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The vicious cycle of mild irritation
Why not just ghost them lol?
Is it irritating in a rebelious crazy way or boring way?
Posted by Polyannanana
Why not just ghost them lol?Is it irritating in a rebelious crazy way or boring way?
lol
In a mundane way
Just an example
Like being irritated with how they chew food 🤣
Oh no lol
Is it someone you are dating or just a friend?
It's bad too cuz you can't get angry over something like that or change that
Unless you tell them you're autistic and have to eat alone in a seperate room lol
Posted by Polyannanana
Oh no lolIs it someone you are dating or just a friend?
It's bad too cuz you can't get angry over something like that or change that
Unless you tell them you're autistic and have to eat alone in a seperate room lol
Someone I dated casually but we keep in touch 🤣
So how about the irritating question? What do they ask?
Posted by Polyannanana
So how about the irritating question? What do they ask?
Those were just examples their chewing doesn’t irritate me
She wore a face mask during sex 🤣
Mild irritation at that
Posted by Polyannanana
So how about the irritating question? What do they ask?Those were just examples their chewing doesn’t irritate me
She wore a face mask during sex 🤣
Mild irritation at that
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Wtf lol
Did you ask why?
Posted by Polyannanana
So how about the irritating question? What do they ask?Those were just examples their chewing doesn’t irritate me
She wore a face mask during sex 🤣
Mild irritation at that
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Wtf lol
Did you ask why?
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Yes she said coz I might recognize her in public 🤣
But her ears stuck out
I could spot those ears anywhere in a crowd
Posted by Polyannanana
So how about the irritating question? What do they ask?Those were just examples their chewing doesn’t irritate me
She wore a face mask during sex 🤣
Mild irritation at that
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Wtf lol
Did you ask why?
click to expandYes she said coz I might recognize her in public 🤣
But her ears stuck out
I could spot those ears anywhere in a crowd
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This is like a porn category. Kind of like the glory hole ? Where you don't see who it is lol
But I'm kind of turned on by it now. It's like being treated like an object. An object with ears lool
Posted by Polyannanana
So how about the irritating question? What do they ask?Those were just examples their chewing doesn’t irritate me
She wore a face mask during sex 🤣
Mild irritation at that
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Wtf lol
Did you ask why?
click to expandYes she said coz I might recognize her in public 🤣
But her ears stuck out
I could spot those ears anywhere in a crowd
click to expandThis is like a porn category. Kind of like the glory hole ? Where you don't see who it is lol
But I'm kind of turned on by it now. It's like being treated like an object. An object with ears lool
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No the silly thing is I’ve seen her face before and we’ve gone out before the sex that’s why it’s a mild irritation 🤣
Posted by Polyannanana
So how about the irritating question? What do they ask?Those were just examples their chewing doesn’t irritate me
She wore a face mask during sex 🤣
Mild irritation at that
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Wtf lol
Did you ask why?
click to expandYes she said coz I might recognize her in public 🤣
But her ears stuck out
I could spot those ears anywhere in a crowd
click to expandThis is like a porn category. Kind of like the glory hole ? Where you don't see who it is lol
But I'm kind of turned on by it now. It's like being treated like an object. An object with ears lool
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Ugh idk if I would do it again
We also went to the most ratchet of hotels like a 0 star if that was even possible coz she said people might know her if it was the chain both near us which was convenient and for sure more sanitary
Posted by MidAtBest
This is me all the time. The only time they don't catch that I'm mildly irritated is if something is very mentally wrong with them or if they want something. Usually family members. I once feared that most of my life would be wasted in the presence of such people, and they would compose most of my funeral attendees (except I prearranged my death not to have a service).Tbh this usually happens when you aren't attracted to them lol. But some women's voices sound coated with a thin sticky film of mucus and i feel it in my spine -shudder- it's called misophonia I guess. I can't sit through it. Annoying questions include those asking you to do semi-complicated math on the spot in the context of casual chit-chat or "whatcha doin". Earlier at the bar I asked the zany bartender what they have with the most caffeine and he said "you want no caffeine?" Like wtf do I look like at noon, some hamplanet with high blood pressure?
