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Do pisces secretly enjoy guilt trips?
I do the opposite of guilt trips and its just as successful. Once you get the timing down...
Posted by LadyNeptune
I do the opposite of guilt trips and its just as successful. Once you get the timing down...
would you elaborate?
Posted by LePetitFisk
It might work first couple of times, but she will eventually resent you for it.
So you don't like it, you "give in" easily when presented with them, am I right? So yeah, manipulative I suppose. That's morally wrong. But my co-worker describes it as a aphrodisiac
Posted by LadyNeptune
I do the opposite of guilt trips and its just as successful. Once you get the timing down...would you elaborate?
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Positive reinforcement. A lot less angst and way more effective.
Posted by LadyNeptune
I do the opposite of guilt trips and its just as successful. Once you get the timing down...would you elaborate?
Positive reinforcement. A lot less angst and way more effective.
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Sooooo... begging? lol like "Hey can you pleaseeee do this because you are amazing, and im so excited for your help" as opposed to the truth of "ummmm you made a promise and now it is what it is so Ill figure it out I suppose." Is that what you mean?
Posted by LadyNeptune
I do the opposite of guilt trips and its just as successful. Once you get the timing down...would you elaborate?
Positive reinforcement. A lot less angst and way more effective.
Sooooo... begging? lol like "Hey can you pleaseeee do this because you are amazing, and im so excited for your help" as opposed to the truth of "ummmm you made a promise and now it is what it is so Ill figure it out I suppose." Is that what you mean?
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Nope not begging.
You reward good behavior with praise, gifts, head, etc.
You ignore bad behavior.
Otherwise the guilt trip starts to sound like a nagging mother and nobody wants to fuck that...
This is for little things obviously.
Posted by LadyNeptune
This is for little things obviously.
gotcha thanks!
I can’t argue with @ladyneptune 😄 👍🏻
yes is the answer
I dont know about other pisces, but to me its a big no. If I feel youre trying to trick me or control me, I will snap, if I care about you I might let it go because im nice, but yeah. Maybe the more sensitive pisces, but im pretty nice, and sweet until you push my limits.
Yes. It's either cause they see an Earth or Water sign before them and want to play their own games. Just for more intimacy. (ask reincar if you don't believe me)
Or they have these signs in their Moon or something. I know a PiscesSun CapMoon male who does this but only for playing and sweetening. And a PiscesSun ScorpMoon male who does this. The scenarios they abuse for guilt trips were for me as Sag woman not so realistic. So it never worked that I got guilty feelings.
good morning x2
guilt trips tie perfectly in to the role of martyr/victim that pisces is so skillful at playing...
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Im asking because a pisces I work with insists they do and I should guilt trip my pisces when she's done something "wrong" in a sense. But that sounds a bit manipulative to me.