whats your 'bodycount' ?

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Damnata
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I won't judge the number at all.

I will judge what went behind that number. Health is very important, both physically and mentally. I'm looking more towards patterns.

If you've been with 100 people but have no health issues, have good self esteem, no issues pushed in the back of the skeleton closet.. and you're also capable of forming deep attachments..no problem.

As for me, my number is low. There's a simillar bias here with low numbers = self respect, innocence, wholesome person etc. That bias is as wrong as the high number bias is. I've met people with low numbers who were the opposite of that, and actually bitter they didn't get more. I steer clear of that too.

The character behind the numbers is what I'm looking for.
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Poor op, chases off by all the dumb sluts of dxp (myself included)

The question wasn't how many people have you slept with, but rather if you knew the number of how many people your lover slept with what is too much?

In that case 10. If my partner slept with more then 10 people I wouldn't date her long. Her pussy would likely prove this, given I didn't catch an std and die first.