Did she swim away ?

Backstory of situation

https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/pisces/is-this-pisces-woman-into-me-confused-7718152/

So last Friday I met up with some friends that myself and this Pisces woman knows. I told Pisces woman I'd meet up with her afterwards.

I had a couple drinks with my friends and had a great time.

When I met up with this Pisces she acted a bit different. We agreed beforehand that we were going to go a bar for a drink and call it night. She cut the night short and said that she was going home before we even had a drink.

On the sidewalk before she got into a cab I asked her what was wrong and she said that there was tension between us and it left me confused. There was no tension from me, I was in a good mood. I remember everything that night and I didn't say anything that would get her upset. I thought it could be sexual tension but not too sure.

I text her two days later and asked her what happened that night. She said that she doesn't deal well with attention and that she thought I was going to tell her that I liked her like I did a previous night. She felt I would do that because I was alone when I met her and I wasn't sober.

I replied in a text that I wasn't going to say that and she assumed that I would. I replied that she is a attractive and that I like how she carries herself but that wasn't my plan on Friday. We were just going to hang out because it had been over a month since we've seen each other. It would be stupid of me I feel to have done that.

Next steps ?

Posted by taurusthebull
Backstory of situation

https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/pisces/is-this-pisces-woman-into-me-confused-7718152/

So last Friday I met up with some friends that myself and this Pisces woman knows. I told Pisces woman I'd meet up with her afterwards.

I had a couple drinks with my friends and had a great time.

When I met up with this Pisces she acted a bit different. We agreed beforehand that we were going to go a bar for a drink and call it night. She cut the night short and said that she was going home before we even had a drink.

On the sidewalk before she got into a cab I asked her what was wrong and she said that there was tension between us and it left me confused. There was no tension from me, I was in a good mood. I remember everything that night and I didn't say anything that would get her upset. I thought it could be sexual tension but not too sure.

I text her two days later and asked her what happened that night. She said that she doesn't deal well with attention and that she thought I was going to tell her that I liked her like I did a previous night. She felt I would do that because I was alone when I met her and I wasn't sober.

I replied in a text that I wasn't going to say that and she assumed that I would. I replied that she is a attractive and that I like how she carries herself but that wasn't my plan on Friday. We were just going to hang out because it had been over a month since we've seen each other. It would be stupid of me I feel to have done that.

Next steps ?

I think you should have said / say something on the lines of:

Of course, I like you but I respect you more than anything and your happiness means a lot to me.

I know you are in a relationship and I wouldn't do anything to jeopardize that.

I'm just glad we at least had the chance to meet.I think you are an amazing person.

Thanks for inspiring me.

Happy life. : )

or this ( the more simple version)...because sometimes less is more :

Of course, I like you but I respect you more than anything.

I know you are in a relationship and I wouldn't do anything to jeopardize that.

I'm just glad we at least had the chance to meet.Thanks for inspiring me.

Happy life. : )

I'm in love with a Pisces who is in a relationship right now. As a matter fact this is the third time this has happened.lol So I know how it goes.

Good luck!

I'm rooting for you. Just be happy for her and distance yourself.

If it's meant to be. It will be.