Am I crazy to be mad at this?

I said I was an IT Engineer before and I’ve recently met someone in my line of business. So he is ugly as fuck. Old and all...

However we are having conversation about where I am from and he responding:

Ahh I see! Well Humans are humans, so no worries no matter where you are from, that doesnt matter to me, I am not a purist american, I like all humans (and maybe aliens if they are cute lol) I relish in cultural differences as when everyone is the same its kind of boring.

8/19/2018 7:02pm

I am not like most americans you will know, after travelling the world, I know that the USA is not everything, its a good sized planet 😉



I am taking it as a fucking insult!

I had never been ‘approved’ to be ok to be a foreigner in this country!

And not most americans...NONE of Americans made me feel like a foreigner. Am I right to tell this bozo off or overreacting?

How does it message sound to you?

Posted by Dianna

It sounds like he's just socially awkward.

I don't think he meant to be insulting. If anything, he likes you a lot

Thanks but I don’t need this old ugly fuck to like me! I was hoping for career change!

He said he traveled a lot. So Americans for him are people who don’t appreciate foreigners? No shit!!! Since I step on this ground at JFK 25 years ago I had NEVER felt like a foreigner!!! Until NOW! When he patronized me telling me it’s ok to be one! I am proud citizen of this country for over 20 years and I’ll wring anyone’s neck to shit on this country!

Fuck! I haven’t been so mad for a while...maybe some toxins will come out of me while I am seething...fuck!!!

But thanks boo for trying...

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Where are you from gem

Last I’ve heard from DXP post I was someone’s Russian grandma or aunt...still lmao about it...

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Posted by Dianna

It sounds like he's just socially awkward.

I don't think he meant to be insulting. If anything, he likes you a lot

Thanks but I don’t need this old ugly fuck to like me! I was hoping for career change!

He said he traveled a lot. So Americans for him are people who don’t appreciate foreigners? No shit!!! Since I step on this ground at JFK 25 years ago I had NEVER felt like a foreigner!!! Until NOW! When he patronized me telling me it’s ok to be one! I am proud citizen of this country for over 20 years and I’ll wring anyone’s neck to shit on this country!

Fuck! I haven’t been so mad for a while...maybe some toxins will come out of me while I am seething...fuck!!!

But thanks boo for trying...

Calm down lol

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Tell me you love me...lmao

Posted by nanobot

IT engineer...? I thought you were a CNA

I am 52! I had been a casheir, nail tech, IT Engineer, business owner and NOW I am an CNA! Live longer..and remember you aren’t 25 forever!

I also had been single! Doesn’t mean I AM now?

Just think a little...❤️

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Simmah dan nah



You are overreacting, that man didn't say anything wrong.

Were you ever a foreigner?

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Posted by nanobot

IT engineer...? I thought you were a CNA

I am 52! I had been a casheir, nail tech, IT Engineer, business owner and NOW I am an CNA! Live longer..and remember you aren’t 25 forever!

I also had been single! Doesn’t mean I AM now?

Just think a little...❤️

Well at 52, you should know better than to talk nerdy to nerdy men of any age. He was probably having a boner the moment you mentioned the word "engineer"

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At his age I doubt it!

He IS an IT man that’s why I’ve engaged into conversation with him!

All was good until rhat shit patronizing me in its ok to be a foreigner!

And not even THAT!

Part about ‘all Americans’ set me off! What? You are an American! Because you traveled you think Americans are not all that? Shove it up your ass and move to...Zimbabwe...

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Posted by nanobot

IT engineer...? I thought you were a CNA

I am 52! I had been a casheir, nail tech, IT Engineer, business owner and NOW I am an CNA! Live longer..and remember you aren’t 25 forever!

I also had been single! Doesn’t mean I AM now?

Just think a little...❤️

Well at 52, you should know better than to talk nerdy to nerdy men of any age. He was probably having a boner the moment you mentioned the word "engineer"

At his age I doubt it!

He IS an IT man that’s why I’ve engaged into conversation with him!

All was good until rhat shit patronizing me in its ok to be a foreigner!

And not even THAT!

Part about ‘all Americans’ set me off! What? You are an American! Because you traveled you think Americans are not all that? Shove it up your ass and move to...Zimbabwe...

What was your actual response to him?

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I’ve never met ONE American who made me feel strange about being a foreigner until NOW! Thanks a lot! I had felt here as at home since I landed at JFK in 1993!
NEVER EVER had anyone said to me ‘that’s ok that you aren’t American...’ as you just did. Sorry. That’s a bad connection right there!!!

8/19/2018 7:10pm

Nobody is patronizing me nor I am seeking approval from anybody. Trust me you just said shit I’ve never heard for 25 years in this country from anybody! Good job! Thanks.

And then he tried to say shit but I kept silent!

Posted by RooSagicorn

It’s just his opinion. He’s allowed to have it. Why be so mad about it? You shouldn’t let him get to you.

What forninder my tail is that he said unlike all Americans he doesn’t mind foreigners...Fuck!

Like I said never I had felt as a reject in US...even when I barely spoke English!

What pissed me the most is US is a most tolerant place for immigrants and bozo who ‘traveled and been at places’ haven’t seen how not natives treated in...France! My friends were thrown outnof the store for speaking another language!!!

Well...fuck his ass!!! Whatever...

What bugs me the most - americans who shit in America! It’s what makes us weaker! And we can’t afford that with shit going on now!

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It’s just his opinion. He’s allowed to have it. Why be so mad about it? You shouldn’t let him get to you.

What forninder my tail is that he said unlike all Americans he doesn’t mind foreigners...Fuck!

Like I said never I had felt as a reject in US...even when I barely spoke English!

What pissed me the most is US is a most tolerant place for immigrants and bozo who ‘traveled and been at places’ haven’t seen how not natives treated in...France! My friends were thrown outnof the store for speaking another language!!!

