Cancer Woman and Pisces Man

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iluvmecancer
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18 YearsCancer

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So I met this guy through a mutual friend who obviously thought him and I meeting was a great idea. So we connected on facebook initially he sent me a message asking that we meet within a few days. We exchanged numbers, and one Thursday we met for coffee in the city. When I saw him in person, all I could say to myself was "thank you to my friend" because this guy is a great looking guy with the most beautiful teeth I have ever seen in my life. His smile is mesmerizing, and most of all he has a great personality. Just to give you guys a little info on him and I. I am 29 (cancer) and he's 32 (Pisces) we both don't have any children, love to travel, and we have great jobs also. So this is a big plus for me. Now the day we met for coffee we talked for about an hr and then he had to go off to meet with one of his family members and mentioned that him and I could possibly get together over the weekend. So we gave each other a hug and parted ways. NOW. I am the typical shy cancer so I awaited his call/text and after 3 days he finally reached out to me in which I was very happy. However, on the day he mentioned we would go out he said he had a game to go to. I didn't bother to mention him saying to me that we would possibly get together that day. I just left it alone. My friend then asked me what was going on between us and I didn't have much information to tell because I swear this guy is so hard to read. I am not sure if he has interest or not, and this is what I was thinking. So she then spoke with him and I guess after their conversation he text me to say "hello" "How are you" Not really much conversation. Now I thought when we met we hit it off pretty well, but still was a bit confused on what this guy was feeling. Okay so the other day I sent him a text pretty much stating that I thought we hit it off pretty well, thought he was handsome and if nothing came out this it was a pleasure meeting him. He responded after a while and mentioned he had been so busy with work and would like for us to meet this week. Well tomorrow him and I are suppose to see each other again. Now my question to any of you that have dealt with a pisces male. How do you know if he's interested? I am usually good at reading people but with him this is just way too hard lol. Me being a typical cancer we like to know what's going on, what a person is feeling, and where is it going to go. Yes I must admit we over think at times, but we just want to be sure and not waste anytime. HELLP!!!
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iluvmecancer
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18 YearsCancer

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And you know what's so crazy is that there is this Aries guy that wants to spend so much time with me and give me all the attention (you know how us cancers love attention) But I am trying to stay away from him knowing that Aries is not my match and also with hopes me and Pisces will actually hit it off. And this Aries already made it clear what he wants and it's not a relationship. So obviously we're not on the same page as far as intentions. I guess I may have to chill out for a moment. I still believe there is someone out there for me :-). But thank you to each and every one of you that has replied to my posting, it's greatly appreciated.
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iluvmecancer
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18 YearsCancer

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Posted by Nights22
Who is to say he is swimming away?
He just wanted to reschedule..



I understand the rescheduling however his excuse just wasn't believable at all. And especially after the first time him and I have met he hasn't really showed interest. He said he was going to call me, never did. I would get like a random hello text. We were suppose to meet a few days after him and I met and he didn't say anything about it. I just happen to text him that day and he mentioned he was going to a game. Cancers yes we can be naive sometimes, but c'mon this is crazy. I give up on this pisces. I wish it was the pisces that was showing me all the attention and interest as this aries guy but oh well everything happens for a reason.
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Hey Iluvemecancer:

I was in a similar predicament as yourself where my interest in him wasn't returned. Don't go after him, don't contact him, let him go. If he hasn't shown interest after meeting you, nothing you can do or say can change that. In fact, it would make things worse.

He doesn't feel it but this doesn't mean you aren't attractive and desirable! At least that is what I tell myself!

Mine didn't make excuses because I have learned to not question a new guy his feelings that soon when I've just met him....especially a sensitive Pisces who would rather die than risk hurting my feelings. And I certainly didnt want to hear a lie. So I didn't put him on the spot. Or if I did, I'll never know.

Forget what this guy you met said to you. Non-action = No interest.