Your Insecurities.... (Page 2)

PiscVirgAquaFish - I think we all have a little weirdness going on. LOL

SUT - Did you say that to get a reaction? Lol. SMH

Re noses: I personally think people should embrace their features. However, if they cant and getting a little nip here and tuck there makes their lives a little happier, why not? Who am I to say differently? I will not have to live with the consequences of their decision to either get plastic surgery or the converse

dead @ "camels back"

Those ass injection have gotten ridiculous!!! Now some women are getting silicone injections and the silicone is migrating to other parts of the body. It's a mess.

You go on instagram and there are all these girls with size 4 bodies and size 24 assess. Its stupid. Not worth the risk it can put one's life.

Hes handsome! Put some collagen in those lips, and we may have a winner! LMAO. Joking.

Yikes!! Not worth it!!

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Okay watercup would you find it acceptable if the person had a ridiculously hideous nose?

You're too beautiful & don't need a any kind of fix, believe me. It's all in your mind lol. Unless maybe it looked like a camel's back, you know, had that lump in the middle that makes you look like a seasoned boxer- I don't see any of that with you. What if you get addicted to the stuff & end up looking terrible? Have you seen Lil' Kim & Wendy Williams' funny looking body? Wendy now resembles a number 7, too much boob.

You are sweet — ... No I haven't seen their bodies. I know some people go crazy with the bum implants etc

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Kim's body looks fine, it's the face that looks weird. People are just plain crazy lately. I heard there's even a surgery that "modifies" your vaginal lips, making them preetay lol. Like really, are they gonna walk fashion ramps & become the next top model or something? Waste of money.

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Okay watercup would you find it acceptable if the person had a ridiculously hideous nose?

You're too beautiful & don't need a any kind of fix, believe me. It's all in your mind lol. Unless maybe it looked like a camel's back, you know, had that lump in the middle that makes you look like a seasoned boxer- I don't see any of that with you. What if you get addicted to the stuff & end up looking terrible? Have you seen Lil' Kim & Wendy Williams' funny looking body? Wendy now resembles a number 7, too much boob.

You are sweet — ... No I haven't seen their bodies. I know some people go crazy with the bum implants etc

Kim's body looks fine, it's the face that looks weird. People are just plain crazy lately. I heard there's even a surgery that "modifies" your vaginal lips, making them preetay lol. Like really, are they gonna walk fashion ramps & become the next top model or something? Waste of money.

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Yup. I think its called vaginal rejuvenation.

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Oh yeah the vaginaplasty and labiaplasty are both quite common.. The former much more invasive. The latter is for people that want more aesthetically appealing lips down there, which generally involves trimming rather than the plumping that goes on for the other lips 😛

This has gotten out of control... Lol. Completely.

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Oh yeah the vaginaplasty and labiaplasty are both quite common.. The former much more invasive. The latter is for people that want more aesthetically appealing lips down there, which generally involves trimming rather than the plumping that goes on for the other lips 😛

that just weird. I guess they must've spent a lot of time with a mirror between their legs to even notice that kitty actually looks like a bulldog lol. Like, who cares? Lmao. Women!

Yikes this surgical vagina talk is making me feel nauseous. LOL. I do not want anyone cutting my love box.

Posted by PiscVirgAquaFish
I'm really insecure about taking my car for repairs. I don't know if this counts as an insecurity. I always worry they will over charge me. I put off taking my car in for service sometimes until I can get a guy to go with me. My dad used to volunteer, but I guess he is getting tired of babying me LOL. Well lookie there, I have come up with a good reason to get married. I need a consistent man in my life to take care of this need for me. 😄

Ding ding ding! Sounds like good enough reason to me. LOL.

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Hell I might decide to become a virgin again and get a "hymen repair" which = a reconstructed hymen so I'll "appear" virginal again. Even though all of that work and money will be gone again in one pop. Only put me back a good 10 grand or so in the meanwhile... lol

hey, you can fake feeling like a virgin lol. Example, here there're tribes that go to "sex schools" & get taught tricks on how to please your husband sexually. One of the tricks is an insertion of an object down there & you must grip it & it mustnt slip out no matter how hard they pull at it. Weird. One of my friends went to such place, she has 2 kids now & claims she can still keep A TOOTHPICK in. Hahaha. Ok. Whataever.

