Dancing with Pisces male

So I have known this Pisces since we were teenagers and we have recently took it to the next level. We are in our 20's now and after seeing each other on a more intimate level for a couple of months he's told me that he loves me twice. Now he is spending less time with me and I allow him to have his freedom, because we are not exclusive and I enjoy my time alone as well... However, I told him I would like some more attention and I GOT NONE. Lmao it is expected, but any advice on how to deal with a flighty Pisces? My controlling virgo nature wants to take over so badly!

Honestly not well the first time I said I don't love you, and he said why not?... I said it because I thought he was intoxicated and that he said it in the moment... The second time he said it and then asked me if I love him right after and I said yes. I have a hard time expressing how I feel and I try to do it through gestures more than words. I did tell him I was crazy about him