Aquarius Moon WHY IS SO MUCH SPACE NEED?

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I have Aquarius moon and I need SOOOOOOOOOOO much space. I am married with my own bedroom LOL seriously. My hubby doesnt mind it, luckily. He is used to me needing space .
interesting. your placements are similar to mine. cap sun aqua moon pisces mars. i used to think i would need my own floor with my own lock after i get married lol. but the reality is that when i get into a relationship, we attach at the hip. i cannot sleep without part of me touching hubby. no way he can have his own bedroom lol
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I am fed up with moon in Aquarius need for space. What is the purpose of this? WTF! Why don't other moons need as much fucking space!! It hurts people's feelings...what can be done?
Nothing.

Unless they have a libra sun lol

That would be me. Just that I need even more space...

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true. that'd be my ex also. he escaped to gaming to detach from true intimacy and i walked

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I am fed up with moon in Aquarius need for space. What is the purpose of this? WTF! Why don't other moons need as much fucking space!! It hurts people's feelings...what can be done?
Nothing.

Unless they have a libra sun lol

That would be me. Just that I need even more space...

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Why?

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I am fed up with moon in Aquarius need for space. What is the purpose of this? WTF! Why don't other moons need as much fucking space!! It hurts people's feelings...what can be done?
Nothing.

Unless they have a libra sun lol

That would be me. Just that I need even more space...


true. that'd be my ex also. he escaped to gaming to detach from true intimacy and i walked



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You are scaring me!

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I am fed up with moon in Aquarius need for space. What is the purpose of this? WTF! Why don't other moons need as much fucking space!! It hurts people's feelings...what can be done?
Nothing.

Unless they have a libra sun lol

That would be me. Just that I need even more space...


true. that'd be my ex also. he escaped to gaming to detach from true intimacy and i walked





You are scaring me!

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he later told me in retrospect that he was struggling to not lose himself in us / the relationship. he was struggling to not drown. i guess my 12 house / pisces too scary for him -__- lol
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I stopped talking to a guy who I considered a bestie due to his over need for space. He was a true Aqua (sun, Moon, Venus and mars) I couldn't take it. It's annoying as hell. So... no more bestie.
ima triple aqua. i wonder how much space do i need?
I dunno. We live an hour away from eachother and I was in his area in March (after not seeing him for like 6 months) and he was suppose to call me when he got off work....never did....thank God I hadn't gone there to see him.... then.... I didn't hear from him (since march) until a couple weeks ago.... saying "how are you, haven't heard from you in a while"..... really mf? I didn't even respond. So done.

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why done?
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I stopped talking to a guy who I considered a bestie due to his over need for space. He was a true Aqua (sun, Moon, Venus and mars) I couldn't take it. It's annoying as hell. So... no more bestie.
ima triple aqua. i wonder how much space do i need?
I dunno. We live an hour away from eachother and I was in his area in March (after not seeing him for like 6 months) and he was suppose to call me when he got off work....never did....thank God I hadn't gone there to see him.... then.... I didn't hear from him (since march) until a couple weeks ago.... saying "how are you, haven't heard from you in a while"..... really mf? I didn't even respond. So done.


why done?
I don't see him for 6 months.... go to his town and he tells me he's gonna call when he gets off work....never does....and don't hear from him again till the end of April(over a month later) and your asking why I'm done?

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i mean hes just a friend right?
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I stopped talking to a guy who I considered a bestie due to his over need for space. He was a true Aqua (sun, Moon, Venus and mars) I couldn't take it. It's annoying as hell. So... no more bestie.
ima triple aqua. i wonder how much space do i need?
I dunno. We live an hour away from eachother and I was in his area in March (after not seeing him for like 6 months) and he was suppose to call me when he got off work....never did....thank God I hadn't gone there to see him.... then.... I didn't hear from him (since march) until a couple weeks ago.... saying "how are you, haven't heard from you in a while"..... really mf? I didn't even respond. So done.


why done?
I don't see him for 6 months.... go to his town and he tells me he's gonna call when he gets off work....never does....and don't hear from him again till the end of April(over a month later) and your asking why I'm done?


i mean hes just a friend right?
Yes, but if you're not going to make time for me EVER and then basicly stand me up...why would I want to be friends with you anymore? You are just wasting my time.

