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Your Ideal Valentine Date?
Cope day walk with the dog down to the river for a swim and then cope potatos and cope steak followed by some dxp
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Posted by Walk_on_by
Cope day walk with the dog down to the river for a swim and then cope potatos and cope steak followed by some dxp
That’s pretty much how I spend my days 🤣
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Based
Doing anything with him😃
A quick bunk up, Bingo, karaoke, ice skating,
just anything 😂
He’s an Irish Gemini man so bound to be good craic 💋😘🔥😍🙋♀️
Hot sex 🔥
Just someone to snuggle up with by the fire on cold nights and holding hands on a balcony (shit any balcony I don't care as long as it ain't one of those ones that's about 200 feet above sea level) whilst looking up at the beautiful stars on starry nights. Can't find any women these days that just wants comfort without sex all the time.
Posted by borednbeautiful
Hot sex 🔥
You back on it again ? 😂
Posted by MyStarsShine
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Hot sex 🔥
You back on it again ? 😂
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How can I not? When you have a horny fire sign after you 🤦♀️😌
Steak.
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Hot sex 🔥
You back on it again ? 😂
How can I not? When you have a horny fire sign after you 🤦♀️😌
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Haha
Can’t believe my fiery ex still keeps coming into my dreams and very sweet he presented himself this morning on lovers day 😁
I’m so glad it’s over though 😐🫨
So exhausting
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Hot sex 🔥
You back on it again ? 😂
How can I not? When you have a horny fire sign after you 🤦♀️😌
Haha
Can’t believe my fiery ex still keeps coming into my dreams and very sweet he presented himself this morning on lovers day 😁
I’m so glad it’s over though 😐🫨
So exhausting
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It has its meaning. Hot sex =/ love.
Hard lesson to learn for me personally.
But I mean, I’ve got 1/2 fire chart myself so I can go with the flow 😜
I think it is about seasons. People come and go from our life for some purpose. What do you think?
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Posted by borednbeautiful
Hot sex 🔥
You back on it again ? 😂
How can I not? When you have a horny fire sign after you 🤦♀️😌
Haha
Can’t believe my fiery ex still keeps coming into my dreams and very sweet he presented himself this morning on lovers day 😁
I’m so glad it’s over though 😐🫨
So exhausting
It has its meaning. Hot sex =/ love.
Hard lesson to learn for me personally.
But I mean, I’ve got 1/2 fire chart myself so I can go with the flow 😜
I think it is about seasons. People come and go from our life for some purpose. What do you think?
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Oh I agree totally
My longest relationship was with an earth sign and shortest fire … I think I the latter burns out quicker and earth has more staying power
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Going to a fancy dinner… but with a twist. I’m wearing vibrating underwear and he controls that
One of my exes did that….except he made me wear them while I was working and on calls with clients. Do you know how awkward that was to be on the phone having a serious conversation and then getting a little tingle down there— 😬
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Going to a fancy dinner… but with a twist. I’m wearing vibrating underwear and he controls that
One of my exes did that….except he made me wear them while I was working and on calls with clients. Do you know how awkward that was to be on the phone having a serious conversation and then getting a little tingle down there— 😬
LOL I can imagine. I wouldn’t do that at work tho 😁
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Well it sounded like fun in the moment….but eh, not so much. More awkward than anything. 🤣
An evening at home alone with peace and quiet. I had my whole evening planned, but my plans got screwed up. Now apparently I’m going out for sushi with a Leo who won’t leave me alone and is very insistent. 😔
Posted by xyzabc
An evening at home alone with peace and quiet. I had my whole evening planned, but my plans got screwed up. Now apparently I’m going out for sushi with a Leo who won’t leave me alone and is very insistent. 😔
You can also say “no”
Posted by MyStarsShine
Posted by xyzabc
An evening at home alone with peace and quiet. I had my whole evening planned, but my plans got screwed up. Now apparently I’m going out for sushi with a Leo who won’t leave me alone and is very insistent. 😔
You can also say “no”
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Trust me, I’ve said no before. We haven’t seen each other in months, but he keeps at it.
