're not in his priority atm. I wouldn't keep reaching out if I was met with the same result. Interest should be mutual. If he never reaches out then there's your answer.
Youāre absolutely right š£ itās just painful right now that I have to get over because the unknown is torture plus I developed feelings
It doesnāt hurt to just communicate if he lost feelings or whatever. If he wanted to be just friends, I wouldnāt mind it because thatās I wanted originally
Being ghosted sucks
Sorry you're going through this. It's never easy when you like someone and you want them to feel the same but sometimes no answer is also an answer. Even if you have feelings for him you deserve someone who wants you as much as you want them. ā¤ļøclick to expand
Youāre right and I do deserve better ā¤ļø
Not that it matters, but when he told me he got cheated on twice within a month in his relationship history with two different girlsā¦my empathy grew and I wanted to show him that thereās good still
I wasnāt the one he wanted, but who knows what will happen down the line
I appreciate your replies a lot, thank you š¤
Posted by WarEternalPosted by TimonePosted by WarEternalPosted by TimonePosted by WarEternalPosted by Timone
What is he writing in his long essay? š¤
How heās stressed with work and the music industry(heās also a musician). Heād then ask me how Iām doing. When I told him something happened, but I didnāt want to give details, but he insisted on wanting to know and then disappeared. It was mostly about how my dogs were attacked(thankfully theyāre okay) and Iām still looking for work
Second time, same story with him except he was at the airport lacking sleep and I didnāt talk about myself. He wanted to know how my interviews went and I said, āitās coming along šā he then butt dialed me š¤Ø When I asked him if he meant to, he replied,
āHaha sorry that was a mistake, I pressed the button without knowing because of my bandage š I wouldn't try and call without asking you before, don't worry šā
I try to bring positive vibes and flirted back saying, āI would mind if you did call āŗļøI miss your faceā
Left on read since last week š„²
Seems like he has a lot going on in his life and you're not in his priority atm. I wouldn't keep reaching out if I was met with the same result. Interest should be mutual. If he never reaches out then there's your answer.
Youāre absolutely right š£ itās just painful right now that I have to get over because the unknown is torture plus I developed feelings
It doesnāt hurt to just communicate if he lost feelings or whatever. If he wanted to be just friends, I wouldnāt mind it because thatās I wanted originally
Being ghosted sucks
Sorry you're going through this. It's never easy when you like someone and you want them to feel the same but sometimes no answer is also an answer. Even if you have feelings for him you deserve someone who wants you as much as you want them. ā¤ļø
Youāre right and I do deserve better ā¤ļø
Not that it matters, but when he told me he got cheated on twice within a month in his relationship history with two different girlsā¦my empathy grew and I wanted to show him that thereās good still
I wasnāt the one he wanted, but who knows what will happen down the line
I appreciate your replies a lot, thank you š¤click to expand
Best wishes to you. š¤
Posted by TimonePosted by WarEternalPosted by TimonePosted by WarEternalPosted by Timone
I think most of the time people get hurt because they project their wants and needs onto the other person instead of observing how the other person treat them and act accordingly.
Do you really want to chase someone who stops talking to you or ignore you? If someone really wants to talk to you they will make time for you. You can reply and talk to him but I wouldn't get emotionally invested if I was you unless his actions showed he was interested.
Of course not, but this was all so sudden! I developed care for him. On top of that, he told me prior that he would be busy and that itāll take a āfew daysā to get back at me since concert season started in July and he started a new job recently. But for two weeks and then again ignore me for a week? š¤
I trusted him and am patient. It was unlike him to stop caring and I try to give the benefit of the doubt by reaching out the second time
I gave him my itinerary in August, he was excited. I posted passively two days ago in my, āclose friendsā group on my story since the trip is less than 3 weeks and didnāt respond š
I get it. It sucks but anything could have happened since then. He could have lost interest. Nobody is that busy that they can't send a text in a week if they really wanted to. It's about priorities. He might still like you but you're just not a priority to him. I think you should redirect your energy on your trip and the fun you will have with your friends on the trip.