Well...fuck his ass!!! Whatever...

Well he’s an idiot. How does he know what most Americans think lol

I’m just saying don’t let him make you mad, just remember what most people actually do & how they treat people. Consider the source.

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What pissed me is that he is American!!! When others shit all over US I just laugh...

When educated Americans do it’s like...what? Really— POS! And then he tried to weasel his way out but I don’t bother. Boil in yournown shit ‘traveler’...fuck you! Lol

Posted by SpaceBird

I am sorry it upset you?

Was that you kind of felt ...'hey i have been here years and this arrogant guy thinks he is in charge of who is in the tribe?'

No. What upsets me is that football players disrespect the flag! Whatever reason is you can’t!

You want to stand up for racial shut - form coalition! Put your huge money into it and DO something about it if you feel there is racial injustice! No! They disrespect the flag! Like it’ll do some difference in racial shit!

News showing killing daily. Where? In neighborhoods where 15 y/olds selling drugs and get of course killed in drive-by shooting between gangs! What was 15 y/old doing at 3am in a street on a school day—

Stop me or I’ll need to go fuck somebody...yes! My date didn’t happen today! Lmao...good morning!

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It’s just his opinion. He’s allowed to have it. Why be so mad about it? You shouldn’t let him get to you.

What forninder my tail is that he said unlike all Americans he doesn’t mind foreigners...Fuck!

Like I said never I had felt as a reject in US...even when I barely spoke English!

What pissed me the most is US is a most tolerant place for immigrants and bozo who ‘traveled and been at places’ haven’t seen how not natives treated in...France! My friends were thrown outnof the store for speaking another language!!!

Well...fuck his ass!!! Whatever...

Well he’s an idiot. How does he know what most Americans think lol

I’m just saying don’t let him make you mad, just remember what most people actually do & how they treat people. Consider the source.

What pissed me is that he is American!!! When others shit all over US I just laugh...

When educated Americans do it’s like...what? Really— POS! And then he tried to weasel his way out but I don’t bother. Boil in yournown shit ‘traveler’...fuck you! Lol

Calm down.

You know how crap is because of Trump right now....he was simply trying to tell you he isn't a Trump supporter and you dont have to worry about him calling ICE.

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WTF IS ICE?

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It’s just his opinion. He’s allowed to have it. Why be so mad about it? You shouldn’t let him get to you.

What forninder my tail is that he said unlike all Americans he doesn’t mind foreigners...Fuck!

Like I said never I had felt as a reject in US...even when I barely spoke English!

What pissed me the most is US is a most tolerant place for immigrants and bozo who ‘traveled and been at places’ haven’t seen how not natives treated in...France! My friends were thrown outnof the store for speaking another language!!!

Well...fuck his ass!!! Whatever...

Well he’s an idiot. How does he know what most Americans think lol

I’m just saying don’t let him make you mad, just remember what most people actually do & how they treat people. Consider the source.

What pissed me is that he is American!!! When others shit all over US I just laugh...

When educated Americans do it’s like...what? Really— POS! And then he tried to weasel his way out but I don’t bother. Boil in yournown shit ‘traveler’...fuck you! Lol

Calm down.

You know how crap is because of Trump right now....he was simply trying to tell you he isn't a Trump supporter and you dont have to worry about him calling ICE.

WTF IS ICE?

INS

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Ok. I must been blessed out of my mind to come to this country and get into upscale neighborhood where people are civil to each other!

Occasionally I do get into other places where I feel like it’s another world before my eyes...

So maybe I live wearing pink glasses but I believe it’s possible for everyone to respect each other and if we need to shit our minds out - here we are! Dxp baby! Lmao

Talk. Don’t touch! If you touch - get locked up!

Lol

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I am sorry it upset you?

Was that you kind of felt ...'hey i have been here years and this arrogant guy thinks he is in charge of who is in the tribe?'

No. What upsets me is that football players disrespect the flag! Whatever reason is you can’t!

You want to stand up for racial shut - form coalition! Put your huge money into it and DO something about it if you feel there is racial injustice! No! They disrespect the flag! Like it’ll do some difference in racial shit!

News showing killing daily. Where? In neighborhoods where 15 y/olds selling drugs and get of course killed in drive-by shooting between gangs! What was 15 y/old doing at 3am in a street on a school day—

Stop me or I’ll need to go fuck somebody...yes! My date didn’t happen today! Lmao...good morning!

So in reality you are just in a shitty mood?

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I could hold my shit if it wasn’t for that moron!!! Lol

Posted by Gemitati

I said I was an IT Engineer before and I’ve recently met someone in my line of business. So he is ugly as fuck. Old and all...

However we are having conversation about where I am from and he responding:

Ahh I see! Well Humans are humans, so no worries no matter where you are from, that doesnt matter to me, I am not a purist american, I like all humans (and maybe aliens if they are cute lol) I relish in cultural differences as when everyone is the same its kind of boring.

8/19/2018 7:02pm

I am not like most americans you will know, after travelling the world, I know that the USA is not everything, its a good sized planet 😉



I am taking it as a fucking insult!

I had never been ‘approved’ to be ok to be a foreigner in this country!

And not most americans...NONE of Americans made me feel like a foreigner. Am I right to tell this bozo off or overreacting?

How does it message sound to you?

Gemi, calm down! 🙂 dont overreact

why did it even come into the conversation where are you from?

I wonder what you wrote him before his "I like all humans" moron reaction

I mean, its too personal exchanging messages like this, not professional

Is he deciding about your new job or what? stop the personal texting and do the job application in a formal way

you admitted you were in a bad mood, he is just a scapegoat.... what else happened to trigger you like this? the scorp? vent here 🙂