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Posted by MyStarsShine
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An evening at home alone with peace and quiet. I had my whole evening planned, but my plans got screwed up. Now apparently I’m going out for sushi with a Leo who won’t leave me alone and is very insistent. 😔
You can also say “no”
Trust me, I’ve said no before. We haven’t seen each other in months, but he keeps at it.
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But he can’t force you to meet him
If you don’t want to, tell him no
💪
Posted by MyStarsShine
Posted by xyzabc
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An evening at home alone with peace and quiet. I had my whole evening planned, but my plans got screwed up. Now apparently I’m going out for sushi with a Leo who won’t leave me alone and is very insistent. 😔
You can also say “no”
Trust me, I’ve said no before. We haven’t seen each other in months, but he keeps at it.
But he can’t force you to meet him
If you don’t want to, tell him no
💪
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See that’s always been my problem….not wanting to hurt peoples feelings. So I try to keep people happy and be agreeable. 😔
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Posted by xyzabc
An evening at home alone with peace and quiet. I had my whole evening planned, but my plans got screwed up. Now apparently I’m going out for sushi with a Leo who won’t leave me alone and is very insistent. 😔
You can also say “no”
Trust me, I’ve said no before. We haven’t seen each other in months, but he keeps at it.
But he can’t force you to meet him
If you don’t want to, tell him no
💪
See that’s always been my problem….not wanting to hurt peoples feelings. So I try to keep people happy and be agreeable. 😔
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Oh no, that needs to change now
What about pleasing yourself?
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Posted by xyzabc
An evening at home alone with peace and quiet. I had my whole evening planned, but my plans got screwed up. Now apparently I’m going out for sushi with a Leo who won’t leave me alone and is very insistent. 😔
You can also say “no”
Trust me, I’ve said no before. We haven’t seen each other in months, but he keeps at it.
But he can’t force you to meet him
If you don’t want to, tell him no
💪
See that’s always been my problem….not wanting to hurt peoples feelings. So I try to keep people happy and be agreeable. 😔
Oh no, that needs to change now
What about pleasing yourself?
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Idk…I just always feel so selfish pleasing myself. Like I’m not a good person.
I’m spending mine
Dancing
Eating pancakes
Cosying up
Looking at the lovely yellow roses I bought
😃
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Posted by MyStarsShine
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Posted by xyzabc
An evening at home alone with peace and quiet. I had my whole evening planned, but my plans got screwed up. Now apparently I’m going out for sushi with a Leo who won’t leave me alone and is very insistent. 😔
You can also say “no”
Trust me, I’ve said no before. We haven’t seen each other in months, but he keeps at it.
But he can’t force you to meet him
If you don’t want to, tell him no
💪
See that’s always been my problem….not wanting to hurt peoples feelings. So I try to keep people happy and be agreeable. 😔
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That’s very sad 🥹
Isn’t the counselling helping with that?
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Posted by xyzabc
An evening at home alone with peace and quiet. I had my whole evening planned, but my plans got screwed up. Now apparently I’m going out for sushi with a Leo who won’t leave me alone and is very insistent. 😔
You can also say “no”
Trust me, I’ve said no before. We haven’t seen each other in months, but he keeps at it.
But he can’t force you to meet him
If you don’t want to, tell him no
💪
See that’s always been my problem….not wanting to hurt peoples feelings. So I try to keep people happy and be agreeable. 😔
That’s very sad 🥹
Isn’t the counselling helping with that?
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Haven’t been back for several months due to funds. 🤦♀️
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Hiking and smoking weed. Then holding hands maybe a HJ or BJ while I slip a digit make sure the turkeys done.
How romantic 😅😂😆
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Posted by MyStarsShine
Posted by xyzabc
An evening at home alone with peace and quiet. I had my whole evening planned, but my plans got screwed up. Now apparently I’m going out for sushi with a Leo who won’t leave me alone and is very insistent. 😔You can also say “no”
Trust me, I’ve said no before. We haven’t seen each other in months, but he keeps at it.
But he can’t force you to meet him
If you don’t want to, tell him no
💪
See that’s always been my problem….not wanting to hurt peoples feelings. So I try to keep people happy and be agreeable. 😔
That’s very sad 🥹
Isn’t the counselling helping with that?
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Haven’t been back for several months due to funds. 🤦♀️click to expand
I’d try and make it priority?