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Hell I might decide to become a virgin again and get a "hymen repair" which = a reconstructed hymen so I'll "appear" virginal again. Even though all of that work and money will be gone again in one pop. Only put me back a good 10 grand or so in the meanwhile... lol

hey, you can fake feeling like a virgin lol. Example, here there're tribes that go to "sex schools" & get taught tricks on how to please your husband sexually. One of the tricks is an insertion of an object down there & you must grip it & it mustnt slip out no matter how hard they pull at it. Weird. One of my friends went to such place, she has 2 kids now & claims she can still keep A TOOTHPICK in. Hahaha. Ok. Whataever.

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Have you heard the wives tale about allum (sp)?

ninjutsu7 - its all good! i was joking. lol. 🙂

PiscVirgAquaFish - yes, there are just certain things that I am more than capable of doing, that I would prefer a man to do. lol. for example, take the trash out or wash my car. ha! growing up my dad always took the trash out and washed my car (for the most part) and i coincidently dated men who always washed my car as well. its the little things! lol

i probably sound like a feminist worst nightmare night now. lmao

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Hell I might decide to become a virgin again and get a "hymen repair" which = a reconstructed hymen so I'll "appear" virginal again. Even though all of that work and money will be gone again in one pop. Only put me back a good 10 grand or so in the meanwhile... lol

hey, you can fake feeling like a virgin lol. Example, here there're tribes that go to "sex schools" & get taught tricks on how to please your husband sexually. One of the tricks is an insertion of an object down there & you must grip it & it mustnt slip out no matter how hard they pull at it. Weird. One of my friends went to such place, she has 2 kids now & claims she can still keep A TOOTHPICK in. Hahaha. Ok. Whataever.

A toothpick?! Lmao no way can she do that if someone tries to yank it out... I don't believe she can keep clenching onto a toothpick hahah!

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I'd love to see her demonstrate it, but then again I might gag or something. She have shown me some things, fully clothed ofcourse lol & she can make it look like it's breathing lol. It heaves hahaha.

Posted by MzSag1201
I don't know if this is an insecurity, but I constantly underestimate my abilities and sell myself short. I set ridiculously high standards for myself that I know I can't achieve... and ugh, I just stress myself out. I get anxious just thinking about it.

It's all of this Saturn energy in my chart.

I also don't like my nose and I feel like my eyes are dull and empty.

There, I said it.

I said it, MzSag. Now stfu. 😭

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your eyes can NEVER be dull and empty. you lie behind them. not trying to sound corny or cliche, but all that is you lies behind your eyes. when you look in the mirror, try not to see dull and boring. see your passions, your accomplishments, your dream!

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Hell I might decide to become a virgin again and get a "hymen repair" which = a reconstructed hymen so I'll "appear" virginal again. Even though all of that work and money will be gone again in one pop. Only put me back a good 10 grand or so in the meanwhile... lol

hey, you can fake feeling like a virgin lol. Example, here there're tribes that go to "sex schools" & get taught tricks on how to please your husband sexually. One of the tricks is an insertion of an object down there & you must grip it & it mustnt slip out no matter how hard they pull at it. Weird. One of my friends went to such place, she has 2 kids now & claims she can still keep A TOOTHPICK in. Hahaha. Ok. Whataever.

Have you heard the wives tale about allum (sp)?

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No, what's that? Please tell me before I lose restraint & google lol

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ninjutsu7 - its all good! i was joking. lol. 🙂

PiscVirgAquaFish - yes, there are just certain things that I am more than capable of doing, that I would prefer a man to do. lol. for example, take the trash out or wash my car. ha! growing up my dad always took the trash out and washed my car (for the most part) and i coincidently dated men who always washed my car as well. its the little things! lol

i probably sound like a feminist worst nightmare night now. lmao

Lmao I've always been with dudes like this too, and my father is completely like that too! My dad washes my car every weekend and vacuums the inside. He's the best 🙂

I wonder if this is some subconscious prerequisite for us thanks to our dads hahah

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Right. My dad certainly set the standards high, through his actions and treatment towards me.

