A Cancer-pisces story

Pisces women love to feel wanted....when she gets "mad" that you're wasting time talking to her or when she says you shouldn't talk, she's picking a little fight, she wants to hear you fight back and show her you care about her. It'll make her feel more attached to you. She defiantly likes you but you put her off a lot unintentionally. She isn't going to ask you how you feel but she will test you. Don't make the wrong move, you need to show how you feel more by really making her see you want to talk to her. See tests are to your advantage, the more you make the right choice the more she'll like you....if you're confused she's sure as hell more confused, she's hurting, and she's trying to find a way out, a way to love again, and she sees a light in you, make that light shine brighter, cancer. She needs it.
Source: Pisces female.

Ps I've dated a cancer for a year and it too was long distance....having the battle of Aries in me, I picked a lot of fights, and I tested him a lot. He nearly always failed, and it was the death of our relationship not because I was mad, or he was mad, he loved me, I just didn't feel it.

Hi Del Alte.
Thanks for your wise and well thought suggestions. But I would like to clarify. Sleeping is not a right word here if you mean coitus. Sharing a room doesn't mean having sex, but we could have talked more and would have got more comfortable faster (We met for the first time). I would have never done any extreme moves, and she wouldn't have either. She's a piscean, and they mostly dont take the first move. She also tells me even she was shy, its just the texting where she tries to over exaggerate to make it sound fun. The LDR issue I think could be handled as we plan to travel to more places together.
My gut says I should give a honest chance to myself with her. Nut scared of screwing. Should I tell her now or wait for the right moment? Are there specific signals I can expect from her for me to decide? Any tests you may suggest?

Thanks Again

Hi SuperMissMan,

So nice of you to share your views, they are helpful. I do come back over strongly when she tries to tell me that i am not focusing. She does feel that, and hence not worried. I don't see her taking any kind of tests on me. We are cool with pretty much anything. We respect each others own life, and do not try to be bossy or suggesting types.
The vibes are strong though. This one time when we held hand being half asleep, she did respond to my fingers moving on her skin, like a favor back. She held my hand close to her. I felt happy with that. But then she says that its normal for any male friend of hers to hold her hand, she has many such kinds. Confuses the hell out of me.
What do you think she will try to test me with? I did one test on her by proposing not to talk for some time. She came back within 2 days saying she's mad at me for doing this. what does that mean? Anything i could do to find out more about her? any suggestion?

I'll be waiting.

Oh my gosh... the cutest story ever!!

Sounds a lot like my story with my crabbie. I'm no Pisces, but I am a neighboring sign (which counts for more than you'd think) and I have my venus in Pisces.

I think she does like you and she might not be, as you said "giving it a chance" because she's afraid of heartbreak.

If I were you I'd wait and be patient (you crabbies are suppose to be patient! 🙂). Take your time and just enjoy the relationship for what it is, two people who care about each other sharing their time together. Over time you can change her mind, Pisces are not so stubborn as you would think 😉.
Take your time, gain her trust, and WATCH for signs. If she constantly text and is open to subtle affection like hand holding, hugging, a peck on the forehead... see her reaction and you can gain insight to where she stands. If she's receptive to it, and to you, you know she's into you, if she's not, and her body language will be closed off and she will probably not text a lot you then you know she's not into you.

From what I've read, I think she's into you, but that might just be me projecting my love story onto yours... I hope that's not the case! 🙂

Good Luck!

** She said I dint try and missed so many chances.**

It's a case of damned if you do & damned if you don't. If you jump her, you're a perv. If you don't jump her, you "didn't try and missed so many chances".

Thanks xtina for all you've said. means alot and made sense.

I am being patient, or maybe too much of it. I would not like to screw it up. 🙂

She gives the signs but herself denies them to mean anything serious from her side. So confuses me. I will wait for more, thats what my gut says.

Thanks again 🙂