Posted by MyStarsShine
Posted by xyzabc
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Posted by xyzabc
Posted by MyStarsShine
Posted by xyzabc
Posted by MyStarsShine
Posted by xyzabc
An evening at home alone with peace and quiet. I had my whole evening planned, but my plans got screwed up. Now apparently I’m going out for sushi with a Leo who won’t leave me alone and is very insistent. 😔You can also say “no”
Trust me, I’ve said no before. We haven’t seen each other in months, but he keeps at it.
But he can’t force you to meet him
If you don’t want to, tell him no
💪
See that’s always been my problem….not wanting to hurt peoples feelings. So I try to keep people happy and be agreeable. 😔
That’s very sad 🥹
Isn’t the counselling helping with that?
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Haven’t been back for several months due to funds. 🤦♀️
I’d try and make it priority?
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Once I’m in a better place financially I plan on going back. Right now I’m trying to focus on getting my teaching certification so I can finally leave my current hellish job.
spent it together sick and recovering in bed, chugging ginger tea.
we're both indoorsy so even if we're in better health, it's gonna be an indoor affair.
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Posted by MyStarsShine
Posted by xyzabc
An evening at home alone with peace and quiet. I had my whole evening planned, but my plans got screwed up. Now apparently I’m going out for sushi with a Leo who won’t leave me alone and is very insistent. 😔You can also say “no”
Trust me, I’ve said no before. We haven’t seen each other in months, but he keeps at it.
But he can’t force you to meet him
If you don’t want to, tell him no
💪
See that’s always been my problem….not wanting to hurt peoples feelings. So I try to keep people happy and be agreeable. 😔
That’s very sad 🥹
Isn’t the counselling helping with that?
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Haven’t been back for several months due to funds. 🤦♀️
I’d try and make it priority?
Once I’m in a better place financially I plan on going back. Right now I’m trying to focus on getting my teaching certification so I can finally leave my current hellish job.
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That makes sense …
Just a thought ….. I’d hold back on the dating thing for now
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Posted by MyStarsShine
Posted by xyzabc
An evening at home alone with peace and quiet. I had my whole evening planned, but my plans got screwed up. Now apparently I’m going out for sushi with a Leo who won’t leave me alone and is very insistent. 😔You can also say “no”
Trust me, I’ve said no before. We haven’t seen each other in months, but he keeps at it.
But he can’t force you to meet him
If you don’t want to, tell him no
💪
See that’s always been my problem….not wanting to hurt peoples feelings. So I try to keep people happy and be agreeable. 😔
That’s very sad 🥹
Isn’t the counselling helping with that?
click to expand
Haven’t been back for several months due to funds. 🤦♀️
I’d try and make it priority?
Once I’m in a better place financially I plan on going back. Right now I’m trying to focus on getting my teaching certification so I can finally leave my current hellish job.
That makes sense …
Just a thought ….. I’d hold back on the dating thing for now
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Oh I’m not actively dating. Haven’t in months. He just won’t give up.
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Posted by MyStarsShine
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Posted by MyStarsShine
Posted by xyzabc
An evening at home alone with peace and quiet. I had my whole evening planned, but my plans got screwed up. Now apparently I’m going out for sushi with a Leo who won’t leave me alone and is very insistent. 😔You can also say “no”
Trust me, I’ve said no before. We haven’t seen each other in months, but he keeps at it.
But he can’t force you to meet him
If you don’t want to, tell him no
💪
See that’s always been my problem….not wanting to hurt peoples feelings. So I try to keep people happy and be agreeable. 😔
That’s very sad 🥹
Isn’t the counselling helping with that?
click to expand
Haven’t been back for several months due to funds. 🤦♀️
I’d try and make it priority?
Once I’m in a better place financially I plan on going back. Right now I’m trying to focus on getting my teaching certification so I can finally leave my current hellish job.
That makes sense …
Just a thought ….. I’d hold back on the dating thing for now
Oh I’m not actively dating. Haven’t in months. He just won’t give up.
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But you can blank him
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Posted by MyStarsShine
Posted by xyzabc
Posted by MyStarsShine
Posted by xyzabc
An evening at home alone with peace and quiet. I had my whole evening planned, but my plans got screwed up. Now apparently I’m going out for sushi with a Leo who won’t leave me alone and is very insistent. 😔You can also say “no”
Trust me, I’ve said no before. We haven’t seen each other in months, but he keeps at it.
