I refuse to be dependent on things or people.

Yesterday, I was talking to a girl about how I didn't like how I smoke everyday because it feels like I'm starting to use it as a crutch, I don't think it's good to have a "I NEED a blunt" mindset, and I definitely don't think it's the smartest thing to smoke everyday, under my circumstances. I wanted a break to just let my soul breathe for a little, clear my mind, and deal with things for a week or two instead of grabbing a blunt. She basically tried to argue my choice and said "Well, we all need something to be dependent on. If I don't have my weed, I need a bottle or dick or something because if I don't then I feel miserable". She even actually admitted she was addicted to weed and then backed it up with a whole bunch of excuses. I'm not saying weed is bad, but being in denial about your weed use and the reason why you use it, is bad. On the other hand, this girl i talk to from time to time, ALWAYS hits me up when she breaks up with her boyfriend. I'm talking the day of the break up. We hung out last week, she showed me the conversations he was having with other women, how he had sex with another girl while she was at work, him being on tinder, etc. just a whole bunch of dumb shit. She gave a speech about how she's finally done, not gonna allow herself to be disrespected and walked on, how it happened many times before, but yet this girl went back to the same dude two days later because she "can't be alone". I don't know if people are gonna come at me for this post because being emotionally dependent upon things/people has become so normal and many people are in real denial about it. Depending on a person, substance, item whatever is one of the main things that slows down or even stops inner growth.

Ask the first girl if she was really out there trying to convince you or was listing out reasons to herself loudly to excuse her dependancy out of fear she might come to the same conclusion as you did..

Tell the second girl that your dick's shoulder isn't available to cried on no more. But if she wants to rub it a little, she can.

That'll be 200€'s pls. Paypal details through pm.

Posted by Mr_Pinchy
Ask the first girl if she was really out there trying to convince you or was listing out reasons to herself loudly to excuse her dependancy out of fear she might come to the same conclusion as you did..

Tell the second girl that your dick's shoulder isn't available to cried on no more. But if she wants to rub it a little, she can.

That'll be 200€'s pls. Paypal details through pm.

She was definitely giving out excuses out of fear because after I made point after point and back and forth with her, I hung up and she texted me saying "Thanks for talking to me. I appreciated it" Lol. I basically read that as "thanks for the advice that I didn't, but did wanna take". As for the second girl, I told her I've dealt with dudes calling/texting me about their girlfriends hitting me up or being with me and it's not something I wanna deal with. Work on your "relationship" and just stay over there.

Sorry to be the one to break this to you, but you ARE ALREADY dependent on things and people.

You depend on your boss for your paycheck. You depend on your paycheck to pay bills. You depend on those services to function in life, gas...electric...trash...internet...etc.

And you definitely depend on your smartphone. We all do 🤷‍♀️

Also, side note, if your not taking a regulated break every so often to lower back down your tolerance than your not that serious about weed to begin with 😏

I agree. You can only feel free if you don’t depend too much on anything/anyone.

I need that mental freedom at least 😄

Ps: your not addicted to weed cause you smoke blunts everyday. Your addicted to the tobacco in the wrap and the ritual of rolling it up.

Switch over to a bong or edibles. Way more healthier ways out there to consume your herb without inhaling all that other junk.

Posted by LadyNeptune
Sorry to be the one to break this to you, but you ARE ALREADY dependent on things and people.

You depend on your boss for your paycheck. You depend on your paycheck to pay bills. You depend on those services to function in life, gas...electric...trash...internet...etc.

And you definitely depend on your smartphone. We all do 🤷‍♀️

Omg....really? In that context, then I'm dependent on the sun too! I obviously meant becoming dependent on things that aren't serving you for your greater good or helping you reach your higher self. The examples could range from repeatedly going back to an ex or even needing to eat a bunch of chocolate ice cream whenever you get sad. Being emotionally attached to things you shouldn't be attached too.

Posted by LadyNeptune
Ps: your not addicted to weed cause you smoke blunts everyday. Your addicted to the tobacco in the wrap and the ritual of rolling it up.
Switch over to a bong or edibles. Way more healthier ways out there to consume your herb without inhaling all that other junk.

I never said I was addicted to weed. The girl I was talking to did say that. I don't feel like I'm addicted at all. But, I do feel as if I have been using it as a crutch. It's more of me trying to connect to my sober, natural mind for a little while. It's not even like my life's a mess and I'm struggling to get shit together by stopping lol. I actually chose to do this after I really got my life on a new level

Posted by LadyNeptune
Ps: your not addicted to weed cause you smoke blunts everyday. Your addicted to the tobacco in the wrap and the ritual of rolling it up.
Switch over to a bong or edibles. Way more healthier ways out there to consume your herb without inhaling all that other junk.

But I definitely agree I do love rolling up lol. It's like muscle memory. I don't know if I'm addicted to the tobacco cause I roll joints as much as blunts. I've been thinking of buying a bong

Posted by pisceswoman123
I agree. You can only feel free if you don’t depend too much on anything/anyone.
I need that mental freedom at least 😄

That pretty much sums it up. I wanna feel a little more free.