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i don't know. but sometimes we need/miss our old friends as well.
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I stopped talking to a guy who I considered a bestie due to his over need for space. He was a true Aqua (sun, Moon, Venus and mars) I couldn't take it. It's annoying as hell. So... no more bestie.
ima triple aqua. i wonder how much space do i need?
I dunno. We live an hour away from eachother and I was in his area in March (after not seeing him for like 6 months) and he was suppose to call me when he got off work....never did....thank God I hadn't gone there to see him.... then.... I didn't hear from him (since march) until a couple weeks ago.... saying "how are you, haven't heard from you in a while"..... really mf? I didn't even respond. So done.


why done?
I don't see him for 6 months.... go to his town and he tells me he's gonna call when he gets off work....never does....and don't hear from him again till the end of April(over a month later) and your asking why I'm done?


i mean hes just a friend right?
Yes, but if you're not going to make time for me EVER and then basicly stand me up...why would I want to be friends with you anymore? You are just wasting my time.


i don't know. but sometimes we need/miss our old friends as well.
Then make time for me. I would go out of my way to see him. Anytime I was in his town I'd let him know. He would never come see me. Id tell him I was going to be in town and he'd ignore me the whole weekend. He can't even blame it on money cause last time in March I was staying at a resort and he wouldn't have had to pay for anything. I just wanted him to come hang out with me at the pool for a little bit.

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hmmm would you answer him if he text you let say tomorrow saying hi?
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Tbh, I don't get them either. Are they even eligible for marriage?
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What else can I say? If you are a clingy person, dont marry an Aqua moon.LOL

I do have my clingy moments, I like to converse ALL day on and off with my s/o.


I'm a Gemini moon, hello? LOL

I think clingy is alright, not needy though. Like you, I do have my moments where I need lots of my 'me' time, but not as much as you guys do.

I appreciate Aqua mooners for their humor, although they do sounds 'weird' sometimes. ๐Ÿ˜†





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What's the difference between clingy and needy?

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I stopped talking to a guy who I considered a bestie due to his over need for space. He was a true Aqua (sun, Moon, Venus and mars) I couldn't take it. It's annoying as hell. So... no more bestie.
ima triple aqua. i wonder how much space do i need?
I dunno. We live an hour away from eachother and I was in his area in March (after not seeing him for like 6 months) and he was suppose to call me when he got off work....never did....thank God I hadn't gone there to see him.... then.... I didn't hear from him (since march) until a couple weeks ago.... saying "how are you, haven't heard from you in a while"..... really mf? I didn't even respond. So done.

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Okay girl, well I understand under those circumstances.
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I am fed up with moon in Aquarius need for space. What is the purpose of this? WTF! Why don't other moons need as much fucking space!! It hurts people's feelings...what can be done?
Nothing.

Unless they have a libra sun lol

That would be me. Just that I need even more space...


true. that'd be my ex also. he escaped to gaming to detach from true intimacy and i walked





You are scaring me!


he later told me in retrospect that he was struggling to not lose himself in us / the relationship. he was struggling to not drown. i guess my 12 house / pisces too scary for him -__- lol


I was married to a Pisces. It was a disaster.
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that's why i'm married to a scorp lol. i have an extremely logical mind tho thx to cap sun aqua moon. i just don't think it's necessary to explain feelings lol

how was it a disaster if you don't mind sharing your key issues with the pisces?
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I stopped talking to a guy who I considered a bestie due to his over need for space. He was a true Aqua (sun, Moon, Venus and mars) I couldn't take it. It's annoying as hell. So... no more bestie.
ima triple aqua. i wonder how much space do i need?
I dunno. We live an hour away from eachother and I was in his area in March (after not seeing him for like 6 months) and he was suppose to call me when he got off work....never did....thank God I hadn't gone there to see him.... then.... I didn't hear from him (since march) until a couple weeks ago.... saying "how are you, haven't heard from you in a while"..... really mf? I didn't even respond. So done.


