@81gems
10 Years500+ Posts
I hate people too much.
You just need to accept that 90+% of the people are sheep that can't look past instant gratification and cannot comprehend actions that require them to make sacrifices against their own comfort.
They're still people, you like them, you're human, but sheep.
Lol. Just concentrate a bit more on your self and stop judging everyone
Your dad was in the hospital,he has heart issues and you got into an argument with him and could say something like "just collapse" ?
You "ended up" hating people who don't do the "right things" and then decided all men are stupid.
You wanna move to some other place because you can't deal with these horrific things and absolutely nasty people? Yeah... it's not you at all... it's them. They all sound super crazy. Please move.
It’s hard when what you want for someone you care about is better than what they want for themselves.
Frustrating when you can see their life so much better if they just simply made more effort in a certain area.
I feel you!!!
Especially about men ... most of them are very inconsiderate and live for their own experiences.
Posted by 81gems
My dad was in the hospital. He has issues with his heart that he needs to be concerned about. He also may have sleep apnea, but he still doesn't change his diet. Yesterday we got into an argument and he kept saying "let me be." and other stupid bullshit. So I told him "Well, next time don't make Mom waste time taking you to the hospital. Just collapse here and let us call the ambulance!"A male friend of mine told me he was going to have some wine at lunch. The idiot has already had a DWI and kept making up reasons why he won't get pulled over on Easter Sunday, in the middle of the afternoon, and how he won't drink that much. That isn't the point though! And he kept saying, "what? I'm never going to drink again? I can't have a drink when I go out anymore?"
"NOT IF YOU HAVE TO DRIVE HOME!!!"
But did he listen? Of course not!
An "employee" of mine has been in and out of the hospital and said yesterday, he wasn't getting better, but would wait until Monday to go to the doctor. This means he will miss work on Monday. He has a lot of health issues and, just with the way he says it, "I'll be out if I have to be out." just reeks of him not caring.
So I ended up hating my parents last night. And hating my friends, and "employee" who's also my friend. All of these individuals are men, and I ended up telling my husband how men never change, and they don't listen. They don't ever do what's reasonable and sensible and end up putting others or themselves in a bind, and their too stupid to know what's good for them.
It's gotten to the point where I'm seriously considering switching job locations next year, and distancing myself from my family, and also isolating myself from people. But I wonder if I should also look at it and myself from a different perspective too. And before anyone makes a claim to the contrary; no, I'm not a man hating feminist. I hate women just as much, but don't have much to do with any woman.
How old is your dad?
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He's going to be 70.
Posted by Teena
Your dad was in the hospital,he has heart issues and you got into an argument with him and could say something like "just collapse" ?You "ended up" hating people who don't do the "right things" and then decided all men are stupid.
You wanna move to some other place because you can't deal with these horrific things and absolutely nasty people? Yeah... it's not you at all... it's them. They all sound super crazy. Please move.
And I thought it’s impossible to get under Teenas skin! 🙈
@81gem
Have you tried sex? Just a suggestion...
Have you tried sex? Just a suggestion...
and I ended up telling my husband how men never change, and they don't listen.
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Aphrodisiac of the gods.
Posted by Gemitati
@81gemHave you tried sex? Just a suggestion...
Oh yeah. All the time. No worries there.
Posted by WarAngel1
News flash: wherever you move to, you're going to find the same thing. Good luck though, send a post card when you get there.
You want postcard from for away with same text? Lol
Posted by Teena
Your dad was in the hospital,he has heart issues and you got into an argument with him and could say something like "just collapse" ?You "ended up" hating people who don't do the "right things" and then decided all men are stupid.
You wanna move to some other place because you can't deal with these horrific things and absolutely nasty people? Yeah... it's not you at all... it's them. They all sound super crazy. Please move.
And I thought it’s impossible to get under Teenas skin! 🙈
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LOL! Nahhh!! Would be too ironic if I get mad at this😂😂
Posted by WarAngel1
News flash: wherever you move to, you're going to find the same thing. Good luck though, send a post card when you get there.You want postcard from for away with same text? Lol
To be fair, I like you both; though, that being said... Gem has a point, and that was pretty funny.
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Let’s have treesome!
It’s a serious proposition...
Posted by ellesbelles
Controlling much?
Who?
Dude.
If your dad has heart issues and asks you to “leave me be” give the guy a pass.
Posted by WarAngel1
News flash: wherever you move to, you're going to find the same thing. Good luck though, send a post card when you get there.You want postcard from for away with same text? Lol
To be fair, I like you both; though, that being said... Gem has a point, and that was pretty funny.
Let’s have treesome!
It’s a serious proposition...
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A seriously thirsty proposition 🤣
Posted by WarAngel1
News flash: wherever you move to, you're going to find the same thing. Good luck though, send a post card when you get there.
Dude what are you talking about?? She's gonna meet absolute sweethearts who'd want to listen to her every word because she's only wanting best for them. Can't you see how she only cares??She hates people coz she actually loves them ffs!! This is too toxic and draining for someone as "caring" and "patient" as her. She needs to get away from all that negativity immediately and save herself........aaannd some people!
