Virgo Moon

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In my experience, the moon is what protects your heart. My Virgo moon has done more or less done a great job protecting both my heart and mind from rather traumatic experiences. But I'm human just like everyone else, and I have my limits.

Anger-wise, it gives me a high threshold/tolerance and it can still my anger (up to a limit). Love-wise, it guarded me for a long long time after I permanently walked away from someone I used to describe as the love of my life and almost scarred me for life to the point where I avoided anything that resembled love. But like I keep saying, up to a point. Nowadays my Virgo moon has taken a back seat to everything else.
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In my experience, the moon is what protects your heart. My Virgo moon has done more or less done a great job protecting both my heart and mind from rather traumatic experiences. But I'm human just like everyone else, and I have my limits.

Anger-wise, it gives me a high threshold/tolerance and it can still my anger (up to a limit). Love-wise, it guarded me for a long long time after I permanently walked away from someone I used to describe as the love of my life and almost scarred me for life to the point where I avoided anything that resembled love. But like I keep saying, up to a point. Nowadays my Virgo moon has taken a back seat to everything else.
Thank you for your reply!

My experience with Virgo moons are that they seem (to me) to be secretly very sensitive. I also feel like they are more accepting of other people’s emotions, even when they don’t understand the emotions, because they are a tad more logical? You seem to have a very logical grip on your emotions, from your description of your virgo moon – would you agree? I find virgo moon to be not as dismissive of other's emotions as other earth placements, is that a fair assessment?

On negative aspects they seem to be withholding, maybe not meaning to, but can have great difficulty in expressing with words how they feel? A type of person who does better in relationships (love/friends/family) with someone with more intuitive placements?

A Virgo moon that I have known, had an eruptive, violent temper – but I find that this doesn’t really coincide with descriptions I’ve read about virgo moon, so that seems to be due to other placements? How does a “typical” virgo moon behave when angry?
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My bf has a virgo moon. He has a problem NOT raising his voice in unnecessary situations. I have a Pisces moon so I hide under the blankets and yell things like "your hurting my brain" or "I can't hear myself thinking"

Makes him mad, but I must express myself.

He's an emotional creature underneath.

He gets mad when you try to educate him or lightly tell him he is incorrect.

He isn't stuck up about it, he just hates following other peoples lead. Its usually me calling him out and then he gets shy when he knows he is wrong.
Interesting, what do you mean by "unnecessary situations"? As in an argument? As mentioned in previous post, a virgo moon male I've known had an eruptive temper, boy, did he yell...

"He's an emotional creature underneath." - yes, I find this also. To me they seem to be ashamed of their own sensitivity/emotions though.

Highly subjective of me to say this though, - thereof I'm trying to learn more about this placement.

I find a virgo moon is super happy when they can teach you something. 🙂

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My dad has this moon. Ugh. Does not mix well with his Leo Sun. = narcissistic
Eeerie, that you write that. I have wondered if it is the Leo placement in Mars, and not the virgo moon, that is "to blame" for the temper of the person I'm thinking of. He does comes across as narcissistic and very dramatic and commanding; "you will obey me or else" when angry. But to be fair to Leo, I don't know too much about that placement either. 😉 But they do say leo can effect Mars this way.

The "obey me" quality in leo mars, might be fired up more in combination with virgo moon who can be relentlessly controlling, because they want thing's done "right" aka their way. 😉

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My bf has a virgo moon. He has a problem NOT raising his voice in unnecessary situations. I have a Pisces moon so I hide under the blankets and yell things like "your hurting my brain" or "I can't hear myself thinking"

Makes him mad, but I must express myself.

He's an emotional creature underneath.

He gets mad when you try to educate him or lightly tell him he is incorrect.

He isn't stuck up about it, he just hates following other peoples lead. Its usually me calling him out and then he gets shy when he knows he is wrong.
Interesting, what do you mean by "unnecessary situations"? As in an argument? As mentioned in previous post, a virgo moon male I've known had an eruptive temper, boy, did he yell...

"He's an emotional creature underneath." - yes, I find this also. To me they seem to be ashamed of their own sensitivity/emotions though.

Highly subjective of me to say this though, - thereof I'm trying to learn more about this placement.

I find a virgo moon is super happy when they can teach you something. 🙂



Yeah mine gets super happy when he teaches me things.

We could talk about our difference of opinions, I respect his and leave it at that, but he gets passionate and starts raising his voice. Then he gets mad. If you tell him to calm down he gets crazy.

