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The sign you wanted but the sign you got
Understanding the Signs You Want Versus the Signs You Get
Astrology reveals how expectations about zodiac signs often differ from their real traits. For example, Libras seek love but may show cold logic, while Geminis crave warm conversations but often prioritize their own needs. Recognizing these differences helps manage expectations and understand true personality traits based on astrological placements.
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Leo: romance of a lifetime
What I got: cold and lazy in matters of heart
Aries: sex God
What I got: great at sex but moody and egoistic
I totes agree with the Libra one. Don’t ever let air signs fool you of their true nature 🥶
Expectation: Libra men are charmers.
Reality: Gemini men are better at charming people but more full of shit about it. 🤭
I noticed Taurus are the most stabled ones. All others ain't too bright.
i agree with Libras surprisingly being dry, self focused, self interested , Machiavellian almost? etc
all the things ppl normally accuse aries of which is interesting. (the opposite sign to libra)
but here’s the thing though; people expect libras to be accommodating towards everybody else (due to the widespread stereotype) so when they aren’t being accommodating, people are really surprised. i think that’s what it is lol 😂 but most humans are self-focused to an extent so it might not be fair to hold libras to a different standard solely due to stereotype lol
as an aries, i oddly find myself getting involved in other ppl’s businesses sometimes in order to try and help them even if it doesn’t really benefit me at the end of the day. i actually feel like i do a lot of things that don’t benefit me but i’ll do it if it benefits the other person. and that’s something ppl don’t normally equate with aries becuz they think we’re super self-focused and that we don’t care for others.
i feel like this is the difference between aries and libra although i’m not entirely sure (the sister signs):
Libras care about their own peace first and foremost over someone else’s peace.
Aries fundamentally don’t care about peace.
i mean we do but not at the expense of something more important like justice for example. or whatever that “something more important” might be to an aries at any given moment.
libras will choose their own peace over anything else going on outside of themselves i think.
Putin might be an example of a Machiavellian libra.
Posted by serenidad
i feel like this is the difference between aries and libra although i’m not entirely sure (the sister signs):Libras care about their own peace first and foremost over someone else’s peace.
Aries fundamentally don’t care about peace.
i mean we do but not at the expense of something more important like justice for example. or whatever that “something more important” might be to an aries at any given moment.
libras will choose their own peace over anything else going on outside of themselves i think.
Putin might be an example of a Machiavellian libra.
Putin is his own exception because he happens to be Russian. In Russia, everything is different, so maybe in the US, Libras are peaceful but in Russia, they are warmongers and autocrats. 🐻
libra: expectation: charming, reality: cold and emotionless
scorpio: expectation: the zodiac killer, initense sex gods, reality: soccermoms/soccerdads, keyboard warriors
sag: expectation:traveller entrepreneur, reality: submissive servile
cap: expectation: cold, reality:neurotic, psychiatric problems
aqua: expectation: visionary, intellectual, reality: con artist, snake oil salesmen/women
pisces: expectation:artistic dreamer, reality: grudge holding bitch, dissimulator
Posted by hydorah
libra: expectation: charming, reality: cold and emotionlessscorpio: expectation: the zodiac killer, initense sex gods, reality: soccermoms/soccerdads, keyboard warriors
sag: expectation:traveller entrepreneur, reality: submissive servile
cap: expectation: cold, reality:neurotic, psychiatric problems
aqua: expectation: visionary, intellectual, reality: con artist, snake oil salesmen/women
pisces: expectation:artistic dreamer, reality: grudge holding bitch, dissimulator
this was low-key so accurate i had to chuckle 😂
lol @ scorpios being soccer moms/dads lol 😂 the two scorpio parents in my neighborhood when i was a kid were cheerful, talkative and the type of people to suggest a potluck/barbecue with all of the neighbors 😂 one of them helped me fix my bike lol i also know some very private scorpios who keep to themselves too.
yes some underdeveloped aquas are good at selling you dreams and utopian ideas lol 😂
making you believe something ridiculous is actually a good idea but upon careful contemplation, you’re like nahhhhh lol 😂 they’re interesting people though.
the mature ones are really cool. some of my favorite people to talk to.
brainy mad scientist/cat chilling by the windowsill vibes lol 😂
the two sags (uncle and spouse) in my life are pushovers. my dad used to get mad at my uncle for spoiling me (buying me stuff, siding with me in arguments with my dad lol 😂). and my dad thinks my spouse is just a younger version of my breezy uncle 😂
i’ve seen both sags pop off at other people but not me lol 😅 they’ll get mad at other people before they’ll ever get mad at me.
i’m pretty well-behaved for an aries so maybe that’s why. they don’t really have a reason to snap at me/pop off at me.
