Finding a moon for the Virgo moon.

People say that Cancer mooners are very good at bringing out the soft, emotional side of a Virgo mooner, and I've heard people say that they are a good pairing. But in my experience I've only become frustrated with Cancer mooners, their attempts to make me open up annoy me and make me feel uncomfortable.

In my experience Scorpio mooners talk way too much, I get bored listening and want to leave. I can't spend too much time alone with them.

I seem to surround myself with a lot of Pisces mooners, one of my best friends is a Pisces moon. But we are very different, they're similar to the Cancer I guess, with feelings and emotions. Except they don't interrogate you.

Other Virgo mooners are great, I relate a lot to them and there's an unbelievable connection there but I dated one for 3 years and there was definitely a lack of emotional communication. Which I felt was a good thing at the time but now I reflect back, and realise it was a cause of a lot of things.

Capricorn mooners I'm not so familiar with but I'd imagine maybe it would be the same problem as the Virgo mooner. ^^

I feel like Taurus might be a good match but I've never met one, or at least not that I know of.

I dunno about the air moons, how do they pair with a Virgo moon? I have an Aquarius moon friend, he's great!

I won't go near the fire moons, I just can't imagine that being any good. But really I have no idea.

Any insight?

I'm curious too as I am Virgo moon. I am also learning that I have many Virgo traits like helping those I love.

Cap moon and Virgo moon are good for each other, as long as they can take time to smell the roses. Cap can help the Virgo loosen up (really) and not sweat the details (or take time to have fun) and Virgo understands cap's need for solitude at times. Cap appreciates Virgo's "actions vs words" and Virgo appreciates that their partner works as hard as they do.

I think it's one of the better trines because there's enough difference to fill in the missing pieces of the other but enough the same that they ahare the same values and work ethic.

Taurus moon is a great companion to us. Sorry, forgot that in my previous post lol

Posted by sunkisses26
what's your sun sign?

my best friend is a virgo moon....and I am chatty as hell lol but I blame my gemini mercury and venus not my scorpio moon 🙂

My sun sign is Aries. I don't mind chatty people, but sometimes I need social breaks. :/

Posted by Ryoko
What are your other placements? Those might be stronger than your virgo moon. And maybe you're not water heavy in your chart hence why water moons clash with you.
And don't talk shit about fire moons lol jk
I'm an aries moon and i am closed off and closed as fuck due to my Capricorn rising.

I have barely any water, cancer rising. Haha I don't know many fire moons, I knew an Aries mooner briefly, he was great actually.

Posted by sultrykitty
Cap moon and Virgo moon are good for each other, as long as they can take time to smell the roses. Cap can help the Virgo loosen up (really) and not sweat the details (or take time to have fun) and Virgo understands cap's need for solitude at times. Cap appreciates Virgo's "actions vs words" and Virgo appreciates that their partner works as hard as they do.

I think it's one of the better trines because there's enough difference to fill in the missing pieces of the other but enough the same that they ahare the same values and work ethic.

I have a good friend who is a Cap mooner, I liked him a bit more at one time but we never got the chance to take it any further. I always wondered how that would have worked, but we're good friends now so, it's nice like that.
I've heard they can be quite cold though, and I can be really cold sometimes, so it puts me off because I'd like to work on that.

Posted by Scorpioluver
Taurus moon is a great companion to us. Sorry, forgot that in my previous post lol

I've always thought so. Hmmm... Just need to find one. 🙂

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Posted by sultrykitty
Cap moon and Virgo moon are good for each other, as long as they can take time to smell the roses. Cap can help the Virgo loosen up (really) and not sweat the details (or take time to have fun) and Virgo understands cap's need for solitude at times. Cap appreciates Virgo's "actions vs words" and Virgo appreciates that their partner works as hard as they do.

I think it's one of the better trines because there's enough difference to fill in the missing pieces of the other but enough the same that they ahare the same values and work ethic.

I have a good friend who is a Cap mooner, I liked him a bit more at one time but we never got the chance to take it any further. I always wondered how that would have worked, but we're good friends now so, it's nice like that.
I've heard they can be quite cold though, and I can be really cold sometimes, so it puts me off because I'd like to work on that.