I need to do that and I can look forward to the trip if anything and best, with friends! Least I can cry in a prettier place š
I'm sure once you get to a new scenary and have fun with your friends you will forget all about him. You might even meet another hot European. š Keep you eyes open. ššclick to expand
Iām so looking forward šš¤© will do!
Iāve noticed Pisces men often want to disappear when things end up truly getting āseriousā. Itās like they enjoy things more in their head than in reality? But if you break their heart instead, they end up getting more obsessed š
Posted by twinkletwinklebish
None of this sounds like interest. Maybe he wanted someone to vent to for a while and then moved on.
For me tho I canāt see long distance being practical unless there is an end date to it.
Pisces might have indulged the fantasy of it for a bit and moved on but doesnāt have any ill intentions maybe.
If heās not replying then just move on with your life. And enjoy your trip! Who knows maybe if you post something he will reach out to hang out maybe not but againā¦ itās hard to see something like this getting to the next stage sadly unless both sides are communicating regularly and have actual conversations about the future.
Sorry š
He was the one to strongly pursue me and I didnāt want to initially because like you mentioned of the practicality. I eventually gave in because of his persistent efforts to lower my guard and this happens šheās all like, āeverything we do is genuine, I enjoy you and I feel at ease with you, etcā I thought about mentioning how it hurt me, but maybe I shouldnāt and just enjoy my life
Posted by SassyKiwi
Iāve noticed Pisces men often want to disappear when things end up truly getting āseriousā. Itās like they enjoy things more in their head than in reality? But if you break their heart instead, they end up getting more obsessed š
Thatās exactly it!!! š
NGL, I thought about ghosting him if he reached out, but I donāt want to be toxic because Iām not that type of person to fight hurt with hurt
Part of me still wants him, but just donāt know how to go about it besides just live my life
Posted by WarEternalPosted by SassyKiwi
Iāve noticed Pisces men often want to disappear when things end up truly getting āseriousā. Itās like they enjoy things more in their head than in reality? But if you break their heart instead, they end up getting more obsessed š
Thatās exactly it!!! š
NGL, I thought about ghosting him if he reached out, but I donāt want to be toxic because Iām not that type of person to fight hurt with hurt
Part of me still wants him, but just donāt know how to go about it besides just live my lifeclick to expand
You donāt have to necessarily ghost him. If he reaches out, just act romantically uninterested in him and as if youāre having the time of your lifeā¦ maybe even unexpectedly coming across new relationship prospects š Itās never toxic to put yourself above someoneās inconsistency.
Posted by SassyKiwiPosted by WarEternalPosted by SassyKiwi
Iāve noticed Pisces men often want to disappear when things end up truly getting āseriousā. Itās like they enjoy things more in their head than in reality? But if you break their heart instead, they end up getting more obsessed š
Thatās exactly it!!! š
NGL, I thought about ghosting him if he reached out, but I donāt want to be toxic because Iām not that type of person to fight hurt with hurt
Part of me still wants him, but just donāt know how to go about it besides just live my life
You donāt have to necessarily ghost him. If he reaches out, just act romantically uninterested in him and as if youāre having the time of your lifeā¦ maybe even unexpectedly coming across new relationship prospects š Itās never toxic to put yourself above someoneās inconsistency.click to expand
Youāre absolutely right š treat him like a bro unless he wants to step up. Otherwise, I can have other options and have the time of my life š
Start a fight. He may get off on it
Posted by nanobotz
Iām talking to a DOUBLE Pisces guy (very LDR but tentative plans to meet by the end of the year) for the past month and a half, and after reading this thread, Iām wondering if all this talk will manifest to real life action or if itās just a fantasy. I guess time will tell. I think the old adage āpeople make time for whatās important to themā outweighs astrology. That was a difficult pill to swallow forā¦ most of my twenties.
Just wait it out and see what kind of efforts he puts in when it really comes down to you being over there, right?
I hope all goes well for you! Pisces men in my experience have been all talk, no action and then disappear. Depending how this goes, I may eventually remove him for the sake of my mental health
Hah! I never thought of Aries Venus as selfish, but.......................ok.