Posted by serenidad
i agree with Libras surprisingly being dry, self focused, self interested , Machiavellian almost? etcall the things ppl normally accuse aries of which is interesting. (the opposite sign to libra)
but here’s the thing though; people expect libras to be accommodating towards everybody else (due to the widespread stereotype) so when they aren’t being accommodating, people are really surprised. i think that’s what it is lol 😂 but most humans are self-focused to an extent so it might not be fair to hold libras to a different standard solely due to stereotype lol
as an aries, i oddly find myself getting involved in other ppl’s businesses sometimes in order to try and help them even if it doesn’t really benefit me at the end of the day. i actually feel like i do a lot of things that don’t benefit me but i’ll do it if it benefits the other person. and that’s something ppl don’t normally equate with aries becuz they think we’re super self-focused and that we don’t care for others.
Maybe its because aries is the hero of the story so they try to save everyone.
Posted by Lumin
Gemini: careless, social party animal. Reality: intensely loyal and protective introvertsAries: impatient, always angry and looking for fights. Reality: needy, requires tons of validation, loves life, sensitive
Pisces: passive, conflict avoidant. Reality: stands up for what they want, firm boundaries, social butterfly in their own way
Virgo: disciplined, critical and judgemental. Reality: dreamy, imaginative, messy. Looks out for others before themselves
Aquarius: detached, doesn’t fit in. Reality: is te status quo, is nostalgic and sentimental, holds on to memories
Virgos are so messy ! Why is that lol. But they love judging others about everything
Posted by Lumin
Gemini: careless, social party animal. Reality: intensely loyal and protective introvertsAries: impatient, always angry and looking for fights. Reality: needy, requires tons of validation, loves life, sensitive
Pisces: passive, conflict avoidant. Reality: stands up for what they want, firm boundaries, social butterfly in their own way
Virgo: disciplined, critical and judgemental. Reality: dreamy, imaginative, messy. Looks out for others before themselves
Aquarius: detached, doesn’t fit in. Reality: is te status quo, is nostalgic and sentimental, holds on to memories
Aquas are very friendly, they are better at friendships than Libra which is supposed to be the most social sign
Posted by serenidad
i agree with Libras surprisingly being dry, self focused, self interested , Machiavellian almost? etc
all the things ppl normally accuse aries of which is interesting. (the opposite sign to libra)
but here’s the thing though; people expect libras to be accommodating towards everybody else (due to the widespread stereotype) so when they aren’t being accommodating, people are really surprised. i think that’s what it is lol 😂 but most humans are self-focused to an extent so it might not be fair to hold libras to a different standard solely due to stereotype lol
as an aries, i oddly find myself getting involved in other ppl’s businesses sometimes in order to try and help them even if it doesn’t really benefit me at the end of the day. i actually feel like i do a lot of things that don’t benefit me but i’ll do it if it benefits the other person. and that’s something ppl don’t normally equate with aries becuz they think we’re super self-focused and that we don’t care for others.Maybe its because aries is the hero of the story so they try to save everyone.
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i can’t be a hero lol that would be overestimating my capabilities 😅 lol i can try to do some good in my little corner of the world. that’s about it.