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Okay, raising voice attributed to the virgo moon. 😉

Does he have difficulty controlling his temper? Is he expressive verbally about positive feelings / his emotions also?
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Emotions are expressed in practical ways. This is then filtered through the sun sign itself. Virgo Moons are typically either informative or blunt, but will rarely resort to extreme emotional displays. We usually choose to observe and analyze. However if a Virgo Moon is uncomfortable or has repressed too much emotion, the result could be negative. Aside from that Virgo Moons are usually informative and/or helpful people.
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In my experience, the moon is what protects your heart. My Virgo moon has done more or less done a great job protecting both my heart and mind from rather traumatic experiences. But I'm human just like everyone else, and I have my limits.

Anger-wise, it gives me a high threshold/tolerance and it can still my anger (up to a limit). Love-wise, it guarded me for a long long time after I permanently walked away from someone I used to describe as the love of my life and almost scarred me for life to the point where I avoided anything that resembled love. But like I keep saying, up to a point. Nowadays my Virgo moon has taken a back seat to everything else.
Thank you for your reply!

My experience with Virgo moons are that they seem (to me) to be secretly very sensitive. I also feel like they are more accepting of other people’s emotions, even when they don’t understand the emotions, because they are a tad more logical? You seem to have a very logical grip on your emotions, from your description of your virgo moon – would you agree? I find virgo moon to be not as dismissive of other's emotions as other earth placements, is that a fair assessment?

On negative aspects they seem to be withholding, maybe not meaning to, but can have great difficulty in expressing with words how they feel? A type of person who does better in relationships (love/friends/family) with someone with more intuitive placements?

A Virgo moon that I have known, had an eruptive, violent temper – but I find that this doesn’t really coincide with descriptions I’ve read about virgo moon, so that seems to be due to other placements? How does a “typical” virgo moon behave when angry?

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Well in my almost-33 years of life I've experienced every intense emotion under the sun. I'm also psychology-oriented so I can identify everything I feel. And when you can identify something, that's the first step in figuring it out.

Being less dismissive of other people's feelings.......that would depend on whose feelings we're talking about. I've cut off my entire family tree for many good reasons so I'd say I couldn't care less how it makes them feel. I cut people off when they're far more trouble than their worth. Blood relation means nothing to me, it's all about how they treat me. I find it very easy to switch off feelings for someone when I have many good reasons to.

I'm currently in a relationship with one of the allegedly most difficult placements: a Leo-dominant Cap mooner (Leo-Virgo sun cusp). We've had several intense moments where communication faltered but only because emotions were running extremely high. But once we both took a deep breath, neither of us had trouble expressing & explaining ourselves. Earth moons sing when they feel safe enough to do so, if they trust the other person enough.

Me and my boy have been best friends for 4 years before we got together, so we've had plenty of time to bond as friends and become comfortable (him moreso than me). So when our friendship became a relationship - even though we had new ground to cover as luuuuvers - we already had an established connection.

When I'm angry, I cocoon myself and I go real quiet, giving myself a chance to figure things out. There's no point in flipping out and yelling (I rarely raise my voice), that just makes things worse. But it's also because I'm capable of grievous bodily harm thanks to my Aries Mercury/Mars. My Virgo moon allows me to tolerate a lot "little things" but when you cross the line big time, like grabbing my crotch & ass after I just watched the man I love make out with some skank on top of just finding out a dear friend had just died earlier in the day.....I came this close to killing that jackass. I had to leave our home for a full fortnight to recover from all that. Didn't do a good job of it though because I ended up in the hospital.

Like I said earlier, we're still human and we have our limits.
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My ex was a Taurus sun with Virgo moon. He sucked at showing his emotions. He really didn't show much emotion unless he was drunk. He remembered every little tiny detail about me. He was really calm and reserved on the outside but on the inside he was really sensitive. He showed he cared by doing things for me like changing my tire, or taking my plate when I was done eating. I think he has a hard time being satisfied in relationships. If you're not perfect, he'll string you along while having a side bitch 🙄 He was also VERY insecure, although he tried to hide it.
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It's always struck me as a quite reasonable moon, not prone to show extremes of emotions very often. Sometimes there can be a critical look on the face that some people misinterpret as negative judgment when it's usually just analytical processing.

My Gem grandfather and an Aqua friend of mine are my main experiences with this moon.

My grandfather didn't get angry often, but one thing that always angered him immensely was being sick. He was very healthy and energetic, so normally he got a lot done in a day. The rare times he got sick, he would feel very frustrated that he was being slowed down. One time he was so mad that he had to stay in bed to recover from the flu that he punched the wall beside his bed, and that broke his hand, adding to the problem of course, lol.
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Thanks for all the replies! Connecting some dots from your various statements.

What do you (virgo mooners) need to feel emotionally fulfilled / emotionally safe with someone?

Any particular placements in other people's charts that in your experience make them better at getting underneath your skin? Am I right to think that virgo moons "do better" in relationships (love/friends/family) with someone who has more intuitive placements? Does "emotional depth" make you uncomfortable, or do you appreciate this contrast in others?