Posted by nanobotzPosted by WarEternalPosted by nanobotz
Iām talking to a DOUBLE Pisces guy (very LDR but tentative plans to meet by the end of the year) for the past month and a half, and after reading this thread, Iām wondering if all this talk will manifest to real life action or if itās just a fantasy. I guess time will tell. I think the old adage āpeople make time for whatās important to themā outweighs astrology. That was a difficult pill to swallow forā¦ most of my twenties.
Just wait it out and see what kind of efforts he puts in when it really comes down to you being over there, right?
I hope all goes well for you! Pisces men in my experience have been all talk, no action and then disappear. Depending how this goes, I may eventually remove him for the sake of my mental health
Iām having the opposite issue with mine currently. Iāve cooled off lately and heās trying to book the tickets, make the plans, likeā¦ yesterday. I hate my Gemini indecision or why Iām suddenly questioning all of it. I canāt imagine those 2 signs working on paper. Any progress or anything new happening with yours?click to expand
Glad things are better on your end it sounds! Itās confirmed once he books the tickets of course. Itās the overthinking part of you thinking, āwow this is too good to be trueā maybe? I know of a Gemini/Pisces couple and are happily married
Nothing :/ he has not reached out to me, but is active and liking othersā post šstill follows me. Tbh, ever since I posted my itinerary, I havenāt posted since and been on the down low til I hang out with friends tomorrow and the trip in less than 3 weeks
Posted by ImperfectStorm
Iāve been dealing with a Pisces with similar placements and similar career, also LD.. (he has Pisces sun, Virgo moon and Aries Venus) he probably hasnāt actually ghosted you and will come back around if the connection/friendship is genuine, but he is showing you exactly who he is. They are not very consistent and prioritize their creative work, so I would keep your expectations light and decide now if this is something you want to keep investing in, but be honest with yourself about it and donāt expect to change him or his in-and-out behavior.
Ooo! Coincidence! Iād like to learn more from you!
Iāve been nothing, but loving and supportive. Wish he could freaking talk š
Itās been awhile and thatās exactly what Iām doing, keeping expectations light. My trip is in less than 3 weeks. Hasnāt said anything yet in regards to meeting up or anything since we talked about it in August :/
Posted by geminiflyby
Hah! I never thought of Aries Venus as selfish, but.......................ok.
I suppose it depends on the rest of the chart.
Iām an Aries Venus and totally the opposite š
To some degree, they can be. Weāre passionate, love the chase, and fall in love fast. Though, we can get bored. At least with me, I communicate instead of ghosting if I lose interest
Posted by ImperfectStormPosted by WarEternalPosted by nanobotz
Iām talking to a DOUBLE Pisces guy (very LDR but tentative plans to meet by the end of the year) for the past month and a half, and after reading this thread, Iām wondering if all this talk will manifest to real life action or if itās just a fantasy. I guess time will tell. I think the old adage āpeople make time for whatās important to themā outweighs astrology. That was a difficult pill to swallow forā¦ most of my twenties.
Just wait it out and see what kind of efforts he puts in when it really comes down to you being over there, right?
I hope all goes well for you! Pisces men in my experience have been all talk, no action and then disappear. Depending how this goes, I may eventually remove him for the sake of my mental health
Iām convinced that Pisces men (especially with selfish Aries Venus) are sent to us women to teach us that we need to focus more on ourselvesā¦ just like they do šš¤£click to expand
Come to think of it, youāre right as I remember I had another dealing with Pisces with Aries Venus except Virgo moon, he had Aries instead šš„²
He crawled back to me as I got into a relationship years ago
Posted by WarEternal
Help!
I met this guy at a show though unfortunately he lives in Europe. Weāve been consistently talking for 4 months, made plans to see each other and he stopped, but still follows my socials and watches me
When I reached out(after 2 weeks) he would write long like an essay and when I replied, heād ignore me š¤Ø
Okay? Tried again and same results. Surely when one doesnāt care, itās short and to the point. Super frustrating because Iām clueless on what happened. Yes, I can confront, but most people donāt respond well to that
Iām going to Europe soon with friends and heās aware since I gave my itinerary prior. Any advice in the case he reaches out, handle this or attract him back? I still care for him deeply, but wanting the best approach. Heās a Pisces and I have a hard time keeping them interested long term š„² theyād flock to me, be romantic and then disappear.