but i do hope that people with decent hearts don’t lose hope and the number of bad people void of morals decrease in this world for everyone’s sake lol (world peace’s sake😅)
i really expected aries to be like the likable main character but they always turn out to be the unprovoked bully you wanna see get punched by the actual likable main character
still like them- but just like from really faarrrrrr away ✋✋✋✋ wayyy farrrr
Posted by serenidad
i agree with Libras surprisingly being dry, self focused, self interested , Machiavellian almost? etc
all the things ppl normally accuse aries of which is interesting. (the opposite sign to libra)
but here’s the thing though; people expect libras to be accommodating towards everybody else (due to the widespread stereotype) so when they aren’t being accommodating, people are really surprised. i think that’s what it is lol 😂 but most humans are self-focused to an extent so it might not be fair to hold libras to a different standard solely due to stereotype lol
as an aries, i oddly find myself getting involved in other ppl’s businesses sometimes in order to try and help them even if it doesn’t really benefit me at the end of the day. i actually feel like i do a lot of things that don’t benefit me but i’ll do it if it benefits the other person. and that’s something ppl don’t normally equate with aries becuz they think we’re super self-focused and that we don’t care for others.Maybe its because aries is the hero of the story so they try to save everyone.
click to expandi can’t be a hero lol that would be overestimating my capabilities 😅 lol i can try to do some good in my little corner of the world. that’s about it.
but i do hope that people with decent hearts don’t lose hope and the number of bad people void of morals decrease in this world for everyone’s sake lol (world peace’s sake😅)
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I think that's cute and you're still a hero for thinking like this 🙂
Scorpio—but played too many military mind games, despite feeling like they know you they’ll manipulate that to control you 🤷🏽♀️
Gemini—thought he’d be crazy in the head and in turn play mind games, turns out he’s as down to earth as it can get, ended up getting married despite a life of arguments 🤦🏽♀️ but they get you on a level sometimes you don’t get your self
Posted by SassyKiwi
I totes agree with the Libra one. Don’t ever let air signs fool you of their true nature 🥶
What is your husband’s sun sign?
Posted by serenidad
i agree with Libras surprisingly being dry, self focused, self interested , Machiavellian almost? etc
all the things ppl normally accuse aries of which is interesting. (the opposite sign to libra)
but here’s the thing though; people expect libras to be accommodating towards everybody else (due to the widespread stereotype) so when they aren’t being accommodating, people are really surprised. i think that’s what it is lol 😂 but most humans are self-focused to an extent so it might not be fair to hold libras to a different standard solely due to stereotype lol
as an aries, i oddly find myself getting involved in other ppl’s businesses sometimes in order to try and help them even if it doesn’t really benefit me at the end of the day. i actually feel like i do a lot of things that don’t benefit me but i’ll do it if it benefits the other person. and that’s something ppl don’t normally equate with aries becuz they think we’re super self-focused and that we don’t care for others.Maybe its because aries is the hero of the story so they try to save everyone.
click to expandi can’t be a hero lol that would be overestimating my capabilities 😅 lol i can try to do some good in my little corner of the world. that’s about it.
but i do hope that people with decent hearts don’t lose hope and the number of bad people void of morals decrease in this world for everyone’s sake lol (world peace’s sake😅)click to expand
I think that's cute and you're still a hero for thinking like this
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thanks 😂
my dad always told me to stand up for what’s right and also to never look away when you see bad people doing bad things because if you look away, they’re gonna go on to hurt more people. 🙂
Posted by SassyKiwi
I totes agree with the Libra one. Don’t ever let air signs fool you of their true nature 🥶What is your husband’s sun sign?
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Libra lol. But I’m also a ‘coldhearted’ sign. We both suffer from being able to emotionally express ourselves but we try. He’s better at expressing himself through other ways like actions.
Posted by SassyKiwi
I totes agree with the Libra one. Don’t ever let air signs fool you of their true nature 🥶What is your husband’s sun sign?
click to expandLibra lol. But I’m also a ‘coldhearted’ sign. We both suffer from being able to emotionally express ourselves but we try. He’s better at expressing himself through other ways like actions.
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What are both your moons, Sassy?
Posted by SassyKiwi
I totes agree with the Libra one. Don’t ever let air signs fool you of their true nature 🥶What is your husband’s sun sign?
click to expandLibra lol. But I’m also a ‘coldhearted’ sign. We both suffer from being able to emotionally express ourselves but we try. He’s better at expressing himself through other ways like actions.
click to expandWhat are both your moons, Sassy?
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Idk, I told myself I’d never look up his full natal chart lol. I suspect maybe Aqua or Aries. Mine is Leo.