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You could be right, becaise trines are so comfortable that often they don't present enough challenge to get you outside of your comfort zone to grow. But you can also find someone wuih enough squares or oppositions in other places of your charts to do that. I do wonder if being more mature and having more life and relationship experiences support trines working better, because you've both grown and moved beyond some of the natural characteristics (blocks) of our signs.

I have Virgo moon. Although Cancers (Sun, Rising and Moon) are good friends, they keep on forcing me to open up when I don't want to. It's like privacy invasion. I prefer Taurus moon though.

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Posted by Ryoko
What are your other placements? Those might be stronger than your virgo moon. And maybe you're not water heavy in your chart hence why water moons clash with you.
And don't talk shit about fire moons lol jk
I'm an aries moon and i am closed off and closed as fuck due to my Capricorn rising.

I have barely any water, cancer rising. Haha I don't know many fire moons, I knew an Aries mooner briefly, he was great actually.

Do you have mostly earth in your chart or air and fire?

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Just looked over it, I do have a lot of earth but almost even amount of fire, two air placements and actually I have two other water placements other than my rising. I have Pluto in Scorpio and Midheaven Pisces.

Posted by fallendarkangel
I have Virgo moon. Although Cancers (Sun, Rising and Moon) are good friends, they keep on forcing me to open up when I don't want to. It's like privacy invasion. I prefer Taurus moon though.

Yeah I get this too. Just pushing and pushing for some emotional response. It's like Dude! I don't have emotions ok, back off. 😛
Just kidding, we do of course but... jeez.

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Posted by fallendarkangel
I have Virgo moon. Although Cancers (Sun, Rising and Moon) are good friends, they keep on forcing me to open up when I don't want to. It's like privacy invasion. I prefer Taurus moon though.

Yeah I get this too. Just pushing and pushing for some emotional response. It's like Dude! I don't have emotions ok, back off. 😛
Just kidding, we do of course but... jeez.

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Totally! My Cancer friend is saying that I'm emotionless, cold and uncaring and I was like:



Surprisingly, he has Moon in Cap!

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Posted by fallendarkangel
I have Virgo moon. Although Cancers (Sun, Rising and Moon) are good friends, they keep on forcing me to open up when I don't want to. It's like privacy invasion. I prefer Taurus moon though.

Yeah I get this too. Just pushing and pushing for some emotional response. It's like Dude! I don't have emotions ok, back off. 😛
Just kidding, we do of course but... jeez.

Totally! My Cancer friend is saying that I'm emotionless, cold and uncaring and I was like:



Surprisingly, he has Moon in Cap!

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Yes!

Posted by moondust
I love Virgo moons!! most people who are close to me have it

we love you to, witty gem moon

I love Gem moons!

too*

I don't like Scorpio moons in relationships, but I like them in friendship. I haven't had any interrogations lol. however I'm pretty open anyways. I have a libra rising and a packed 1st house. ruled by Venus.

I'm talking to a Cancer moon now. never thought I would... usually anything cancer to me is like the disease...cancer. and ends in death and destruction when they're near me. (being really melodramatic rn).

I normally like cancer moons on fire and air signs. Aries and Aquarius are where I usually meet and get along w them.

Pisces moons are hit or miss....very passive aggressive and a little too sensitive sometimes, but my brother is a Pisces moon and I love him. my little softie. he is a Libra sun. I don't mind Pisces moon though. i have a Leo friend w this placement and a Taurus friend. normally I hate Virgo but a new girl at work is Virgo with a Pisces moon and she's quite bearable. I like her.

I also like other Virgo moons. I LOVE CAPPY MOONS!!!! surround me w cap moons for life and I'd be satisfied. they're dry humor warms my cold heart. my Aries best friend has this placement. I dated a Libra and aquarian w this placement. it's a great moon sign. never felt more at home. I met a female aquarian w this placement too and she was great. I also was friends w a triple cap. RARE for me but she was also a packed first houser. love her.

