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Being a Pisces Man..
How is he when in love?
If you are being pursued by a Pisces man, you will see the persuasive side of his nature in its full glory. The more you play hard to get, the more he will enjoy pursuing you. He will be all glib and slick in expressing his love and will say all the things a woman likes to hear.
But women who are in love with Pisces men should realize that their man has a goal oriented mindset. And whatever his romantic dreams may be, his ambitions will always be his topmost priority. I sometimes wonder whether ambition is the right word to use for a Piscean and I am using it here for want of a better one. Actually this guy is an idealist and his dreams are his goals. He fights and works to achieve his dreams.
Pisces men are committed to their relationships, but men being men, some Pisceans are no different. They are quite capable of promiscuity although they will not be able to handle it if they’re at the receiving end.
If you are being pursued by a Pisces man, you will see the persuasive side of his nature in its full glory. The more you play hard to get, the more he will enjoy pursuing you. He will be all glib and slick in expressing his love and will say all the things a woman likes to hear.
But women who are in love with Pisces men should realize that their man has a goal oriented mindset. And whatever his romantic dreams may be, his ambitions will always be his topmost priority. I sometimes wonder whether ambition is the right word to use for a Piscean and I am using it here for want of a better one. Actually this guy is an idealist and his dreams are his goals. He fights and works to achieve his dreams.
Pisces men are committed to their relationships, but men being men, some Pisceans are no different. They are quite capable of promiscuity although they will not be able to handle it if they’re at the receiving end.
While dating him you should…
…be prepared to talk to a mask. For that’s what a Pisces man is. He is a face with a mask…a smiling mask for sad moods, a pensive mask for playful moods and a nonchalant mask for intense moods. He is a funny mix of opposites. He will feel something and pretend to experience something else all the time. Don’t think this to be confusion or lack of self awareness. It is in fact his way of playing hide and seek with his emotions. He will never show his true emotions to anyone and will constantly endeavour to hide them…even if it means acting out the exact opposite of how he feels on the inside.
Rather complicated isn’t it? But once you know why he does that it would be simple to start the dating game. A Piscean knows his sensitivity is his weakest bone and he completely avoids divulging his state of mind in order to shield himself from emotional harm. In the initial stages of dating him, you would need to get past his reserve to gauge what he is really like.
…be prepared to talk to a mask. For that’s what a Pisces man is. He is a face with a mask…a smiling mask for sad moods, a pensive mask for playful moods and a nonchalant mask for intense moods. He is a funny mix of opposites. He will feel something and pretend to experience something else all the time. Don’t think this to be confusion or lack of self awareness. It is in fact his way of playing hide and seek with his emotions. He will never show his true emotions to anyone and will constantly endeavour to hide them…even if it means acting out the exact opposite of how he feels on the inside.
Rather complicated isn’t it? But once you know why he does that it would be simple to start the dating game. A Piscean knows his sensitivity is his weakest bone and he completely avoids divulging his state of mind in order to shield himself from emotional harm. In the initial stages of dating him, you would need to get past his reserve to gauge what he is really like.
some interesting bits inside of all this. Some things that I hven't heard anywhe else and which I think are true.
🙂
Posted by glasshalffullActually Pisces man are too dreamy u know.. Deep spritual conection beyond physicality has always been on that list.. That doesnt mean they dont want physical way.. Bt I think their ultimate goal will always be to take love to the next level.
I've read repeatedly that Pisces men are always looking for their soul mate. Do you believe they are capable of having a strong connection in a platonic way or does that ultimate 'goal' get in the way? What has been your experience? It is romance or nothing?
My experience in that case was nt very good actually. I have been in relationship with virgo and libra. Both were good listener bt they find dificult to understand such pattern.. Actually I think she need to be cancer or scorpio (cancer better) to take his romantic dream to next level..
Oh I found that I havent read ur msg properly. Actually ultimate goal and love can go side by side.. 🙂
Posted by glasshalffullSorry I found that I took msg in totally different way. Believe me even with his goal mindset he can take her to the next lvl of relationship. Time of space may increses in hetic period (either length or repeatation) bt such changes will never be permanent.. 🙂
I've read repeatedly that Pisces men are always looking for their soul mate. Do you believe they are capable of having a strong connection in a platonic way or does that ultimate 'goal' get in the way? What has been your experience? Is it romance or nothing?
Posted by glasshalffullDeep connection is on the dream list of pisces.. I try to find it with all. Bt with water sign (scorpio & cancer) I find it easy to connect.
So you're saying that even though you are romantic and dreamy, you can also have a deep non-physical connection, especially with a cancer?
Bt problem is I havnt been in relationship with these two sign,so I cannt told u how deep it can be..
I m defining with my experience with my close fren so its not complete in case of relationship..
Bt I feel that cancer or scorpio or pisces women can hav better understanding of such conection..
