What if my gf is pregnant?

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I have a strange feeling she’s not taking the contraceptive pills so she’ll get pregnant with me.

Im not ready to be a father but I am against abortion. So Im all set: if she’s carrying my child, I won’t make her abort it.

Then I will be a dad. When that happens, I have to marry her. I know the importance of family to a child so I will marry her.

But here’s the thing, my parents hate her. I am not ready to be a dad or to start a family. I still want to enjoy my single life and meet other women. I am not sure of my love for her.

But responsibility is responsibility.

What are the things I have to consider before I decide to marry her? What should I expect?

There’s no divorce here yet. Annulment is expensive. I’m worried.
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Then she will have a baby. You seem to want that.

My question is, should I marry her?

Do you love her? Do you want to have a little family?
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Im not sure of my love for her.

The question is “want?” The answer to that is no. But I have to if I’m obliged to. I will do it. My sense of right and wrong tells me to do it. If I don’t , I will feel guilty, and that’s not a good thing.
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Then she will have a baby. You seem to want that.

My question is, should I marry her?

She's not even pregnant yet. lol Why don't you see how compatible she is with you and cross that road when you get there.
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I was thinking of compatibility a while ago, but what about the child? It will live in a broken family. I don’t like that.
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bunny what the h are you doing having sex without protection? that is bad. lets hope you're not pregnant. i doubt it... just have her use a diaphragm birth control thing if you dont wanna use a condom. oh the marriage part, if you start it like that then it will fail..... marriage bc of responsibility will end in catastrophe 😱


Why do you think it will fail?
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Then she will have a baby. You seem to want that.

My question is, should I marry her?

She's not even pregnant yet. lol Why don't you see how compatible she is with you and cross that road when you get there.

I was thinking of compatibility a while ago, but what about the child? It will live in a broken family. I don’t like that.
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You don't have to live in a broken family. Why don't you start with making sure the girl IS on birth control until you're ready. You seem the one trying to trap her with a baby lol

Divorce can still happen. There are no guarantees in life, just cause you don't want a broken family, doesn't mean she will stay.

This is why compatibility is needed before a pregnancy.
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bunny what the h are you doing having sex without protection? that is bad. lets hope you're not pregnant. i doubt it... just have her use a diaphragm birth control thing if you dont wanna use a condom. oh the marriage part, if you start it like that then it will fail..... marriage bc of responsibility will end in catastrophe 😱

Why do you think it will fail?

bc this wouldn't be a topic of the conversation. you would carry on with your life doing whatever you said you wanted to... which has to do nothing with marriage.
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What do you mean?
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Then she will have a baby. You seem to want that.

My question is, should I marry her?

She's not even pregnant yet. lol Why don't you see how compatible she is with you and cross that road when you get there.

I was thinking of compatibility a while ago, but what about the child? It will live in a broken family. I don’t like that.

You don't have to live in a broken family. Why don't you start with making sure the girl IS on birth control until you're ready. You seem the one trying to trap her with a baby lol

Divorce can still happen. There are no guarantees in life, just cause you don't want a broken family, doesn't mean she will stay.

This is why compatibility is needed before a pregnancy.
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How do I make it sure?
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Posted by firebunny
Posted by saggurl88

Then she will have a baby. You seem to want that.

My question is, should I marry her?

She's not even pregnant yet. lol Why don't you see how compatible she is with you and cross that road when you get there.

I was thinking of compatibility a while ago, but what about the child? It will live in a broken family. I don’t like that.

You don't have to live in a broken family. Why don't you start with making sure the girl IS on birth control until you're ready. You seem the one trying to trap her with a baby lol

Divorce can still happen. There are no guarantees in life, just cause you don't want a broken family, doesn't mean she will stay.

This is why compatibility is needed before a pregnancy.

How do I make it sure?
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You bring her the birth control pill with her morning tea 😄

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Posted by firebunny
Posted by saggurl88

Then she will have a baby. You seem to want that.

My question is, should I marry her?

She's not even pregnant yet. lol Why don't you see how compatible she is with you and cross that road when you get there.

I was thinking of compatibility a while ago, but what about the child? It will live in a broken family. I don’t like that.

You don't have to live in a broken family. Why don't you start with making sure the girl IS on birth control until you're ready. You seem the one trying to trap her with a baby lol

Divorce can still happen. There are no guarantees in life, just cause you don't want a broken family, doesn't mean she will stay.

This is why compatibility is needed before a pregnancy.

How do I make it sure?

You bring her the birth control pill with her morning tea 😄

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bunny what the h are you doing having sex without protection? that is bad. lets hope you're not pregnant. i doubt it... just have her use a diaphragm birth control thing if you dont wanna use a condom. oh the marriage part, if you start it like that then it will fail..... marriage bc of responsibility will end in catastrophe 😱

Why do you think it will fail?

bc this wouldn't be a topic of the conversation. you would carry on with your life doing whatever you said you wanted to... which has to do nothing with marriage.

What do you mean?

it means you're just getting married bc of the baby; otherwise, you probably wouldn't. idk maybe you need such thing to put a ring on you.... but ideally the baby is supposed to happen after the marriage.
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Why do you make it sound like Im just finding excuses to marry her?
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I have a strange feeling she’s not taking the contraceptive pills so she’ll get pregnant with me.

Im not ready to be a father but I am against abortion. So Im all set: if she’s carrying my child, I won’t make her abort it.

Then I will be a dad. When that happens, I have to marry her. I know the importance of family to a child so I will marry her.

But here’s the thing, my parents hate her. I am not ready to be a dad or to start a family. I still want to enjoy my single life and meet other women. I am not sure of my love for her.

But responsibility is responsibility.

What are the things I have to consider before I decide to marry her? What should I expect?

There’s no divorce here yet. Annulment is expensive. I’m worried.

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