Taurus moons annoy me....they always want to own me. can't stand it. even my Libra mother acts this way. I love her tho. I had a very possessive Aries friend w that placement. she also had Taurus Venus. I had to cut her off. she got angry if I so much as hung out with other friends even one time. she was like the bf I never asked for...smh.

I love Aries moons and Gemini moons. Libra moons...depending on the carrier. Leo moons are ok....also depending on the carrier. I also like Sag moons but they have a short fuse which can get annoying sometimes since I rarely boil over myself. it's hard to fathom how some people can have such a short fuse. but normally I'm pretty good at not making people mad, so it's a rare occurrence, hence why I usually get along w them.

really I get along with most moon signs. don't know many Aqua moons but the ones I do know are great.

my favorite is by far Cap. they complete me. and I mesh very well with them.

my Aries/Cap moon friend always says I'm the ice queen LOL. I usually show no emotions. she however has been my friend long enough so I express myself on occasion to her. she told me once that I got defensive over her, and she could feel my protective, caring side and that it freaked her out because she didn't know it was there. I was like "thanks." 😆

the cancer moon guy I'm talking to now asked me if I ever stop being so reserved...funny. he's an Aquarius. he kind of creeped me out once saying he could feel my resistance to him because of pain from past hurt in relationships....mind blowing. he's had my interest since. he sees through me

wow I wrote "they're dry humor". I sicken myself tonight with these grammar errors.

*THEIR

Posted by degenerate_ingenue
the cancer moon guy I'm talking to now asked me if I ever stop being so reserved...funny. he's an Aquarius. he kind of creeped me out once saying he could feel my resistance to him because of pain from past hurt in relationships....mind blowing. he's had my interest since. he sees through me

I was seeing an Aqua sun, Cancer moon guy briefly too, he used to say things like that all the time but this is what annoyed me about him, because he was trying to understand me constantly and he thought he was so right about me.
One thing he couldn't let go of was, one day he was telling me things "about myself" and I said (sarcastically) "Yeah, maybe you can save me", unfortunately he didn't get the sarcasm and never let it go, I gave up trying to explain to him that it was sarcasm because he didn't believe me that it was. Maybe somewhere in there it wasn't sarcasm, but either way his constant pushing pissed me off and I ended it.
He was also extremely manipulative.

Posted by ImTheRam
Selling Virgo Moon.

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Posted by Jardsi

Posted by degenerate_ingenue
the cancer moon guy I'm talking to now asked me if I ever stop being so reserved...funny. he's an Aquarius. he kind of creeped me out once saying he could feel my resistance to him because of pain from past hurt in relationships....mind blowing. he's had my interest since. he sees through me

I was seeing an Aqua sun, Cancer moon guy briefly too, he used to say things like that all the time but this is what annoyed me about him, because he was trying to understand me constantly and he thought he was so right about me.
One thing he couldn't let go of was, one day he was telling me things "about myself" and I said (sarcastically) "Yeah, maybe you can save me", unfortunately he didn't get the sarcasm and never let it go, I gave up trying to explain to him that it was sarcasm because he didn't believe me that it was. Maybe somewhere in there it wasn't sarcasm, but either way his constant pushing pissed me off and I ended it.
He was also extremely manipulative.

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ew lol. that sounds annoying af.

see this is why I kind of avoid all cancer placements. my Aries best friend w the cap moon also has a cancer Mars. she drives me wild sometimes w all the past issues she brings up. sometimes I don't even remember them.

the Aqua def has emotional outbursts. I've witnessed a couple, but luckily I'm never the target. don't know what I'll do when I am, as I don't like having to deal with people's emotional deadweight. he seems childlike in the way he handles his emotions sometimes. he has a lot of cap in his chart though. it makes him more grounded, but those emotions....eh.

if he ever tries to tell me about myself lord help me. and LOL at never letting go that comment. that's such clear sarcasm...what a weirdo. lmao. kind of funny though. he was chasing this imaginary comment around for no reason 😆

sounds like a nightmare. I'm not ready 😭

I know, so much emotion, right? That fucking sentence, I wish I'd never said it hahaha

I could refuse food because I wasn't hungry and he'd think I was having some mental breakdown or something, I swear.