why done?
I don't see him for 6 months.... go to his town and he tells me he's gonna call when he gets off work....never does....and don't hear from him again till the end of April(over a month later) and your asking why I'm done?


i mean hes just a friend right?
Yes, but if you're not going to make time for me EVER and then basicly stand me up...why would I want to be friends with you anymore? You are just wasting my time.


i don't know. but sometimes we need/miss our old friends as well.
Then make time for me. I would go out of my way to see him. Anytime I was in his town I'd let him know. He would never come see me. Id tell him I was going to be in town and he'd ignore me the whole weekend. He can't even blame it on money cause last time in March I was staying at a resort and he wouldn't have had to pay for anything. I just wanted him to come hang out with me at the pool for a little bit.


hmmm would you answer him if he text you let say tomorrow saying hi?
Nope. Like I said. I'm done.

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i am bad at maintaining friendships. a lot of room (pun intended lol) for improvement. if they don't make efforts, i just let it die
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I am fed up with moon in Aquarius need for space. What is the purpose of this? WTF! Why don't other moons need as much fucking space!! It hurts people's feelings...what can be done?
Nothing.

Unless they have a libra sun lol

That would be me. Just that I need even more space...


true. that'd be my ex also. he escaped to gaming to detach from true intimacy and i walked





You are scaring me!


he later told me in retrospect that he was struggling to not lose himself in us / the relationship. he was struggling to not drown. i guess my 12 house / pisces too scary for him -__- lol


I was married to a Pisces. It was a disaster.
that's why i'm married to a scorp lol. i have an extremely logical mind tho thx to cap sun aqua moon. i just don't think it's necessary to explain feelings lol

how was it a disaster if you don't mind sharing your key issues with the pisces?


My daughter is a Scorpio. I think it would be too much romantically for me, but she's my baby so well it's alright. Lol

The Pisces... well it was almost 30 years ago. I don't remember him being very emotional. But maybe it was his actions not in words. He rode in on his white horse & tried to save the day. Lol. After we married, I found out who he really was... he was irresponsible, controlling, and didn't really care what i wanted, and a pothead. I think he cheated too but no proof. It was the most volatile relationship I've ever been in. He admitted to loving pushing my buttons and watching me explode. Would tell me I had big feelings & then refuse to listen to me. Aqua moon shut down after a year into the marriage. I couldn't take it anymore.

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pothead vs non-pothead would be the #1 issue lol. irresponsible and controlling, 2nd. last but the least, drama king. i am a cap sun, mercury & venus after all lol

i can understand when dealing with an emotional detachment, it can push my rebellious buttons so i may intentionally throw dramas their way just to see how they go nuts lol

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Because.... AIR.

That is all. ๐Ÿ˜†

Tbh, I don't get them either. Are they even eligible for marriage?
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What else can I say? If you are a clingy person, dont marry an Aqua moon.LOL

I do have my clingy moments, I like to converse ALL day on and off with my s/o.


I'm a Gemini moon, hello? LOL

I think clingy is alright, not needy though. Like you, I do have my moments where I need lots of my 'me' time, but not as much as you guys do.

I appreciate Aqua mooners for their humor, although they do sounds 'weird' sometimes. ๐Ÿ˜†







What's the difference between clingy and needy?


Clingy : Too emotionally dependent

Needy : Depend on you for everything. Love, attention, money, food etc etc



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I like clingy.

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I am fed up with moon in Aquarius need for space. What is the purpose of this? WTF! Why don't other moons need as much fucking space!! It hurts people's feelings...what can be done?
Do you ever post any positive threads ?

Are there any signs that you do like ?
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Says the haughty woman who invaded the Libra thread insulting us with your barn-yard astrological synopsis of Libra's disposition. You know quite a few violent strange people so perhaps in your world, Libras are possessive and jealous but generally speaking those are not characteristics that heavy-hitter astrologers associate with this sign at all so take heed to your own advice and stop coming to our thread with your dumbass inaccurate negative portrayal of Libras. That was a very negative thread!!

So do you ever post anything positive? Because combining the word Libra and open relationship in the same sentence is extremely provocative and it elicits the worse in US! So with that said....