Posted by SassyKiwi
I totes agree with the Libra one. Don’t ever let air signs fool you of their true nature 🥶What is your husband’s sun sign?
click to expandLibra lol. But I’m also a ‘coldhearted’ sign. We both suffer from being able to emotionally express ourselves but we try. He’s better at expressing himself through other ways like actions.
click to expandWhat are both your moons, Sassy?
click to expandIdk, I told myself I’d never look up his full natal chart lol. I suspect maybe Aqua or Aries. Mine is Leo.
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Not sure which is worse
Don’t check 😂
Posted by SassyKiwi
I totes agree with the Libra one. Don’t ever let air signs fool you of their true nature 🥶What is your husband’s sun sign?
click to expandLibra lol. But I’m also a ‘coldhearted’ sign. We both suffer from being able to emotionally express ourselves but we try. He’s better at expressing himself through other ways like actions.
click to expandWhat are both your moons, Sassy?
click to expandIdk, I told myself I’d never look up his full natal chart lol. I suspect maybe Aqua or Aries. Mine is Leo.
click to expandNot sure which is worse
Don’t check 😂
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Haha ikr! Don’t want to become astrologically judgmental towards his chart or something 😆
I'm a Libra man, I already probably went through all of the women in the zodiac a couple of times so. It doesn't matter. It really depends which is best fitting for your chart. Particularly, Sun, Moon, Ascendant, Venus and Mars. Particularly, I like me a pretty Taurus woman with Aries placements and some Pisces in there.
Posted by borednbeautiful
Leo: romance of a lifetimeWhat I got: cold and lazy in matters of heart
Aries: sex God
What I got: great at sex but moody and egoistic
You've never tried a Libra man? How disappointing. Here I had the impression that you were some smoking hot blonde...
Posted by RollergirlOrc
Expectations vs reality thread 🤣Libra: *~LoVe~*
Reality: cold logic, no feelings
Scorpio: revenge
Reality: they're okay, not too hot or cold, it's the placements that are vengeful or not
Gemini: warm conversation
Reality: "sorry, I forgot I was talking to you. Gotta go now"
It really depends on the person's chart. You can't go based on Sun signs. Different connections with different people.
Posted by Lumin
Gemini: careless, social party animal. Reality: intensely loyal and protective introverts
Aries: impatient, always angry and looking for fights. Reality: needy, requires tons of validation, loves life, sensitive
Pisces: passive, conflict avoidant. Reality: stands up for what they want, firm boundaries, social butterfly in their own way
Virgo: disciplined, critical and judgemental. Reality: dreamy, imaginative, messy. Looks out for others before themselves
Aquarius: detached, doesn’t fit in. Reality: is te status quo, is nostalgic and sentimental, holds on to memoriesAquas are very friendly, they are better at friendships than Libra which is supposed to be the most social sign
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It's true. We Libras like to be alone a lot. I also agree about emotions. I must have left mine somewhere because I can't find them.
Posted by borednbeautiful
Leo: romance of a lifetime
What I got: cold and lazy in matters of heart
Aries: sex God
What I got: great at sex but moody and egoisticYou've never tried a Libra man? How disappointing. Here I had the impression that you were some smoking hot blonde...
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What does being a hot smoking blonde have to do with trying a libra man?
I never tried one because there was not enough chemistry. In fact, I had chemistry with one libra guy in college but he didn’t take a chance while he could.
Just too effeminate for my taste.
Posted by borednbeautiful
Leo: romance of a lifetime
What I got: cold and lazy in matters of heart
Aries: sex God
What I got: great at sex but moody and egoisticYou've never tried a Libra man? How disappointing. Here I had the impression that you were some smoking hot blonde...
click to expandWhat does being a hot smoking blonde have to do with trying a libra man?
I never tried one because there was not enough chemistry. In fact, I had chemistry with one libra guy in college but he didn’t take a chance while he could.
Just too effeminate for my taste.
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I agree …. My first love was a Libra and he was quite feminine … i guess Venus ruled would explain that
Posted by borednbeautiful
Leo: romance of a lifetime
What I got: cold and lazy in matters of heart
Aries: sex God
What I got: great at sex but moody and egoisticYou've never tried a Libra man? How disappointing. Here I had the impression that you were some smoking hot blonde...
click to expandWhat does being a hot smoking blonde have to do with trying a libra man?