Well, good luck, I'm sure it will be fine, just avoid sarcastic comments at all cost. 😉

Posted by sultrykitty
Cap moon and Virgo moon are good for each other, as long as they can take time to smell the roses. Cap can help the Virgo loosen up (really) and not sweat the details (or take time to have fun) and Virgo understands cap's need for solitude at times. Cap appreciates Virgo's "actions vs words" and Virgo appreciates that their partner works as hard as they do.

I think it's one of the better trines because there's enough difference to fill in the missing pieces of the other but enough the same that they ahare the same values and work ethic.

It's very complementary. We tend to just know what each other needs and we understand each other's emotionality.

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Posted by sultrykitty
Cap moon and Virgo moon are good for each other, as long as they can take time to smell the roses. Cap can help the Virgo loosen up (really) and not sweat the details (or take time to have fun) and Virgo understands cap's need for solitude at times. Cap appreciates Virgo's "actions vs words" and Virgo appreciates that their partner works as hard as they do.

I think it's one of the better trines because there's enough difference to fill in the missing pieces of the other but enough the same that they ahare the same values and work ethic.

It's very complementary. We tend to just know what each other needs and we understand each other's emotionality.

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Yep.

Posted by fallendarkangel
I have Virgo moon. Although Cancers (Sun, Rising and Moon) are good friends, they keep on forcing me to open up when I don't want to. It's like privacy invasion. I prefer Taurus moon though.

That's weird I believe I ran into a Taurus moon and all I want to do is find or know everything about you. I become more involved as friend whole heartedly. And one thing is too it is so hard to get to open up thst I almost feel you they aren't used to it or unemotional available to match my emotions either.

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Posted by fallendarkangel
I have Virgo moon. Although Cancers (Sun, Rising and Moon) are good friends, they keep on forcing me to open up when I don't want to. It's like privacy invasion. I prefer Taurus moon though.

That's weird I believe I ran into a Taurus moon and all I want to do is find or know everything about you. I become more involved as friend whole heartedly. And one thing is too it is so hard to get to open up thst I almost feel you they aren't used to it or unemotional available to match my emotions either.

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Maybe they are really private. My father has that moon and what I like about him is that he respects my privacy and I respect his too.

Scorpio moon 😏

I had a Virgo moon bestie. Deep friendship â¤

And some crushes and crushed.

u were right about cancer moon.

he thinks he knows everything about me. he makes these little comments that sound accusational, and if he's wrong, he thinks I'm lying. when in reality he knows nothing at all and is making false assumptions.

yet another cancer placement that I cannot stand. what's new. lol. cancer anywhere in the chart is bound to get on my nerves at some point. smh. maybe it's because cancer is intercepted in my chart and I have 0 cancer.

oh well. back to the drawing board

plus he never wants to go out or do anything lately. that's dull and boring. I'd rather not be around a homebody

Am I the only virgo moon here who has a hard time with water and other earth moons?

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Posted by CocoKat
Am I the only virgo moon here who has a hard time with water and other earth moons?

Really? Maybe it's something in your chart.

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Well it seems the only people I have "issues" with have earth/water moons.. its so strange. SOMETIMES other virgo moons are fine. I really don't know why.

I have virgo moon and I can say that I defintely get along with other virgo mooners! is as if we can really relate to one another. As far as cancer moons go, Ive tried to date two men with moon in cancer and they get a bit too emotional for me, almost as if they try to push me to open up too much, made me feel a bit uncomfortable. I find that I get along with taurus moons very well!

my sister is virgo moon, and she's with a MAYBE libra/scorpio moon cusper. i'm not sure cause I don't know his rising. and it's libra moon but he IS a 2nd decan Virgo sun anyway.

My BFF is a Virgo with a Virgo moon, my Scorpio moon loves her Virgo moon and vice versa. We've even lived together at different times in our lives. My sun loves her as well but on a moon level, we get each other emotionally.

pisces moon, we adore virgo moons.

Do you think Leo mooner is too much for Virgo one?

Idk, I've never really appreciated my Virgo moon enough...