Concerned about Pisces man love bombing

Posted by ImperfectStorm

Boundaries with a Pisces man are very important.. they usually lack boundaries. Lol and with him being a mutable sign, he will likely swim back and forth, in and out so it’s wise to pace yourself with him. Be receptive with him while still being cautious, tell him to pump his brakes if he’s going too fast, too soon.

Do you know his venus sign? You can sometimes tell more from a man’s venus sign than his sun. If he has a fire venus that would explain the 0 to 100. Lol

fire + water = lots of steam 😅

Posted by virgoOPPP

had this terrible fight with a pisces yesterday but now we're planning to move in together coz logic?? we both like our space so we think this is bad news for our relationship. but we have reasons for doing this.

i don't mind love bombing coz i'm a love bomber myself 💣💣 is it even really love if it doesn't feel a little bit like cult initiation?

Posted by Argus

Posted by virgoOPPP

had this terrible fight with a pisces yesterday but now we're planning to move in together coz logic?? we both like our space so we think this is bad news for our relationship. but we have reasons for doing this.

i don't mind love bombing coz i'm a love bomber myself 💣💣 is it even really love if it doesn't feel a little bit like cult initiation?

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Posted by Argus

Posted by virgoOPPP

had this terrible fight with a pisces yesterday but now we're planning to move in together coz logic?? we both like our space so we think this is bad news for our relationship. but we have reasons for doing this.

i don't mind love bombing coz i'm a love bomber myself 💣💣 is it even really love if it doesn't feel a little bit like cult initiation?

😅😅 it's alright, we have opposite schedules that it'd be almost as if we're not always together

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Posted by virgoOPPP

had this terrible fight with a pisces yesterday but now we're planning to move in together coz logic?? we both like our space so we think this is bad news for our relationship. but we have reasons for doing this.

i don't mind love bombing coz i'm a love bomber myself 💣💣 is it even really love if it doesn't feel a little bit like cult initiation?

Posted by Argus

Posted by virgoOPPP

Posted by Argus

Posted by virgoOPPP

had this terrible fight with a pisces yesterday but now we're planning to move in together coz logic?? we both like our space so we think this is bad news for our relationship. but we have reasons for doing this.

i don't mind love bombing coz i'm a love bomber myself 💣💣 is it even really love if it doesn't feel a little bit like cult initiation?

😅😅 it's alright, we have opposite schedules that it'd be almost as if we're not always together

LoL

Bless your heart! Not to be throwing libras under the bus, but… you sure you’re not undercover Libra?! 😅

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Posted by LadyNeptune

Posted by virgoOPPP

had this terrible fight with a pisces yesterday but now we're planning to move in together coz logic?? we both like our space so we think this is bad news for our relationship. but we have reasons for doing this.

i don't mind love bombing coz i'm a love bomber myself 💣💣 is it even really love if it doesn't feel a little bit like cult initiation?

Cults =/= love

The shared pillars of all cults are the same. You can't questions the leader/core beliefs or you will be punished. And you are isolated from anyone else who isn't in the cult, including family.

If anything cults resemble the domestic abuse cycle more so than anything resembling love.

You got me praying for you and I am an atheist.

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Posted by Wizardz_

Love bombing is a form of manipulation so you're right to feel wary. Plus if it keeps happening to you then you might be doing something that makes you seem susceptible to this behviour

Posted by Indigo1974

Update, I ended up breaking it off. It was absolutely suffocating. He was blowing up my phone if I didn’t respond within a couple of hours, talking about future plans months down the road, and it was just way too much. I very politely broke it off just saying that he was way more emotionally invested in this way too quickly than I was, and it just wasn’t going to move forward for me. He took it really well. Until he kept texting me the next day and calling me like nothing it happened. I ended up having to block him on my phone. Then he started messaging me on WhatsApp and I had to block him there. Crazy for sure!

Posted by Indigo1974

I started dating a pretty awesome Pisces man a couple of weeks ago. However, things are going from 0 to 100 very quickly. While I’m thrilled to receive all the affection and attention and quality time, I’m feeling very guarded. I got all of this love bombing at the beginning from a cancer man not long ago (crazy water signs, I tell you), and after a few weeks he shut down, emotionally unavailable. Several years ago, Aquarius man did this at the beginning, then shut down, emotionally unavailable. My ex-husband did this, turned out to be an emotionally abusive narcissist. So you can imagine I have my guard up with this one. I’m having a great time with him and he makes me feel so good, especially after hot and cold emotionally unavailable heartache with a recent cancer man. I know that Pisces men wear their hearts on their sleeves and are super touchy-feely, but my past experience has me very wary. Not sure whether or not I should address it and verbalize some boundaries this early or just let it play out and enjoy it.