I never tried one because there was not enough chemistry. In fact, I had chemistry with one libra guy in college but he didn’t take a chance while he could.
Just too effeminate for my taste.
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Well not me. You need a Libra man with Mars in the 7th and some Sagittarius energy. As a Libra man myself, I've got ridiculous rizz, charisma and very smooth most importantly.
Capricorn: Hardworking, nice, sexy and big ol booty
What I got: A bag of rocks glued to a dry painted wall
Posted by borednbeautiful
Leo: romance of a lifetime
What I got: cold and lazy in matters of heart
Aries: sex God
What I got: great at sex but moody and egoisticYou've never tried a Libra man? How disappointing. Here I had the impression that you were some smoking hot blonde...
click to expandWhat does being a hot smoking blonde have to do with trying a libra man?
I never tried one because there was not enough chemistry. In fact, I had chemistry with one libra guy in college but he didn’t take a chance while he could.
Just too effeminate for my taste.
click to expandWell not me. You need a Libra man with Mars in the 7th and some Sagittarius energy. As a Libra man myself, I've got ridiculous rizz, charisma and very smooth most importantly.
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You sound very smooth.
If I didn’t know any better, I would think you were a former user here who was a Scorpio 😉
Posted by borednbeautiful
Leo: romance of a lifetime
What I got: cold and lazy in matters of heart
Aries: sex God
What I got: great at sex but moody and egoisticYou've never tried a Libra man? How disappointing. Here I had the impression that you were some smoking hot blonde...
click to expandWhat does being a hot smoking blonde have to do with trying a libra man?
I never tried one because there was not enough chemistry. In fact, I had chemistry with one libra guy in college but he didn’t take a chance while he could.
Just too effeminate for my taste.
click to expandI agree …. My first love was a Libra and he was quite feminine … i guess Venus ruled would explain that
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Yep. It’s just more of a feminine vibe overall.
Posted by borednbeautiful
Leo: romance of a lifetime
What I got: cold and lazy in matters of heart
Aries: sex God
What I got: great at sex but moody and egoisticYou've never tried a Libra man? How disappointing. Here I had the impression that you were some smoking hot blonde...
click to expandWhat does being a hot smoking blonde have to do with trying a libra man?
I never tried one because there was not enough chemistry. In fact, I had chemistry with one libra guy in college but he didn’t take a chance while he could.
Just too effeminate for my taste.
click to expandI agree …. My first love was a Libra and he was quite feminine … i guess Venus ruled would explain that
click to expandYep. It’s just more of a feminine vibe overall.
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Venus ~ feminine
Mars ~ masculine
Posted by borednbeautiful
Leo: romance of a lifetime
What I got: cold and lazy in matters of heart
Aries: sex God
What I got: great at sex but moody and egoisticYou've never tried a Libra man? How disappointing. Here I had the impression that you were some smoking hot blonde...
click to expandWhat does being a hot smoking blonde have to do with trying a libra man?
I never tried one because there was not enough chemistry. In fact, I had chemistry with one libra guy in college but he didn’t take a chance while he could.
Just too effeminate for my taste.
click to expandI agree …. My first love was a Libra and he was quite feminine … i guess Venus ruled would explain that
click to expandYep. It’s just more of a feminine vibe overall.
click to expandVenus ~ feminine
Mars ~ masculine
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I have venus in feminine and soft sign but mars in a very masculine and stubborn sign 😬
Which sometimes makes me attract soft & feminine men. But if I am more submissive, I can get along with fire signs.