Oh God then the few times I reject/dump people they reach out and say "Hiya!" 🤮
I never saw her teeth but otherwise she was attractive enough for me but teeth is huge not that I have a teeth fetish but it is 1/3rd the face. I suspected she had Japanese snaggle teeth but I can’t be sure. Her body was like an avatar though long ass limbs.
The sounds she made during were also annoying like a cat jeezuz so noisy
You have received mild abuse
I remember last time I worked in an office there was a coworker who ate really ready loud. And she would eat all day. So by the end of the day I was ready to commit violence.
Then she transferred to an office in Kentucky so that was nice.
Posted by TheSithRogen
You have received mild abuse
yes I believe this to be true!!
I am almost always mildly annoyed. I really shouldn’t be managing other people. I don’t take it out on them though, don’t worry, I just internalize the rage and my hair grows more grey by the day.
I've been irritated 99% of my life. I find it better just to dance around and make everything look like one big giant joke. Once you start actually playing a jester in every day life you begin to realize how silly everything and everyone truly is. I'm so irritated sometimes I confuse actual tears and laughter. That's the best place to be imo.
So in summary
Most people are mildly irritated by their ugly office mates 🤣
Posted by Polyannanana
So how about the irritating question? What do they ask?Those were just examples their chewing doesn’t irritate me
She wore a face mask during sex 🤣
Mild irritation at that
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Maybe she had some 50 shades of grey fantasy.
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Idk she was a goth emo girl but I don’t think she wanted any spanking or nipple twisting 🤣 I don’t do that anyway I’m a vanilla Taurus
Posted by Polyannanana
So how about the irritating question? What do they ask?Those were just examples their chewing doesn’t irritate me
She wore a face mask during sex 🤣
Mild irritation at that
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Lol
Like a covid mask or like Michael Meyers . Easily interpreted differently.
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COVID mask 🤣
DXPERS turn into Michael Douglas in the movie Falling Down when they are in the office with mildly irritating people
Posted by TheSithRogen
DXPERS turn into Michael Douglas in the movie Falling Down when they are in the office with mildly irritating people
That’s their daydream
But I wouldn’t be surprised if dxpers are the red stapler guy from office space 🤣
Posted by MidAtBest
This is me all the time. The only time they don't catch that I'm mildly irritated is if something is very mentally wrong with them or if they want something. Usually family members. I once feared that most of my life would be wasted in the presence of such people, and they would compose most of my funeral attendees (except I prearranged my death not to have a service).Tbh this usually happens when you aren't attracted to them lol. But some women's voices sound coated with a thin sticky film of mucus and i feel it in my spine -shudder- it's called misophonia I guess. I can't sit through it. Annoying questions include those asking you to do semi-complicated math on the spot in the context of casual chit-chat or "whatcha doin". Earlier at the bar I asked the zany bartender what they have with the most caffeine and he said "you want no caffeine?" Like wtf do I look like at noon, some hamplanet with high blood pressure?
Oh God then the few times I reject/dump people they reach out and say "Hiya!" 🤮
I never saw her teeth but otherwise she was attractive enough for me but teeth is huge not that I have a teeth fetish but it is 1/3rd the face. I suspected she had Japanese snaggle teeth but I can’t be sure. Her body was like an avatar though long ass limbs.
The sounds she made during were also annoying like a cat jeezuz so noisy
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Teeth are important guys!
Once a guy I was just texting for a few months and almost went on a date with went missing for a month and when he came back he said he went to the dentist a couple of times that month. The dentist told him he had 39 cavities !
So I almost when out with a guy with 39 cavities 😢
I had video called him once and thought he seemed cool but he never smiled. That's probably why 🙂
I also dated a guy with hiphop grills but only on his upper teeth. He was hot though.
I like tooth gems on girls like the ones on singer Rosalia.
Would you date a girl with grills or gems ?
