Posted by saweetz1988
Shooting Capricorn mooner people. Have you or would you waste time on someone if you weren't seeing yourself with them on long term? Since everything is always an investment for you and you are dedicated, determent , n see almost everything as an asset.... also would spend your time on someone if you don't have romantic feelings for but see a future with them somehow... Also, how do one know that your wall is coming down since you are so very guarded?
Posted by saweetz1988
Shooting Capricorn mooner people. Have you or would you waste time on someone if you weren't seeing yourself with them on long term? Since everything is always an investment for you and you are dedicated, determent , n see almost everything as an asset.... also would spend your time on someone if you don't have romantic feelings for but see a future with them somehow... Also, how do one know that your wall is coming down since you are so very guarded?
Posted by saweetz1988
Thanks guys. Those information are very helpful. Here are a few hints or experience that I have with this man. Instead of him saying good bye n speak to you soon he now says" take care of your self" when I tell him happy news he says " I'm proud of you" he often ask me what I'm doing, how I am, how work is etc and wish me luck for getting a promotion ".. he hinted when he was drunk that we should get married..... " he doesnt use protection with me..... he asked me what I would do if I get pregnant n I never answered yet he continued to not use any protection. in all honesty, he's like my best friend , the person I love dearly n my family.... I just wanna know if he sees me long term or not. He said " I know you will make a great and an amazing mother..... " he's very affectionate to me now in private...... cuddling all the time and all.... He has Scorpio in venus so sharing his feelings are doubling the work..... what do u guys thing? It's been a year and my Taurus patient is paying off slowly..... Ofcoz I wann b with him long term hence why I'm still aroind n is there for him at all cost.... he's very independent but can sown times act or say things like a girl sulking.... I think he likes me caring for him somehow.... am I in ??
Posted by anna1
He definitely sees you in long run otherwise he wouldn't have wasted a single minute on you. And that's true when he said Once we are done we are done. It never happened with you because he never actually decided to finish it. As far as roller coaster ride is concerned its because he is not yet ready for the relationship. He might not have the desired position in his carrier which seems the only reason of holding back. Just give him some time at least a year or two so that he can climb the mountain. In the meantime just support him and be there for him whenever he needs you. The reward will be worth it
Posted by saweetz1988
Shooting Capricorn mooner people. Have you or would you waste time on someone if you weren't seeing yourself with them on long term? Since everything is always an investment for you and you are dedicated, determent , n see almost everything as an asset.... also would spend your time on someone if you don't have romantic feelings for but see a future with them somehow... Also, how do one know that your wall is coming down since you are so very guarded?
Posted by hoolahoopsy
I think they'd rather invest 200% into one person than some vague 50 each in 4 lol.
I wonder if it's typical Cap moon humor to be harsh like very dry sarcastic and realistic ? Like the other day we went seeing Fast 7 at the end this tribute to PW almost had me crying, she didn't move one inch I'm like oops my bad forgot you have no feelings :p she laughed though like yeah agreed?
I disagree on them being closed off, one on one they can be real funny and talkative I just think they save the real selves to those that are worth it.
Posted by saweetz1988
Shooting Capricorn mooner people. Have you or would you waste time on someone if you weren't seeing yourself with them on long term? Since everything is always an investment for you and you are dedicated, determent , n see almost everything as an asset.... also would spend your time on someone if you don't have romantic feelings for but see a future with them somehow... Also, how do one know that your wall is coming down since you are so very guarded?
Posted by truecapPosted by saweetz1988
Shooting Capricorn mooner people. Have you or would you waste time on someone if you weren't seeing yourself with them on long term? Since everything is always an investment for you and you are dedicated, determent , n see almost everything as an asset.... also would spend your time on someone if you don't have romantic feelings for but see a future with them somehow... Also, how do one know that your wall is coming down since you are so very guarded?
You'll know when the walls start coming down. One at a time. Slowly. It will be obvious if you pay attention. Might not notice at the time, but look back at how they were before and how they are now and you'll hopefully see a difference.
Can I spend time on someone if I didn't see me with them long term? Usually no, but sometimes. If I really have fun with them, then sure. I will be aloof, won't say sweet things, won't share feelings...because one foot will be out the door looking for something better. Maybe I should restate that: if they're really sweet and overall a good person, and I genuinely like them, but there's chemistry or something missing, I'll be upfront. It's up to them if they want to continue knowing it will never be.
Dang! Hope that doesn't make me sound bad. But, it is honest.click to expand
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