Posted by Generosita910
I am a Libra but I don't think I'm that cold, I'm very sensitive but I tend to bottle up my feelings cause I'm a Taurus moon,But I can say Libra men can be colder than the women
Taurus moon tends to add warmth with most sun signs 🙂
Aries :::: Hot and sexy 🥵
Got ::: Hot and sexy but also, self involved/selfish, childish and overly sensitive and too restless
My experience with Libra….can be cold, ice cold. They may love you or think they love you, but they shove those feelings so far down you’d never know. Can be very manipulative, stalkerish, etc. Could say a whole lot more, but too much to type. Had bad experiences with Libra females and males. They have good qualities too….just stating the bad I’ve experienced. My experience includes a Libra mother, grandmother, uncle, cousins, friends and an ex. 😬
Posted by Generosita910
I am a Libra but I don't think I'm that cold, I'm very sensitive but I tend to bottle up my feelings cause I'm a Taurus moon,
But I can say Libra men can be colder than the womenTaurus moon tends to add warmth with most sun signs
click to expandYeah I guess, it's hard to say a sun sign is this or that other placements play bigger role in that
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I think the moon placement plays a significant part in the chart
Posted by borednbeautiful
Leo: romance of a lifetime
What I got: cold and lazy in matters of heart
Aries: sex God
What I got: great at sex but moody and egoisticYou've never tried a Libra man? How disappointing. Here I had the impression that you were some smoking hot blonde...
click to expandWhat does being a hot smoking blonde have to do with trying a libra man?
I never tried one because there was not enough chemistry. In fact, I had chemistry with one libra guy in college but he didn’t take a chance while he could.
Just too effeminate for my taste.
click to expandWell not me. You need a Libra man with Mars in the 7th and some Sagittarius energy. As a Libra man myself, I've got ridiculous rizz, charisma and very smooth most importantly.
click to expandYou sound very smooth.
If I didn’t know any better, I would think you were a former user here who was a Scorpio
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No, I'm not a Scorpio. Libra through and through. I have a 7th house stellium in some of my most crucial parts of my chart. Sun, Mercury, Venus and Mars in the 7th. Plus I have a Taurus stellium that is paired with it's house in the 2nd. You ever look at your house placements on your most important planets?
Posted by borednbeautiful
Leo: romance of a lifetime
What I got: cold and lazy in matters of heart
Aries: sex God
What I got: great at sex but moody and egoisticYou've never tried a Libra man? How disappointing. Here I had the impression that you were some smoking hot blonde...
click to expandWhat does being a hot smoking blonde have to do with trying a libra man?
I never tried one because there was not enough chemistry. In fact, I had chemistry with one libra guy in college but he didn’t take a chance while he could.
Just too effeminate for my taste.
click to expandWell not me. You need a Libra man with Mars in the 7th and some Sagittarius energy. As a Libra man myself, I've got ridiculous rizz, charisma and very smooth most importantly.
click to expandYou sound very smooth.
If I didn’t know any better, I would think you were a former user here who was a Scorpio
click to expand
No, I'm not a Scorpio. Libra through and through. I have a 7th house stellium in some of my most crucial parts of my chart. Sun, Mercury, Venus and Mars in the 7th. Plus I have a Taurus stellium that is paired with it's house in the 2nd. You ever look at your house placements on your most important planets?
Posted by borednbeautiful
Leo: romance of a lifetime
What I got: cold and lazy in matters of heart
Aries: sex God
What I got: great at sex but moody and egoisticYou've never tried a Libra man? How disappointing. Here I had the impression that you were some smoking hot blonde...
click to expandWhat does being a hot smoking blonde have to do with trying a libra man?
I never tried one because there was not enough chemistry. In fact, I had chemistry with one libra guy in college but he didn’t take a chance while he could.
Just too effeminate for my taste.
click to expandWell not me. You need a Libra man with Mars in the 7th and some Sagittarius energy. As a Libra man myself, I've got ridiculous rizz, charisma and very smooth most importantly.
click to expandYou sound very smooth.
If I didn’t know any better, I would think you were a former user here who was a Scorpio
click to expandNo, I'm not a Scorpio. Libra through and through. I have a 7th house stellium in some of my most crucial parts of my chart. Sun, Mercury, Venus and Mars in the 7th. Plus I have a Taurus stellium that is paired with it's house in the 2nd. You ever look at your house placements on your most important planets?
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Yes. I have planets in lower quadrant 1-7 houses. Empty houses 8-12. Whatever that means.
Mainly I have 1st house stellium which makes me somewhat Aries like. And then 2 planets in houses 2-5.
Posted by borednbeautiful
Leo: romance of a lifetime
What I got: cold and lazy in matters of heart
Aries: sex God
What I got: great at sex but moody and egoisticYou've never tried a Libra man? How disappointing. Here I had the impression that you were some smoking hot blonde...
click to expandWhat does being a hot smoking blonde have to do with trying a libra man?