I recently met a Pisces when I was on holiday and the connection is unreal. We kissed (nothing more) and I saw him almost everyday before I had to leave. I love being around him, its literally been around 5 yrs since ive fallen for anyone since my Cap ex, I actually thought it would never happen lol, I was waiting for that "spark" boy do I get it with him. We speak everyday and ill go back to visit him beginning of June. Hes verrrrry slow and not so in my face like most guys, which I really love. He just seems to offer up the right amount of himself. Looking forward to seeing where this one goes. OP what issues did you have with your libra?
Lol I like the clarification u gave of nthng more.. :p
Actually I like Libra.. They are so precise & straight forward and charming.. Many things to learn from them..
Hehe he is pisces so of course he will be slow compare to u.. My relationship with Libra was the fastest I ever had from my point of view.. 😉 🙂
I dont knw what went wrong with her.. Emotional support and Romance was so good..
I think Pisces and Libra are not for each other for long term.. We will find hard to understand each other. For short term they are jst too good..
Actually I like Libra.. They are so precise & straight forward and charming.. Many things to learn from them..
Hehe he is pisces so of course he will be slow compare to u.. My relationship with Libra was the fastest I ever had from my point of view.. 😉 🙂
I dont knw what went wrong with her.. Emotional support and Romance was so good..
I think Pisces and Libra are not for each other for long term.. We will find hard to understand each other. For short term they are jst too good..
Posted by glasshalffullI was not looking, i was waiting for her to appear in my life, even if i was 100 years old.
I've read repeatedly that Pisces men are always looking for their soul mate. Do you believe they are capable of having a strong connection in a platonic way or does that ultimate 'goal' get in the way? What has been your experience? Is it romance or nothing?
Posted by glasshalffullI think not, its intense with cancer or scorpio but usually theres no space to grow deep
So you're saying that even though you are romantic and dreamy, you can also have a deep non-physical connection, especially with a cancer?
Posted by glasshalffullTo be honest, non-physical connections are extremely important to me. There were times where I refused to have sex with someone because I didn't trust them, even if I cared about them deeply.
So you're saying that even though you are romantic and dreamy, you can also have a deep non-physical connection, especially with a cancer?
He may be keeping you at arms length because you and he are both in relationships, but he feels something between you two as well. It could be that he's trying to keep from going too far deep. I know that's How I was with one of my friends.
Unfortunately I ended it with my friend. I was single at the time, but I knew my boundaries, and being a homewrecker is not something befitting of my nature. HE may be able to snap out of it, however (and I am not accusing you of ANYTHING, I mean to ask this with kindness and sincerity) did you used to ask him to hang out and be completely open with him before?
Posted by glasshalffullI was saying that specially with cancer and scorpio will probably get physical.
LostPisces...so if you've been close friends with a cancer female (not romantic), the friendship will eventually end because you are unable to separate a deep/close female friend from a romantic partner? I've read pisces males usually have many platonic female friends. Yet, I know some men (other signs) who just can't handle a close female friend if there's no physical relationship...they always want to go there. Back to the old 'can men and women really be just close friends'.
As with earth with earth
fire with fire
and air with air
Posted by glasshalffullYes she did 🙂 She is my arabian princess and I am the celt warrior.
And, did she appear in your life?
Posted by glasshalffullI think having platonic friend (with or
I even just recently told him that I've allowed myself to get so close to him because I'm even more shy than he is (he's painfully shy when it comes to women) and that combined with our moral compasses, no chance boundaries are going to be crossed (even after a few beers). I'm really trying to put him at ease and to help him put me back in the friend zone.
He's divorced and struggles in a lot of areas related to dating...used to tell me all the time that he has no idea what he's doing. He knows premarital sex is against God's teachings, yet he likes being intimate with his girlfriend. Our 'you're only human' conversation about the subject was very interesting.
Keeping my fingers crossed for you and your Scorpio Lady! 🙂
without physical relationship its not what
matter) would be blessing for me..
Handling would nt be difficult becoz both
will automatically understand how each
other r feeling..
Even silence wud nt be akward and can
beautifully express the way they are
feeling I believe... 🙂
Words are always overrated. Topic is jst
to keep involve; for me feelings and
connection there is important..
I see I already missed too much here.. So
simply I can say stay in touch.. Its hard to
find such connection... God bless u both..
If the last one of scorpio lady was for me..
Thanx for that 😉
If nt also I took it for me and thanx for
that...😄
I adore the Pisces man in my life..which is to say... my brother! Lol. Yes, I've seen him grow into the most beautiful Pisces, strong yet soft. Understanding and assertive, or observational, smart and mind. He's learned to hit back at what life has dealt him, in a most private manner. How he did it, I don't know but he's thriving, always trying and I admire that.
Oops, *kind not mind.
@RollergirlOrc: Nice to have a cap sister by the way, you help more then you think. Older or younger brother?
@glasshalffull: I also work in IT. You would have to belong to my team to me to talk with you deeply, but I think pisces men are really interested in talking only.
I have an example, I had one Scorpio woman at my team, all men of the team comments were always tending for physical approach. My Approach was always diffrent.