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Hell I might decide to become a virgin again and get a "hymen repair" which = a reconstructed hymen so I'll "appear" virginal again. Even though all of that work and money will be gone again in one pop. Only put me back a good 10 grand or so in the meanwhile... lol

hey, you can fake feeling like a virgin lol. Example, here there're tribes that go to "sex schools" & get taught tricks on how to please your husband sexually. One of the tricks is an insertion of an object down there & you must grip it & it mustnt slip out no matter how hard they pull at it. Weird. One of my friends went to such place, she has 2 kids now & claims she can still keep A TOOTHPICK in. Hahaha. Ok. Whataever.

Have you heard the wives tale about allum (sp)?

No, what's that? Please tell me before I lose restraint & google lol

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Lol. Too funny. You can find it in the seasoning and spices section at your local grocer. Anyhwho, you can soak in it and its supposed to tighten you up. Just put some in the bathtub and soak for about 30 mins. Lol.

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ninjutsu7 - its all good! i was joking. lol. 🙂

PiscVirgAquaFish - yes, there are just certain things that I am more than capable of doing, that I would prefer a man to do. lol. for example, take the trash out or wash my car. ha! growing up my dad always took the trash out and washed my car (for the most part) and i coincidently dated men who always washed my car as well. its the little things! lol

i probably sound like a feminist worst nightmare night now. lmao

No not at all. When a man does that type of stuff it turns me on. Cut the grass. Get my car detailed. Take my car in for service. Take the trash out without me asking. Fix some shit around the house. Click click **Coochie coupon** LOL.

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Right! I love a handy man. Make yourself useful!! Especially, as i have gotten older. Shoot, I am tired! LOL

Ninj - exactly! and most men WANT to take care of the woman they love. **sigh**

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Hell I might decide to become a virgin again and get a "hymen repair" which = a reconstructed hymen so I'll "appear" virginal again. Even though all of that work and money will be gone again in one pop. Only put me back a good 10 grand or so in the meanwhile... lol

hey, you can fake feeling like a virgin lol. Example, here there're tribes that go to "sex schools" & get taught tricks on how to please your husband sexually. One of the tricks is an insertion of an object down there & you must grip it & it mustnt slip out no matter how hard they pull at it. Weird. One of my friends went to such place, she has 2 kids now & claims she can still keep A TOOTHPICK in. Hahaha. Ok. Whataever.

A toothpick?! Lmao no way can she do that if someone tries to yank it out... I don't believe she can keep clenching onto a toothpick hahah!

I'd love to see her demonstrate it, but then again I might gag or something. She have shown me some things, fully clothed ofcourse lol & she can make it look like it's breathing lol. It heaves hahaha.

I want to go to this school and learn those skills...

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Lmao. They claim it's not very nice, sort of like bootcamp (coochie camp I guess), but you'll have that million dollar "ooh ooh" when you get out that makes guys feel rich to have you lol.

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We have been blessed to have good fathers... I am grateful for that.

So Am I. 🙂

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It is a blessing. 🙂

Nitey nite Ninj!! 🙂

PiscVirgAquaFish @ tenfold. who the heck are you telling!??! smh... girrrrllll..... yea its about that time... lol. ill just leave it at that.


WaterCup7- i went to something similar to that, but it was a class on giving oral sex. ha!

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Hell I might decide to become a virgin again and get a "hymen repair" which = a reconstructed hymen so I'll "appear" virginal again. Even though all of that work and money will be gone again in one pop. Only put me back a good 10 grand or so in the meanwhile... lol

hey, you can fake feeling like a virgin lol. Example, here there're tribes that go to "sex schools" & get taught tricks on how to please your husband sexually. One of the tricks is an insertion of an object down there & you must grip it & it mustnt slip out no matter how hard they pull at it. Weird. One of my friends went to such place, she has 2 kids now & claims she can still keep A TOOTHPICK in. Hahaha. Ok. Whataever.

Have you heard the wives tale about allum (sp)?

No, what's that? Please tell me before I lose restraint & google lol

Lol. Too funny. You can find it in the seasoning and spices section at your local grocer. Anyhwho, you can soak in it and its supposed to tighten you up. Just put some in the bathtub and soak for about 30 mins. Lol.