I never tried one because there was not enough chemistry. In fact, I had chemistry with one libra guy in college but he didn’t take a chance while he could.
Just too effeminate for my taste.
click to expandWell not me. You need a Libra man with Mars in the 7th and some Sagittarius energy. As a Libra man myself, I've got ridiculous rizz, charisma and very smooth most importantly.
click to expandYou sound very smooth.
If I didn’t know any better, I would think you were a former user here who was a Scorpio
click to expandNo, I'm not a Scorpio. Libra through and through. I have a 7th house stellium in some of my most crucial parts of my chart. Sun, Mercury, Venus and Mars in the 7th. Plus I have a Taurus stellium that is paired with it's house in the 2nd. You ever look at your house placements on your most important planets?
click to expandYes. I have planets in lower quadrant 1-7 houses. Empty houses 8-12. Whatever that means.
Mainly I have 1st house stellium which makes me somewhat Aries like. And then 2 planets in houses 2-5.
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Okay, which house is your Moon in and which houses are your Venus and Mars in? Also I don't think you ever told me your ascendant but it might've been in Cancer correct?
Posted by borednbeautiful
Leo: romance of a lifetime
What I got: cold and lazy in matters of heart
Aries: sex God
What I got: great at sex but moody and egoisticYou've never tried a Libra man? How disappointing. Here I had the impression that you were some smoking hot blonde...
click to expandWhat does being a hot smoking blonde have to do with trying a libra man?
I never tried one because there was not enough chemistry. In fact, I had chemistry with one libra guy in college but he didn’t take a chance while he could.
Just too effeminate for my taste.
click to expandWell not me. You need a Libra man with Mars in the 7th and some Sagittarius energy. As a Libra man myself, I've got ridiculous rizz, charisma and very smooth most importantly.
click to expandYou sound very smooth.
If I didn’t know any better, I would think you were a former user here who was a Scorpio
click to expandNo, I'm not a Scorpio. Libra through and through. I have a 7th house stellium in some of my most crucial parts of my chart. Sun, Mercury, Venus and Mars in the 7th. Plus I have a Taurus stellium that is paired with it's house in the 2nd. You ever look at your house placements on your most important planets?
click to expandYes. I have planets in lower quadrant 1-7 houses. Empty houses 8-12. Whatever that means.
Mainly I have 1st house stellium which makes me somewhat Aries like. And then 2 planets in houses 2-5.
click to expandOkay, which house is your Moon in and which houses are your Venus and Mars in? Also I don't think you ever told me your ascendant but it might've been in Cancer correct?
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My ascendant is Gemini (same as my sun). So what you see is what you get.
Venus = 2nd house
Moon = 3rd house
Now when it comes to Mars, some apps show it is in my 3rd house and others show 4th house. Pattern app shows 3rd house. How can that be?
I wonder what it all means?
Posted by borednbeautiful
Leo: romance of a lifetime
What I got: cold and lazy in matters of heart
Aries: sex God
What I got: great at sex but moody and egoisticYou've never tried a Libra man? How disappointing. Here I had the impression that you were some smoking hot blonde...
click to expandWhat does being a hot smoking blonde have to do with trying a libra man?
I never tried one because there was not enough chemistry. In fact, I had chemistry with one libra guy in college but he didn’t take a chance while he could.
Just too effeminate for my taste.
click to expandWell not me. You need a Libra man with Mars in the 7th and some Sagittarius energy. As a Libra man myself, I've got ridiculous rizz, charisma and very smooth most importantly.
click to expandYou sound very smooth.
If I didn’t know any better, I would think you were a former user here who was a Scorpio
click to expandNo, I'm not a Scorpio. Libra through and through. I have a 7th house stellium in some of my most crucial parts of my chart. Sun, Mercury, Venus and Mars in the 7th. Plus I have a Taurus stellium that is paired with it's house in the 2nd. You ever look at your house placements on your most important planets?
click to expandYes. I have planets in lower quadrant 1-7 houses. Empty houses 8-12. Whatever that means.
Mainly I have 1st house stellium which makes me somewhat Aries like. And then 2 planets in houses 2-5.
click to expandOkay, which house is your Moon in and which houses are your Venus and Mars in? Also I don't think you ever told me your ascendant but it might've been in Cancer correct?
click to expandMy ascendant is Gemini (same as my sun). So what you see is what you get.