I also hate when we are talking about work, in a meeeting, and the work colleagues see a woman and dont listen anymore.
Physical part wastes with time, mind doesnt, the soul, I love my wife´s soul.
I have an example, I had one Scorpio woman at my team, all men of the team comments were always tending for physical approach. My Approach was always diffrent.
I also hate when we are talking about work, in a meeeting, and the work colleagues see a woman and dont listen anymore.
Physical part wastes with time, mind doesnt, the soul, I love my wife´s soul.
Posted by glasshalffullLol coincident I m keeper myself.. I love to watch.. I may nt react in case of scorpio girl.. She is nearly taken.. I m late or may be slow(or may be I love to go with the flow).. Actually through conversation with her I feel like we like to hav partner like each other bt nt each other...
And, ToxicSlayers, you said...
"So simply I can say stay in touch.. Its hard to find such connection..."
I've worked in IT/software development for 14 yrs and have worked with lots of men. I've never had this type of connection with any of them until my pisces friend came along. I shared that with him January 2015, 3 months before the project ended, and his simple response (which took me totally by surprise) was "I love you too". He's a keeper.
🙂
She was only scorpio girl I know.. So she is too complex to understand(for me) .. 😄
Bt I can say that.. With all type of girl I have ever been ( in a relationship or frenship) I have felt those platonic relationship too easily with cancer only.. (After short review I came to know that I stated scorpio previously was to make myself feel good 😄 )..
Bt ya pisces & scorpio also nt bad on that 😉 (let me defend myself again)
Btw plz do keep updating.... 🙂
Posted by LostPiscesThanks, it means a lot. He's my older brother, though honestly I sometimes get the feeling that I'm not as helpful as I think. I almost feel like a poison in his life since he's doing so well and I'm not, comparatively.. I just wonder sometimes with Pisces being so methodical, will they cut someone out from their lives or merely put up with them. I try to distance myself even knowing that he puts with something that I can't put my finger on. Oh well.
@RollergirlOrc: Nice to have a cap sister by the way, you help more then you think. Older or younger brother?
Posted by RollergirlOrcCaps simply can show the path to Pisces, it may feel like poison, but you are preparing him for the world outside doing whathever you do. He will not ever leave brothers and sisters, the contrary happens, not with pisces, he will love all your defects.Posted by LostPiscesThanks, it means a lot. He's my older brother, though honestly I sometimes get the feeling that I'm not as helpful as I think. I almost feel like a poison in his life since he's doing so well and I'm not, comparatively.. I just wonder sometimes with Pisces being so methodical, will they cut someone out from their lives or merely put up with them. I try to distance myself even knowing that he puts with something that I can't put my finger on. Oh well.
@RollergirlOrc: Nice to have a cap sister by the way, you help more then you think. Older or younger brother?click to expand
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When you think of a Pisces male recall the Piscean symbol—two fishes. The fishes are moving in opposite directions much like the Piscean mind. This does not mean confusion…it is simply indicative of the depths to which he can go with his mysticism or the heights he can achieve with his dreams. There’s nothing more realistic than dreams for a Piscean male.
He loves to swim in deep waters. Mystery, isolation and sympathy are dear to him and you will find a good listener in your Piscean friend.
He is undoubtedly an extrovert but without being vociferous. One remarkable quality that sets him apart would be his keenness to help, with advice or action, anyone and everyone around. While this doesn’t make him a bad person, it can make him come across as interfering.
“Driven by ambition, the Piscean man believes in dreaming big. He is also adventurous and impulsive by nature, which only adds to his ambitiousness. Piscean men with the achiever spirit know how to welcome an opportunity when it comes knocking.
In two words, his mantra is ambition and adventure. For a Piscean man ambition takes precedence over all else. His ambition makes him aspire for all things good, including material pleasures. His nature is an odd mix of contradictions. Although you will find him generally satisfied with life, he will never be content with what he has achieved. But it would be unfair to call him arduously ambitious. Although he likes to climb the ladder of success, he is never deceitful or mean in his intentions. He would rather give up his ambition than hurt anyone deliberately. He is a Dreamer founded on idealistic goals; that’s why his ambitions are based on certain pre-defined ethics. And he is never aggressive about it either.
A Pisces male is artistic, creative and spiritual. He is highly intuitive and comes with a rather honed sixth sense. If you have an eye for detail you will see him enveloped in a spiritual aura. His intuitiveness makes it possible for him to see through people and it’s not easy to fool him.
A Pisces male is also an emotional being and loves a sob story now and then. So he is easily entrapped by tales of sorrow. Usually he is ever ready to help people, by deed or money. Because of these qualities he is often misused. This can cause him much hurt. Given his sensitive nature, things like accusations, dishonesty, disloyalty and lack of faith don’t go down well with him.
Since he is emotional and sensitive he is also easily hurt. Therefore it is necessary to give him space. He uses his personal space and time to revitalize his energies and you will usually find him replete with enthusiasm and zeal for life once he is out of hibernation. He is also secretive, which is another reason for his want of space.