backing a pisces in to a corner

I'm a pisces and my dad was a leo and I had some problems with him to. Your dad probably just has a very structured and rigid view of life that is completely opposite of the view of life a pisces has. Dont get violent, just move out as soon as you can and get away from him someplace where you can be yourself.

Same here. Pisces male. Dads a leo.
He was both physically And verbally abusive. Fine i was some hiperative And annoying kid. But he always discharged his stress on me.
Getting me to cry all day, making me think about killing either him or myself. Someday i started not talking to him, i gone to school, played outside, did my cleaning at home.
It was a phase for me, now that I'm 19 and got a job. I barely spend time home. And always the tell him I can't help him cuz I study and work all day. And on weekends its gonna be the day to distress. He stopped annoying Me when I started paying some bill, so my family didn't pay it all.

Idk if you get it... But try not spending time with him.
If you can afford to live with friends... Tell your parents you wanna try being independent and go live away. Share a house. If things doesn't work out, mommy will always be there for you.

And I meant totally not crazy at the beginning of that lol

sometimes a dad is an asshole, it happens
Just treat him as such and phase him out of your life

Sorry to hear that your Dad is a Leo.

That has to be the worst parent type for a Piscean to have.

My Dad is an Aquarius, and he was also pretty awful with the verbal abuse.

Just exhausting to deal with, and I hope you can move out of that house soon and go away to college or the military or something.

No excuses, but father is there to provide for the family and young pisces just live with the flow 😛

Getting more serious, I had a taurus father with 5 leo planets and Riging. I had no opinion whatsoever, at first I debated with him but no chance, he was always right. Until I quited.

One day, I go and defend my Aries brother on something, and he says "who are you to be interfering", so for him I was nothing.

But whats nothing in this context? its about you providing for yourself. He alwyas said when I had a bad grade to go to work. I should had listen to him, I should had been working earlier.

If you start working, you start providing and all goes smoother.

Neverless, Its sad for Pisces that it is like this (I blame this stupid society thing all the time), for some parents, if you dont provide you have no respect from them.

But just think Leo as animal, imagine a Leo animal trying to teach their children, its their way. Pisces just overcome this and say later he was the father that he needed to be.

No pills will solve it, go there and provide (work) and enter the realm.

Posted by NTSC

..... that all i see is my self squeezing the life out of some horrible person, staring into their eyes watching as blood comes from their mouth

So, your mind wants to hurt some random person rather than address your problems. Typical delinquent and immature teenager.

Posted by NTSC

No doctor or pill is going to help me and i refuse to see those people again.

So, therapy is/has been available to you ... but, like every snot-nosed brat, you'd rather be defiant than actually use the tools available to help yourself.

Posted by NTSC

And why he treats me like that well ....

he says i talk to low he can never hear me

i never do what he says ( in truth most of the time i dont complete the stuff because it's hard to stay focused when im not interested)

he says im an emotionless machine because it appears as though im not paying him any attention when he screams at me

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So, here we find out that you know what you need to do ... but, you have all kinds of excuses as to why you won't do them.

1. he can't hear you, and you know that he can't, and you know it irritates him when you talk low, but, then you refuse to talk louder ... and so, you deliberately piss him off.

Probably so you can complain about being a victim .... just like you are complaining now. Only, you aren't a victim because a victim cannot help themselves.

You can make the decision to remedy the situation ... and you choose not to.

2. you admittedly never do what he says because you don't want to, because it's not interesting to you. Again - you know exactly what has to be done to find a compromise with your father, but, you CHOOSE not to. And in this choosing to be defiant, you fully recognize you're gonna piss him off.

I don't feel sorry for you ... I don't feel sorry for any incorrigible teenager when they actually have the ability to do right.

3. you admittedly don't pay attention to him when he wants your attention.

The problems you've stated in here are all your fault.

You have the ability to reach an understanding with him ... but, have chosen to take the child's route of being a brat, rather than an adult route of compromise.

You sound like coward to me ... who'd rather come in here (and probably in real life too) and cry about the bad choices you make for yourself.

And what are you insinuating with the title of the thread?


Are you attempting to sound badass, like if a person backs you in a corner, you're gonna break bad on them?

What a punk thing to insinuate. Grown ups aren't impressed with your little dick, boy

P-Angel, you need to really watch the way you are speaking to this young man.

Your words are as destructive as they are pointless, and they are only making this worse for this particular discussion.

I recommend you hide your posts, and just be quiet about the matter altogether.

Posted by NTSC

Any ideas on how i can deal with this.

Sounds to me like you're not interested in dealing with it ... you're interested in ignoring it, so you have something to complain about.

You have clearly stated that you understand how/why he gets pissed off ... and you also clearly stated that you have chosen to do those very things in which pisses him off. So, you have no grounds to come in here and play victim.

Oh, but, Pisces loves to play victim ... don't they?

You're not a victim ... a victim has no control over their circumstances. And you actually have control over how you respond/react to your father. Thus far, you've chosen ignorance. You've actually had the opportunity of therapy to help you, and chose not to cooperate.

so be it ... suffer your consequences of being ignorant to helping yourself.


I'm not going to feel sorry for you ... because you've made it perfectly clear that you've chosen not to help yourself.

lol

what an idiot

Posted by NTSC

.... to help me

You've proven in here that you don't want help ..... you want validation in making you feel better about making wrong choices.

typical teenager who doesn't know shit .... and tries to pretend like the adults won't notice

Posted by Nemesis
....the truth will set you free, but first it's gonna piss you off....

Now where did I hear that before? 😄

I am trying to imagine P-Angel answering the telephone for the National Suicide Prevention hotline....

"You what? You loser! The planet would be better off without you!!!" (Slams phone down)

Posted by ScorpioFish
I am trying to imagine P-Angel answering the telephone for the National Suicide Prevention hotline....

"You what? You loser! The planet would be better off without you!!!" (Slams phone down)

Not to be malicious but the planet IS overpopulated.

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Posted by ScorpioFish
I am trying to imagine P-Angel answering the telephone for the National Suicide Prevention hotline....

"You what? You loser! The planet would be better off without you!!!" (Slams phone down)

Not to be malicious but the planet IS overpopulated.

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im sorry but that was kinda hilarious lol

Posted by ScorpioFish
I am trying to imagine P-Angel answering the telephone for the National Suicide Prevention hotline....

"You what? You loser! The planet would be better off without you!!!" (Slams phone down)

Good one! LoL