I like all of the signs that are not represented by your chart.โ˜บ Roflmao. ??โ˜บ



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I find that Aqua moons generally have a hard time showing any form of affection, be it with friends or family. That's not an issue with me since I'm a Scorpio moon. I've only met 1 Aqua moon who was affectionate - Virgo sun/Aqua moon.

So my question is, does having an earth sun/mercury/mars make an Aqua moon a little more open than the usual?

I am very affectionate just particular with whom I share it.
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I find that Aqua moons generally have a hard time showing any form of affection, be it with friends or family. That's not an issue with me since I'm a Scorpio moon. I've only met 1 Aqua moon who was affectionate - Virgo sun/Aqua moon.

So my question is, does having an earth sun/mercury/mars make an Aqua moon a little more open than the usual?

I am very affectionate just particular with whom I share it.

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Yeb! I have sun in Taurus n even though other placements r full of Aqua ... I am super super suoso r affectionate !!!! It takes Pisces energy in my man to bring it out though . If I have fear , my wall goes up and my spaces keep me safe

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I have Aquarius moon and I need SOOOOOOOOOOO much space. I am married with my own bedroom LOL seriously. My hubby doesnt mind it, luckily. He is used to me needing space .
God I'm the same, my Aqua with lots of Pisces get so sensitive about it. Seriously my ideal marriage is that we have two seperate bedrooms hahahahaha
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My hubby has Pisces moon and he has been sensitive about it, but he got over it LOL God I sound so cold but im not really.
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I have Aquarius moon and I need SOOOOOOOOOOO much space. I am married with my own bedroom LOL seriously. My hubby doesnt mind it, luckily. He is used to me needing space .
God I'm the same, my Aqua with lots of Pisces get so sensitive about it. Seriously my ideal marriage is that we have two seperate bedrooms hahahahaha
My hubby has Pisces moon and he has been sensitive about it, but he got over it LOL God I sound so cold but im not really.
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Hahaha omg I'm preying if me and this Aqua goes well. I have a lot of air he has lots of Pisces that he will slowly begin to love that about me hehe..... I noe how cold so we sound at times lol....? I left him sleeping in the other room by himself the other day coz of my baby n the next day he was so sad waking up n I wasn't there he then messaged me n said if I slept ok without him coz he missed me.... n my reply.. yes I did babe lol
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I have Aquarius moon and I need SOOOOOOOOOOO much space. I am married with my own bedroom LOL seriously. My hubby doesnt mind it, luckily. He is used to me needing space .
God I'm the same, my Aqua with lots of Pisces get so sensitive about it. Seriously my ideal marriage is that we have two seperate bedrooms hahahahaha
My hubby has Pisces moon and he has been sensitive about it, but he got over it LOL God I sound so cold but im not really.
Hahaha omg I'm preying if me and this Aqua goes well. I have a lot of air he has lots of Pisces that he will slowly begin to love that about me hehe..... I noe how cold so we sound at times lol....? I left him sleeping in the other room by himself the other day coz of my baby n the next day he was so sad waking up n I wasn't there he then messaged me n said if I slept ok without him coz he missed me.... n my reply.. yes I did babe lol
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Only for me

To feel crap ages after coz he was upset haha... I had to call him to apologise .. I was being super insensitive !! Still learning to b more sensitive
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Virgo sun/ aqua moon here

I want intimacy, I just don't know how to go about it . I'm an affectionate person with men I love , the ones I trust.

But anything unsure and iffy I easily get scared. I don't want to feel things because I am weak to feeling and it can easily consume me. When emotion take control of me in a negative way I fall apart and can't deal with it. I have my whole emotion under control my whole life. I only cry to myself when I'm alone because I hate to be perceived as weak. So to other people, I come off strong, put together and detach when it comes to emotion. When ever I feel something , in my head I always think ... if only people knew , all of them who think I'm so strong and have it all together . Might be a Virgo too, the whole keeping up with the appearance of what might seem like perfection. No these days, when I look at strong people who seem to have it all together , I wonder what it is they're really going through

It doesn't help that when I do rarely get emotional with men, the times I did... I was told I'm too emotional . So that makes me want to hold it in from negative reinforcement even more.



