Quarter Life Crisis

This topic was created in the Miscellaneous forum by Ariangirl on Monday, July 1, 2013 and has 17 replies.

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@Ariangirl
13 YearsAries
I am not really sure if I should call this quarter life crisis but lately, I have been feeling really...empty! Like there's this very big part of myself that's lacking and I cannot even identify what it is.

My family is experiencing a lot of problems now especially that my dad don't have a job anymore and he is undergoing depression. My dog is sick in the hospital, the person I wanna be with is also very sick and won't want to involve me on what's going on with his life (health basically) so I worry so much about him, I want to do a lot of things regarding my career, I want to live and work abroad and go to several places at one time (and I think I really want this to escape everything that's around me). My mind is just in chaos and I get so frustrated because I know that I am not able to do those things that I want.

I really am not sure if most people go through these things all at once but it just makes me feel so alone, no matter how many people are around me at this moment. It's like I wanna cry my heart out but I just can't.

Well, when it rains, it pours..Bigtime, huh!
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@bkbella86
14 Years5,000+ PostsAries
I think alot of people feel this way around our age...life can be a crazy and scary thing. I even think our parents also felt this way, thats why you here older people saying that their 30s and 40s are amazing. Its a combo of gaining more confidence with in yourself, experience that gives you wisdom that you would not have with out experiences both good and bad and i think learning and loving yourself. Also finding ways to cope that are healthy. The things you cant change at this moment, dont stress them. The things you can change, they need your energy....focus on those things.

I hope it gets better girl.
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@Ariangirl
13 YearsAries
Yeah. I guess everyone is right. This is just a bad phase I'm going through and I don't have to do anything but to keep I swimming. It's just kinda frustrating when everything's bottled up inside.

Just to make myself clear, I am not here to ask for anyone's pity. I am just venting out and I think I am allowed to do that, right?
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@Ariangirl
13 YearsAries
And to you, P-Angel, (yes, this is specially for you coz I think, you are in deep need of my attention). You are just like a real life rat who is nothing but a pest who keeps on coming back and forth. Didn't I tell you once or twice to back off from my posts? Clearly, we dislike each other so why spend effort on giving your unwanted opinion? It is YOU who should get over yourself thinking I need any of your suggestions. Now, for the last time, back off before I lose the littlest amount of respect I have for you.
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@P-Angel
21 Years25,000+ PostsPisces
Posted by Ariangirl

... it just makes me feel so alone, no matter how many people are around me at this moment. It's like I wanna cry my heart out but I just can't.








ah, poor baby, and at 25, for goodness sake !!!!

maybe you should ask mommy for a titty ... that'll make all the scary life-stuff go away
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@Ariangirl
13 YearsAries
Well, that is so mature of you, granny. To be stooping down at my IMMATURE level!

I am ignoring you from now on because unlike you, I don't wanna waste my time arguing with a dirty old rat like you. This is going nowhere.
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@Ariangirl
13 YearsAries
Well, that is so mature of you, granny. To be stooping down at my IMMATURE level!

I am ignoring you from now on because unlike you, I don't wanna waste my time arguing with a dirty old rat like you. This is going nowhere.
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@westside
15 Years1,000+ PostsGemini
Posted by Ariangirl
I am not really sure if I should call this quarter life crisis but lately, I have been feeling really...empty! Like there's this very big part of myself that's lacking and I cannot even identify what it is.

My family is experiencing a lot of problems now especially that my dad don't have a job anymore and he is undergoing depression. My dog is sick in the hospital, the person I wanna be with is also very sick and won't want to involve me on what's going on with his life (health basically) so I worry so much about him, I want to do a lot of things regarding my career, I want to live and work abroad and go to several places at one time (and I think I really want this to escape everything that's around me). My mind is just in chaos and I get so frustrated because I know that I am not able to do those things that I want.

I really am not sure if most people go through these things all at once but it just makes me feel so alone, no matter how many people are around me at this moment. It's like I wanna cry my heart out but I just can't.

Well, when it rains, it pours..Bigtime, huh!




sounds like u need a friend. im here if you need to talk.