ex pisces wont leave me alone

i dated a pisces for a few months until he left me for another girl, i moved on, it has been 3 years since then and he STILL WONT STOP TEXTING ME! i have told him numerous times to leave me alone, let it go already its been years just move on, i forgive you. I had his number blocked and he just got a new number! unbelievable. He just texted me earlier this week! idk what to do, how can i get through to him? i dont want to be ugly about it but i think i might have to be, can any pisces men help me out?

i tried cutting him out. I ignored him for about a year and had his number blocked. He got a new number and texted me so i was curious to see who it was and it was him -______________________-

thats when i told him look move on already....but nope he is still trying, as of now he texts me about once a month...just random stuff its annoying...

youre right i might have to get a male friend to call him or something i dont have a bf but totally wish i did right now! lol

What EXACTLY do you say when you tell him to stop? Word for word, what is it that you tell him when you want him to stop?

His new number
Him:hey you
Me:who's this?
Him:it's *****
Me:no reply
Him:I have a new number and I hope you're having a great New Years
Me: why are you texting me?
Him:why not? I know some things happened in the past but can we both be mature about it and accept my apology? I'm sorry
Him AGAIN: I've matured quite a bit and I hope you're doing well that's all, no funny business
Me:well I appreciate it. Thanks.
Him: do you really? I've been wanting to tell u this but there wasn't a way for me to reach you (um because I blocked you)
Me: no reply (he's getting clingy now so I don't reply)
Him: hey can I talk to u (diff day)
Me: about what?!—?
Him: I'm just asking to talk to u nothing in particular. I'd like to apologize in person if that's okay with u (like wtf no)
Me: I'm over it. It's fine. You don't have to keep looking back. Move on it's been 3 years.
Him: I'll move on just trying to be friends.
Me:no reply
Him: hey are you going downtown? (A month later) (I don't reply)
then he adds me on snapchat with his NEW NUMBER?!?!?
Him AGAIN: knock knock (another month later)

He just doesn't get it...he doesn't stop he even wants to know where I'm gonna be at...He is abusing his new number

He has also tried adding me on my other social media all over again

I was actually engaged to another Pisces and after we broke up he would also do this to me until I had to be very nasty to him and I didn't like being that mean so that's why I'm not so harsh on this one. But is this a Pisces thing? Can't let go?

Posted by MoonshineLeo
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You're stupid. I'm sorry, but you are. You're INVITING responses and giving him validation by even responding. What don't you understand about that? You're doing the passive, too nice bullshit maneuver that nobody your age is capable of because the concept of being "mean" is oh so scurry.

Let me show you how it SHOULD have gone-

His new number
Him:hey you
Me:who's this?
Him:it's *****
Me:no reply
Him:I have a new number and I hope you're having a great New Years

If he tries again on another day. Guess what? You DON'T respond.

You need to be real with yourself and if you REALLY didn't want dude around, you wouldn't be responding and allowing him to even explain or get far in any sort of convo. But instead, you respond and entertain bullshit like this. You are enabling his shitty behavior.

If ANYTHING, aside from ignoring, you should have straight up lied and said he had the wrong number. You should also be able to block his number as well.

If not, like someone else said, get a new number.

Posted by MoonshineLeo
I didn't like being that mean so that's why I'm not so harsh on this one. But is this a Pisces thing? Can't let go?

This is all you right here, honey.

Don't complain and whine about a "stalker" when you aren't taking the appropriate steps to do anything about it.

This isn't a Pisces thing, this is a guy trying his luck with a pushover that can't grow a pair and tell him to fuck off.

Posted by MoonshineLeo
I was actually engaged to another Pisces and after we broke up he would also do this to me until I had to be very nasty to him and I didn't like being that mean so that's why I'm not so harsh on this one. But is this a Pisces thing? Can't let go?

Pisces, and I am too, are mentally clingy, but we don't necessarily annoy people desperately texting them, we're too proud, we usually recover in silence unless we genuinely think she's the ONE worth fighting for.

I've done a lot of soul-searching recently and I realized that in a similar scenario a big confrontation tete-a-tete is needed, so I personally find the "I don't want to be harsh and mean" treatment being the worst of all, a fortiori with Fishes. Grow up!

I don't really know the dynamics of your "relationship" but there must be something unsettled, perhaps a tiny but very significant detail, which is not/won't allow him to get over you.

I would suggest you to meet and discuss it over a cup of coffee, make tabula rasa e be blunt with him, trenchant and slightly aggressive too, you need your point to come across distinctly, leave no room, otherwise he won't let go.

He'll be later glad you treated him that way.

I appreciate everyones input I really do guys here's the thing

I ignored him for TWOOOO years flat out no contact he kept on trying to I had his number blocked without saying a word to him about it. Then he got a NEW NUMBER and started his bs allllll over again. I replied to him because I was trying to see what the HELL he wants from me. But u guys are right I should change my number or block him again or just flat out be a bitch

Thanks!

Posted by MoonshineLeo
I appreciate everyones input I really do guys here's the thing

I ignored him for TWOOOO years flat out no contact he kept on trying to I had his number blocked without saying a word to him about it. Then he got a NEW NUMBER and started his bs allllll over again. I replied to him because I was trying to see what the HELL he wants from me. But u guys are right I should change my number or block him again or just flat out be a bitch

Thanks!

So you said, but you proceeded to prove that you were responding beyond that. You should have not replied at all once he admitted it was him. So you can go ahead and claim that you were ignoring him all this time, but you completely reversed it the second you entertained his persistence.

Get your attention whoredom under control and do what needs to be done.