Posted by WarAngel1
News flash: wherever you move to, you're going to find the same thing. Good luck though, send a post card when you get there.You want postcard from for away with same text? Lol
To be fair, I like you both; though, that being said... Gem has a point, and that was pretty funny.
Let’s have treesome!
It’s a serious proposition...
A seriously thirsty proposition 🤣
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Don’t be jealous. Someone must like you enough to get you join in. 🤣
Posted by ellesbelles
Controlling much?Who?
The OP
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Doesn’t seem like to me. Just don’t think that she was insulted...which is strange...
Posted by WarAngel1
News flash: wherever you move to, you're going to find the same thing. Good luck though, send a post card when you get there.You want postcard from for away with same text? Lol
To be fair, I like you both; though, that being said... Gem has a point, and that was pretty funny.
Let’s have treesome!
It’s a serious proposition...
Are you trying to threaten me with a (theoretical) good time?
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Wait honey! Who said it’ll be good—
Lmao
Posted by WarAngel1
News flash: wherever you move to, you're going to find the same thing. Good luck though, send a post card when you get there.You want postcard from for away with same text? Lol
Sure, why not?
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At least you’ll have something to do at a treesome meeting! 🤣🤣🤣
Posted by WarAngel1
News flash: wherever you move to, you're going to find the same thing. Good luck though, send a post card when you get there.You want postcard from for away with same text? Lol
Sure, why not?
At least you’ll have something to do at a treesome meeting! 🤣🤣🤣
I don't share, haha.
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Nobody wants to read your card! So keep it...I’ll pick over your shoulder anyway...
Posted by WarAngel1
News flash: wherever you move to, you're going to find the same thing. Good luck though, send a post card when you get there.You want postcard from for away with same text? Lol
To be fair, I like you both; though, that being said... Gem has a point, and that was pretty funny.
Let’s have treesome!
It’s a serious proposition...
Are you trying to threaten me with a (theoretical) good time?
Wait honey! Who said it’ll be good—
Lmao
Well, I know I've got my end covered, so I assumed y'all were going to bring your A-Game as well. If y'all are just tryin' to lay there, then y'all can just lay there w/o meh'. I'm good on all that.
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Wait...I am stuck in your end covered...elaborate please...🤣🤣🤣
Accept people as they are or do not associate with them. I am sure there are things about you that irk others. One thing you should do is reframe from insulting men to your husband as if he is not a man and not offended. You sound like you need a Snickers and a moment to woosaw. We all have those I hate everybody fays. It'll pass.
Posted by WarAngel1
News flash: wherever you move to, you're going to find the same thing. Good luck though, send a post card when you get there.You want postcard from for away with same text? Lol
To be fair, I like you both; though, that being said... Gem has a point, and that was pretty funny.
Let’s have treesome!
It’s a serious proposition...
Are you trying to threaten me with a (theoretical) good time?
Wait honey! Who said it’ll be good—
Lmao
Well, I know I've got my end covered, so I assumed y'all were going to bring your A-Game as well. If y'all are just tryin' to lay there, then y'all can just lay there w/o meh'. I'm good on all that.
Wait...I am stuck in your end covered...elaborate please...🤣🤣🤣
My name isn't 'Ice Cream Shop'; therefore, I don't give free samples. 🙃😳😲😵
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I don’t like ice cream. But I looove hot dogs...ketchup optional...
Posted by Gemitati
@81gemHave you tried sex? Just a suggestion...
Oh yeah. All the time. No worries there.
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I mean good sex? Lol
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My dad was in the hospital. He has issues with his heart that he needs to be concerned about. He also may have sleep apnea, but he still doesn't change his diet. Yesterday we got into an argument and he kept saying "let me be." and other stupid bullshit. So I told him "Well, next time don't make Mom waste time taking you to the hospital. Just collapse here and let us call the ambulance!"
A male friend of mine told me he was going to have some wine at lunch. The idiot has already had a DWI and kept making up reasons why he won't get pulled over on Easter Sunday, in the middle of the afternoon, and how he won't drink that much. That isn't the point though! And he kept saying, "what? I'm never going to drink again? I can't have a drink when I go out anymore?"
"NOT IF YOU HAVE TO DRIVE HOME!!!"
But did he listen? Of course not!
An "employee" of mine has been in and out of the hospital and said yesterday, he wasn't getting better, but would wait until Monday to go to the doctor. This means he will miss work on Monday. He has a lot of health issues and, just with the way he says it, "I'll be out if I have to be out." just reeks of him not caring.
So I ended up hating my parents last night. And hating my friends, and "employee" who's also my friend. All of these individuals are men, and I ended up telling my husband how men never change, and they don't listen. They don't ever do what's reasonable and sensible and end up putting others or themselves in a bind, and their too stupid to know what's good for them.
It's gotten to the point where I'm seriously considering switching job locations next year, and distancing myself from my family, and also isolating myself from people. But I wonder if I should also look at it and myself from a different perspective too. And before anyone makes a claim to the contrary; no, I'm not a man hating feminist. I hate women just as much, but don't have much to do with any woman.