Confusing little fish

I've been really good friends with this Pisces man for around 7 months. When we first met, I was married. We liked each other, we both admitted that, but because of the situation, we didn't do anything about it. We kissed a few times, but that was as far as it went. I continued to talk to him though. We talked almost daily in some form for 6 months. He let me call him, email him or whatever and let me talk about the situation I was feeling trapped in. I was in an abusive marriage and was trying to find a way out. Well I finally did and I've been single for about a month now. The divorce is really messy, but my fish has stuck by me. However, he's confused. He tells me that all the time and I always tell him it's just who he is. He calls me everyday, right around the same times. Once when he gets home from work, once before he goes to bed at night and if he can sneak in a phone call while he's at work he does. He also emails me every morning to tell me good morning and tell me he hopes I have a good day. We often chat a little throughout the day via email. Sometimes he tells me he misses me. I've also often woken up to emails from him that he's sent at 1 or 2 am just saying he woke up and thought of me. He's always really sweet, well most of the time. Sometimes he gets moody, so I give him some recharge time and then he's fine. He tells me all the time how he wants to get married and settle down. He jokes about moving me in with him all the time. He's even got me storing stuff at his house because he knows I'll be moving in a few months and said it would probably be easier for me to have everything already packed up and ready to go. Plus it'll be safe there. Since I've been single, we've hung out a few times. We kissed the first couple of times, that was about it. This past weekend though, I spent all day one day with him and a few of his friends. That evening after they left, he asked me if I wanted to take a nap. The nap turned into us having sex. Afterwards we cuddled on the couch for a few hours before I had to leave. All week this week I've felt like we're closer. He's been opening up more, telling me stories from his past, discussing his views on life in general, things like that. He tells me he trusts me, that I'm the only friend he has he trusts. He tells me I'm the most awesome girl he's ever met, that I'm beautiful, and how he wishes we had met a long time ago. So is he falling in love? Or am I being played? I'm a Virgo.

Sounds to me like he's serious. I wouldn't think he'd talk about moving in and stuff unless he was. I don't think he'd dig himself into an even deeper hole if he was just playing you. He stays in contact with you all the time, even in the middle of the night and doesn't seem like he has any major issues. If he's stuck around with you for as long as he has, you have nothing to worry about. Seems like he's cared about you all along. : )

Privacy and personal space are sacred for a Pisces. I think that if he is eager for you to move in he means business.-

"...and how he wishes we had met a long time ago."


^^ pay attention to the undertone of that......

I caught that too and was just wondering, exactly what makes him say that. Because what diffrence does it make now...

I doubt a Pisces male is going to fully take seriously a woman whom he kissed whilst she was still married.

If your relationship was based on something real...you both would have waited to avoid being immoral and disloyal. You're being kept on a string because he is battling between 'saving you' or going along on the ride you have both created out of fantasy.

Your liasion is not rooted in anything substantial.

You both have the emotions of two people in a relationship...but neither of you have been willing to define it and that is where the confusion lies.

Posted by Nemesis
"...and how he wishes we had met a long time ago."


^^ pay attention to the undertone of that......

+1

To the OP, I've said the exact same thing to my ex because while I loved him...there were issues he had that I knew about and I also knew he had to face them alone. The Pisces temptation is to become a 'saviour'...this is the most deceptive type of love there is, though it may be well-intentioned.

Nobody can carry your weight, you have to walk alone.

"It may well be challenging for the Pisces because eventually he will wonder will you stray to another ...like you did with your husband..."


"I doubt a Pisces male is going to fully take seriously a woman whom he kissed whilst she was still married."

I was thinking this exact thing!! Trust is SO important to fish it's ridic. You kissing him while you were together with your husband (not seperated) WILL become an issue at some point or another. You have to understand merfolk we tend to think the worst. Our imaginations take over and usually we go to the worst case scenario I think we do this in case it does become true we/our hearts are guarded. We are sensitive and if we are caught off guard and that daggers enter our heart oh man...that's the worst. Plus we will kick ourselves in the ass and thinking we were stupid for not seeing it coming. If it goes good, yeah what a pleasant surprise life is good.

Anywho you kissing him (yes it takes 2 to tango) will backfire on you. Persay you guys say let's give it a go. He will see you talking to some guy and his imagination will get the best of him or insert any questionable scenerio here. Yeah it will make him wonder, then question then the trust is broken once that process starts. That seed has already been planted all that it needs is some germination which will surely happen. Even if you're on the up and up.

Not to be judgemental since you're a virgo the phaser was set to stun when I read you kissed him while still with your hubby. Not that all Virgo's are the same but from what I've seen irl and read... Virgo's and merfolk are self sacrificing to their mate and faithful to no end. I'm not saying your hubby was the greatest man ever and I don't condone him being abusive but I find it striking that you went outside your "marital bed" to seek out affection from someone else. *shrugs shoulders* Not passing judgement just taken back tis all.