But why—

I was asked out for a date by a Pisces guy. He made the date fun, cuz he organized a treasure hunt for us, brought flowers, and took me to some nice places, meanwhile the whole date was quite spontaneous. He seemed to be someone who likes to communicate, and pay attention to little things. He asked me quite early if he can hold my hand, and kiss me. And later when he walked me home, he said that "you know I am not looking for the only one, but would be nice to meet you".

He also sent me a message at the night that he just wanted to have the chance to tell me how beautiful and wierd I am and he likes that.



So WTF?

If you look for a hook up, why do you do all this shit? You dont even need to be nice to ppl in order to grab someone from a bar. Probably it would not be me, but I am pretty sure that there are plenty of others who are into such games.

WTF

Omg dating is so confusing these days smh.

I completely agree with you op, meeting someone at a bar and hooking up is more honest than arranging a nice date only to say I want to add you to my booty call list.

I'm direct with people these days and ask what their intention is, (beyond the obvious) as you have to be. I don't want any misunderstandings from either side. Also would like to be able to choose if what they're offering is what I want at the time.

WTF? If I were 20 something again, this is what I would do! Get spoilt and enjoy life.

Are you girls so stupid that you want to bread, bound and serve 10 years before your clock starts to tick?

Or are you one of those premature aged beings, that would do a service to humanity never to bread at all?

Posted by Undine
WTF? If I were 20 something again, this is what I would do! Get spoilt and enjoy life.

Are you girls so stupid that you want to bread, bound and serve 10 years before your clock starts to tick?

Or are you one of those premature aged beings, that would do a service to humanity never to bread at all?

your sagg rising is pretty serious.

Some guys like to romance a girl because that is simply their most preferable way in interacting with her but at the same time they do't want to be tied down.
They want the "girlfriend" experience but not the title and burden that comes with it.
These guys usually have control issues as well. Be careful.

this is not sign related, but not everybody can jump right into a physical relationship without some kind of "ritual handshake" before. It's a cultural/educational thing.

Posted by Reincarnation
It's because a lot of men are confused these days.

The same goes for women.

And again Reincarnation is the smartest.

Posted by partiallyimpartial
"you know I am not looking for the only one, but would be nice to meet you".


idk if its just incorrect syntax, but the way its wording reads as a fail pick-up line to me.

so I don't see what's confusing to you, or any mixed messages you're being sent.

ditto

I dealt with something similar with a fwb Pisces guy I was seeing. I didn't mind the romantic friendliness, but I did make romantic boundaries clear. He kept wanting to breach that. I told him to come out clean with his emotions about our situation, I sense he was feeling more due to the "romantic interactions".

In the end I left, not because of what he was feeling and doing, but because he couldn't be direct and clear about his intentions. I believed he was lying to himself about how he felt about me. While on my end I was straightforward.

I think its a mix of the "ritual handshake" the confusion about feeling and the whole lot of what everyone else has mentioned on her. My real advice, is when dealing with something like, forget what he is doing for a second. evaluate how you feel to the exact moment. OP you sound a bit confused yourself on what you feel for this guy. If you like him clear it up, it not, clear it down. I wouldn't spend too much time thinking about what he is feeling and doing until I knew what I was feeling first.

No, there is nothing wrong with the idea that ppl wanna go for something easy. But all his actions are just strange to me. He always buys a present to me when we meet, already introduced me to his parents and told me how much he feels the chemistry between us.


Anyway, I asked him directly what his problem is with women, and he said that they wanna "run the world" and we even got a song for it 😄😄😄

Idk, because I am a bit more traditional in this way, I like when the man is the man and the woman is the woman. I never wanted to change someone in order to get a droid that I want to own. I appreciate free will and it is just even better when it matches with my concept.

How to keep a woman hooked: Confuse her.

Seems like you got caught.

Posted by Nicole99
I never wanted to change someone in order to get a droid that I want to own.

some droids aren't worth the bantha poo

haha, its not going well at all. i have never been so tolerate in my entire life than now, but although he showed me some appreciation, he is still a player. but i think its not due to his pisces sun. he has a fucking venus in aries..... NO GOOD! so i guess he is going to fuck everyone in the next couple of decades... haha