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Virgo sun/ aqua moon here

I want intimacy, I just don't know how to go about it . I'm an affectionate person with men I love , the ones I trust.

But anything unsure and iffy I easily get scared. I don't want to feel things because I am weak to feeling and it can easily consume me. When emotion take control of me in a negative way I fall apart and can't deal with it. I have my whole emotion under control my whole life. I only cry to myself when I'm alone because I hate to be perceived as weak. So to other people, I come off strong, put together and detach when it comes to emotion. When ever I feel something , in my head I always think ... if only people knew , all of them who think I'm so strong and have it all together . Might be a Virgo too, the whole keeping up with the appearance of what might seem like perfection. No these days, when I look at strong people who seem to have it all together , I wonder what it is they're really going through

It doesn't help that when I do rarely get emotional with men, the times I did... I was told I'm too emotional . So that makes me want to hold it in from negative reinforcement even more.



I believe we all have 3 lives . Our public lives, private lives and secret lives .
you are very emotionally because of your scorp rising, venus and cancer mars. it's a good thing that you have aqua moon to not be completely consumed by water

a pubic face can protect you from the wrong people. once we are older and don't care about those who don't matter, less effort would be made to keep the inner self hidden. be free and authentic are beautiful
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Virgo sun/ aqua moon here

I want intimacy, I just don't know how to go about it . I'm an affectionate person with men I love , the ones I trust.

But anything unsure and iffy I easily get scared. I don't want to feel things because I am weak to feeling and it can easily consume me. When emotion take control of me in a negative way I fall apart and can't deal with it. I have my whole emotion under control my whole life. I only cry to myself when I'm alone because I hate to be perceived as weak. So to other people, I come off strong, put together and detach when it comes to emotion. When ever I feel something , in my head I always think ... if only people knew , all of them who think I'm so strong and have it all together . Might be a Virgo too, the whole keeping up with the appearance of what might seem like perfection. No these days, when I look at strong people who seem to have it all together , I wonder what it is they're really going through

It doesn't help that when I do rarely get emotional with men, the times I did... I was told I'm too emotional . So that makes me want to hold it in from negative reinforcement even more.



I believe we all have 3 lives . Our public lives, private lives and secret lives .
you are very emotionally because of your scorp rising, venus and cancer mars. it's a good thing that you have aqua moon to not be completely consumed by water

a pubic face can protect you from the wrong people. once we are older and don't care about those who don't matter, less effort would be made to keep the inner self hidden. be free and authentic are beautiful
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Sometimes I really do feel like a watery mess and the aqua moon and Virgo sun is the only placement holding me together from being a full on emotional woman

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Virgo sun/ aqua moon here

I want intimacy, I just don't know how to go about it . I'm an affectionate person with men I love , the ones I trust.

But anything unsure and iffy I easily get scared. I don't want to feel things because I am weak to feeling and it can easily consume me. When emotion take control of me in a negative way I fall apart and can't deal with it. I have my whole emotion under control my whole life. I only cry to myself when I'm alone because I hate to be perceived as weak. So to other people, I come off strong, put together and detach when it comes to emotion. When ever I feel something , in my head I always think ... if only people knew , all of them who think I'm so strong and have it all together . Might be a Virgo too, the whole keeping up with the appearance of what might seem like perfection. No these days, when I look at strong people who seem to have it all together , I wonder what it is they're really going through

It doesn't help that when I do rarely get emotional with men, the times I did... I was told I'm too emotional . So that makes me want to hold it in from negative reinforcement even more.



I believe we all have 3 lives . Our public lives, private lives and secret lives .


SO decribes me, in every single way.
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My moon is in Aquarius and I sure need lots of space, but not because I'm afraid of intimacy or anything else. While I love being with people, I often need to withdraw from social life to process what I had been experiencing and integrate it. It's not a flaw, just a way in which I deal with life. Just because someone has a moon in Aquarius doesn't mean that person isn't capable of being in love or feeling emotions. In fact, I actually tend to rationalize them quite often, but that doesn't make me not-human. Don't make cold cyborgs out of Aquarians.