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Wow. No I've never heard of it. It makes it tight? For how long lol? Girls do all sorts of crazy things to narrow the highway lol, I've heard unbelievable ones that most claim to work.

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There she is 🙂

Nighty! —

Night, love 🙂

lol @ narrow the highway. i tried it once and i cant say i noticed a significant difference. i am not sure if it even really works or if its something that begins to work gradually.

what crazy things have you heard about? lol.

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PiscVirgAquaFish @ tenfold. who the heck are you telling!??! smh... girrrrllll..... yea its about that time... lol. ill just leave it at that.


WaterCup7- i went to something similar to that, but it was a class on giving oral sex. ha!

I have a 7 on my name? Strange. Oral sex school? LOL. What did you guys practice on?

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lol @ narrow the highway. i tried it once and i cant say i noticed a significant difference. i am not sure if it even really works or if its something that begins to work gradually.

what crazy things have you heard about? lol.

Frozen ice sticks in there is one, but most are about African herbs & plants. Some I found scary & unhealthy. Example, one girl told me about how she breaks up beefstock cubes & shove them in there- not to tighten it but she claims it adds an extra something lol..making her guy crazy. I thought "yeah, I bet he gets crazy alright cause you're making him hungry with all that aroma". I wonder what he must be thinking lol "ooh, she's bad! Her thing is making me smell things. As a matter of fact, I'm smelling beef stew as we hump" Lmao. I'll never try that one cause it sounds certifiably insane.

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PiscVirgAquaFish @ tenfold. who the heck are you telling!??! smh... girrrrllll..... yea its about that time... lol. ill just leave it at that.


WaterCup7- i went to something similar to that, but it was a class on giving oral sex. ha!

I have a 7 on my name? Strange. Oral sex school? LOL. What did you guys practice on?

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Typo. Sorry. Or, I can make it your nickname from now on!!! LOL.

We actually practiced on dildos. They came with the class. Ha! It was hilarious. A group of us went for our friend's bachlorette party. Well it was a pat of the festivities.

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Omg they give classes on oral sex. I'm such a prude when it comes to discussing my sex life I'm trying to imagine being in a class full of people practicing oral. I would have to take my best friends for support. I think the Cancer would be even more prudish than me. But my scorpio friend would be all into it. I have a feeling that she would volunteer to go up front and demonstrate her own technique. She is very sexual LOL. She loves to hit the strip shows too.

I thought it was hilarious. I didnt take it seriously. I wasnt going to actually learn anything. I was going to support my friend. BUT I will say, I left out of that sex shop with a few more tricks than I came in with. Lol.

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lol @ narrow the highway. i tried it once and i cant say i noticed a significant difference. i am not sure if it even really works or if its something that begins to work gradually.

what crazy things have you heard about? lol.

Frozen ice sticks in there is one, but most are about African herbs & plants. Some I found scary & unhealthy. Example, one girl told me about how she breaks up beefstock cubes & shove them in there- not to tighten it but she claims it adds an extra something lol..making her guy crazy. I thought "yeah, I bet he gets crazy alright cause you're making him hungry with all that aroma". I wonder what he must be thinking lol "ooh, she's bad! Her thing is making me smell things. As a matter of fact, I'm smelling beef stew as we hump" Lmao. I'll never try that one cause it sounds certifiably insane.

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Ummm that could give her a yeast infection can't it!?! Or some kind of infection... Who wants to smell like a steak anyway? Is she preparing to have sex with a lion!?!? SMH.

Posted by starlover
I didnt used to like pooing in other peoples' toilets 😄

Then i gave birth and now i dont give a shit lol

Childbirth is the most liberating and freeing thing ever, once
you have been through that all your dignity flies out of the
window

Does anyone know what i mean




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Lol. You are adorbs. At the current moment I cannot share in this liberating feeling, but one day we will be able to talk about it. 🙂

First things first. First a hubs. Then my beautiful babies. 🙂

At this point it would almost be like immaculate conception. Lol.

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They are too big. I am runner but I started spinning a few years ago. Spinning and squats have made them a little too big for my liking.

I think you'll find, in general, that that isn't a valid complaint.

At least not from where a lot lot of men sit.

Squats are a beautiful thing.

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Thank you.... 🙂

I had grown used to long and more slender limbs.... I guess sometimes change is hard.