His chart:
Pisces sun
Virgo moon
Aquarius Mercury
Aries Venus
Capricorn Mars
You are looking for a he loves me he loves me not response.
But its like likes me ...he sort of likes me...he is madly in love ...he is attracted to me ..he likes me when he is bored ...he finds me mildly annoying ...kind of response. I like you friday im bored sunday .
There are many shades of emotion and a whole spectrum to a person.
Clearly though you dont understand him.
You just aren't on his mind as much as in the beginning.
Is it because of work stress like he said?
Another woman is in the picture?
Dealing with mental health issues or family drama behind the scenes?
Who knows... only him. And if he's not regular with communication its not really something you can speculate on.
Best thing you can do is match his energy. Which means low expectations of these few and far between text exchanges and don't hyper focus on him in the meanwhile.
Is it because of work stress like he said?
Another woman is in the picture?
Dealing with mental health issues or family drama behind the scenes?
Who knows... only him. And if he's not regular with communication its not really something you can speculate on.
Best thing you can do is match his energy. Which means low expectations of these few and far between text exchanges and don't hyper focus on him in the meanwhile.
Aries venus may have brought on the feels quickly but that cap mars is slooooowwwww
Here is the thing.
His capricorn mars can't let go ...obsessive ...his venus aries ..can't stay put
His capricorn mars can't let go ...obsessive ...his venus aries ..can't stay put
Posted by Textosmoon
Here is the thing.
His capricorn mars can't let go ...obsessive ...his venus aries ..can't stay put
I think you have the wrong impression of Venus Aries. I get to say this as I am one, it's not that they can't "stay put" but they have to chase and conquer. The other placements will decide if they stay put or not, moon, mars, merc.
Leave Pisces men to someone who appreciates the ebbs and flows of their extraordinary energy
this gonna be an unpopular opinion but they're pretty quick to commit just ime at least š¤·āāš¤·āā
and anyone can disappear on you if they're not interested enough. but then again, i'm pro-ghosting.
if anyone disappeared/avoided me i'll just assume they're not that interested or they're married and then i'll call it a day and go about my life as usual.
and anyone can disappear on you if they're not interested enough. but then again, i'm pro-ghosting.
if anyone disappeared/avoided me i'll just assume they're not that interested or they're married and then i'll call it a day and go about my life as usual.
there was this pisces dude i used to work with who'd go around the office flirting with every girl. but only this one sag girl gave him the time of day and next thing you know they're wearing couple shirts and taking cheesy pics in the elevator.
this guy i'm with literally never left my place after like the 2nd weekend together. i'm the unstable one who kept trying to break up with him coz paranoia but he's the one really holding our relationship together.
they're there or they're not and whichever one should be answer enough for you.
this guy i'm with literally never left my place after like the 2nd weekend together. i'm the unstable one who kept trying to break up with him coz paranoia but he's the one really holding our relationship together.
they're there or they're not and whichever one should be answer enough for you.
Posted by geminiflybyPosted by Textosmoon
Here is the thing.
His capricorn mars can't let go ...obsessive ...his venus aries ..can't stay put
I think you have the wrong impression of Venus Aries. I get to say this as I am one, it's not that they can't "stay put" but they have to chase and conquer. The other placements will decide if they stay put or not, moon, mars, merc.click to expand
I understand.
I suppose though its more noticeable when other placements are well also fire or Air. And we notice that energy in the person more.
Posted by ImperfectStormPosted by WarEternalPosted by ImperfectStorm
Iāve been dealing with a Pisces with similar placements and similar career, also LD.. (he has Pisces sun, Virgo moon and Aries Venus) he probably hasnāt actually ghosted you and will come back around if the connection/friendship is genuine, but he is showing you exactly who he is. They are not very consistent and prioritize their creative work, so I would keep your expectations light and decide now if this is something you want to keep investing in, but be honest with yourself about it and donāt expect to change him or his in-and-out behavior.
