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goldenlady
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"Many questions come to mind: You they really not know depth from shallow? Or, do they know and they think that they can entrap somebody?"

Well P-Angel I think it's the later. I think they know and think they can entrap somebody. Which goes full circle to the control issue. Of course if you have a baby with someone that person basically has to be in your life forever. Maybe they need that person to be around in their lives for certain reasons (control reasons) & they feel like they don't want the connection severed & a child definitely seals the deal, well in most cases anyway.
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kafka
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Hey all Pisces...

Man,I was away on vacation...came back to read all this. Whoa!

Maybe this horoscope thing backfires sometimes.
Ultimately, we're all people and we all want the same thing: to love and be loved, to feel connected to someone and be understood. These are all human needs.

I feel like the Pisces comments about the Scorpios were very separating (as the Scorp comments about Pisces were too). But I must say it does come across a tad arrogant "we pisces are so evolved, this drives the scorp crazy"...good for you guys for being so, maybe we can learn something. Even though I was peeved a bit, I still read with an open mind...Esp. stuff P-Angel and Goldenlady wrote.

I think P-Angel has some really good insights. But it doesnt have to become a Scorpio-bashing place.

That said, if you guys are as evolved as you say you are, kudos.

Peace--
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kafka
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To add more: I totally understand Passion Fruit...Just like Goldenlady felt understood by P-Angel, I get you girl! I come from the same place.

But lets be open-minded...people are different, and the insights here really helped--I wouldnt have known without them. I truly was going bonkers about Pisces! Now I have a clue.

So why dont we make this a place where we all help each other through life's trials and tribulations, etc...?

I dont like the idea that anyone is superior/inferior to each other. We're all human and all have our shortcomings.

love to you all
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P-Angel
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kafka, hope you had a great vacation 🙂

I think you have some good points to consider about the Scorpion's role and how they view themselves, as well as the Pisces, in a partnership. I'm glad we could talk without having to take it personally. We are talking about each person's POV, and naturally, we all don't feel the same because we haven't experienced life the same.

As for the evolved .. we do feel that way. Perhaps, it sounds arrogant, but, people feel about themselves the way they do. It would be no different than the Scorpio saying they feel an intensity unlike any other .. that's how you feel about yourself.

Anyway .. hopefully, after reading all this, you've gained some valuable information about our kind .. I know, I've gained some from you. Thanks 🙂
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kafka
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Hi P-Angel,

Vacation was awesome--I was at a beachside and got to swim! "swim" LOL

I also got to let go of the Pisces guy more. I'll be fine when I go back from my whole vacation.

I've come to respect you P-Angel. You're very articulate and you take the time to explain things. Which ultimately is really helpful.

Its very true that Scorps and Pisces seem to operate very differently. Its fascinating. I dont know many Pisces, hardly any, and always thought of you guys as "we're all water so we all get each other easily". I was arrogant to think I got the Pisces guy. He probably felt it too. I guess we all do this, project stuff on others because we're so subjective and we dont know better.

Its true that the ego gets in the way and that is the ultimate challenge. I do yoga, heck I'm a yoga instructor! I read tons of books on it and the road to happiness is described as being egoless...The attempt. The life-journey. It certainly is not easy.

The ego is a human problem, yes a bit stronger in some signs than others, but a human problem. For me its a very difficult one. I'm most egoless when I surrender to life and to my teachers.

Ultimately the people in my life (in many cases men) are my teachers too, and perhaps one has to surrender to the experience. Not be passive but just learn to let go when necessary.

I painfully see each time that I have a very very hard time letting go and its EGO. Its "how can he not want me?!how is that possible".

Interesting stuff. Anyhow great to challenge each other on here😉
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P-Angel
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Thanks kafka .. though, after time, you'll find that I'm overwhelming.

"Its true that the ego gets in the way and that is the ultimate challenge."

goldenlady and I were discussing this very thing .. since you do yoga, you know about trying to get centered, and no matter how hard you concentrate .. the ego wants to overpower, doesn't it? I suppose we may never get past this .. yet, if we don't, we won't ascend, rather, keep incarnating (if you believe in reincarnation and that theory).

"I painfully see each time that I have a very very hard time letting go and its EGO"

I do this, too .. but, not necessarily with people, rather, things.
I'm pretty possessive of things and that's silly, really. It's just material, yet, my ego WANTS it and makes me think that I must own it. I wish I knew how to get past this hurdle .. I guess that's the challenge for all of us.

goldenlady, my love for Scorpio's goes beyond words .. my only child is a Scorpio and I wouldn't trade him with his intensity for anything in the world .. he always teaches me things about myself and I'm very grateful for that.