is this a

new method?

if i had a nickel for everytime i come across this happening, i'd have exactly 2. not much but it's weird that it happened twice. so there's 'weaponized incompetence' and then there's.... wtf this is.

couple years ago my scorpio sun/taurus moon aunt said she woke up to my libra sun/scorpio moon uncle choking her apparently uhh sleep choking i guess? wtf is that?

then this aries sun/cancer moon chick recently broken up with a scorpio sun/cancer moon claimed that he did the same to her while 'asleep.'

and from what i've seen of these men, they're already slapping these women around when they're AWAKE. is this some kinda masculine manipulation or just the messiness of these astro combos? 🤔🤔

really baffles me coz my baseline may not be employment but it's def pretending to be asleep while choking me 🏃🏃

Nah no excuse

He’s dangerous then

Posted by StubbornSag
This sounds so familiar but I can't remember the case. I know someone did this but can't remember who or how it was in that story. Strange but people sometimes do strange things while asleep too :/

i can only really recall hallucinating one time when i was so sleep-deprived in the middle of a convo with an old man that i started seeing chained up people and talking about removing 'bracelets' coz i suppose i forgot what to call 'cuffs' anymore. but i immediately snapped out of it. so crazy the world around me truly was a dungeon for a minute there. tho gotta tell you i don't own slaves even when i'm awake.

Posted by mygirlfriendsareinprison
It sounds funny but if it’s real then it’s serious 😅

some women be ride or die for these guys.

but bonnie would be ashamed if clyde had to stoop to this. guess having children made them resort to more covert ways to be abusive by 'accident.'

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Posted by virgoOPPP

Posted by mygirlfriendsareinprison
It sounds funny but if it’s real then it’s serious 😅

some women be ride or die for these guys.

but bonnie would be ashamed if clyde had to stoop to this. guess having children made them resort to more covert ways to be abusive by 'accident.'

So they’re not really asleep?

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idk maybe but if they're awake, then reddit was right on the money that masculine manipulation is ickier than when women do it.

but i'm sleep-deprived now too so maybe idk wtf i'm talking about 😴😴

Weaponized incompetence is a control tactic where usually men avoid or do a bad job of something in order to force you to do. The examples you gave just sound like straight up physical abuse.

My Cancer moon ex used to pull me closer in his sleep, and honestly, that was a good enough reason to want to choke him.

Maybe the moral of the story is: stay away from water moons. lol

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Posted by virgoOPPP

Posted by mygirlfriendsareinprison
It sounds funny but if it’s real then it’s serious 😅

some women be ride or die for these guys.

but bonnie would be ashamed if clyde had to stoop to this. guess having children made them resort to more covert ways to be abusive by 'accident.'

So they’re not really asleep?
click to expand

idk maybe but if they're awake, then reddit was right on the money that masculine manipulation is ickier than when women do it.

but i'm sleep-deprived now too so maybe idk wtf i'm talking about 😴😴

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Reddit thinking everything is worse when men do it.

Checks out.

They've watched so much choking porn that they're reliving their fantasy's while asleep.

it's a form of sleepwalking. It's real

Posted by SassyKiwi
Weaponized incompetence is a control tactic where usually men avoid or do a bad job of something in order to force you to do. The examples you gave just sound like straight up physical abuse.

Yes they do

If a guy tried to put his hands around my throat I’d let rip on him

Any man that does this is severely damaged …

I mean if the men are already physically abusive when they are conscious, they clearly have some severe emotional and psychological issues, so it could be that those anger/abusive tendencies are just there 24/7 even in an unconscious state

I had an ex that would force himself on me in his sleep and claim he had no recollection of it, I would literally wake him up in the middle of it and he would be disoriented. Creepy and strange, he was otherwise a gentleman but this always scared me a bit. Don’t like it and is for sure a deal breaker