Ooo! Coincidence! Iād like to learn more from you!
Iāve been nothing, but loving and supportive. Wish he could freaking talk š
Itās been awhile and thatās exactly what Iām doing, keeping expectations light. My trip is in less than 3 weeks. Hasnāt said anything yet in regards to meeting up or anything since we talked about it in August :/
Itās good to be loving and supportive but donāt be afraid to also be direct and assertive if thatās what you feel called to do. In my situation, we both have libra rising so for a while, I avoided confrontation or discussing the inconsistencies or whatever upset me. Like you mentioned, I wanted to be the one to show him patience and understanding and didnāt want to push him away.. blah blah blahā¦. š lol but after 2 years I do not really care so much about proving myself to him and now Iām just like he can take it or leave it. š¤·āāļø
I havenāt had a chance to read the whole thread, have you asked him directly if he wanted to meet when youāre in Europe? Is he outright ignoring you and not responding? If he has ignored several messages I would not say anything else to him and I would go on with my life and immerse myself in other things to keep myself occupied. I would not recommend waiting or putting your life on hold though.. he might come back, but he also might not. So donāt wait on anyone.
The fact that you have an Aries Venus yourself could be helpful.click to expand
I have and he was excited. He said, āOoooh that is great news!! š¤© You're gonna have a lot of fun for sure! I could and would definitely love to join you somewhere! I shouldn't have any show at that period so it's perfect, just let me know your schedule and on what days you'll hit which city and I'll make some arrangements šā this was around August 28
After that, he stopped unless I reached out, but the weird thing is that his replies were essay type which is pretty long if he didnāt like me as a person. But a week soon to be two weeks to reply? Yeahā¦Iām not reaching out, depends how it goes during and after the trip
Posted by ImperfectStormPosted by virgoOPPP
this gonna be an unpopular opinion but they're pretty quick to commit just ime at least š¤·āāš¤·āā
and anyone can disappear on you if they're not interested enough. but then again, i'm pro-ghosting.
if anyone disappeared/avoided me i'll just assume they're not that interested or they're married and then i'll call it a day and go about my life as usual.
I have dealt with multiple Pisces men and they have all been different from each other, depending on their other placements. But Iāve had a few go through phases of being downright clingy, to swimming away.. then when I donāt chase after them they come swimming back and say they were afraid of the strong emotions and thatās why they swam away. Iāve had at least two different Pisces men tell me that, verbatim.
However I have also dealt with Pisces with fire moons who were super fast to commit. Looking at the whole chart helps.
I think itās amusing when people try to paint all Pisces men (or anyone really) like theyāre all the same. As someone who has dealt with several, theyāre definitely not. Lol especially with their sun sign being water.. theyāre heavily influenced by their other placements just like any other water signs are. Water takes the shape or form of whatever it is that contains it.click to expand
i agree partly tho i've never experienced the swimming away thing coz i'm the more unstable one
Posted by ImperfectStormPosted by virgoOPPPPosted by ImperfectStormPosted by virgoOPPP
this gonna be an unpopular opinion but they're pretty quick to commit just ime at least š¤·āāš¤·āā
and anyone can disappear on you if they're not interested enough. but then again, i'm pro-ghosting.
if anyone disappeared/avoided me i'll just assume they're not that interested or they're married and then i'll call it a day and go about my life as usual.
I have dealt with multiple Pisces men and they have all been different from each other, depending on their other placements. But Iāve had a few go through phases of being downright clingy, to swimming away.. then when I donāt chase after them they come swimming back and say they were afraid of the strong emotions and thatās why they swam away. Iāve had at least two different Pisces men tell me that, verbatim.
However I have also dealt with Pisces with fire moons who were super fast to commit. Looking at the whole chart helps.