But he can’t force you to meet him
If you don’t want to, tell him no
💪
See that’s always been my problem….not wanting to hurt peoples feelings. So I try to keep people happy and be agreeable. 😔
That’s very sad 🥹
Isn’t the counselling helping with that?
click to expand
Haven’t been back for several months due to funds. 🤦♀️
I’d try and make it priority?
Once I’m in a better place financially I plan on going back. Right now I’m trying to focus on getting my teaching certification so I can finally leave my current hellish job.
That makes sense …
Just a thought ….. I’d hold back on the dating thing for now
Oh I’m not actively dating. Haven’t in months. He just won’t give up.
But you can blank him
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I was told I was very rude for doing that. I’m trying to find a polite way to let him down. I just don’t think we are compatible.
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An evening at home alone with peace and quiet. I had my whole evening planned, but my plans got screwed up. Now apparently I’m going out for sushi with a Leo who won’t leave me alone and is very insistent. 😔You can also say “no”
Trust me, I’ve said no before. We haven’t seen each other in months, but he keeps at it.
But he can’t force you to meet him
If you don’t want to, tell him no
💪
See that’s always been my problem….not wanting to hurt peoples feelings. So I try to keep people happy and be agreeable. 😔
That’s very sad 🥹
Isn’t the counselling helping with that?
click to expand
Haven’t been back for several months due to funds. 🤦♀️
I’d try and make it priority?
Once I’m in a better place financially I plan on going back. Right now I’m trying to focus on getting my teaching certification so I can finally leave my current hellish job.
That makes sense …
Just a thought ….. I’d hold back on the dating thing for now
Oh I’m not actively dating. Haven’t in months. He just won’t give up.
But you can blank him
I was told I was very rude for doing that. I’m trying to find a polite way to let him down. I just don’t think we are compatible.
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Just thank him for the invite and tell him
you’re not interested due to incompatibility
Nip it in the bud now or you could be going round in circles
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An evening at home alone with peace and quiet. I had my whole evening planned, but my plans got screwed up. Now apparently I’m going out for sushi with a Leo who won’t leave me alone and is very insistent. 😔You can also say “no”
Trust me, I’ve said no before. We haven’t seen each other in months, but he keeps at it.
But he can’t force you to meet him
If you don’t want to, tell him no
💪
See that’s always been my problem….not wanting to hurt peoples feelings. So I try to keep people happy and be agreeable. 😔
That’s very sad 🥹
Isn’t the counselling helping with that?
click to expand
Haven’t been back for several months due to funds. 🤦♀️
I’d try and make it priority?
Once I’m in a better place financially I plan on going back. Right now I’m trying to focus on getting my teaching certification so I can finally leave my current hellish job.
That makes sense …
Just a thought ….. I’d hold back on the dating thing for now
Oh I’m not actively dating. Haven’t in months. He just won’t give up.
But you can blank him
I was told I was very rude for doing that. I’m trying to find a polite way to let him down. I just don’t think we are compatible.
Just thank him for the invite and tell him
you’re not interested due to incompatibility
Nip it in the bud now or you could be going round in circles
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I know you’re right. Why is letting someone down so hard to do? I guess I’m just so used to being the one being let down and know how it feels. I haven’t really ever been in this position. It doesn’t feel good. 😔
Stay home cuddle, eat pizza in bed , play footsies etc
Single: girls' day at a spa getting massages, and getting our nails done together, then going out for dinner dressed up and then baking a dessert together
Not single: breakfast in bed, going out for a walk together, going ice skating, then going out for dinner dressed up
I would love to be with someone would could sit beside me just and scroll tiktok or anything tbh, and just be silent. Like up to the point we laugh or say something about the vid. Like to be next to someone that just wants to chill and watch stuff with little to no words is amazing. To me that is true connection.
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Or galentine’s day (females) and malentine’s day (males)
My Ideal Valentine Date would be at a Museum 🖼️ and then eating out at a restaurant or at a cafe. If I was with girls, we would get our nails done 💅 and have a girls sleepover while watching a movie🍿
What is your ideal Valentine/Galentine/Malentine Day?💖🌹