Strife

This topic was created in the Miscellaneous forum by LivingOnPorpoise on Thursday, April 17, 2014 and has 6 replies.

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@LivingOnPorpoise
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How protective are you of your crush? Any secret strife moments occurring in your head of what you will do if someone whims they away? How long has it been since you had a crush? How long did that crush last?

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@LivingOnPorpoise
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Lol seconds? I want no leftovers if someone else gets what I wanted it is then of no use and worn out. I think my crushes last based on the communication we have the more we interact the more interested I stay.

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@krysrenee7
18 Years5,000+ Posts

Lmao @ the lip comment!!! ^^^

Before I was married & had little "crushes" back in the day, I'd always be pissed if someone else swept my crush off my feet. But then 5 seconds later, I'd shrug my shoulders & keep it moving. I'm an Aquarius so I was never 1 to literally go through an entire cycle of emotions missing someone I never had. Can't miss what you never had. At least that's how I saw it.

Now looking back though, it's like pst! Hey maybe another lady was more of his cup of tea. Cool! I'd rather discover early on how easy it is for another woman to fly away with him vs. finding out a relationship/marriage & 2 kids later!

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@Damnata
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Posted by LivingOnPorpoise
How protective are you of your crush? Any secret strife moments occurring in your head of what you will do if someone whims they away? How long has it been since you had a crush? How long did that crush last?

1) In the context of the question..no, not protective
2) I will keep living life. C'est la vie.
3) I crush a lot
4) My biggest crush is with myself so...25 years?

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@krysrenee7
18 Years5,000+ Posts

In the cases where like I really really liked a guy, I'd literally force myself to get over it quickly. Even if it meant finding a reason not to like them any longer. It was a pride thing. Pride or mind control is very powerful and possible.

When you strongly believe in something & tell yourself to do it (or not do it) over & over again, eventually you will do whatever it is that you told yourself to do (or not do)

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@LivingOnPorpoise
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Haha I'm an aqua too crushes are so innocent and short lived or maybe because of my venus in aries? I agree haha but one crush I had I remember I was devastated haha sad music chocolates then the next morning the Beatles and a new outfit did the trick 😄.

Haha he's creepy but like quarreling strife or competition.

Damnata haha I like your answers the last one was interesting ..makes for a good new topic of study.