I think itās amusing when people try to paint all Pisces men (or anyone really) like theyāre all the same. As someone who has dealt with several, theyāre definitely not. Lol especially with their sun sign being water.. theyāre heavily influenced by their other placements just like any other water signs are. Water takes the shape or form of whatever it is that contains it.
i agree partly tho i've never experienced the swimming away thing coz i'm the more unstable one
One Pisces had a cap Venus so I thought his cap Venus would have made him stable but he was one of the two who swam away then tried coming back. I was like nahhhhh buddy. Lol š then the other guy had aqua Venus, but he was also 6 years younger than me so could have been age related.click to expand
tho there was that one pisces sun/libra moon who i really really dislike and seemed like a con but anyway who cares we dated for like a minute and that cap moon who was basically just like a capricorn
@VirgoOPPP ā anyone can disappear on you if they're not interested enough. but then again, i'm pro-ghosting.ā š ā ļø
I am far too unstable to ghost. You are my hero!!
Posted by geminiflyby
@VirgoOPPP ā anyone can disappear on you if they're not interested enough. but then again, i'm pro-ghosting.ā š ā ļø
what? we're mutables
Posted by ImperfectStormPosted by WarEternalPosted by ImperfectStormPosted by WarEternalPosted by ImperfectStorm
Iāve been dealing with a Pisces with similar placements and similar career, also LD.. (he has Pisces sun, Virgo moon and Aries Venus) he probably hasnāt actually ghosted you and will come back around if the connection/friendship is genuine, but he is showing you exactly who he is. They are not very consistent and prioritize their creative work, so I would keep your expectations light and decide now if this is something you want to keep investing in, but be honest with yourself about it and donāt expect to change him or his in-and-out behavior.
Ooo! Coincidence! Iād like to learn more from you!
Iāve been nothing, but loving and supportive. Wish he could freaking talk š
Itās been awhile and thatās exactly what Iām doing, keeping expectations light. My trip is in less than 3 weeks. Hasnāt said anything yet in regards to meeting up or anything since we talked about it in August :/
Itās good to be loving and supportive but donāt be afraid to also be direct and assertive if thatās what you feel called to do. In my situation, we both have libra rising so for a while, I avoided confrontation or discussing the inconsistencies or whatever upset me. Like you mentioned, I wanted to be the one to show him patience and understanding and didnāt want to push him away.. blah blah blahā¦. š lol but after 2 years I do not really care so much about proving myself to him and now Iām just like he can take it or leave it. š¤·āāļø
I havenāt had a chance to read the whole thread, have you asked him directly if he wanted to meet when youāre in Europe? Is he outright ignoring you and not responding? If he has ignored several messages I would not say anything else to him and I would go on with my life and immerse myself in other things to keep myself occupied. I would not recommend waiting or putting your life on hold though.. he might come back, but he also might not. So donāt wait on anyone.
The fact that you have an Aries Venus yourself could be helpful.
I have and he was excited. He said, āOoooh that is great news!! š¤© You're gonna have a lot of fun for sure! I could and would definitely love to join you somewhere! I shouldn't have any show at that period so it's perfect, just let me know your schedule and on what days you'll hit which city and I'll make some arrangements šā this was around August 28
After that, he stopped unless I reached out, but the weird thing is that his replies were essay type which is pretty long if he didnāt like me as a person. But a week soon to be two weeks to reply? Yeahā¦Iām not reaching out, depends how it goes during and after the trip
Did you ever respond to let him know which days youāll be coming? And have you ever expressed that you wish you would hear from him more often?click to expand
I did and gave my itinerary the next few days then he replied saying heāll see whatās feasible and nothing as of yet but again, this was around the end of August
I have expressed my interest multiple times that Iād like to video chat again etc. I stopped because Iāve already voiced and didnāt want to sound needy. He knows what I want and where to find me
If you ever want his full chart, let me know š
Posted by ImperfectStormPosted by WarEternalPosted by ImperfectStormPosted by WarEternalPosted by ImperfectStormPosted by WarEternalPosted by ImperfectStorm
Iāve been dealing with a Pisces with similar placements and similar career, also LD.. (he has Pisces sun, Virgo moon and Aries Venus) he probably hasnāt actually ghosted you and will come back around if the connection/friendship is genuine, but he is showing you exactly who he is. They are not very consistent and prioritize their creative work, so I would keep your expectations light and decide now if this is something you want to keep investing in, but be honest with yourself about it and donāt expect to change him or his in-and-out behavior.