Posted by MidAtBest
This is me all the time. The only time they don't catch that I'm mildly irritated is if something is very mentally wrong with them or if they want something. Usually family members. I once feared that most of my life would be wasted in the presence of such people, and they would compose most of my funeral attendees (except I prearranged my death not to have a service).Tbh this usually happens when you aren't attracted to them lol. But some women's voices sound coated with a thin sticky film of mucus and i feel it in my spine -shudder- it's called misophonia I guess. I can't sit through it. Annoying questions include those asking you to do semi-complicated math on the spot in the context of casual chit-chat or "whatcha doin". Earlier at the bar I asked the zany bartender what they have with the most caffeine and he said "you want no caffeine?" Like wtf do I look like at noon, some hamplanet with high blood pressure?
Oh God then the few times I reject/dump people they reach out and say "Hiya!" 🤮
I never saw her teeth but otherwise she was attractive enough for me but teeth is huge not that I have a teeth fetish but it is 1/3rd the face. I suspected she had Japanese snaggle teeth but I can’t be sure. Her body was like an avatar though long ass limbs.
The sounds she made during were also annoying like a cat jeezuz so noisy
click to expand
Teeth are important guys!
Once a guy I was just texting for a few months and almost went on a date with went missing for a month and when he came back he said he went to the dentist a couple of times that month. The dentist told him he had 39 cavities !
So I almost when out with a guy with 39 cavities
I had video called him once and thought he seemed cool but he never smiled. That's probably why
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I dated a libra while I was toothless 😭
Lowest point of my 2023 life 😭😭😭😭😭
Posted by Polyannanana
I also dated a guy with hiphop grills but only on his upper teeth. He was hot though.I like tooth gems on girls like the ones on singer Rosalia.
Would you date a girl with grills or gems ?
lol I’ve never seen them here
I can get with a grill but does she take them off for BJ’s or does the D touch gold? 😅
Posted by MidAtBest
This is me all the time. The only time they don't catch that I'm mildly irritated is if something is very mentally wrong with them or if they want something. Usually family members. I once feared that most of my life would be wasted in the presence of such people, and they would compose most of my funeral attendees (except I prearranged my death not to have a service).Tbh this usually happens when you aren't attracted to them lol. But some women's voices sound coated with a thin sticky film of mucus and i feel it in my spine -shudder- it's called misophonia I guess. I can't sit through it. Annoying questions include those asking you to do semi-complicated math on the spot in the context of casual chit-chat or "whatcha doin". Earlier at the bar I asked the zany bartender what they have with the most caffeine and he said "you want no caffeine?" Like wtf do I look like at noon, some hamplanet with high blood pressure?
Oh God then the few times I reject/dump people they reach out and say "Hiya!" 🤮
I never saw her teeth but otherwise she was attractive enough for me but teeth is huge not that I have a teeth fetish but it is 1/3rd the face. I suspected she had Japanese snaggle teeth but I can’t be sure. Her body was like an avatar though long ass limbs.
The sounds she made during were also annoying like a cat jeezuz so noisy
click to expandTeeth are important guys!
Once a guy I was just texting for a few months and almost went on a date with went missing for a month and when he came back he said he went to the dentist a couple of times that month. The dentist told him he had 39 cavities !
So I almost when out with a guy with 39 cavities
I had video called him once and thought he seemed cool but he never smiled. That's probably why
click to expandI dated a libra while I was toothless 😭
Lowest point of my 2023 life 😭😭😭😭😭
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What do you mean toothless lol
How many teeth were you missing 🙂
Posted by Polyannanana
I also dated a guy with hiphop grills but only on his upper teeth. He was hot though.I like tooth gems on girls like the ones on singer Rosalia.
Would you date a girl with grills or gems ?
lol I’ve never seen them here
I can get with a grill but does she take them off for BJ’s or does the D touch gold? 😅
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I actually heard mouth guards or gum shields help a lot with deep throating so unless they have sharp edges grills could give a smoother feeling too lol
D touching gold doesn't sound that bad either 🙂
Posted by MidAtBest
This is me all the time. The only time they don't catch that I'm mildly irritated is if something is very mentally wrong with them or if they want something. Usually family members. I once feared that most of my life would be wasted in the presence of such people, and they would compose most of my funeral attendees (except I prearranged my death not to have a service).Tbh this usually happens when you aren't attracted to them lol. But some women's voices sound coated with a thin sticky film of mucus and i feel it in my spine -shudder- it's called misophonia I guess. I can't sit through it. Annoying questions include those asking you to do semi-complicated math on the spot in the context of casual chit-chat or "whatcha doin". Earlier at the bar I asked the zany bartender what they have with the most caffeine and he said "you want no caffeine?" Like wtf do I look like at noon, some hamplanet with high blood pressure?