Venus = 2nd house
Moon = 3rd house
Now when it comes to Mars, some apps show it is in my 3rd house and others show 4th house. Pattern app shows 3rd house. How can that be?
I wonder what it all means?
click to expand
What are the degrees of your Venus and Mars? Also your Moon?
Posted by borednbeautiful
Leo: romance of a lifetime
What I got: cold and lazy in matters of heart
Aries: sex God
What I got: great at sex but moody and egoisticYou've never tried a Libra man? How disappointing. Here I had the impression that you were some smoking hot blonde...
click to expandWhat does being a hot smoking blonde have to do with trying a libra man?
I never tried one because there was not enough chemistry. In fact, I had chemistry with one libra guy in college but he didn’t take a chance while he could.
Just too effeminate for my taste.
click to expandWell not me. You need a Libra man with Mars in the 7th and some Sagittarius energy. As a Libra man myself, I've got ridiculous rizz, charisma and very smooth most importantly.
click to expandYou sound very smooth.
If I didn’t know any better, I would think you were a former user here who was a Scorpio
click to expandNo, I'm not a Scorpio. Libra through and through. I have a 7th house stellium in some of my most crucial parts of my chart. Sun, Mercury, Venus and Mars in the 7th. Plus I have a Taurus stellium that is paired with it's house in the 2nd. You ever look at your house placements on your most important planets?
click to expandYes. I have planets in lower quadrant 1-7 houses. Empty houses 8-12. Whatever that means.
Mainly I have 1st house stellium which makes me somewhat Aries like. And then 2 planets in houses 2-5.
click to expandOkay, which house is your Moon in and which houses are your Venus and Mars in? Also I don't think you ever told me your ascendant but it might've been in Cancer correct?
click to expandMy ascendant is Gemini (same as my sun). So what you see is what you get.
Venus = 2nd house
Moon = 3rd house
Now when it comes to Mars, some apps show it is in my 3rd house and others show 4th house. Pattern app shows 3rd house. How can that be?
I wonder what it all means?
click to expandWhat are the degrees of your Venus and Mars? Also your Moon?
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All I know my Venus is 22 degrees. I would have to check on others. I have no idea other than 22 is a murder degree lol 😂
Posted by serenidad
i agree with Libras surprisingly being dry, self focused, self interested , Machiavellian almost? etcall the things ppl normally accuse aries of which is interesting. (the opposite sign to libra)
but here’s the thing though; people expect libras to be accommodating towards everybody else (due to the widespread stereotype) so when they aren’t being accommodating, people are really surprised. i think that’s what it is lol 😂 but most humans are self-focused to an extent so it might not be fair to hold libras to a different standard solely due to stereotype lol
Libra's are too lazy to be too accomodating.
Posted by SassyKiwi
I totes agree with the Libra one. Don’t ever let air signs fool you of their true nature 🥶
Lol, stereotypes I guess or past experiences.
Posted by serenidad
i agree with Libras surprisingly being dry, self focused, self interested , Machiavellian almost? etcall the things ppl normally accuse aries of which is interesting. (the opposite sign to libra)
but here’s the thing though; people expect libras to be accommodating towards everybody else (due to the widespread stereotype) so when they aren’t being accommodating, people are really surprised. i think that’s what it is lol 😂 but most humans are self-focused to an extent so it might not be fair to hold libras to a different standard solely due to stereotype lol
as an aries, i oddly find myself getting involved in other ppl’s businesses sometimes in order to try and help them even if it doesn’t really benefit me at the end of the day. i actually feel like i do a lot of things that don’t benefit me but i’ll do it if it benefits the other person. and that’s something ppl don’t normally equate with aries becuz they think we’re super self-focused and that we don’t care for others.
Accommodating is too boring and exhausting.
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Expectations vs reality thread 🤣
Libra: *~LoVe~*
Reality: cold logic, no feelings
Scorpio: revenge
Reality: they're okay, not too hot or cold, it's the placements that are vengeful or not
Gemini: warm conversation
Reality: "sorry, I forgot I was talking to you. Gotta go now"