Ooo! Coincidence! Iād like to learn more from you!
Iāve been nothing, but loving and supportive. Wish he could freaking talk š
Itās been awhile and thatās exactly what Iām doing, keeping expectations light. My trip is in less than 3 weeks. Hasnāt said anything yet in regards to meeting up or anything since we talked about it in August :/
Itās good to be loving and supportive but donāt be afraid to also be direct and assertive if thatās what you feel called to do. In my situation, we both have libra rising so for a while, I avoided confrontation or discussing the inconsistencies or whatever upset me. Like you mentioned, I wanted to be the one to show him patience and understanding and didnāt want to push him away.. blah blah blahā¦. š lol but after 2 years I do not really care so much about proving myself to him and now Iām just like he can take it or leave it. š¤·āāļø
I havenāt had a chance to read the whole thread, have you asked him directly if he wanted to meet when youāre in Europe? Is he outright ignoring you and not responding? If he has ignored several messages I would not say anything else to him and I would go on with my life and immerse myself in other things to keep myself occupied. I would not recommend waiting or putting your life on hold though.. he might come back, but he also might not. So donāt wait on anyone.
The fact that you have an Aries Venus yourself could be helpful.
I have and he was excited. He said, āOoooh that is great news!! š¤© You're gonna have a lot of fun for sure! I could and would definitely love to join you somewhere! I shouldn't have any show at that period so it's perfect, just let me know your schedule and on what days you'll hit which city and I'll make some arrangements šā this was around August 28
After that, he stopped unless I reached out, but the weird thing is that his replies were essay type which is pretty long if he didnāt like me as a person. But a week soon to be two weeks to reply? Yeahā¦Iām not reaching out, depends how it goes during and after the trip
Did you ever respond to let him know which days youāll be coming? And have you ever expressed that you wish you would hear from him more often?
I did and gave my itinerary the next few days then he replied saying heāll see whatās feasible and nothing as of yet but again, this was around the end of August
I have expressed my interest multiple times that Iād like to video chat again etc. I stopped because Iāve already voiced and didnāt want to sound needy. He knows what I want and where to find me
If you ever want his full chart, let me know š
Ok Iām sorry if Iām repeating questions that youāve already answered lol yeah the ball is in his court now, I agree that itās up to him to take it from here.click to expand
Youāre fine! Not bothering me š its as you stated that you didnāt read the whole thread yet. Itās a lot to go through š
Posted by virgoOPPPPosted by geminiflyby
@VirgoOPPP ā anyone can disappear on you if they're not interested enough. but then again, i'm pro-ghosting.ā š ā ļø
what? we're mutablesclick to expand
My Cancer moon wonāt let me do it. I get eaten up with guilt. š„¹
Update:
He texted me, but not in reply to my previous messages, but a whole different conversation since I posted about my shoes in my stories š
I was cordial in my responses and just heart his last message and moved on. He made a post this morning concerning the anniversary of his band. Debating if I should reach out to congratulate or reach out to ask if heās still interested in meeting up or just leave everything alone since he texted last. Thoughts? Sorry Iām overthinker haha
He texted me, but not in reply to my previous messages, but a whole different conversation since I posted about my shoes in my stories š
I was cordial in my responses and just heart his last message and moved on. He made a post this morning concerning the anniversary of his band. Debating if I should reach out to congratulate or reach out to ask if heās still interested in meeting up or just leave everything alone since he texted last. Thoughts? Sorry Iām overthinker haha
Posted by WarEternal
Update:
He texted me, but not in reply to my previous messages, but a whole different conversation since I posted about my shoes in my stories š
I was cordial in my responses and just heart his last message and moved on. He made a post this morning concerning the anniversary of his band. Debating if I should reach out to congratulate or reach out to ask if heās still interested in meeting up or just leave everything alone since he texted last. Thoughts? Sorry Iām overthinker haha
Congratulating costs nothing. Don't ask about meeting up though...he should have done so if he wanted to.
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