Oh God then the few times I reject/dump people they reach out and say "Hiya!" 🤮
I never saw her teeth but otherwise she was attractive enough for me but teeth is huge not that I have a teeth fetish but it is 1/3rd the face. I suspected she had Japanese snaggle teeth but I can’t be sure. Her body was like an avatar though long ass limbs.
The sounds she made during were also annoying like a cat jeezuz so noisy
click to expandTeeth are important guys!
Once a guy I was just texting for a few months and almost went on a date with went missing for a month and when he came back he said he went to the dentist a couple of times that month. The dentist told him he had 39 cavities !
So I almost when out with a guy with 39 cavities
I had video called him once and thought he seemed cool but he never smiled. That's probably why
click to expandI dated a libra while I was toothless 😭
Lowest point of my 2023 life 😭😭😭😭😭
click to expandWhat do you mean toothless lol
How many teeth were you missing
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Half a tooth lol but it looked pretty much toothless for awhile
She never noticed until I took pics and sent it
She was like eww why did you have to show me
Posted by Polyannanana
So how about the irritating question? What do they ask?Those were just examples their chewing doesn’t irritate me
She wore a face mask during sex 🤣
Mild irritation at that
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Kinky or paranoid? 🥴🤣
Posted by Polyannanana
So how about the irritating question? What do they ask?Those were just examples their chewing doesn’t irritate me
She wore a face mask during sex 🤣
Mild irritation at that
click to expand
Wtf lol
Did you ask why?
click to expandYes she said coz I might recognize her in public 🤣
But her ears stuck out
I could spot those ears anywhere in a crowd
click to expand
🤣🤣🤣
Posted by Polyannanana
So how about the irritating question? What do they ask?Those were just examples their chewing doesn’t irritate me
She wore a face mask during sex 🤣
Mild irritation at that
click to expand
Kinky or paranoid? 🥴🤣
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Her thinking out loud just mildly irritated me and she still does it today
But maybe that’s unique and we end up being together in the end 🤣
Sometimes she wants to pass me anxiety
I’m like hell naw I’m not gonna worry about shit! 🤣
The attempt to burden me with 2nd hand anxiety is mildly irritating
Idk wtf that is even
I’m the Queen 👸 of being affected by mild irritation 🤣
Two of my neighbours have LOUD voices and I want to shout “shut up” every time they speak 🤣
A guy I know takes forever to answer and I want to say “come on, come on I haven’t got all day” 🥴
People that eat noisily and slurp their tea drive me crazy
Blokes that jangle their money in the pockets and whistle 😂
Posted by Polyannanana
So how about the irritating question? What do they ask?Those were just examples their chewing doesn’t irritate me
She wore a face mask during sex 🤣
Mild irritation at that
click to expand
Kinky or paranoid? 🥴🤣
click to expandHer thinking out loud just mildly irritated me and she still does it today
But maybe that’s unique and we end up being together in the end 🤣
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Keep us posted 🤣
Posted by TheSithRogen
I remember last time I worked in an office there was a coworker who ate really ready loud. And she would eat all day. So by the end of the day I was ready to commit violence.Then she transferred to an office in Kentucky so that was nice.
Did you have a party to celebrate? 🎉😂
Posted by Polyannanana
So how about the irritating question? What do they ask?Those were just examples their chewing doesn’t irritate me
She wore a face mask during sex 🤣
Mild irritation at that
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Just mild irritation?:O
You're way better than me.
i don't wanna be racist but there's a lot of white people beliefs I find irritating especially when it's about money (income, taxes etc), children, genders and views on what is and is not socialist. like i just could never🤢🤢🤮🤮
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Have you ever been mildly irritated by someone
Say they ask irritating question
Or do irritating things
But it’s mild
So you don’t say anything
And from their POV you are probably treating them very well
But you are like on the precipice of being fully irritated by them but it will never happen
So they keep coming back coz from the outside shit seems to be going really well 😅